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Married gay man says he was denied communion at his mother’s funeral Mass

Married gay man says he was denied communion at his mother’s funeral Mass

A gay man in Louisiana, US says he was denied communion at his mother’s funeral Mass by the presiding Catholic priest because he’s in a same-sex marriage.

Tim Ardillo, who was an altar boy at the very church where the funeral was held, was in line with his young son next to his mother’s coffin when the pastor of the church Rev Mark Beard refused the man communion.

The funeral Mass as held at St Helena Catholic Church in Amite, Louisiana, on July 10.

According to the Baton Rouge Advocate newspaper, Ardillo said the priest told him that he’s being refused because he was married outside the church. He however believes it’s because he was listed in his mother’s obituary as being married to another man.

The newspaper reported that Beard did not return multiple calls when he was contacted in the week following the funeral.

According to Ardillo, the church passed out a quotation from 1 Corinthians at Mass the following Sunday, which read, in a portion highlighted in red ink, ‘Whoever eats the bread or drinks the cup of the Lord in an unworthy manner will be guilty of sinning against the body and blood of the Lord. A man ought to examine himself before he eats of the bread and drinks of the cup. For anyone who eats and drinks without recognizing the body of the Lord eats and drinks in judgment of himself.’

The paper reported that Ardillo has since received an apology from the Diocese of Baton Rouge, which directly oversees the Amite church as well as a personal apology from New Orleans Archbishop Gregory Aymond, though his office declined to comment on the series of incidents.

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Sylvia Tan

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Minister marries partner after stepping down as church leader

Minister marries partner after stepping down as church leader

A United Methodist Church pastor married his partner after walking away from his job as a minister.

Earlier this week Rev. Benjamin Hutchison stepped down as minister from Cassopolis UMC. Cassopolis is located in the midwest state of Michigan, approximately 25 miles from South Bend, Indiana.

According to the South Bend Tribune, the church’s district superintendent asked if ‘he is practicing homosexuality.’ Hutchinson’s sexuality was known by church members (he’s been the church’s leader for approximately three years).

On its website, UMC states ‘that all persons are individuals of sacred worth,’ but  the ‘United Methodist Church does not condone the practice of homosexuality and considers this practice incompatible with Christian teaching.’

Yesterday, 17 July, Hutchinson married his partner, Monty Hutchison. In attendance were approximately 30 ordained UMC pastors.

‘I’m here because I believe in the full inclusion of our LBGTQ community. I’m also here because I believe that what we are doing here today is an act of biblical obedience, even if it is considered disobedient of our Book of Discipline,’  the Rev Matt Weiler said to the South Bend Tribune.

Although UMC rules against its minsters officiating a same-sex wedding, Rev Mike Tupper signed the wedding certificate.

‘There are a couple of (biblical) scriptures that are anti-gay. But the Scripture is clear about being accepting of all people,’ Tupper, said in an interview before the ceremony.

What will happen to the ministers who took part in the wedding is unclear. First a complaint must be filed. After that, there is a what’s known as a ‘Just Resolution Process.’

As for Hutchison, he’s worried about the attention his former congregants are now facing.

‘I don’t mind being the face of change,’ he said. ‘But I do mind seeing the church members hurt by what has happened. They’re good people.’

 

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James Withers

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Stockton, California PD Reaches Out To LGBT Community In Wake of Lieutenant’s Hateful Anti-Gay Letter

Stockton, California PD Reaches Out To LGBT Community In Wake of Lieutenant’s Hateful Anti-Gay Letter

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Last week, we told you how a police lieutenant in Stockton, California, wrote a disgusting letter to the editor in response to the Supreme Court’s same-sex marriage ruling, in which he called homosexuality “vile and sinful.”

Will.TobyLt. Toby Will (right) listed his title and employer below the letter, prompting the police department to launch an internal investigation into whether he violated policy.

On Monday, Will was placed on paid administrative leave while the investigation proceeds, but it’s unclear whether he’ll actually be disciplined. Meanwhile, the police department is trying to make amends with the local LGBT community.

The Stockton Record, which published the letter, reports that Police Chief Eric Jones (above) attended a forum at the San Joaquin Pride Center on Thursday to discuss the issue:

Jones said the department is being careful about balancing Will’s right to free speech, as opposed to purporting to be speaking on behalf of the Police Department. The question is whether Will should have used his title, he said.

Pride Center board member Robert Kolber also addressed the issue, saying that the Pride Center protects the rights of individuals to express their opinion, even if the center disagrees.

“But what was disturbing is that this individual intentionally put himself in the position of giving the appearance that he was speaking for the Police Department,” he said. “That’s the issue.”

 

More from KCRA-TV:

“I was very shocked,” said Renee Hall, president of the board for Pride Center. “I feel like if something like that gets out in the public from a pretty prominent person, then it gives folks the ability to act on those things.”

Stockton police said their policy is to give supervisors sensitivity training every two years.

“We are responsible for treating everyone fairly and equitably – and that’s what tonight was all about,” Jones said. “Us coming down and discussing these issues and topics in the community.”

Watch a report on the incident from NBC News below.

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John Wright

Stockton, California PD Reaches Out To LGBT Community In Wake of Lieutenant’s Hateful Anti-Gay Letter

New poll shows US evenly split over Supreme Court’s marriage decision

New poll shows US evenly split over Supreme Court’s marriage decision

Although marriage equality is legal in all 50 states, the US remains divided over same-sex unions.

According to an Associated Press-GfK poll, 39% approve of the Supreme Court’s Obergefell Vs Hodges ruling; however, 41%  disapproved and 18% have no opinion at all. This same division is in  permitting LGBTI couples to marry in the states of respondents; 42% favor and 40% opposed.

The survey also shows support for protecting religious objections to same-sex marriage. Fifty-sex percent think it’s more important for the government to protect religious liberties, and 39% consider protections for LGBTI citizens more important.

When it comes to clerks, those in charge of issuing marriage certificates, just under half think  they should have religious objections. The same percentage are opposed.

A large majority, 59%, want wedding related businesses to have the right to refuse same-sex couples; 46% think businesses in general should be allowed not to serve customers due to religious objections. A slight majority, 51%, are opposed to that right.

As to be expected, there is a gulf between the two major parties. Only 22% of Republicans approve of marriage equality in their state; 65% of Democrats are in favor.

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James Withers

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Aussie Footballer-Model Lucas Case Offers Unforgettable Full-Frontal

Aussie Footballer-Model Lucas Case Offers Unforgettable Full-Frontal

Not being a sports enthusiast has its disadvantages: fewer invitations to tailgate parties, mostly. Also, we just discovered Luke Casey, who depending on what you read/believe is either a member of the Australian Rules Football team or he aspires to be.

Regardless, he’s also done quite a bit of modeling and isn’t the least bit shy about showing off what the good Lord gave him. Check out a few of his stunning Instagram pics below and click here to behold the young man in his breathtaking birthday suit.

 

Time to get back in shape???????? AC all healed up, back into footy and back in a smuggler in a couple of weeks ???? stay tuned ???? #RubyRoseDreamWeavers #budgysmugglers A photo posted by @luke_casey on May 20, 2015 at 9:34pm PDT

I moustash you a question ???? A photo posted by @luke_casey on Mar 28, 2015 at 3:58am PDT

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Thanks teamm8 for making me Februarys mate of the month ??

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Winners of Australia’s first 1Footy competition

A photo posted by @luke_casey on Feb 6, 2015 at 11:51pm PST

Jeremy Kinser

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Tom Daley Bares All In ‘Guardian’ Interview on Dating Dustin Lance Black, 2016 Olympics, and Growing Up Gay

Tom Daley Bares All In ‘Guardian’ Interview on Dating Dustin Lance Black, 2016 Olympics, and Growing Up Gay

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Out British diver Tom Daley says he always knew he was attracted to guys but didn’t realize he was gay until he met Dustin Lance Black.

Eighteen months after Daley came out in a YouTube video, he says he’s as focused as ever on diving, and looking forward to the possibility of winning a gold medal at the 2016 Summer Olympics.

Daley.BlackDaley also says he’d like to eventually get married and raise several children with Black, whom he credits for helping to bring marriage equality to the US. These are just a few of the revelations in a lengthy interview Daley did recently with The Guardian.

Daley talks about how he slipped into a depression after winning a bronze medal in 2012, but got back on his feet when he moved to London, where Black also now spends most of his time. Today, Daley is enmeshed in a relentless training schedule, including the same food every day and a daily bedtime of 10 p.m. He’s preparing to compete in the World Aquatic Championships beginning next week.

From The Guardian:

“I feel much more mature going into 2016 than 2012,” he says, having completed his morning diving session. We’re sitting in the auditorium above the diving pool. Daley has changed from trunks to shorts, salmon-pink T shirt and trainers, and is talking about why Rio should come at the perfect time for him. “Divers tend to peak between 22 and 24,” he says. “I’ll be 22, so I should be approaching mine. I am stronger now, jumping higher, spinning faster, moving quicker than I ever have. I’m in love with diving right now.”

Daley says coming out was a huge weight off his shoulders, and he encourages other gay athletes to do so, especially professional footballers:

“Nobody batted an eyelid when I did. Nobody cares. I think lots of people do worry in sport, but they would be so surprised if they did come out. I don’t think it is as big an issue as people think.”

Asked about meeting Black and coming to terms with his sexuality, Daley says:

“I guess it has always been in the back of my head, but you never really know. I’d never had feelings for a person along those lines. I’d been in relationships with girls where I’d had sexual feelings, but it became so much more intense when I met Lance. I thought, ‘Whoa, this is weird. Why am I having these feelings for somebody?’

“I always knew that I had that attraction to guys, but I just thought that was a usual thing, being attracted to guys and girls. It was only when I met Lance I started having such strong feelings.”

 

Read the full interview here. Watch Daley’s coming out video, as well as his new dive, The Firework, below.

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John Wright

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One Direction’s Harry Styles Struts His Stuff While Wearing Rainbow Flag Cape at Vancouver Concert: WATCH

One Direction’s Harry Styles Struts His Stuff While Wearing Rainbow Flag Cape at Vancouver Concert: WATCH

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No stranger to public displays of LGBT support, Harry Styles grabbed one lucky fan’s rainbow Canadian flag at Friday’s One Direction concert in Vancouver and proceeded to wear it as a cape while strutting the stage.

Maybe next time Styles can don just the flag cape by itself?

#VIDEO Harry prancing around with a Canada rainbow flag pic.twitter.com/d8jVDu7RmB

— 1D Updates (@1DLittleSecret) July 18, 2015

 

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Kyler Geoffroy

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Americans Are Still Divided Over Gay Marriage After Supreme Court Decision

Americans Are Still Divided Over Gay Marriage After Supreme Court Decision

NEW YORK (AP) — The Supreme Court’s ruling last month legalizing same-sex marriage nationwide has left Americans sharply divided, according to an Associated Press-GfK poll that suggests support for gay unions may be down slightly from earlier this year.

The poll also found a near-even split over whether local officials with religious objections should be required to issuemarriage licenses to same-sex couples, with 47 percent saying that should be the case and 49 percent say they should be exempt.

 

 

Overall, if there’s a conflict, a majority of those questioned think religious liberties should win out over gay rights, according to the poll. While 39 percent said it’s more important for the government to protect gay rights, 56 percent said protection of religious liberties should take precedence.

The poll was conducted July 9 to July 13, less than three weeks after the Supreme Court ruled states cannot ban same-sex marriage.

According to the poll, 42 percent support same-sex marriage and 40 percent oppose it. The percentage saying they favor legal same-sex marriage in their state was down slightly from the 48 percent who said so in an April poll. In January, 44 percent were in favor.

 

 

Asked specifically about the Supreme Court ruling, 39 percent said they approve and 41 percent said they disapprove.

“What the Supreme Court did is jeopardize our religious freedoms,” said Michael Boehm, 61, an industrial controls engineer from the Detroit area who describes himself as a conservative-leaning independent.

“You’re going to see a conflict between civil law and people who want to live their lives according to their faiths,” Boehm said.

Boehm was among 59 percent of the poll respondents who said wedding-related businesses with religious objections should be allowed to refuse service to gay and lesbian couples. That compares with 52 percent in April.

Also, 46 percent said businesses more generally should be allowed to refuse service to same-sex couples, while 51 percent said that should not be allowed.

Claudette Girouard, 69, a retiree from Chesterfield Township, Michigan, said she is a moderate independent voter who has gradually become supportive of letting same-sex couples marry.

“I don’t see what the big hoopla is,” she said. “If they’re happy, why not?”

Girouard said local officials should be required to perform same-sex marriages, but does not think that wedding-related businesses should be forced to serve same-sex couples.

“If the official doesn’t like what he’s being asked to do, then quit,” she said. “But businesses are kind of independent, so if they have a strong belief against it, there are enough other businesses out there for someone to use.”

 

 

 

The poll found pronounced differences in viewpoints depending on political affiliation.

For example, 65 percent of Democrats, but only 22 percent of Republicans favored allowing same-sex couples to legally marry in their state. And 72 percent of Republicans but just 31 percent of Democrats said local officials with religious objections should be exempt from issuing marriage licenses.

By a 64-32 margin, most Democrats said it’s more important to protect gay rights than religious liberties when the two are in conflict. Republicans said the opposite, by 82-17.

Clarence Wells, 60, a conservative from Rockwood, Tennessee, said he strongly disapproved of the Supreme Court’s ruling. He anticipates friction as gay couples try to exercise their newfound rights and people with religious objections to same-sex marriage balk at accepting them.

“I don’t believe it’s going to go over smoothly,” said Wells. “I think a lot of them will be shunned in church. … I think there will businesses that are going to close, because some people are stubborn enough to not want to deal with it.”

Andrew Chan, 41, a moderate independent from Seattle, said he has tried to remain neutral on same-sex marriage.

“For me, it’s always been about tolerating,” said Chan, who works for a nonprofit organization. “I’ve got friends on both sides.”

Chan said he was happy for gays and lesbians who have found someone they want to marry, and he expressed some wariness toward politicians who might try to roll back the Supreme Court ruling.

“That just creates more division,” he said. “Are we looking to move the country forward or move it backward?”

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The AP-GfK Poll of 1,004 adults was conducted online July 9 to July 13, using a sample drawn from GfK’s probability-based KnowledgePanel, which is designed to be representative of the U.S. population. The margin of sampling error for all respondents is plus or minus 3.4 percentage points. Some questions were ask of half samples of respondents and have smaller margins of error. Respondents were first selected randomly using phone or mail survey methods, and later interviewed online. People selected for KnowledgePanel who didn’t otherwise have access to the Internet were provided access at no cost to them.

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Swanson reported from Washington.

 

 

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Legend Bea Arthur’s shelter for LGBT youth to begin construction

Legend Bea Arthur’s shelter for LGBT youth to begin construction

A homeless shelter for LGBT Youth will break ground this Monday (20 July) using the money bequeathed to it by legendary comedian Bea Arthur.

The actor, who played Dorothy on The Golden Girls and Maude Findlay in Maude, died in 2009. Her will left $300,000  (€277,000) to the Ali Forney Centre in New York City.

In 2012, the City Council and Manhattan borough president gave another $3.3. million to renovate the building for the shelter, which will be called the Bea Arthur Residence for Homeless LGBT Youth.

The centre will be located on East 13th Street in Manhattan’s East Village, New York.

Executive Director Carl Siciliano of the Ali Forney Center said in a press release: ‘It meant the world to me that a star of the magnitude of Bea Arthur would do so much to help the Ali Forney Centre in our work of housing homeless LGBT youths.

‘I am very grateful that we will now be able to honor Bea and continue to keep her compassion alive through the establishment of the Bea Arthur Residence for Homeless LGBT Youth.’

The Golden Girl star gave one of her final performances at the centre and raised $40,000 for the organisation (€37,000). Her donation was key to keeping the centre open during the global recession.

Siciliano founded the centre after meeting Ali Forney, a homeless teen, while working as the director of a homeless youth drop. Forney was murdered on the streets of New York City at age 21.

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