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The Importance of Finding Your Tribe (VIDEO)

The Importance of Finding Your Tribe (VIDEO)

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Throughout Robert Scott’s life, he had an alcoholic father, became overweight and addicted to drugs, and was affected by the AIDS crisis in San Francisco in the 1980s. Reflecting on his life, he realizes one thing: the importance of finding one’s tribe. Robert recalls:

I went from academic, grad school, Ph.D. candidate to a hippy living on a commune to a fat gay man coming to San Francisco, losing 130 pounds, finding tribes at every juncture. The only tribe that’s actually stuck for me at this juncture in my life is the tribe that I found in recovery. I’m still friends with those people, and it’s 40 years later.

After watching an interview of RuPaul, Robert heard something that connected with him and learned the value in listening:

Stop dividing yourself from other people, stop listening for differences, and start listening for similarities between you and the person that’s talking.

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This Guy’s Blowing Everyone (Away) In The Army

This Guy’s Blowing Everyone (Away) In The Army

Screen Shot 2015-05-22 at 1.41.42 PMSomething we saw this weekend almost made us want to enlist in the army — and it’s not all the beautiful flower arrangements on the graves of our glorious departed servicemen. Nope, it’s the video for “Blowing Boogie Bugle Man From Company G,” a brilliantly bawdy send up of the classic World War 2 anthem “Boogie Woogie Bugle Boy” by the Andrews Sisters made famous again in the ’70s by Bette Midler. This time it’s the gloriously talented Allison Page who borrowed the tune and the military theme but tweaked the lyrics into something deliciously naughty and inspired (“he can’t blow a thing if Judy Garland ain’t playing in the background”). Naturally, her video follows the story depicted in the lyrics of a young man who just wants to be of service to his country during WW2 the best way he knows how, which is blowing everyone his bugle.

Screen Shot 2015-05-22 at 4.13.33 PMLane, a New York-based singer actress (check out See You Next Tuesday, her YouTube channel for more of her 0ff-color hilarity), tells Queerty that she got inspired while performing a rendition of the Andrews Sisters classic at Manhattan’s Rainbow Room.

“Since I am a crass gal at heart, I kept thinking that the ‘blowing’ lyrics had alternate potential,” she reveals. “I began writing and the parody lyrics just sort of ejaculated out of me… so to speak!”

Did we mention we love this lady? When she began to think about the video, Lane decided to recreate the authentic look of her favorite classic MGM musicals.

“Films like On The Town were an inspiration to me, especially for the sausage-fest sequence,” she recalls. “I think, for me, the best part of the process was getting my amazing cast on board and watching them bring the parody to life. I can definitely say that my cast blew me away.”

The game cast she mentions includes hot young actor-model Matthew Ludwinski, filmmaker Casper Andreas and there’s even a cameo from beloved journalist and New York nightlife chronicler Michael Musto.

Enjoy the rowdy Reveille below.

Jeremy Kinser

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Ashers Bakery Google Profile Displays Image Reading 'Keep Calm And Kill Faggots"

Ashers Bakery Google Profile Displays Image Reading 'Keep Calm And Kill Faggots"

AshersThe Google Maps team has come under close scrutiny in the past few weeks following a series of distasteful images and redirects found embedded in various Google Maps locations. The problems first began back in April when users reported finding a watermark depicting Google’s iconic Android mascot urinating on Apple’s logo.

Weeks later it was discovered that typing the phrase “house ni**a” into the popular map search engine returned directions to the White House. Google has disavowed having any idea where these offensive embeds might have come from, and assured the public that it’s looking into the matters. Unfortunately, but it would appear as if it’s happened again, this time taking potshots at gay people.

Search results for Ashers Bakery, the Irish Bakery that came under fire for refusing to bake a gay wedding cake, now return a riff on the Keep Calm meme that reads “Keep Calm And Kill Faggots.” Unlike the other search results that appear to have been embedded into the very fabric of Google’s search algorithm, these images were likely attached to the Bakery’s profile as the result of an unknown Google user.


Charles Pulliam-Moore

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12 Gloriously Honest Cards Your Crappy Ex Deserves

12 Gloriously Honest Cards Your Crappy Ex Deserves
If there’s one life experience Hallmark isn’t likely to write about any time soon, it’s the period after a breakup when you’re dying to tell an ex how you really feel.

Luckily, the folks at Someecards have that covered. Below, we’ve rounded up 12 snarky e-cards you’ll wish you could send your ex.

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Guess Which World Famous Celeb Gay YouTuber Tyler Oakley Helped Come Out?

Guess Which World Famous Celeb Gay YouTuber Tyler Oakley Helped Come Out?

“Back in 2008 I made a video about the importance of being authentic to yourself and about coming out and how you should wait till you’re ready,” YouTuber Tyler Oakley told Ellen Degeneres on a recent episode of her show. “A few years later I got a tweet one morning on National Coming Out Day and it was from Ricky Martin and he said that video was part of the reason he felt ready to share his story. It was like ‘Oh my god. I used to watch TRL and have a crush on him.’”RickyMartin1

Here’s the video from a babyfaced and seemingly over caffeinated Oakley that apparently gave Ricky the nudge he needed:

And here he is telling Ellen all about it:

Dan Tracer

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Conservative Leaders Slam Boy Scouts Official's Call To End Ban On Gay Adult Members

Conservative Leaders Slam Boy Scouts Official's Call To End Ban On Gay Adult Members
LGBT advocacy groups have been quick to praise Boy Scouts National President Robert Gates, who called for an end to his organization’s ban on gay adult participants earlier this week. But Gates’ remarks have drawn their fair share of conservative criticism, too.

Gates raised the possibility of revising the Boy Scouts’ policy May 21 at the BSA’s national annual meeting in Atlanta, saying that the current “membership standards cannot be sustained,” referencing a number of Scout councils that have defied the ban.

Franklin Graham, son of evangelical leader Billy Graham, was quick to slam Gates’ remarks in a lengthy Facebook post, arguing that any forthcoming revision to the policy would “put young, innocent boys at risk.”

He wrote:

Robert Gates, shame on you for not having the moral courage to do what is right. Yesterday Gates, the president of Boy…

Posted by Franklin Graham on Friday, May 22, 2015

Echoing those sentiments was Bryan Fischer, who previously served as director of issue analysis for the American Family Association and who is no stranger to anti-LGBT remarks. He tweeted:

A word to fathers: if you care about the sexual integrity of your sons, GET THEM OUT OF THE BOY SCOUTS NOW.

— Bryan Fischer (@BryanJFischer) May 22, 2015

Meanwhile, Tony Perkins, the head of the Family Research Council, a conservative lobbying organization, blasted both the Boy Scouts and the Girl Scouts, the latter of which reiterated its transgender-inclusive policy this week after the American Family Association launched a petition against the organization because of that stance.

As Right Wing Watch first reported, Perkins argued that allowing openly gay adults to participate in the Boy Scouts would be another example of “the emasculation of our culture” and ultimately would make boys “soft” in a “Washington Watch” interview this week.

“You cannot survive as a culture,” he said in the broadcast, which can be heard below. “You have to have warriors, you have to have a subculture that’s a warrior culture, that’s just a reality, and that’s being dismantled, one organization, one piece at a time.”

The Boy Scouts last revised their policy in May 2013, when the organization ruled to accept openly gay youths starting on Jan. 1, 2014. Since that time, the ban on openly gay adults has remained in place.

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This Hot YouTube Fave Came Out So Gracefully, No One Seemed To Notice

This Hot YouTube Fave Came Out So Gracefully, No One Seemed To Notice

In a day and age when some antigay leaders still need to be dragged out of the closet, it’s always great to see young people doing it right.

When it comes to coming out, Joey Graceffa knows the cover of People doesn’t quite cut it anymore. Today’s cultural climate calls for something far grabbier––say, a glossy four-and-a-half minute music video complete with enchanted forests, serious swordplay, magical amulets, evil ogres, and the occasional sorceress–all culminating in a fantastically gay fairy-tale kiss with a princely cohort.

Related Post: YouTuber Connor Franta Comes Out To His 3.8 Million Subscribers

That’s exactly what the Amazing Race alum and YouTube personality unleashed to a (relatively) unsuspecting public this week. The video’s release coincides with Graceffa’s 24th birthday and helps push his brand new memoir, In Real Life: My Journey to a Pixelated World. The book candidly discusses his experiences being bullied as a child, dealing with an alcoholic mother, growing up with an autistic brother, and slowly coming to accept his own sexuality.

Never ones to be stingy when it comes to some well-deserved publicity, we thought we’d celebrate the occasion by compiling a handful of particularly enticing Graceffa snaps, highlighting his off-the-charts charisma and disarming handsomeness.

 

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Beau in a bowtie.

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No sleeves attached.

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Four eyes, no shirt.

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Just desserts.

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Babe with the bathwater.

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Rare candid shot.

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Jail bait.

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Doggy style.

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Smoke and mirrors.

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Telling a touseled tale.

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Chris Bull

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