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My Two-Legged Dog's Journey From Egypt to New York to Kansas to a College Town in Pennsylvania

My Two-Legged Dog's Journey From Egypt to New York to Kansas to a College Town in Pennsylvania
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My dog’s story starts over a year ago on the outskirts of Cairo. He is a baladi, an Egyptian street dog. He was hit by a car, losing the use of his hind quarters and legs. Injured and dragging his back end around in the grime of the streets, he was ignored and left to fend for himself.

After two months, a volunteer at an animal welfare group was alerted by a caring friend. This beautiful woman, Marwa, searched for him for over an hour. She found him — “in the garbage, totally paralyzed, his back legs were dead because of gangrene, full of mange and dirt, totally blind, poop and garbage were stuck on his body,” she later told me. “It was one of the worst cases I have ever seen in my life and I have seen a lot.” Discovering that he was a “real fighter,” she sought veterinary care. Saving his life, she saw him through amputation surgery for his back legs and three months of rehabilitation. She grew to love him, but felt that the best care for him would be elsewhere.

She named him Lucky.

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Arrangements were made to have him transported to New York with the help of an American nonprofit organization, Special Needs Animal Rescue and Rehabilitation (SNARR), whose mission is to “give hope to the hopeless.” After arriving in New York, Lucky started his long journey to Kansas where he would receive foster care. Dozens of volunteers drove legs (no pun), each taking a 60 or 90 minute section of the trip. It was about this time that I stumbled upon his story on SNARR’s Facebook page. I had previously seen a viral video of another dog with no hind legs running on the beach and was impressed by how resilient and happy he was. I knew I wanted to adopt Lucky to give him a chance at running joyfully and playfully, too. I immediately sent in an adoption application.

Lucky needed time to heal and he received excellent care in Kansas. I did not hear much from the folks at SNARR regarding my application, but I watched his progress online and was amazed by his pluck and stamina. I watched from afar as he received a custom-built wheeled cart to make it easier for him to walk.

One day, I received a short phone call informing me that my adoption application had been approved. Another chain of drivers was being arranged and he would be at my home before Labor Day.

One of my other dogs, Cyrus, is also two-legged — he has back legs and no front legs. Over the years, I have adopted other special needs dogs. Despite all my experience, I had no idea how to prepare for Lucky’s arrival. How injured was he? Did he have any use of his back end? How did he relieve himself? Could he wag his tail?

Late one night, Lucky arrived with the final driver. I was immediately struck by how lively he is. A puppy’s energy. I was unprepared for how he moved. Without wheels, he can run quickly on his two remaining legs, carrying his back end around like a knapsack flung over his shoulders. He does not drag the back end on the floor; rather, he lifts it up in an amazing balancing act. Nothing slows him down.

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The driver said goodbye and, just like that, Lucky was part of our family. He and I bonded immediately and, within hours, he was following my every footstep.

As the first days progressed, there was trial and error in solving how best to care for him. He cannot relieve his bladder on his own. I needed to learn how to “express.” I was told it was simple: Find the bladder and squeeze. Initially, I could not do it. Desperate, I went online and, to my surprise, I found a number of expressing instructional videos (who knew?). After viewing one particularly helpful video, I figured it out. Some friends were horrified that I would have to do this but, now that I have been doing it for months, it is no big deal. It is … efficient.

Lucky fit in with the other dogs and cats in no time at all. He has settled in and is healthy and content. He is quirky and funny. He shows absolutely no signs of having a difficult past. Dogs, unlike most people, live in the present and do not look back.

Next month, Lucky will start therapy dog training so that he may bring inspiration to hospital patients who are going through difficult circumstances. His brother Cyrus is already a certified therapy dog who visits a children’s hospital and an amputee clinic each week.

I am confident that Lucky will make a huge impact when he visits patients. He is already inspiring people online. He has his own Facebook page (started when he was in foster care) with 1500 “fans” from almost 50 different countries. We receive many kind messages from people who are encouraged and motivated by his story.

I received some flack when I adopted Lucky. Why, I was asked, would I adopt a dog from Egypt when there are so many other needy dogs right here at home? On some level, I understand the concern — there are many deserving animals waiting in American shelters for homes. I have adopted many of them over the years. But Lucky’s fate and mine are intertwined and, for whatever reason, our paths crossed. It was meant to be. Lucky has some larger purpose in life and I was chosen somehow to help him with his mission.

Lucky is more than a dog; he is a symbol. For some, he is a symbol of resilience and perseverance, a canine “It Gets Better” story. For others, he is an affirmation of life and hope. To me, he is the best of what it means to be a dog: remaining positive, living in the moment, providing unconditional love.

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First On-Set HIV Infection In Ten Years Hits Gay Nevada Shoot

First On-Set HIV Infection In Ten Years Hits Gay Nevada Shoot

Screen Shot 2014-12-31 at 8.36.08 AMTwo gay porn actors have been diagnosed with HIV, one almost certainly infecting the other during a shoot in Nevada where officials say testing standards were lower than the industry standards.

They had both tested negative before completing two shoots. But in the time between testing and completing the scenes, HIV levels rose in one of them.

“In this case, the actor and production company thought he was HIV-negative during filming,” the California Department of Public Health said in a statement Monday. “Shortly after his negative test, HIV levels in his body rose rapidly to where he could infect other actors through unprotected sex.”

The states of Nevada and California do not require porn actors to be tested for HIV, and while the industry standard is to screen for the disease, the test they were using doesn’t detect the virus as early as ones used where protocol is tighter.

“Not only did this leave those who participated at risk, it made it much harder to scene partners once the possible infection was discovered,” The Free Speech Coalition, a California-based trade group for the adult film industry said in a statement.

This is the last confirmed on-set HIV infection since 2004, after which the porn industry adopted a monthly screening standard for STI’s. They began testing every 14 days after a porn actress contracted HIV off-set last year.

via SF Gate

Dan Tracer

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The Best New Television Shows of 2014

The Best New Television Shows of 2014

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With so many great shows on TV, who’s got the time to watch them all? This year featured some incredible stories and performances on established shows, but a handful of new programming really shined. 

Take some time before the New Year to catch up on TV shows that debuted in 2014. See our favorites from this year, AFTER THE JUMP … 

 

Transparent, Amazon
Hands down my favorite new show of 2014 is Amazon’s Transparent. Jill Soloway’s exploration of identity, gender and family is sharply written, but always tenderly felt. Plus, my god, Jeffrey Tambor. His portrayal of Maura Pfefferman is so gentle, so loving and so thoughtful. Every one of the Pfeffermans is on a journey, but it’s Maura’s transition that gives the story its incredible heart. Tambor’s weary face carries the years of Maura’s struggles so well, and it makes her moments of discovery shine all the brighter. Give him all the awards, please.

 

Broad City, Comedy Central
In a year where feminism took the spotlight in popular culture, Abbi Jacobson and Ilana Glazer stepped up as two of the brightest, boldest voices in comedy. Executive-produced by Amy Poehler, their half-hour escapades around Brooklyn are filled with some of the strongest stoner jokes, most out-there absurdist humor and one of the richest relationships on television, no gender qualifier necessary.

 

How To Get Away With Murder, ABC
This fall’s buzziest new drama is worth talking about for a few reasons. First off, Viola Davis gives a powerhouse performance that will have her picking scenery out of her teeth for years to come. Secondly, the breakneck pace of the series’ unfolding mystery keeps momentum pumping through each case of the week, saving Murder from becoming a belabored procedural. But, let’s be real, the show’s steamy same-sex sex scenes are what’s really got our interest piqued. Not only because gay law student Connor Walsh (Jack Falahee) is smoking hot, but because HTGAWM isn’t afraid to depict gay sex as passionately as any scene between a man and a woman.

 

Last Week Tonight With John Oliver, HBO
Just when we thought the comedy news format had reached its peak, along comes Oliver. The Daily Show vet’s solo outing has elevated the genre in a few key ways. First, never underestimate the power of a well-placed profanity, and Oliver and his writers know just how to take advantage of their broad premium cable boundaries. Second, the weekly format frees them from the daily grind of nightly news, allowing them to dive deeper into topics like the prison system, Miss America’s finances and the predatory loan business (above).

 

The Hotwives of Orlando, Hulu
Whoever is behind this hilarious send-up of Bravo’s Real Housewives franchise certainly must be a fan of the original. The satire is spot-on and everything from the psychic medium’s electronic cigarette to the faux Andy Cohen post-show stinger shows an incredible attention to detail. Featuring funny ladies Casey Wilson, Kristen Schaal and others, any Housewives-fan (or, more likely, a victim of being sucked into an all-day marathon) can get a laugh from giving this series a stream.

 

Looking, HBO
Hey, count me among the crowd slamming this show’s early episodes for being so very boring. But, once Looking found its groove (and dropping the unrealistic, high expectations of it being the definitive gay series) it became a much stronger character showcase. The turning point was episode five, “Looking For the Future.” Focusing on a daylong adventure between Patrick (Jonathan Groff) and Richie (Raúl Castillo) played to the strengths of executive producer/writer/director Andrew Haigh, the man behind the similarly structured film, Weekend. While Agustin (Frankie J. Alvarez) never quite connected, I’m really looking forward to the return of Patrick, Richie, Kevin (Russell Tovey), Dom (Murray Bartlett) and Doris (Lauren Weedman).

What are your favorite new shows this year?


Bobby Hankinson

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A Look Back At The Tastiest Morning Goods Of 2014

A Look Back At The Tastiest Morning Goods Of 2014

Bodies, butts and bulges, oh my!

If you’re a regular, then you’re probably familiar with Queerty’s long running Morning Goods, the column devoted to showcasing men from around the world who get your heart rate up faster than a venti vanilla latte from Starbucks.

We’ve shared lots of delicious goods with you this year, and have plenty more in store for 2015.

Here’s a look back at 10 of the tastiest Morning Goods from 2014. Eat up!

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Muscleman Adrian Baretto was captured during an oceanfront workout in Rio.

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Reinaldo Fuzil was looking hot, hot, hot in images captured on the beaches of Brazil. The prizefighter was smokin’ in shades and swimwear.

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In this summer photo shoot, blond model Brandon sizzled like a cat on a hot tin roof.

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Alex Rodriguez proved his packing power while vacationing in Ibiza.

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Andrew Christian’s construction workers had everyone bothered as they worked on a house in skimpy shorts and even skimpier underwear. (Queerty interview babe Murray Swanby poses on right.)

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Rafael Medenca turned up the heat.

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The demigods known as Colorado’s finest firefighters and the Colorado-based underwear brand Baskit teamed up for a calendar. Not only did it provide some fiery eye candy, but the proceeds went to the Children’s Hospital of Colorado.

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This fine male specimen channelled his inner carnal beast in a new collection.

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Model Austin Butler explored an overpass in his underwear with photographer Marco Ovando.

 

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Photographer Andrew Werner shot this collection against a greek key black and white printed wall.

 

H/t: The Underwear Expert

Graham Gremore

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Newspaper Makes Then Deletes Dick Joke About Greenbay Packers Quarterback Aaron Rodgers

Newspaper Makes Then Deletes Dick Joke About Greenbay Packers Quarterback Aaron Rodgers

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Pioneer Press has deleted a tweet it sent out linking to an article on Greenbay Packers quarterback Aaron Rodger’s good luck charm — the red beard of a fan he encountered and now tugs on at every home game. The tweet sent out by Pioneer Press, however, was somewhat more vague about what exactly Rodgers’ lucky charm might be. As Deadspin reports, the tweet read, “It’s red and 9 inches long, and #Packers quarterback Aaron Rodgers tugs it for good luck.”

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Apparently, the joke was too much for some to handle. In Pioneer Press’ piece on the beard in question, owned by a communications technician named Jeremy Wilcox, Wilcox describes his and Rodgers’ pre-game ritual as “just guys having fun.”

@romenesko turns out, this would have worked better with a picture of the beard

— Pioneer Press (@PioneerPress) December 30, 2014

You’ll recall that last year Rodgers chose to address rumors that he is gay. Speaking with 540 ESPN Milwaukee, Rogers commented, “I’m just going to say I’m not gay. I really, really like women. That’s all I can really say about that.”


Sean Mandell

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Nine Ways To Avoid Sex For The Next Year So You Can Donate A Pint Of Blood

Nine Ways To Avoid Sex For The Next Year So You Can Donate A Pint Of Blood

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Or more accurately, you can start the clock running on when you can donate blood in 2016. Because to do so, you have to avoid “sexual contact” with another man for at least a year. For your ordinary homo, never lacking in opportunity or desire, that’s an extreme challenge.

And don’t forget that sexual contact means everything because the FDA thinks everything you do is equally risky, even though it’s not.

So to donate blood, you need to get ready now, which means giving up sex for a year.

To help you meet this noble goal, here are ten tips guaranteed to strangle your libido…

1. Watch a Pat Robertson marathon.

Every night, you can spend time among the wreckage of the televangelist’s psyche by watching the hundreds of hours he’s spent on CBN. Let Pat remind you that gay sex isn’t very pretty, that you can catch AIDS from towels, and that being gay is like demonic possession. You’ll be so turned off sex or laugh so hard that the effect will be the same.

2. Take a walking of the deep, deep South.

You know, places like Tupelo, MS, the headquarters of the American Family Association and Bryan Fischer. Or Alabama, where you can count the number of antigay license plates you see. Or Louisiana, which refuses to remove an unconstitutional sodomy law from its books.  Just be sure to stay clear of New Orleans, or you won’t be able to donate blood until 2017.

3. Visit Russia.

Yes, the land of Vladimir Putin, which has been proven to cure homosexuality (at least in the case of Gerard Depardieu). Alternately, Putin’s fellow homophobes can beat you to a pulp if they suspect you’re gay, in which case you may need blood before you can ever donate it.

4. Join the Catholic celibacy movement.

Yes, it’s officially a trend, because the mainstream media has reported on it. You can be a perfectly good Catholic by denying one of God’s greatest gifts and at the same time satisfy neither your puzzled LGBT siblings or the conservatives who would just assume purge you from the Church. But you will be able to give blood. (Obviously, celibacy doesn’t apply to priests.)

5. Become a Salvation Army officer.

Catholicism isn’t military enough for you? There’s always the Salvation Army. It’s every bit as repressive, but it comes with a uniform.

6. Borrow an Ebola quarantine tent from Chris Christie.

Want to cut yourself off from any human contact? Chris Christie has a bunch of tents left over from his disastrous (and unscientific) decision to throw a nurse who helped Ebola patients into quarantine. The downside? No cable.

7. Start swilling soy sauce.

Soy reduces testosterone levels and with it sex drive. Put soy sauce on your corn flakes in the morning, have an edamame shake for lunch, have a soy burger for dinner. After a while, you’ll probably feel nauseated as well, which will help you reach your overall goal.

8. Take up a really boring hobby.

How about collecting old phone books? Or sculpting butter? Or photographing roundabouts? (It helps if you’re British for that last one.)  Plus as a bonus, you can shop at Hobby Lobby and contribute to the erosion of LGBT rights at the same time!

 9. Become a Republican. 

Never mind. No one’s that desperate to donate blood.

JohnGallagher

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It's Official: Obama Won't Renominate Michael Boggs

It's Official: Obama Won't Renominate Michael Boggs
WASHINGTON — It’s over for Michael Boggs. Like, really over.

Georgia Sens. Johnny Isakson (R) and Saxby Chambliss (R) said late Tuesday night that President Barack Obama won’t renominate Boggs next year for a lifetime post on the U.S. District Court for the Northern District of Georgia. The news is a major victory for progressives who have fought Boggs’ nomination all year.

“It is with regret that we announce that the President will not re-nominate Judge Michael Boggs to the United States District Court for a third time. We were informed of the President’s decision by Denis McDonough, the President’s chief of staff, prior to Thanksgiving. We regret the President’s decision, as we have supported Judge Boggs throughout this process and remain steadfast in our support,” the senators said in a statement.

They continued, “Throughout the process, Judge Boggs has exhibited enormous restraint and the temperament expected of a jurist. These traits will serve him well for the opportunities we are confident the future holds for Judge Boggs. We wish him the best and thank him for his service to the people of Georgia.”

A White House spokesman confirmed that Obama won’t renominate Boggs, but offered no additional comment.

Progressive groups and Senate Democrats threw everything they had at Boggs this year, determined to sink his nomination over his socially conservative record. Abortion rights groups objected to votes he took as a Georgia state legislator to create “Choose Life” license plates and to post online the names of abortion providers at a time of high clinic violence. Civil rights leaders opposed him because of his vote to keep the Confederate insignia on the Georgia state flag. Gay rights groups opposed him for sponsoring a constitutional amendment to ban same-sex marriage.

It became clear earlier this fall that Boggs wasn’t going anywhere this year, when Senate Judiciary Committee chairman Patrick Leahy (D-Vt.) announced the Democratic votes weren’t there to confirm him, and suggested that Obama withdraw the nomination. The lingering question has been whether the president would renominate Boggs in the new year, when Republicans control the Senate and would likely back him.

The White House calculation appears to be that it’s not worth picking another fight with Democrats over the nomination.

Obama had initially nominated Boggs as part of an all-or-nothing package of seven Georgia judicial nominees agreed upon by the president, Chambliss and Isakson. Some, like Boggs, were GOP picks and others were Democratic picks. The other six in the package were confirmed this year, but Boggs was held back.

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