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Golfer Patrick Reed Apologizes For Anti-Gay Slur, Foul Language

Golfer Patrick Reed Apologizes For Anti-Gay Slur, Foul Language
SHANGHAI (AP) — Patrick Reed hasn’t received this much attention since he pressed his finger to his lips in Scotland to quiet the Ryder Cup crowd. This time it was his own mouth that got the 24-year-old American into trouble when he berated himself with swearing and a gay slur.

Reed apologized on Friday for his outburst at the HSBC Champions, which was captured on live television during the opening round of a World Golf Championship. “Yesterday, I made a stupid error,” Reed said. “Sorry for definitely the words that I said and everything that went on. Never should have happened. Unfortunately, it happened to me and all I can do is just learn from it and move on, hopefully continue playing well and keep giving fans something to watch.”

He was on his 10th hole (No. 1) at Sheshan International in the opening round when he missed a 5-foot putt. Microphones caught him using the F-word twice and capping it off with another F-word — the gay slur — in a fit of rage over his three-putt bogey.

Golf Channel analyst Frank Nobilo immediately apologized to viewers. Reed didn’t even remember what he said until he was informed after the round, and the video clip began making its way across the Internet. Among those he sought out for advice was Bubba Watson, of all people.

Microphones also caught Watson using the F-word in the second round of the U.S. PGA Championship in August.

“He came to me last night and said that, ‘Hey, I did something bad,'” Watson said. “He showed me the clip. I said, ‘Yeah, that’s not good.’ That’s all I could say. … It’s sad it comes out, but just like I said before in my own personal problems, that’s how you learn from it. That’s how you become a better man, and that’s what I told him. ‘Your daughter is not old enough yet, but when your daughter gets older, you don’t want to speak out like that.’ And it’s the same thing with me.”

It was the second time in two weeks that a public figure in golf was swept up in emotion and wound up using offensive terms. Former PGA of America president Ted Bishop directed his “Lil Girl” comment at Ian Poulter.

“I’ve done it in the past. It’s difficult, isn’t it?” Poulter said. “The microphone is there, live TV, its broadcast around the world. We all make mistakes.”

Reed huddled with his handlers for about five minutes after his 73 on Friday before facing the media, answering every question with a mea culpa.

“It’s something not to be proud of, and something that you definitely can’t have happen,” Reed said. “Unfortunately, it got the best of me yesterday, and all I can do is not let it happen again.”

Players who use foul language are usually fined, although the PGA Tour does not disclose its disciplinary action. Graeme McDowell said he has received a text message from his mother when microphones catch him swearing.

“My mom is under some illusion that I don’t swear,” he said. “Like I say, golf is a four-letter word. It’s a frustrating sport. Yes, we use language that we shouldn’t on national television, but that’s the same in any sport.”

Reed’s outburst was more about the words, especially the gay slur, than the volume. He was playing with McDowell and Billy Horschel, and neither of them even heard it. Reed said it as he walked briskly to the hole after missing the short putt.

It happened about 1 p.m. on Thursday in China. McDowell didn’t know about it until he was watching the news Friday morning.

“Yes, he shouldn’t have said it. But is he unfairly dragged across the coals? Who knows? You could argue both sides of the story,” McDowell said. “I don’t have an opinion on it. Guys say things all the time out here.”

Reed blamed his choice of words on his passion, and he is not short on that. He first drew attention to himself at another World Golf Championship at Doral where he said he belonged among the top five players in the world after winning.

“The passion I have for the game is never going to change,” Reed said. “And the drive to play well and win is never going to change. It’s just if I’m ever going to get upset at myself, especially after a Ryder Cup and at the level of golf I’m playing nowadays, you can’t have outbursts. Unfortunately, I did, and happened to be on camera.”

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Kacey Musgraves' Pro-gay 'Follow Your Arrow' Wins CMA Country Song of the Year: VIDEO

Kacey Musgraves' Pro-gay 'Follow Your Arrow' Wins CMA Country Song of the Year: VIDEO

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At Wednesday night’s Country Music Awards, Kacey Musgraves hit “Follow Your Arrow” took home Song of the Year. 

The news was a big deal considering the song is an ode to personal freedom that tackles subjects not usually addressed in the world of country music:

Make lots of noise
Kiss lots of boys
Or kiss lots of girls
If that’s something you’re into
When the straight and narrow
Gets a little too straight
Roll up a joint, or don’t
Just follow your arrow

Screen Shot 2014-11-07 at 8.37.54 AMThe significance of the song’s win wasn’t lost on Musgraves, who has in the past received conservative backlash for the pro-gay lyrics. 

“Do you guys realize what this means for country music?” she said in her acceptance speech on stage. 

Last year, Musgraves spoke with Pridesource about how she wants to see the country music industry to start acknowledging the gay community.

It never happens and I’m sick of it. It’s ridiculous. Whether or not you agree with gay marriage or the fact that people don’t choose to be gay, we share the same emotions, needs and wants. I just think that everyone should be included in that. It’s definitely time. 

Check out the music video for “Follow Your Arrow” AFTER THE JUMP

[photo via CMA Awards]

 


Kyler Geoffroy

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Win A Date With Tom Daley and Dustin Lance Black (Or At Least Buy Some Good Karma)

Win A Date With Tom Daley and Dustin Lance Black (Or At Least Buy Some Good Karma)

tom-daley-dlb-360x357If you’ve ever fantasized about going on a date with Olympic diver Tom Daley or Academy Award-winning screenwriter Dustin Lance Black, now you can …

… Pay ten bucks for the opportunity to go on a date with them.

No, Daley and Black haven’t started an escort service. They’re raising money for two charities that are near and dear to their hearts, The Brain Tumour Charity in the UK and The Human Rights Campaign in the US.

In 2011, Daley lost his father to a brain tumor, and a year later Black lost his older brother to cancer. Which is why Blaley (or Dalack … seriously, why don’t these guys have a portmanteau?) have offered up a chance for you and a guest to join them on what they’re calling “the greatest double date ever”.

The winner will get a VIP trip to London, a makeover from a professional stylist (come on, you don’t expect Tom and Dustin to be seen in public with some ordinary schlub, do you?), followed by dinner and a night on the town.

To enter, go to Omaze.com/London.

For more information, check out their adorable promo video.

And just in case you don’t win, here are some other gay couples, both past and present, that we’d pay money to party with.

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Marc Jacobs & Harry Louis

The clothing designer and the porn star were very conspicuous with their love, cavorting about on the beach in the sexiest bathing suits possible. But alas, after nearly a year-and-a-half together, the couple split in 2013.

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Tab Hunter & Rudolf Nureyev

In his 2005 memoir Confidential, movie hearttrob Hunter mentions (rather, skims over) a brief and clandestine affair he had with the Russian dancer, who he met while enjoying a Mediterranean holiday in the late 1960s. While Putin certainly wouldn’t have approved, we do — and wish we’d been invited to join.

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Dan Savage & Terry Miller

We envision a date with Dan and Terry would involve good food, an intense political discussion, and lots of free advice. And hopefully Dan wouldn’t mind us fantasizing about some alone time with Terry.

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Ellen DeGeneres & Portia de Rossi

Who wouldn’t want to spend an evening with America’s best loved (and funniest) lesbian and her beautiful and talented actress wife? Even if we did nothing but sit around their amazing Santa Barbara love nest playing Heads Up!, it would surely be an evening of laughs and good cocktails.

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Cary Grant & Randolph Scott

While many close to Grant and Scott have denied that the pair (who lived together on and off for ten years) had anything beyond a platonic relationship, the rumors of something more have lingered on for decades. Just imagine how fun it must have been to attend one of their pool parties …

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Reichen Lehmkuhl & Ryan Barry

Speaking of pool parties, while we reckon a day of fun in the sun with Amazing Race winner Reichen and his former boyfriend, model and trainer Ryan might be lacking in meaningful conversation, it would at the very least be lousy with eye candy.

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Lance Bass & Michael Turchin

Hopefully a date with Lance and Michael would be  as over-the-top as the wedding they’re planning. Perhaps it would even involve a trip into space. If nothing else, it would be fun to get the dirt on all of Lance’s closeted celebrity friends.

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Johnny Weir and Victor Voronov

Oh, the drama! That in itself would be worth the price of an up-close-and-personal with this couple.

Winston Gieseke

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