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Jim Beaned: Coming Back on

I will be back on in a little bit. I have to do somethings and I will be back to hang out. I think I might head off to the gym also,but don’t worry. I will be back late night for a couple of shows so don’t worry. We can have a good time together. I would say I need a power boost or two,but I think we can work that out when I get back on. I really couldn’t party that hard this week, so we will have to make up for it in the next coming week. I will be on all week so get your party hats on and be ready for a daily show. I will see you guys in like an hour or two. I have somethings to do at the store and I would rather do them now since I was already on and partied with you guys. I will be back in like an hour or two, two if I go to the gym. I will see you guys then so be ready for anything. I am off now, thank you for partying with me today. I will be back by 11 pm at the latest eastern standard time. I hope you guys will be ready to party then.

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What Our Fascination With Cate Blanchett's Sexuality Really Says About Us

What Our Fascination With Cate Blanchett's Sexuality Really Says About Us
The most revelatory morsel of Cate Blanchett’s latest interview with Variety, promoting her next film, Carol, is not that she’s had relationships with women. Rather, it’s her comment about labels:

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Gay Friendly Summer Vacation: Pensacola, Florida

Gay Friendly Summer Vacation: Pensacola, Florida
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Looking for that perfect beach vacation but you want to be yourself? It’s not that difficult once you have been to Pensacola, Florida. The water is warm, the people are nice, and there is just enough to do that even on a rainy day; you feel like you got away. I have been going to Pensacola for family reasons my entire life, but as an adult I appreciate that there is an added bonus: It is drop-dead gorgeous and affordable. As an unofficial Ambassador or Prince of Pensacola, I only have great things to say about my hometown. This Gulf Coast destination has a lot going on and you can jump into the local growth vibe or kick back on the pristine beaches for a break from the regular.

The beaches are often rated the best in the country. There are bays with bluffs supported by scruffy oak trees that are perfect for hiking on an overcast day for a waterside picnic. Not far from downtown are river beaches, fed by coldwater springs, where you can feel safe wading in the water without the threat of alligators. The famous sugar white sand beaches are located on a sandbar of a barrier island that was formed by the eroding limestone sediment from the base of the Appalachia. The sand squeaks when you walk on it and reflects the sun with such strong rays that an umbrella is not enough. Do not forget to stop at Tom Thumb to pick up your sunscreen and apply liberally… Don’t worry, you will still get a tan line.

Maybe a bronzing is lower on your list of priorities because you have children. They might be impressed by the National Naval Aviation Museum or floored by the roar of the Blue Angel’s practice, which happens twice a week if the pilots are not on tour. Explore the forts and trails at Ft. Pickens National Seashore for at least a day. There you can wander comfortably out of sight but at every turn there is a view out of an Audubon Magazine or possibly an Andrew Wyeth painting. If you have pets in tow, make sure to stop by the dog beach, it is located on the western side of the island entry and there is a cross in the dunes that may or may not belong to a revered hound that I once knew. The Pensacola Beach restaurants Flounder’s and Peg Leg Pete’s have sandy playgrounds that are those rare places where someone might say “Will you watch my kid while I go to the bathroom?” This is old school South where people look out for each other and welcome visitors with the same hospitality. Most of the time there is live music so leave any ego behind and dance in public with your family while having a sunset dinner. Let your guard down and relax; it is your vacation and you work hard for these times.

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If you do not have kids but found that person in your life that is different from anyone else there are so many opportunities for romance. There are restaurants such as The Grand Marlin or Fish House that offer outside seating for a slow dining experience. You can go to the Wine Bar on Palafox for a few glasses before wandering the historic downtown streets. Most likely you want to pick up some fresh seafood at Joe Patti’s and cook dinner in your rental while still maintaining close contact with the water. Maybe a proposal or even a wedding is on your schedule; then reach out to local Darrin Land for some advice on where, when and how. It is not hard to find advice in Pensacola and everybody knows each other so just ask around.

For all the singles out there (put your hands up!) there are multiple bars with different moods to keep you from feeling alone. Head over to The Cabaret for a more subdued crowd (think karaoke and local artists) or The Round Up for pool tables, darts, and good old Southern boys. If you have not seen a show at Emerald City then you have not seen the creative side of what a Panhandle bar can do on a budget. There is a gay beach but I have not been in so many years that I suggest you ask someone at the above mentioned establishments. It is easy enough to find; look for the rainbow umbrellas and or HRC bumper stickers in the parking lots. Pensacola is a multicultural, multi denominational, multi age city in the South and as much as you are free to be you, respect for other’s presence goes a long way. There may be the occasional grouchy old jerk but that should not stop you from having a good time or making friends.

Now, where to stay? Stay on the island if you can and depending on your needs you have many options. I like to stay at Tristan Towers because it is far away enough from the epicenter to feel like a retreat but has so many amenities that you can look past the ’80s decor. Check out Pensacola Beach Properties for what is available but if at all possible get a west facing unit so you can stare off to the point during sunset. If you need a little more glamour and comfort then head towards Portofino. They have resort amenities and a crispness that can make you feel a bit pampered. No place is the wrong choice because whether you are by the highway, downtown or on the beach; everything is close.

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Pensacola is a beach destination that has grown in popularity among those from the surrounding areas, but it still has a small town charm that will have you checking out property in the area before you leave. If you have an entire week at your disposal you might try flying through New Orleans; the money you save will pay for your rental car or hotel but do not stop in Biloxi unless you have some money to lose. Who needs Tulum, Mexico when we have Pensacola, Florida right here?

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When Police Are Outside Agitators

When Police Are Outside Agitators

Public safety officers should protect, not control.

During a talk radio interview last month, a caller identifying himself as a police officer strongly disputed my claim that police are supposed to “Protect and Serve,” a motto stenciled on many police cruisers. “Our job is to enforce the law,” he insisted. This in a nutshell is the problem at the heart of so many police departments: a clash of missions.

Those of us privileged enough not to be routinely treated as criminal suspects can have a hard time understanding the perspective of communities of color. Black friends for years have told me of police who act like occupiers, stopping and questioning them on the slightest pretext.

Sometimes abusive police are white and sometimes black, but the relevant color is in the “thin blue line” police unite behind. The filing of murder and assault charges against six Baltimore officers by Maryland State’s Attorney Marilyn Mosby in the death of Freddie Gray exposed a fault line that their prosecution by itself cannot repair. The police union denounced Mosby for a “rush to judgment,” oblivious to the fatal lack of due process afforded Mr. Gray.

The killing of Gray, apparently by a “rough ride” in a police van, is the latest in a long string of extra-judicial executions of African Americans, including Eric Garner, Tamir Rice, John Crawford, and Walter Scott. Many white people are sick of hearing it, but we cannot get at the problem without understanding its racist origins. Here is a bit of history seldom taught in civics class: American law enforcement may be traced to slave patrols. Victor E. Kappeler, Ph.D., claims, “Slave patrols and Night Watches, which later became modern police departments, were both designed to control the behaviors of minorities.”

This is not a liberal or conservative problem, but an American problem. The racially disparate War on Drugs, mortgage redlining, predatory banks, poor education and job training, mass incarceration — these contributors to urban neglect have bipartisan origins. When long-simmering despair inevitably explodes, the marginalized deserve more than a lecture not given to anarchist rancher Cliven Bundy. They need a stake in the greater good and a credible prospect that persons misusing authority will be held accountable.

When D.C.’s Gay and Lesbian Activists Alliance (of which I am president) worked with others including the NAACP and ACLU sixteen years ago to create the D.C. Office of Police Complaints, we did not get all the reforms we wanted, but we won a measure of independent review of charges of police wrongdoing. Civilian oversight is crucial to responsive policing.

Those who resist police accountability are not relenting. D.C. Mayor Muriel Bowser, for example, wants to exempt police body cam footage from Freedom of Information Act requests. Max Blumenthal of AlterNet claims that many Baltimore police officers are from New Jersey and Pennsylvania, and sometimes say before their shifts, “Time to go back to work in the zoo.” Who are the outside agitators?

The media are a big part of the problem. Last week, The Washington Post ran with a police leak claiming that Gray had injured himself, a howler that skeptics soon unraveled. Right-wing outlets from FOX to Breitbart ran their usual wildly politicized and distorted stories.

As an unevenly applied curfew ended May 3, it was evident that Baltimore police were misled by poor intelligence. On April 27, they inflamed a tense situation by shutting down public transportation near Mondawmin Mall and blockading streets, trapping students from Frederick Douglass High School. Meanwhile, the gangs they were worried about were cooperating to protect youth and prevent violence.

Rep. Bill Flores (R-TX) bizarrely blamed the Baltimore unrest on same-sex marriages, claiming they cause family breakdown. That aside, LGBT folk are part of every urban community. Flashpoints from our own past (the Stonewall uprising in 1969, the White Night riots in San Francisco in 1979) should give us pause before scorning others who respond violently to “a long Train of Abuses and Usurpations” (to quote the Declaration of Independence).

Police must change their perspective from enforcing to protecting. They must know and respect the communities they serve. They must not be above the law. Change will occur only if we push for it together. Let’s be about it.

This piece originally appeared in the Washington Blade and Bay Windows.

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News: Spider-Man, Rick Perry, Bill Cosby, Antarctica, Madonna

News: Spider-Man, Rick Perry, Bill Cosby, Antarctica, Madonna

Road Martin O’Malley preps his 2016 campaign. “In a series of conference calls on Thursday night, he rallied his supporters and reiterated what has long been a message for the candidate-in-waiting: that the country needs new, forward-looking leadership with progressive values.

ButterfieldRoad Hugo and Ender’s Game actor Asa Butterfield in talks to play Marvel’s new Spider-Man. 

Road Bill Cosby sits down with ABC News for a confusing interview about his sexual assault allegations.

Road Labor union claims Amtrak engineer Brandon Bostian was likely tired due to the company’s cost-driven schedule change. 

Road Hillary Clinton pens letter to the lesbian couple featured in her campaign announcement video

Road A Scottish mother has been found guilty of duping her former partner into thinking she had an abortion in order to give his child to her gay friend. 

Road Will Jake Gyllenhaal receive a Best Actor nomination for his upcoming role in Southpaw?

Road Brittney Griner and wife Glory Johnson have been suspended for seven WNBA games for last month’s domestic violence incident

OpahRoad Meet the opah, the first warm-blooded fish

Road Investors eyeing Netflix deal in China. 

Road NASA scientists warn Antarctic ice shelf “is likely to disintegrate completely before the end of the decade.”

Road Anti-LGBT groups claim Girl Scouts are running a “dangerous” “social engineering experiment on children.”

Road Howard Dean zings Chris Christie with his signature scream

Road Zachary Quinto and boyfriend Miles McMillan are two NYC peas in a pod. 

Road Rick Perry will announce his presidential plans on June 4.

Road What’s going on at Silver Lake’s shuttered gay bar MJ’s?  

BrennanRoad Gaelic footballer Ger Brennan pens explanation on why he’s voting “No” in the upcoming marriage referendum. “I very nearly decided not to write this piece. I know I’ll be targeted for it and labeled for it. It would have been easier to keep my mouth shut and not rock the boat. But I’m sick of the accusations being flung around that if you vote ‘No’ you are homophobic. I know I’m not homophobic; my gay friends and family can attest to that. I am voting “No” because I don’t want our Constitution to deny that it is a good thing for a child to have a mother and a father.”

Road Husband and wife face off in city council race in Bremerton, Washington. 

Road Madonna makes Billboard history with 45th #1 song “Ghosttown”

Road Mad Max: Fury Road stars Tom Hardy, Charlize Theron and Nicholas Hoult bring the beauty to Cannes Film Festival. 

Road Denver zoo penguins go “extinct” for Endangered Species Day. 


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Louis Virtel Verbally Vogues His Way Through 'Jeopardy!' – WATCH

Louis Virtel Verbally Vogues His Way Through 'Jeopardy!' – WATCH

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Every so often a Jeopardy! contestant comes along who embodies all that is well and good with deep trivia knowledge and pop culture awareness. There was IBM’s Watson who proved that there was basically no use in trying to compete with a super computer. Then there was Kat Deabill who introduced your Jeopardy! loving grandparents what shade was all about. Thankfully, the trend of badass Jeopardy! contestants lives on with one Louis Virtel, a popular web writer and YouTube personality known for his series Verbal Vogueing.

You’re doing yourself a huge disservice if you aren’t checking out his work, but for those unfamiliar with him, his recent appearance on Jeopardy is the perfect introduction.

Watch Louis Virtel slay the Jeopardy! game (and the American public) AFTER THE JUMP

 


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Chris Carmack Says His Character’s Coming Out On ‘Nashville’ Is A Huge Step For Country Music

Chris Carmack Says His Character’s Coming Out On ‘Nashville’ Is A Huge Step For Country Music

MV5BODEzNzI1NTcwOF5BMl5BanBnXkFtZTcwMTk4NDU0OQ@@._V1_SX640_SY720_I want Will to be out and happy and still a huge country star and people loving him for who he is. I want him to make some decisions that are going to help him fulfill his life. I get a lot of tweets and comments from people about how, ‘Will should just come out already! It’s 2015! Audiences aren’t what they used to be! The United States is progressing!’ And I understand where they’re coming from because sometimes I feel that way too, but at the same time, I have to respect the fact that it’s dice Will doesn’t get to take back if he rolls them. He’s rolling the dice of his entire career. Historically, those things have not gone over well with country audiences. So there’s a discrepancy between what we as the viewers, fans and as sympathizers want Will to do, and what Will should do for himself.”

 

Actor Chris Carmack chatting with HuffPo about his Nashville character, closeted singer Will Lexington, came out publicly in the season finale 

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