Open Question: Husband is obsessed with talking to gay men online but he's not gay?
We’ve been married for 7 years and my husband will not stop chatting to gay men online. He’s now 31 and addicted and was crying two nights ago due to his addiction. He says he does not want to have sex with the men, does not want gay sexual fantasies and is definitely not gay or bisexual but he feels he cannot control himself or stop himself from saying extremely explicit things to them online.

He’s never met the men and he is very sorry to me and feels bad. We are very open and he says he has no idea why he can’t stop doing this.

What could be wrong with him?
He wants to not do this is there any treatment out there for him?

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Open Question: Am I trans?
I am 16 years old. All my life, ever since i was very young, I’ve hated my body. I hate being called “female” and being called “she” or “her”. I hate being called my natural birth name, because it’s too feminine.

I sometimes think about what it would be like to be male. I sometimes pretend to have a penis, to see what it’s like. I write a lot, and i often create me character to be male. Whenever i fantasize about this, i feel more comfortable. I’ve been dressing in “male” clothes and like to have my hair short. I even speak in a lower voice, since it’s more comfortable.

But I’m also afraid that I’m wrong. Despite feeling wrong all my life, i wonder if becoming male is right. Over the years, I’ve become severely depressed and I’ve often been thinking of suicide.

Earlier this year, I came out to my family as gay. They accepted me, but I don’t know what to do if I really am trans…I’m really scared and i don’t know what to do. Please help me.

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Open Question: Is it too late to be ftm transgender?
I’m 14 and I’ve already got breasts, and I already look like a female (body wise). When I dress I usually dress in mens (or mens style) clothing and my hair will be short (not yet as family won’t allow it). But I want to be a man, like no breasts, a penis, although I would be a gay man.
But, I wouldn’t start the process until I’m at least sixteen, because my school is incredibly judgmental, and I want to avoid all that. Would I be able to get rid of my breasts? Also long does the whole process of transitioning take?
Thank you in advance, and please don’t hate me.

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Open Question: Ok, so how do I score myself an atheist girl? I'm a very sexually repressed born-again Christian. I refuse to have sex before marriage.?
I don’t smoke, I don’t drink, I do believe in evolution, I do believe in global warming. I do not believe in gay marriage. I do not believe in abortion. I’m bad with cooking. So….

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Open Question: My girlfriend may be cheating on me?
Basically, before you think I am overreacting about her cheating; around the 3rd week of our relationship, she had sent nude pictures to a boy, it wasn’t until the 5th week that I found out. So ever since then I’m kinda being scared in case she does it again!?

So she has this “friend” who basically lied to her about being gay, or she lied about him being gay to me. When I found out that he wasn’t gay it was due to him telling her that he’s in love with her.. This happened 2 weeks ago bare in mind, and now apparently he has a girlfriend that’s he’s been with for 3 weeks!? So it’s obvious there’s some lying involved there by my girlfriend; she can’t be that stupid to believe him..

And now on Saturday, I’ve found out that he is buying her stuff, which obviously make’s me uncomfortable. Along with that he’s been telling everyone that she is his best friend, which again is making me uncomfortable.

But the thing is, she tells me I’m not allowed to even talk to another girl.. Which I haven’t, while she promised she wouldn’t talk to another boy. ( She made me, I didn’t make her ). But she still talks to boys, about 5 or 6 of them, along with her “friend”.. But with her “friend” she told me she has no way of contacting him apart from when she sees him in school.. Yet if she mentions him she mentions that they was on the phone together.. So again another lie. There’s also been many times where she would rather go out and be with him and her friends who are girls, than being with me and doing anything she wants to. Every morning I am waking up sick to my stomach scared that they might of done something in the night. I get scared to talk to her in case he’s made her do stuff, or she want’s him over me.. I’ve honestly cried over her.

So do you think I should stay with her for making false promises and lying to me?
And do you think she’s cheating on me?

P.S. We are both 16, he’s 15..

Thank you for your answers Forgot to add, that she has told me before that he hates me and thinks I’m crazy? When all I’ve done is stuff for her a real boyfriend would do and not some h***y 15 year old.

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Open Question: Why do some Muslim men kick puppies, stone women, and are ok with throwing gays off buildings? Is this why liberals want them here so bad?
They use their faith to justify all of these actions, so how do we ensure they won’t attempt to do the same in America? Would it be “islamophobic” to speak out against this type of behavior? Is political correctness more important than protecting puppies, women, and gays?

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Open Question: Confused, need advice?
Up until 4 weeks ago I always assumed I was straight, I have had same sex fantasies before but that’s what I always assumed they were, fantasies as I don’t actually intend to ever try anything with a male. 4 weeks ago the prospect of a relationship (with a girl) became a likelihood and since then I keep having this feeling that I can’t be in a relationship with her in case I am gay. I have never been attracted to males physically or emotionally and although I can acknowledge when a guy is attractive, my first thought isnt sexual and I do not automatically think sexual thoughts unless I consciously do it? I do not think I could ever be in a relationship with a man, I have never had a crush on someone of the same sex, all fantasies have been physical/sexual and short lived. I also notice females automatically e.g. In the street my eyes are always drawn to females and never males unless I consciously force myself to look at men. I really do desire a relationship with females and specifically this girl though something feels wrong? On a seperate subject ive always been convinced I am not good enough for someone and I have trust issues and get jealous easily. Could it be that it’s not as much my sexuality that’s the problem and that I’m just trying to find a way to sabotage a potential relationship to prevent myself from possibly getting hurt? I understand I may be bi-curious too. Any input would be greatly appreciated as I am very confused at the moment.

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Open Question: What's up with society's reaction to Charlie Sheen having HIV?
In most cases of HIV, especially if the person is a woman or a gay male, there is a general attitude of sympathy from society. I have even seen this with female porn stars. Yet I am noticing that in the case of Charlie Sheen, there is this “haha that’s what you get” type attitude towards him as if he somehow got what he deserved for his promiscuity. I don’t get it. Is it because he was getting with prostitutes? How is that different from having one night stands? I’ve actually heard that prostitutes are less risky than your typically one night stand. Is it perhaps because of the feminist narrative that men who use prostitutes are somehow victimuzing them?

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Open Question: Problems with a married man?
I hate asking this question but I just have to. I currently work at a department store and I work with a guy who is married. He tends to always want to flirt and be around me. Knowing he is married I don’t do anything to egg him on but in the beginning I played along but now it’s like what do I do? The other day I was just sitting in the back office trying to get something done and his eyes would not leave me. I also REALLY HATE to say this but I kind of like him. I don’t do anything but my usual self at work so im not throwing myself at him. What do you think I should do? Thanks a lot

I pray about it every night as well.

On top of that a guy who told me he liked me then said he was gay then said he wasn’t has decided to come into my life

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Open Question: What are people so against being transgender?
Can someone please explain to me why people find being transgender is sick? I understand that no it is certainly not normal but it s something that cannot be helped. I don t understand how someone who is born feeling the opposite sex to what they actually are on the outside is so sick? The only way it is sick is the fact that the person can t be happy until they fully transfer but apart from that, what s so bad about it?
I am not transgender myself and I haven t experienced it so I can t fully say anything but I do understand it.
I have myself been in a relationship with a transgender person myself and it is pretty clear that they go through a ton of ****, especially when they haven t had transitions yet. The fact he was transgender made him feel **** a lot, why would someone go through all that **** if it was something they could help?
The best thing to do is to support them with it if they aren t happy and haven t been happy because of that for a long time.
People say it s sick but I guess it s just like being “gay” all over again, what people don t understand, they re afraid of. Hopefully in a couple years time, it will be accepted just as much as being gay is.
Just I need to know from someone else s point of view, what s so bad about it?

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