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Open Question: How do i start talking to him? Im nervous ….?

Open Question: How do i start talking to him? Im nervous ….?
So im bi and im 16 in highschool and im a very attractive boy some people call me conceded but i jus know im attractive but the moral of the story is most gay boys i cross likes me and i never had to ask anyone out before they would usely come on to me first so the tables turn and there is this cute boy at my school and i seen him before but it never clicked to me how cute he was because i never really payed attention to him until one day i was sitting at a table and he passed me and my friends and waved at me and i realized that hevwas so cute to me but know i notice i wonder do he notice me he doesn’t make eye contact and we never spoken before im lowkey scared to talk to him and to see if he likes me ir not although alot of boys like me what if he is jus that one that doesn’t like me ? But anyways how can i talk to him and what do i say i really really think hes cute and its rare for me to feel this way

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Open Question: Is she bi? lesbian?

Open Question: Is she bi? lesbian?
In middle school there were rumors that this girl (I’ll call her Kay) was bi of lesbian. The rumors started because during volleyball and basketball season, Kay would slap our butts a lot to the point where it was more than just being a friendly teammate. She was and is also very touchy in general. Currently, we are juniors in high school, she still likes to slap my and other people’s butt and mess around like. She has a lot of celebrity women crushes like Daenerys Targareon/Emilia Clarke drone Game of Thrones and other woman models. She dresses very fashionably but at the same time kind of tomboyish; but it goes both ways. She currently hangs out with this one girl who I also suspect of being gay/or bi. Kay has had boy experiences in the past, but none of them turned out to be relationships; just talking.

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Open Question: Should I feel shame because my husband isn't manly enough in public?

Open Question: Should I feel shame because my husband isn't manly enough in public?
My ex- husband was a big, macho kind of guy. My new husband and I have been friends for 20 years and just got married 1 1/2 years ago. He is plenty “manly” enough when he needs to be, but I feel that publicly people look at him and wonder if he is gay or not. He is shy and often talks in hushed tones ( I get embarassed when the waitress has to ask him to repeat everything because she can not hear him speak) My son plays in a travel hockey league and the parents always tease me because my husband is the only one there with a book to read. He doesn’t have any real friends outside of our marriage. He does talk to the other dads at hockey, but never seems to fit in. I hesitate to introduce him to new people because I am afraid that they will think he is “gay” I have had one person ask me of he was gay before we really started to date and that has bothered me ever since. I know it sounds strange, but I want him to yell or scratch himself or SOMETHING….is it wrong for me to think this?

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Open Question: I don t know how to handle my emotional roller coaster alcoholic fiance. Help. Nothing I do changes anything.?

Open Question: I don t know how to handle my emotional roller coaster alcoholic fiance.
Help. Nothing I do changes anything.?

Being adaptive, myself, being understanding and being distant from the negativity does nothing.
He seems to be in denial about homosexual feelings, likes shows with gay undertones/drama and hyperfocuses on other men, even to the point of treating me poorly around them. He no longer complements women/ focused on his own colognes, haircut etc and responds nervously around men, while almost blowing women off entirely now.
Drinks a six pack or more every night. Tried to turn it into a positive by involving him in beer making and supporting him, but he still shows little restraint..He lacks interest in being close with me/sex but encourages us to spend quality time. He tells me ‘lets watch XYZ/cuddle’. He’ll say things like ‘I tried to spend time with you you just talked the whole time’ I suppose he’s referring to me being interested in something he likes, but I’m unsure. He thinks I’m more emotional than I am (I’m usually very direct with him, and I don’t beat around the bush so he calls this ‘aggressive’), and gets uppity very quickly. If I help him put a shelf up, or put his computer together for him, he thinks it’ll ‘make him less of a man’. I fair better with his 3 year old daughter and usually take control of her better and he gets embarrassed when trying help him coparent when he would rather look at his phone&ignore it.What do I do and where do I start. I can’t stand being around him anymore. I feel like I’m faking my happiness around him just to avoid another argument.

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Open Question: Gay: Need guts to ask this guy to have sex with me?

Open Question: Gay: Need guts to ask this guy to have sex with me?
So chatting with him through grindr. He’s nice. But I think he’s like way out of my league… We had a good conversation. He asked me what I am looking for… and I said open to anything, he is as well…

Eventually I asked what’s his role. He said Top. He didn’t ask me though…

Well this is awkward… I don’t know what to say now…

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Open Question: I'm in a gay relationship with a straight guy.?

Open Question: I'm in a gay relationship with a straight guy.?
I don’t even know how a straight guy can be in a homosexual relationship. He’s not even bisexual! Well, Me and my ‘boyfriend’ have been dating for a few weeks now and I don’t know if we’re going anywhere. We live together, sleep together and eat together but he won’t lay a finger on me! He said that ‘I’m experiencing new things’ (but yet he doesn’t want to have sex -_-) so I’m not sure if I should give him more time or will I wait an eternity to have my first kiss? I don’t want to seem pushy or anything, so I can’t exactly talk to him about this. The main problem is I really like him and I want us to work out somehow, but I don’t know what he wants, we don’t talk much (even when we’re living together) and haven’t said ‘I love you’. I want us to be able to go on dates and kiss you know romantic things but when I bring it up he ignores me. Does he want a friendship relationship or something more?

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