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More than a number: shifting the media narrative on transgender homicide

More than a number: shifting the media narrative on transgender homicide


GLAAD’s More Than a Number: Shifting the Media Narrative on Transgender Homicide report is an advanced reporting guide for journalists and advocates to accompany our Doubly Victimized Guide. It reflects that many more reporters are now covering the homicides of transgender people in the U.S. but there is still a lot of work to do to improve coverage. The biggest hurdle, in this report’s thesis, is to shift from the “deadliest year ever” headlines into a more accurate and respectful framing of lives lost.

This report outlines the importance of moving away from focusing solely on the number of victims lost in a given year, documents the epidemic of anti-trans violence in 2017, and provides reporters with advanced tips and advice from transgender spokespeople and activists about how to better cover anti-trans violence.  

“We must evolve the ongoing national conversation around the fatal violence that transgender Americans face far too frequently and work together to report accurately and fairly when covering this epidemic,” said Sarah Kate Ellis, President and CEO of GLAAD. “When we reduce individual lives to a number we dehumanize those who we have lost and fail to address the stories and humanity of victims whose trans identities have been erased following their death.”

More Than a Number includes an advanced tip sheet for reporters covering the epidemic of anti-trans violence in the United States. Key highlights include: 

  • Don’t treat each case as a number: Break away from the same overly simplistic and predictable format: name of the victim, the circumstance of their death, and running tally of the number of known transgender homicides that year and fail to humanize the victim. 

  • Take time to humanize the victim: Reach out with empathy to friends, family, and community members to get information about their life. 

  • Remember there is no way to be fully confident that the number of known victims accurately reflects the total number killed in any given year. 

  • Don’t only report on stories that place the transgender community in the context of victimhood: also cover topics such as victories for transgender equality, accomplishments of members of the transgender community, stories of trans people who have lived prior to the 21st century, and more.  

The report also includes advice to reporters from transgender spokespeople around the nation who have had experience educating reporters on the homicides of transgender people and working to improve media coverage, including: 

Shelby Chestnut, National Organizing and Policy Strategist, Transgender Law Center: “Reporters can play an important role in correcting the police when they put out misinformation. Take setting the record straight seriously.” 

Monica Roberts, Journalist and Writer, Founding Editor of TransGriot: “Nine times out of ten people have a Facebook page, where you can get correct information about the person and nice photos that you can use.”  
 
LaLa Zannell, Lead Organizer, New York City Anti-Violence Project: “Ask about what resources can be included in your reporting. Is there a GoFundMe site to support the family? A vigil to honor the victim? A local organization that can support the community at this time?”   

 
The “More Than a Number” report also includes in-depth case studies that breaks down the media coverage of the homicides of three transgender women who were killed in 2017, Stephanie Montez (Robstown, TX), Ally Lee Steinfeld (Cabool, MO), and Jaylow Mcglory (Alexandria, LA), exposing what went wrong during the initial reporting and what can be improved moving forward. 

GLAAD and other organizations like the National Coalition of Anti-Violence will continue the tracking and analysis of homicides of transgender people in the U.S. for the vital information that we can learn and share for advocacy, organizing, education, and memorialization. While GLAAD is advocating for moving media coverage away from simply counting the number of victims each year, and toward an acknowledgment that we cannot yet measure the full scope of this national tragedy, the information we track remains highly valuable. Below are the key demographic trends from the homicides that GLAAD tracked in 2017. 

  • In the United States alone, 26 people – that we know of – were victims of homicide in 2017.  

  • 25 (96%) of the 26 known transgender victims in 2017 were transgender women or people assigned male at birth who were feminine-presenting.  

  • 24 (92%) of the transgender people murdered this year were people of color

  • As is common practice in initial police or media reports on transgender victims of homicide, at least 22 of the victims (85%) were misgendered in initial reports of their deaths. 

  • At the date of this report [March 28, 2018], twelve of the murders (46%) are unsolved: of these twelve cases, a person or persons of interest have been identified in only four of them. 

READ the full report: www.glaad.org/publications/more-than-a-number

 
March 28, 2018

www.glaad.org/blog/more-number-shifting-media-narrative-transgender-homicide

Rejected ‘Voice’ Singer Apologizes to Kelly Clarkson for Saying She Did a ‘Disservice’ to Gay Artists

Rejected ‘Voice’ Singer Apologizes to Kelly Clarkson for Saying She Did a ‘Disservice’ to Gay Artists
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A contestant who was rejected by Kelly Clarkson on Monday night’s episode of The Voice is apologizing after accusing Clarkson of doing gay artists a “disservice.”

Clarkson chose Justin Kilgore over Molly Stevens, but it was Clarkson’s commentary that rankled Stevens, who took her frustration to Instagram.

Wrote Stevens, in a post that has since been deleted: “@kellyclarkson compared me to @melissa_etheridge and the @indigogirlsmusic. While I’m extremely honored to be in that category of talent I do believe that comment did us all a disservice and only threw us into a labeling trap. It felt small minded to me and exactly what I feel we need to bring attention to the world.”

Stevens added: “I don’t think Kelly Clarkson meant ANYTHING by this and even gave it any thought but clearly I did. :/ I guess I’m just thinking in my head that I am a singer songwriter who happens to be gay. And so is @melissa_etheridge and the @indigogirlsmusic Glad I can work through this one today on a carousel in Central Park with my mom and niece. But it’s a common stereotype that happens too often. People put us in boxes. How about for today I am just Molly Stevens and you be you too.”

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The post got back to Clarkson, who tweeted: “Wow. This really bums me out. I need everyone 2 hear me & hear ALL OF THE WORDS I SAY. I compared Molly to Melissa Etheridge, Patty Griffin (a name that was left out conveniently), & the Indigo Girls purely because of the rasp in her voice & that she’s an amazing storyteller.”

Wow. This really bums me out. I need everyone 2 hear me & hear ALL OF THE WORDS I SAY. I compared Molly to Melissa Etheridge, Patty Griffin (a name that was left out conveniently), & the Indigo Girls purely because of the rasp in her voice & that she’s an amazing storyteller. t.co/Ci5fqDKzA3

— Kelly Clarkson (@kelly_clarkson) March 27, 2018

Stevens has since regretted coming for Clarkson, tweeting: “I sincerely apologize for any hurt I may have caused with my words. This was not my intention at all. For the people who know me well, you know my heart well too. I strive to live in truth and light. @kelly_clarkson I truly apologize for thinking differently. I look up to you.”

I sincerely apologize for any hurt I may have caused with my words. This was not my intention at all. For the people who know me well, you know my heart well too. I strive to live in truth and light. @kelly_clarkson I truly apologize for thinking differently. I look up to you.

— Molly Stevens Music (@mollystevens_1) March 28, 2018

Here’s a clip with Clarkson’s commentary:

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Aaron Carter Takes Back His Bisexuality: ‘It Was a Little Misconstrued’

Aaron Carter Takes Back His Bisexuality: ‘It Was a Little Misconstrued’
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Aaron Carter went back into the closet in a Hollywood Life podcast, saying his coming out as bisexual was “misconstrued.”

Said Carter: “It was more so just a story that happened when I was like 17 with somebody. I can find men and women attractive, but when it comes down to it, I think it was a little misconstrued. I see myself being with a woman and having kids. I want to have a family. I keep telling people that. I don’t want it to be misconstrued too much, just because I was open about a story.”

Carter came out as bisexual in a note on social media in August 2017, saying that it “has been weighing on [his] chest for nearly half of [his] life.”

In the social media post, Carter, the brother of Backstreet Boys’ Nick Carter, said that since the age of 13 he has found both boys and girls attractive and had his first experience with a man at the age of 17.

Added Carter: “This doesn’t bring me shame, just a weight and burden I have held onto for a long time that I would like lifted off of me.”

Saying he never wanted to be a “figure of disappointment,” Carter concluded with a quote from Boy George he said summed up his feelings: “I’ve neveer felt as though I didn’t belong, I just acted as though I did.”

Carter has since deleted that post.

In a follow-up interview, Carter was asked about how he’s feeling and why he decided to come out when he did.

Said Carter: “All I can say is that I’m really looking forward to the future right now – and whether I choose to be with a woman or a man is my decision. No one else’s. To be honest, I’ve been thinking about it for years. I just felt like it was something I needed to do. I was having some personal issues, some turmoil in my ex-relationship. It was something that I just felt like was important and I needed to say. It was a part of a new chapter of turning 30…”

He said he has known since his early teens, but didn’t tell anyone: “I knew when I was a little kid, like 12, 13. No-one really knew. Not my mom, no one. It wasn’t until I was about 17 that there was somebody I had a small relationship with.”

He also broke up with his girlfriend after telling her: “I had discussed it with my ex-girlfriend and she didn’t really understand it. She didn’t want to, and that was it… We parted ways…I don’t really know what else to say about it.”

Carter also had advice for others coming out: “The process is at your own pace and when you feel comfortable. There might be a lot of people who don’t agree with it, but you might be surprised by the people who do….I was shocked. I was blown away [by the supportive comments]”

He added: “I am a single man right now. And whether I choose to be with a woman or a man is my decision.”

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Milwaukee Becomes First Municipality in Wisconsin to Protect Youth from “Conversion Therapy”

Milwaukee Becomes First Municipality in Wisconsin to Protect Youth from “Conversion Therapy”

Today HRC and Fair Wisconsin, the statewide group working to advance equality for LGBTQ Wisconsinites, praised the Milwaukee Common Council for passing a measure protecting  LGBTQ youth from the dangerous and discredited practice of so-called “conversion therapy.” The ordinance prohibits licensed mental health professionals from engaging in conversion therapy with minors and carries a civil penalty for each violation. Milwaukee is the first city in Wisconsin to pass such a measure.

“No child should be subjected to the abusive practice of so-called conversion therapy, which has been rejected by every major medical and mental health organization,” said HRC Wisconsin State Manager Wendy Strout. “We thank the Milwaukee Common Council and the team at the Milwaukee LGBT Center for putting the well-being and safety of our children first, and hope their leadership can be an example to cities across the state.”

Said Michael Vinson, Chairman Emeritus of Fair Wisconsin, “We applaud the City of Milwaukee for taking this important and bold step in protecting the LGBTQ community from these destructive, dangerous practices. We remain hopeful that communities across the state will follow Milwaukee’s lead in helping to ensure a fair, safe and inclusive Wisconsin for all.”

“Conversion therapy,” sometimes referred to as “sexual orientation change efforts” or “reparative therapy,” encompasses a range of dangerous practices that seek to change an individual’s sexual orientation or gender identity or expression. These practices are based on the false premise that being LGBTQ is a mental illness that needs to be “cured” — a theory that has been rejected for decades by every major medical and mental health organization.

There is no credible evidence that conversion therapy can change a person’s sexual orientation or gender identity or expression. To the contrary, research has clearly shown that these practices pose devastating health risks for LGBTQ young people such as depression, decreased self-esteem, substance abuse, homelessness, and even suicidal behavior. The dangerous practice is condemned by every major medical and mental health organization, including the American Psychiatric Association, American Psychological Association, and American Medical Association.

In addition to Milwaukee, a growing number of municipalities across the country, including cities in Pennsylvania, Ohio and Florida, have enacted similar crucial protections. Connecticut, California, the District of Columbia, Illinois, Nevada, New Jersey, New York, New Mexico, Oregon, Rhode Island, and Vermont all have laws or regulations protecting youth from this abusive practice. Earlier this month, the Washington state legislature also passed a similar bill which is currently awaiting the Governor’s signature.

According to a recent report by the Williams Institute at UCLA School of Law, an estimated 20,000 LGBTQ minors in jurisdictions without protections will be subjected to conversion therapy by a licensed healthcare professional if officials fail to act.

HRC recently launched HRC Rising, the largest grassroots expansion in its history that will include significant investments in Wisconsin.

More information on the lies and dangers of efforts to change sexual orientation or gender identity can be found here.

www.hrc.org/blog/milwaukee-becomes-first-municipality-in-wi-to-protect-youth-from-con?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss-feed

Kylie Minogue, Pete Buttigieg, Mario Lopez, Great White Shark, John Paul Stevens: HOT LINKS

Kylie Minogue, Pete Buttigieg, Mario Lopez, Great White Shark, John Paul Stevens: HOT LINKS

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JUST A DRILL. Satellite photo shows massive Chinese naval drill in the South China Sea: “Dozens of Chinese naval vessels are exercising this week with an aircraft carrier in a large show of force off Hainan island in the South China Sea, satellite images obtained by Reuters show.”

2020. Gay South Bend, Indiana mayor Pete Buttigieg staffing up for possible presidential run?

LOUISIANA. No charges for two police officers who shot and killed black unarmed man Alton Sterling.

HEY FRECKLES. Make-up free Christina Aguilera  barely recognizable on PAPER magazine.

FORMER SCOTUS JUSTICE JOHN PAUL STEVENS. Repeal the Second Amendment: “That simple but dramatic action would move Saturday’s marchers closer to their objective than any other possible reform. It would eliminate the only legal rule that protects sellers of firearms in the United States — unlike every other market in the world. It would make our schoolchildren safer than they have been since 2008 and honor the memories of the many, indeed far too many, victims of recent gun violence.”

STILL TERRIBLE. Mitt Romney claims he’s more rightwing that Trump on Immigration.

Andrew Cuomo Chelsea bombingANDREW THE BULLY. Cynthia Nixon compares Cuomo to Trump.

TOXICOLOGY REPORT. Prince died from “exceedingly high” amount of fentanyl: “The amount in his blood is exceedingly high, even for somebody who is a chronic pain patient on fentanyl patches,” said Dr. Lewis Nelson, chairman of emergency medicine at Rutgers New Jersey Medical School. He called the fentanyl concentrations “a pretty clear smoking gun.”

PORTLAND. Silverado, the Pacific Northwest’s oldest male strip club, is moving

alan cumming instinctSPICE GIRLS REUNION. Alan Cumming says it’s definitely happening.

MARCIA GAY HARDENFamily Equality Council’s Impact Awards had special meaning for the actress: “The cause is dear to me, yes,” Harden told Us Weekly at the event. “My son is gay. I just want to make sure he gets to have a family when he wants one.”

TED OLSON. The Trump turmoil is “beyond normal.”

MARVIA MALIK. Pakistan’s first transgender news anchor takes to the air.

WISCONSIN. Gay couple top open state’s first group home for LGBTQ youth: “Together with his husband and co-founder, Nick, Brad has spent the last two years raising money to open the eight-bedroom home in Milwaukee. It will be the one place these teens can go without fear of rejection, he said, noting that LGBTQ foster and homeless youth are rejected more often than their straight peers.”

GONNA NEED A BIGGER BOAT OF THE DAY. Great White Shark spotted off of Port Orange, Florida.

AUSTRALIA. Victoria rejects ‘GAYBOI’ license plate for being “offensive”.

DEAD OR ALIVE DANCER OF THE DAY. George W. Bush. “Uncle George W. Bush dances up a storm, Jenna Bush celebrates, and heavily pregnant Lauren Bush Lauren looks on as her brother gets married at a black tie wedding in Colorado Pierce Bush, 32, married Sarahbeth Melton at the Garden of the Gods park in Colorado Springs”

TRAILER OF THE DAY. The House With a Clock In Its Walls.

COVER OF THE DAY. Kylie Minogue covers Dolly Parton and Kenny Rogers “Islands in the Stream”.

TOO MUDDY FOR TUESDAY. Mario Lopez and his manager at The Dead Sea.

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Living Together: 5 Services That Take the Stress Off Your Relationship

Living Together: 5 Services That Take the Stress Off Your Relationship

Living together is fun and exciting, but it can also be stressful. Merging your life with someone else’s puts a lot of pressure on both of you. If you’ve always been messy and your partner is a exceptionally clean, suddenly one of you is always annoyed. Instead of letting these typical cohabitation issues get in […]

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HRC Mourns Amia Tyrae Berryman, a Transgender Woman of Color Fatally Shot in Louisiana

HRC Mourns Amia Tyrae Berryman, a Transgender Woman of Color Fatally Shot in Louisiana

HRC is saddened to learn the death of Amia Tyrae Berryman, a transgender woman of color who was fatally shot Monday in Baton Rouge, Louisiana.

Transgender advocate Monica Roberts writes that Berryman, 28, was found suffering from gunshot wounds at 1:15 a.m. in a local motel.

Few details are known about the crime, and police report they have no suspects or persons of interest at this time. An autopsy is scheduled for Tuesday, according to WBRZ-TV 2, which sadly misgendered her.

Berryman’s death is the seventh known homicide of a transgender person this year.

Since 2013, HRC has tracked 112 incidents of fatal violence against transgender and non-binary people. Of these, 63 have been victims of gun violence. In 2017, 16 out of the 28 deaths were the result of gun violence.

HRC Foundation and the Trans People of Color Coalition released a report documenting the senseless acts of violence that made 2017 the deadliest year on record for transgender people, particularly for trans women of color.

To learn more about HRC’s transgender justice work, visit hrc.org/Transgender.

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Guest Post: The Chance to Have the First Openly Gay State Supreme Court Justice in the U.S

Guest Post: The Chance to Have the First Openly Gay State Supreme Court Justice in the U.S

I stood only 5’5 but I was still tall for my age. Weaving in and out of middle schoolers as I made my way to the library, I tried to make as little impression as possible. I was only 12 years old, but the signs of puberty already started its war on my body and mind. I was already out the doors when the school bell rang and I rushed into the public library within minutes. I slowed my pace, struggling to catch my breath as I made my way to the young adult section. I felt sweat drip from my forehead, and I looked around nervously as I let my fingers glide over the books labeled “sexual education.” I already knew that this section contained the few gay and lesbian books in the library.

Earlier that day we had a career session with some parents of my peers. I had been uninterested in all but one, a lawyer. She spoke about changing the world as she sat sternly in her pantsuit with a wide grin every time I excitedly asked a question. I was filled with new found inspiration.

Now here in the library I asked the librarian, who by this point must have assumed my sexuality by the litany of LGBTQ+ books I returned, “Do you have any books on gay lawyers?” My voice cracked. She smiled tightly and said “No I don’t think we do, but we have books on normal lawyers right over here.” With no malintent she impressed something into my young mind. Gay lawyers weren’t normal — or even more concerning –perhaps they didn’t exist.

It would be years before I found LGBTQ+ peers also looking into becoming lawyers, because they wanted to become the role models we all felt missing. We bonded over our shared understanding of LGBTQ+ hardships. Each of us had hungrily scoured the internet, publications, YouTube videos to catch glimpses of LGBTQ+ lawyers, judges, or even legislators. All of us searching for a public face. All of us dreaming to become that face.

When Justice Andrew McDonald first came into the news, my friends and I all excitedly talked about what it would mean to have the first openly gay Chief Justice in the United States appointed in Connecticut. In the drudgery of writing college papers we were inspired because here was someone we could be. His qualifications have been affirmed by dozens of well-respected attorneys from all parties. His nomination should have been a simple matter, but it’s turned out to be just the opposite. Instead, organizations have turned the nomination of a qualified person who had earned their place in their chosen field, into a battle of political wills.

“We are standing up for Justice McDonald because we know him, know his intellect and his experience. We are working as hard as we can to get him confirmed as the first openly gay Chief Justice. “ @senatorduff #ConfirmMcDonald pic.twitter.com/wbGJ82RyDm

— ctEQUALITY (@ctEQUALITY) March 25, 2018

As students studying to take the LSAT this filled many of us with anger and others with hopelessness. If McDonald couldn’t do it, what chance did we have? While some look to television and celebrities for inspiration, we looked to these prominent out LGBTQ+ lawyers and judges who had carved a path, to motivate us through our studies and to give us hope to start the difficult journey of law school. For some of us in CT the venom of the public discourse that’s erupted from this confirmation process was a reality check of the world we still live in.  

Confirming Justice McDonald is not a partisan act, but a signal that our democracy works. Through his confirmation our institutions become stronger. Perhaps even more it is a call of hope that one day we may even have an openly LGBTQ+ U.S Supreme Court Justice. It is a step towards representation that generations before feared to even dream of. We have the chance to make this our shared reality. We cannot let it slip by – for past LGBTQ+ generations – for future LGBTQ+ generations – and even more imperative we can’t let this slip by for us.

We have waited long enough, let’s not wait any longer.

Justin Mendillo is a Connecticut College senior studying Government and American Studies. He works for Planned Parenthood and CT Equality, and is a GLAAD Campus ambassador.

March 26, 2018
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www.glaad.org/blog/guest-post-chance-have-first-openly-gay-state-supreme-court-justice-us

Grindr to Regularly Urge Users to Get HIV Tests

Grindr to Regularly Urge Users to Get HIV Tests

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The gay social app Grindr will urge its users to get tested for HIV every 3-6 months and direct them to the nearest testing place,

The NYT reports: “The company is making the move to “reduce H.I.V. transmission and support our whole community — regardless of H.I.V. status — in living long and fulfilling lives,” said Jack Harrison-Quintana, Grindr’s director for equality. H.I.V. experts greeted the announcement enthusiastically.”

Perry N. Halkitis, dean of the Rutgers School of Public Health, told the NYT that he predicts similar apps like Hornet and Scruff would do the same but said it would be particularly helpful if apps like Jack’d or Adam4 Adam, which appeal to users in minority communities which are more at-risk for HIV, would also follow suit.

In related news, Newsweek recently reported that an ultra-sensitive spit-based test could soon be available to detect HIV:

A super-sensitive, accurate spit-based test to detect HIV could be around the corner. Stanford researchers have developed a test that was 100 percent accurate in one study involving a handful of patients, according to findings published Monday in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences(PNAS). If these results are confirmed in much larger studies, the test’s proponents believe it could be an important tool in the fight to eradicate HIV.

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