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Slay TV’s SlayFest adds another avenue of access for black LGBTQ excellence

Slay TV’s SlayFest adds another avenue of access for black LGBTQ excellence

Photo Credit: Sean Torrington/Slay TV

In the heart of Downtown, Brooklyn, black queer creatives, scholars, academics, techies, thought leaders and all in between come together at the multi-venue destination, the Brooklyn Academy of Music (BAM). Slay TV‘s inaugural SlayFest called for the network’s target audience, and all those wishing to learn more about who we are, to learn, network and celebrate. 

BAM’s famous Fisher building housed hundreds in attendance for feature film screenings, short film screenings, panel discussions and even live performances. Some had never attended an event centered around black LGBTQ content, or had never participated in discussions about black queer-centric money and empowerment. Others left with heightened perspectives about health & wellness, and how it extends way beyond the physical and into the mind, body and spirit. Overall, expectations were exceeded, which for anyone would be a major accomplishment.

SlayFest 2018 is the brainchild of Slay TV Founder & CEO, Sean Torrington. His passion for media and dedication to his community is evident in his work. Though SlayFest turned out to be a big success, it is also no surprise that someone with this level of diligence can pull it off. Though he’s a born and raised Brooklyn native, Torrington grew up first generation in a Costa Rican household. His passion for film, TV and media overall was birthed from the urge to “create a world within a world”. Thankfully, the 37-year old genius, spoke to us about the love, blood, sweat and (possible) tears that went into the soon-to-be juggernaut that is SlayFest. 

Q: Explain Slay TV. What is it and, as a black queer individual, what needs would you say it addresses for your community?

SLAY TV is the premiere destination for black queer and trans entertainment. I often receive numerous emails and Instagram messages from queer/trans youth all over the world letting me know how much the​y​ appreciate what we are doing at SLAY TV. There was a teenager from Trinidad that said because ​of the​ content on SLAY TV, it gave him the courage to come out and be comfortable with who he truly is. That means everything to me. SLAY TV is an inclusive network where all black queer, trans and non-binary people can see ourselves represented in all forms of media, where our stories are relatable and are being created authentically with intention.

Q: Representation has become a cornerstone in the argument of inclusivity; being able to see ourselves in the media almost directly yields validating our identities. What does Slay TV bring to the table in terms of black LGBTQ representation? 

What we bring to the table is unapologetic, authentic and bold content that speaks directly to our experiences. For every web series, digital short or interview we film our intention is to bridge the gap between us and those outside our community that are unaware of what our human experience looks like. One of our original series, “Love At First Night” (created by Co-founder Terry Torrington) was created as a response to the lack of visibility of black, same gender-loving (SGL) men in media. We’ve gotten countless emails and messages of how seeing those images have changed their perspective on black queer love and it’s possibility. We’ve even gotten a message from a cisgender straight woman saying her and her boyfriend watched and it completely changed her boyfriend;s view about what our love and relationships look like. Our ultimate goal is to work with several black LGBTQ content creators to expand our programming, not just in volume but also to show the diversity within our community as well.

Q: Talk to me about SlayFest 2018. Big kickoff, a full day of quality presentation and content on display, and a seemingly successful turnout. How do you feel having pulled it off?

Wow, honestly it’s been an incredible journey manifesting this event. I originally wanted to have it in 2017 but we needed more time to plan. My vision was ambitious but I was determined to make it happen. We desperately needed a space to celebrate black queer and trans art, we also need a safe space in which we can celebrate and love on each other. My mission was create an inclusive, positive space for queer, trans and non-binary POC to express and embrace ourselves unapologetically. Seeing everyone along the black LGBTQ spectrum under one roof was amazing to me and I absolutely can’t wait for SLAYFEST 2019.
 
Q: Many don’t get to see what goes on behind the scenes. What were some of the logistics going into planning SlayFest? 

Finding the right venue was the first thing. We needed the right space that would accommodate everything we wanted to show during SLAYFEST. We’ve had several meetings, conference calls and walk through a to make sure everything we’re all on the same page and everything is coming together. The most important thing is making sure I had dope team by my side that wants to save the world as much as I do. Working with my  sister’s and SLAY Squad member’s Winstina Dakers and Twiggy Pucci Garcon, has been such an amazing experience, SLAYFEST would not be what it is today with out them.

Q: Do you have any personal highlights from the event?

You know, when I was 14, I used to pump up and down Christopher Street with all of my queer, gay, lesbian and trans friends, it was ki. As I got older, I realized that we all became separate and the community didn’t really support each other like I thought it did. There are trans women being murdered and very few people support or show concern about it. Also at times the women’s experiences are often ignored within the queer community, it’s crazy to me. It’s important to really build community and bridge the gap amongst everyone. So I would say my highlight was seeing so many beautiful black people from all walks of life enjoying one another in outfits that SLAYed. It’s about time we start to create culture together.

Q: Aside from it being OVAH, the event also had stellar timing. One of your biggest shows, Love at First Night, had a great promo plug-in for its third season and you even got some of the cast from FX’s hit series Pose at SlayFest right before the season finale. Was it all a glorious alignment of the stars or are you just that meticulous? 

I’m extremely meticulous, being a multi-media maker I have to be. However, I honestly do believe there is a glorious alignment of the stars because the universe has been conspiring in our favor. We’ve been creating since 2010 and all of the work has led us to this point. With any success people will assume it happened overnight or that someone is just “lucky” but I don’t believe in luck, I believe in working hard, having integrity, aligning myself with the right people and staying true to our intention.

Q: What is one takeaway you hope SlayFest 2018 attendees left with?

The takeaway I hope people left with is knowing that this is what we represent and that we’re going to continue to create experiences that are aimed to entertain, inform and inspire us. When we started out we said that we’re more than a platform, we’re a movement, we’re a culture and SLAYFEST is just the beginning of having that fully realized. We want people to look forward to coming to SLAYFEST for years to come, gathering their looks, coming through, showing out and being proud about their existence and sharing it with everyone else.

Q: There’s been a bit of buzz about next year’s event being “bigger and better”? Any details on future plans?

We’re already working on SLAYFEST 2019 and beyond. This will be a global event, of course we have to start in NYC but we will take SLAYFEST across the country and then across the seas. We want to be of service to all across the diaspora and become the go-to event. I’m excited and ready to make all of this a reality and keep moving in a positive direction. I’m on a mission to change the world with my amazing team and I’m happy it’s coming to light and fruition.

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August 1, 2018

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‘Where The Bears Are’ is Putting on a Pageant for its 7th and Final Season: TRAILER

‘Where The Bears Are’ is Putting on a Pageant for its 7th and Final Season: TRAILER
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The popular web series Where The Bears Are is returning for its seventh and final season in September and just dropped a very hairy trailer for the final installments of the comedy mystery serial, which take place around a bear beauty pageant in Palm Springs.

You’ll be able to check them out on September 10, HERE.

Actor Peter Paige (Queer As Folk, Say Uncle) is a guest star of the final season, for which much of the cast returns.

Said Ian Parks of the last episodes: “This is the final mystery….the 7th season of WTBA will be the last season of the show. This is it. I personally have a lot of mixed feelings about WTBA coming to an end, but I think I speak for everyone when I say this has been the ride of a lifetime, and we are all so thrilled and honored and grateful to have been able to do 7 years of this show. We did it all for you. We did it all BECAUSE of you…..thank you so much to all the fans and viewers who supported us, donated to our kickstarters, and helped make WTBA possible. I’m really excited for you to see how it all ends. Xoxo”

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Ricky Decker: Hey Fans!!!

Ricky Decker: Hey Fans!!!

As many of you may know…Im here for y’all! Never feel shy to ask me anything in my chat room! Hey its worth a shot lolI webcam for side cash, i run my own companionship business 24/7. Im always looking to make new contacts and meet with fans from all over, so keep me in mind…Life is quiet and lonely as a daily webcam model, I cant interact with anyone in person while camming, remember that lol I get pleasure out of chatting with you on my screen, who wants to just sit in silence?!

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It’s Time To Call It Quits on Your Toxic Relationships

It’s Time To Call It Quits on Your Toxic Relationships

We’ve all been there…that gloomy, stagnant, sometimes sad place inside our minds, where we feel irritated, unappreciated, and bored. Here’s how to navigate and walk away from the different types of relationships in your life that are turning you off. Photo by Dawid Zawiła on Unsplash The Crush Because you’ve only been on a couple dates with a […]

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It’s Time To Call It Quits on Your Toxic Relationships

Keiynan Lonsdale, 3-D Printed Guns, Tom Steyer, National Avocado Day, Tom Hardy, Alan Alda, Chris Evans: HOT LINKS

Keiynan Lonsdale, 3-D Printed Guns, Tom Steyer, National Avocado Day, Tom Hardy, Alan Alda, Chris Evans: HOT LINKS
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JULY 31. Ellen and her producer Andy celebrate National Avocado Day.

RUSSIA PROBE. Trump team preparing “counter-report” to battle Mueller findings: ‘Giuliani’s own team worked on its “counter-report,” which he said would be released after his team reviewed whatever Mueller filed with the Justice Department. It’s unclear whether the special counsel will file anything with the DOJ. Mueller’s office declined to comment on Giuliani’s comments.’

CHRIS CILIZZA. The ‘secret’ Trump and Giuliani know about the Mueller probe: “The debate over whether and how much Trump did wrong (if anything) is almost certain to be decided in the court of public opinion, not an actual court. And in the court of public opinion — particularly given the fealty that rank-and-file Republicans have shown (and continue to show) to Trump, the comparison is far more favorable to Trump’s side.”

3-D GUNS. Eight states file suit to try and stop downloadable blueprints: “The suit, filed Monday in Seattle, asks a judge to block the federal government’s late-June settlement with Defense Distributed, which allowed the company to make the plans available online. Officials say that 1,000 people have already downloaded blueprints for AR-15 rifles.”

2020. Billionaire Tom Steyer plans $110 million spend to reshape Democrats: “Steyer is building out an operation that’s bigger than anyone’s other than the Koch brothers’ — and the billionaire and his aides believe the reservoir of nontraditional voters he’s already activated could become the overriding factor in House and other races across the country.”

KELLYANNE CONJOB. Manafort trial has nothing to do with Trump campaign.

.@KellyannePolls: “This trial obviously centers on matters that have nothing to do with the campaign.” pic.twitter.com/H0inGwkCdZ

— Fox News (@FoxNews) July 31, 2018

WHAT HAPPENS IN VEGAS. Bros Chris and Scott Evans checked into the luxurious penthouse in the Octavius Tower at Caesars Palace.

ALAN ALDA. I have Parkinson’s disease.

“I asked for a scan because I thought I may have it… I didn’t have any symptoms,” Actor @AlanAlda says after revealing he has Parkinson’s disease t.co/bQ3NPrawsy pic.twitter.com/28Bc2QMW16

— CBS This Morning (@CBSThisMorning) July 31, 2018

JERUSALEM. Chief rabbi asks mayor to remove gay pride flags from parade route: ‘Chief Rabbi of Jerusalem Rabbi Aryeh Stern has sent a letter to Mayor of Jerusalem Nir Barkat asking him to take down the gay pride flags situated outside two synagogues where the Jerusalem Pride Parade is slated to pass on Thursday. In his letter on Tuesday to Barkat, the rabbi said that he was again “greatly saddened” that the event “with which the spirit of wise men is not comfortable” was taking place at all, and asked that the gay pride flags lining the streets on the parade’s route outside the Great Synagogue and the Yeshurun synagogue be taken down. ‘

TRAILER OF THE DAY. Tom Hardy in Venom.

TOO HOT FOR TUESDAY. Keiynan Lonsdale and Zak Frio, vacationing together in Joshua Tree.

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Facebook Shuts Down Dozens of Pages and Accounts Created to Interfere in 2018 Midterms

Facebook Shuts Down Dozens of Pages and Accounts Created to Interfere in 2018 Midterms

Facebook said it shut down more than two dozen accounts and pages it said were created to interfere in the 2018 midterm elections.

The NYT reports: “In a series of briefings on Capitol Hill this week, the company told lawmakers that it detected the influence campaign on Facebook and Instagram as part of its investigations into election interference. It has been unable to tie the accounts to Russia, whose Internet Research Agency was at the center of an indictment earlier this year for interfering in the 2016 election, but company officials told Capitol Hill that Russia was possibly involved, according to two of the officials.”

Politico adds: ‘More than 290,000 Facebook users followed the now-shuttered pages, which were created between March 2017 and May 2018. The most followed – titled “Aztlan Warriors,” “Black Elevation,” and “Mindful Being” – reached more than 290,000 users. The topics also included the hashtag #AbolishICE, a popular new rallying cry on the left following outrage over the Trump administration’s separation of immigrant families along the Mexican border. The accounts also ran about 150 ads on Facebook and Instagram, at a cost of $11,000 paid in U.S. dollars.’

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Trans Women Aren’t Women According to Michigan Appeals Court Ruling for Ejected Planet Fitness Member

Trans Women Aren’t Women According to Michigan Appeals Court Ruling for Ejected Planet Fitness Member

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A Michigan appeals court issued a transphobic ruling for an ejected member of a Planet Fitness gym who sued in 2015 after her membership was revoked because she complained about a transgender woman (whom she described as a “man”) in the locker room. The ruling calls transgender womenmen who identify as women.”

Yvette Cormier, who had her Planet Fitness membership revoked after making waves about trans woman Carlotta Sklodowska using the women’s locker room, sued the fitness chain for more than $25,000.

After Cormier complained to local staff in Michigan and escalated her concerns with corporate offices, Planet Fitness enacted its “Judgement Free Zone” policy and cancelled Cormier’s membership.

A press release detailing the lawsuit read in part:

“Ms. Cormier was wrongfully denied the benefits of her contract with Planet Fitness and wrongfully denied the use of the public accommodations at Defendant’s gym because she objected to Defendant’s unknown policy.

“Mrs. Cormier has filed this lawsuit to protect Michigan women and children and to hold Planet Fitness accountable for its irresponsible policy and actions. This case further illustrates the potential harm caused by adding the proposed new categories of sexual orientation/gender identity to the Elliott-Larsen Civil Rights Act.”

Elliott-Larsen prohibits discrimination based on race, age, sex, religion and more, but does not offer protections based on sexual orientation.

Cormier’s complaint listed the alleged damages she suffered as “loss of use of gym facilities,” “fear about using the gym facilities,” “embarrassment and humiliation,” “severe emotional distress” and “damage to reputation.”

It claimed Cormier’s rights were violated in seven counts including breach of contract, an exemplary damages claim, invasion of privacy, intentional infliction of emotional distress and three counts of sexual harassment under Elliott-Larsen.

According to the summons and complaint, she suffered “aggravation, annoyance, discomfort, disgrace, feelings of oppression, humiliation, inconvenience, indignation, insult, mental anxiety, mental suffering, mortification, outrage, scorn, shame, sorrow, vexation, and worry.”

Think Progress reports:

A Michigan lower court ruled against her and last year, a state court of appeals agreed that she suffered no intrusion of privacy.

But in April, the Michigan Supreme Court revived the case and sent it back to the appellate court to examine a legal question it hadn’t initially considered. And this time, the panel found that Planet Fitness violated its own contract with Cormier, but the ruling requires a foundation of transphobia.

Cormier alleged that Planet Fitness misrepresented the nature of its contract when it said that she would have access to a private women’s locker room but did not disclose that so, too, would “men who self-identity as women.” (The court conspicuously refuses to use the word “transgender” and repeatedly refers to transgender women with this phrase.) This inclusive policy would have affected her decision to purchase a membership and thus is relevant to her claim that Planet Fitness engaged in deceptive business practices.

“Plaintiff’s actions indicate that she strongly preferred a locker room and a restroom in which individuals who are assigned biologically male are not present,” the court wrote, “and it is thus reasonable to infer that defendants’ failure to inform plaintiff of the unwritten policy affected her decision to join the gym.”

The decision says that Cormier has a right to sue and sends it back to a lower court.

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Trump Calls Conservative Billionaire Activist Koch Brothers a ‘Total Joke,’ Taps 3D Guns, Limbaugh, Collusion in Tuesday Tweetstorm

Trump Calls Conservative Billionaire Activist Koch Brothers a ‘Total Joke,’ Taps 3D Guns, Limbaugh, Collusion in Tuesday Tweetstorm
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Donald Trump attacked the billionaire conservative activist donors Charles and David Koch in a Tuesday morning tweetstorm in which he also questioned a government settlement with a company that will allow for the distribution of blueprints for 3-D printed AR-15 rifles.

Tweeted Trump: “The globalist Koch Brothers, who have become a total joke in real Republican circles, are against Strong Borders and Powerful Trade. I never sought their support because I don’t need their money or bad ideas. They love my Tax & Regulation Cuts, Judicial picks & more. I made………them richer. Their network is highly overrated, I have beaten them at every turn. They want to protect their companies outside the U.S. from being taxed, I’m for America First & the American Worker – a puppet for no one. Two nice guys with bad ideas. Make America Great Again!

The globalist Koch Brothers, who have become a total joke in real Republican circles, are against Strong Borders and Powerful Trade. I never sought their support because I don’t need their money or bad ideas. They love my Tax & Regulation Cuts, Judicial picks & more. I made…..

— Donald J. Trump (@realDonaldTrump) July 31, 2018

….them richer. Their network is highly overrated, I have beaten them at every turn. They want to protect their companies outside the U.S. from being taxed, I’m for America First & the American Worker – a puppet for no one. Two nice guys with bad ideas. Make America Great Again!

— Donald J. Trump (@realDonaldTrump) July 31, 2018

In another tweet, Trump said: “I am looking into 3-D Plastic Guns being sold to the public. Already spoke to NRA, doesn’t seem to make much sense!”

I am looking into 3-D Plastic Guns being sold to the public. Already spoke to NRA, doesn’t seem to make much sense!

— Donald J. Trump (@realDonaldTrump) July 31, 2018

And it wouldn’t be a tweetstorm without this:  “Collusion is not a crime, but that doesn’t matter because there was No Collusion (except by Crooked Hillary and the Democrats)!”

Collusion is not a crime, but that doesn’t matter because there was No Collusion (except by Crooked Hillary and the Democrats)!

— Donald J. Trump (@realDonaldTrump) July 31, 2018

And this gemstone: “Rush Limbaugh is a great guy who truly gets it!”

Rush Limbaugh is a great guy who truly gets it!

— Donald J. Trump (@realDonaldTrump) July 31, 2018

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