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5 Must-See Highlights of Tokyo, Japan for Gay Travelers

5 Must-See Highlights of Tokyo, Japan for Gay Travelers
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Must see highlights of Tokyo

Japan’s capital city is a buzzing, exciting metropolis, which is a must for gay travelers to Japan.

There are plenty of fun things to do, including the gay scene of Shinjuku and more. With the Olympic Games 2020 just around the corner, Tokyo is in our opinion becoming a more popular destination for gay travelers in Asia than ever before.

These are our top 5 must-see highlights in Tokyo you should check out during your travels in Japan:

#1 The gay scene of Shinjuku Ni-Chōme

The gay scene of Tokyo is based around several blocks in the Shinjuku Ni-Chōme district. This area is notorious for having the world’s highest concentration of gay bars with over 300 crammed together. Most of these gay bars are really small, squeezed into unremarkable blocks that look apartment blocks, like the Usagi Bar.

Some the most famous ones gay bars and clubs in Tokyo include Arty Farty, The Annex, Campy!, Dragon Men and AiiRo.

Find out more in our gay guide to Tokyo, including the best gay bars, clubs, events, hotels to stay and more.

Gay bars in Tokyo

Arty Farty gay bar in Tokyo

#2 Eating fresh sushi at the Tsukiji market

Tsukiji is the world’s largest fish market with some of the most lucrative ever fish auctions taking place here. For example, in January 2012, a bluefin tuna sold for 56.4 million yen ($510,200)!

The fish auctions at Tsukiji fish market take place around 5 a.m., but if you turn up just before it shuts at around midday, you can instead try fresh sushi in one the many nearby restaurants, which we highly recommend. This is after all the birth place of sushi, so where better to try it out first hand.

The current location of the Tsukiji market near the upscale Ginza shopping has been moved because of the Tokyo 2020 Olympics, so now it is located at a former gas plant in Toyosu. Read more in our favorite unique foodie experiences in Tokyo.

Sushi in Tokyo

Freshly made sushi from the Tsukiji fish market in Tokyo

#3 Transform into a beautiful geisha

If you’ve also watched “Memoirs of a Geisha” and were inspired to find out more about this elusive culture, we recommend spending a day at the Studio Geisha Cafe in Tokyo and dressing up as one. This is the best way to learn more about it as every facet of the dress up is enriched with history and culture. For example, the heavy white make up is because it was the only way to highlight the geisha’s face in poorly lit rooms in the days before electricity was invented.

Also note, the first geisha were in fact male. They were male advisors and also entertainers to their feudal lords back in the 1200s. They were also tea connoisseurs, artists and gifted story tellers. The first female geisha didn’t appear until the mid 1700s, but grew quickly in popularity that they soon outnumbered the male geisha.

Dressing up as a geisha was certainly the experience of a lifetime and one of the most unique things you can do in Tokyo. See more from our geisha transformation in Tokyo in our time-lapse video:

#4 The Shibuya pedestrian crossing

One of the first impressions of Tokyo you’ll likely have is how busy it is. Remember this is the world’s largest metropolitan area by population with almost 40 million (that’s double the 20 million in the New York metropolitan area).

The metro during rush hour gets so crazy that special railway station attendants called oshiya (literally means “pushers”) are employed whose job is to push the crowds into the packed carriage during rush hour so that the doors can then close!

A better way to experience all the people traffic without navigating the stressful Tokyo metro rush hour is at the pedestrian intersection outside Shibuya Station. We recommend going to the Starbucks overlooking it, located on a second view, then watch as when the car traffic signs turn red, an invasion of bodies takes over the entire area.

Best things to do in Tokyo Shibuya crossing

People people everywhere at the Shibuya pedestrian crossing in Tokyo

#5 Slurping up a freshly made bowl of ramen

Ramen is a bowl of fresh noodles served in a rich broth, topped with meat, boiled egg, dried seaweed and spring onions. The broth has been prepared before serving, sometimes taking hours or even days to prepare.

There are ramen bars all over Tokyo where you can order this tasty Japanese comfort food. It’s also very inexpensive, costing around $5 for a bowl.

Be warned though, slurping your noodles in Tokyo is common and not considered rude at all. Whereas for us we’re taught never to slurp your soup or spaghetti at the table, in Japan, the opposite applies, and it’s a positive sign to the chef that you’re enjoying your meal!

Ramen our favourite food in Tokyo

Freshly made ramen in Tokyo

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5 Must-See Highlights of Tokyo, Japan for Gay Travelers

HRC Announces Slate of Pro-Equality Candidate Endorsements in Massachusetts

HRC Announces Slate of Pro-Equality Candidate Endorsements in Massachusetts

Today HRC announced its endorsement of a number of pro-equality candidates in Massachusetts, including U.S. Senator Elizabeth Warren, Massachusetts Attorney General Maura Healey, U.S. Representatives Richard E. Neal (D-MA-1), James P. McGovern (D-MA-2), Joseph Kennedy (D-MA-4), Katherine M. Clark (D-MA-5), Seth Moulton (D-MA-6), Michael E. Capuano (D-MA-7), Stephen F. Lynch (D-MA-8), and Bill Keating (D-MA-9). As part of the Freedom for All Massachusetts coalition, HRC is also working to turn out millions of pro-equality voters to uphold the Commonwealth’s transgender non-discrimination law at the ballot in November.

“We are proud to endorse Senator Elizabeth Warren and these leaders in Massachusetts who are standing up for fairness and equality,” said JoDee Winterhof, HRC Senior Vice President for Policy and Political Affairs. “For nearly two years, Donald Trump and Mike Pence have launched relentless attacks on the LGBTQ community. HRC is working harder than ever to ensure we elect leaders up and down the ballot who will hold this administration accountable. From upholding Massachusetts’ non-discrimination law protecting transgender people, to ensuring we have a majority in Congress able to pull the emergency brake on the Trump-Pence agenda, it’s absolutely crucial that fair-minded Bay Staters turn out to vote this November.”

HRC has worked closely with Senator Warren and Representatives Neal, McGovern, Kennedy, Clark, Moulton, Capuano, Lynch, and Keating for years in Congress. Each Member of Congress has earned high scores on the HRC Congressional Scorecard — a key tool measuring their support for LGBTQ equality. Attorney General Healey has been a vocal supporter of legislation to prohibit discrimination on the basis of gender identity in public accommodations and has also been a leader in suing the federal government over discriminatory Trump-Pence administration policies, including the transgender military ban, contraceptive regulations, and the Muslim ban.

HRC is also working to ensure Bay Staters turn out to vote “yes on 3” to uphold the Commonwealth’s non-discrimination law protecting transgender people from discrimination in public spaces, such as restaurants, stores, and doctors’ offices. In 2016, the Massachusetts legislature passed – with a bipartisan, supermajority vote – the historic non-discrimination protections for transgender people, and Republican Governor Charlie Baker signed the bill into law in July 2016. Shortly after it went into effect in October 2016, a small group of opponents gathered the minimum number of signatures required to place the law on the ballot for repeal this November. A “yes” vote on Question 3 keeps the current law in place.

In Massachusetts, HRC has identified more than 2.1 million voters as likely “Equality Voters,” meaning they are strong supporters of progressive LGBTQ policies including marriage equality, equitable family law, and laws that prohibit discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation or gender identity. Last year, HRC announced a coast-to-coast campaign to mobilize voters for the midterm elections called HRC Rising, which represents the largest grassroots expansion in the organization’s 38-year history.

 

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Variety profiles Nick Adams, GLAAD’s Director of Transgender Media & Representation

Variety profiles Nick Adams, GLAAD’s Director of Transgender Media & Representation

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This year, Nick Adams, GLAAD’s Director of Transgender Media & Representation, is celebrating 20 remarkably accomplished years with the organization. In a number of different roles, Nick has amplified trans voices in the media through working with journalists, consulting and training Hollywood executives and creators, and providing media training to trans people who want to tell their stories. As part of Variety‘s Transgender Hollywood issue, the magazine published an article looking back at Nick’s career at GLAAD.

Early in his career with GLAAD, Nick wrote the first transgender section of GLAAD’s Media Reference Guide which lays out best practices for respectfully and accurately writing about transgender people. In the early 2000s, Nick and GLAAD advocated for the Associated Press to bring its Style Guide more into alignment with GLAAD’s Media Reference Guide. The 1998 edition of the AP Style Guide did not have an entry for transgender; it said “transsexuals – see sex changes.” That entry told reporters to change a person’s “proper name and pronoun” based on whether the action was “before the operation” or “after the operation.” In the 2000 edition of the Style Guide, reporters were instructed to use the name and pronoun preferred by trans people, and if that preference was not expressed, to “use the pronoun consistent with the way the individuals live publicly.” This change provided trans advocates around the country ammunition when confronting media outlets which misgendered a trans person victimized by violence. It also set a precedent for reporting on trans people nationwide, as news publications often follow the AP’s lead in creating their own style guides.

Nick’s influence has also been felt through his role in helping a number of trans people navigate their transition in the public eye. In 2009, he worked closely with Chaz Bono as he announced his transition, and then later as he prepared to tell his story in media outlets across the country. When Chaz joined Dancing with the Stars, GLAAD launched a #ProBono campaign, urging viewers to support him, and criticized Fox News for attacking his participation on the show. Nick’s skills were needed again in 2015, when ABC reached out to GLAAD while researching and reporting on their interview with Caitlyn Jenner. ABC News used GLAAD’s Media Reference Guide, along with quotes from GLAAD staff, in materials created for their website to accompany the interview. GLAAD also created and distributed a tip sheet to thousands of journalists around the country with information on how to report on Caitlyn’s story accurately and respectfully. Nick watched the Diane Sawyer interview at E!, went live on E! News to discuss, and worked closely with the network before and during the run of I Am Cait.

In 2016, Nick began working with Zeke Smith and CBS in preparation for an episode of Survivor: Game Changers in which Smith was outed as trans by another player. It was important to Smith that he was given the opportunity to share his story, in his own words, and to counter the accusation that trans people are deceptive if they don’t immediately reveal their gender history. Media coverage of Smith’s story was one of the few high-profile media moments to focus on a transgender man.

Nick has conducted trainings on how to fairly and accurately portray transgender people to executives at NBC, FOX, CBS, Viacom, MSNBC, E!, Bravo, Oxygen, and other networks. He has worked with dozens of TV shows, providing story consultation, script feedback, and casting advice to help them create more multi-dimensional trans characters. In 2010, he worked with Nickelodeon’s Degrassi: The Next Generation as they introduced Adam, the first teenage transgender character on TV. The episode introducing Adam, entitled “My Body Is A Cage,” received a Peabody Award and an Emmy Award nomination for the show. In 2014, Fox’s Glee reached out to GLAAD to help create a transgender choir for a pivotal scene related to Coach Beiste’s decision to transition. By getting the word out, GLAAD brought 200 transgender people from around the country to be perform in the choir, and Nick was on set to oversee filming. Many of the trans people in the choir said they had never before had the opportunity to be in the same room with that many other trans people. In 2015, Nick worked with CBS’ The Bold and The Beautiful as the popular daily drama told the epic story of Maya Avant, a trans woman who chose to disclose her gender history to her fiance. The story culminated in Maya and Rick’s wedding, officiated by out trans actor Scott Turner Schofield.

Nick’s work is not always with scripted entertainment. Nick worked with the Girl Scouts to help the organization craft a trans-inclusive policy, contributing to their 2015 decision to welcome transgender girls. He worked with The Sims to help them update the game to allow for more gender diverse avatars. And consulted with Tinder for over six months as they created and launched a trans-inclusive update for the app. In 2016, Nick was invited to speak at the Annenberg Space for Photography in conjunction with the premiere of an exhibit of photos by Timothy Greenfield-Sanders taken for the HBO documentary The Trans List.

Recently, he has collaborated with Casting Society of America to create and promote an international open call for trans actors, and worked with Breakdown Services to both improve the way character breakdowns are written for trans roles and create a search functionality that allows casting directors for search for transgender actors in the database.

This spring, he collaborated with Netflix on the #FirstTimeISawMe campaign, which brought together Jamie Clayton, Elliot Fletcher, Jazz Jennings, Laura Jane Grace, Tiq Milan, and Meredith Talusan to share stories of the first time they saw authentic trans representation in the media. Nick also met with NBA player Reggie Bullock to help him share the story of his transgender sister Mia Henderson, who was murdered in 2014, and work with him to use his platform to bring attention to the level of violence trans women face. 

Nick was most recently involved in Variety‘s special “Trans Hollywood” issue, for which he helped organized a roundtable of transgender Hollywood talent, and co-created an Open Letter to Hollywood and the TRANSform Hollywood guide, which includes tips for better trans storytelling and creating a trans-inclusive culture throughout the industry. The Open Letter was signed by over 45 agencies, production companies, and organizations in Hollywood, including TIME’S UP, Ryan Murphy Productions, SAG AFTRA, ACLU, Ava DuVernay’s ARRAY Alliance, Shondaland, Apatow Productions, Berlanti Productions, Endeavor Content, Bad Robot, Topple, CAA, ICM, UTA, WME, Sundance Institute, Casting Society of America, and more.

Nick’s years of service and devotion to improving trans narratives, lives, and representation in American media has revolutionized the media landscape by creating a more accepting, diverse, and inclusive environment. We at GLAAD thank him for his phenomenal work and congratulate him on 20 illustrious years.

August 7, 2018

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Drop the Three Day Rule Once and For All

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The Three Day Rule An outdated piece of dating advice where singles are told to wait three days before contacting someone they’ve met online/offline, to avoid appearing too interested or desperate. “But if you like someone, don’t you want to show them you’re interested?” That’s a great question and one that I respond to with […]

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#AM_Equality Tipsheet: August 07, 2018

#AM_Equality Tipsheet: August 07, 2018

WHERE ARE THE RECORDS? NEW HRC REPORT DETAILS THREAT TRUMP’S SCOTUS PICK POSES TO MILLIONS OF LGBTQ AMERICANS: HRC is urging the Senate Judiciary Committee not to advance Kavanaugh’s nomination without a full review of his record and time in the White House — and urging the full Senate to reject his nomination on the basis of his anti-LGBTQ record and other concerning decisions. The years of 2001 to 2006, when Kavanaugh served in the Bush White House, was an consequential period for the LGBTQ rights and marriage equality movement. Yet, with these records cloaked from public review, we know troublingly little about Kavanaugh’s position or role in these matters. More from HRC.

REP. KATHLEEN RICE (D-NY) RE-INTRODUCES TSA “SCREENING WITH DIGNITY” ACT TO PROTECT TRANS AND GENDER NON-CONFORMING PEOPLE: Sarah McBride (@SarahEMcBride), HRC national press secretary, said of the bill: “Transgender people should not have to face constant fear of discrimination as we go about our lives, especially in vulnerable spaces like security screenings at the airport. HRC thanks Rep. Kathleen Rice for re-introducing the ‘Screening With Dignity’ Act today and for standing for the safety and dignity of trans and gender non-conforming people.” Get the exclusive from Mary Emily O’Hara (@MaryEmilyOHara) at them.

The transgender community deserves to be treated with fairness and respect in all aspects of life, including travel. Maintaining high safety standards and screening all passengers with dignity should not be mutually exclusive. #ScreeningwithDignityAct t.co/F80U9kcC6B

— Kathleen Rice (@RepKathleenRice) August 6, 2018

TUESDAY TWEET — TODAY IS OHIO’S SPECIAL ELECTION, TIME TO #TurnOUT FOR DANNY O’CONNOR: In Ohio, HRC has identified more than 1.8 million “Equality Voters” — voters who support LGBTQ-inclusive policies including marriage equality, equitable family law, and laws that would prohibit discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation or gender identity. More from HRC.

OHIOANS: #OH12’s special election is TOMORROW! #TurnOUT and vote ��️ on or before Aug. 7 for pro-equality champion @DannyOConnor1 who will fight for Ohio’s working families and combat discrimination. ✊ #OHPol pic.twitter.com/pNE4CXiXev

— Human Rights Campaign (@HRC) August 6, 2018

PENNSYLVANIA GOV. TOM WOLF SIGNS EXECUTIVE ORDER CREATING STATE COMMISSION ON LGBTQ AFFAIRS: It is the only commission of its kind in the nation. HRC has endorsed Governor Wolf in his re-election campaign.

.@GovernorTomWolf‘s bold actions reflect what @HRC already knows about him:
��️‍�� Governor Tom Wolf is a champion for the #LGBTQ community. ��️‍��@HRC is so proud to endorse @WolfForPA.t.co/gg8WeRba7l t.co/4cPYnbeeXr

— HRC in Pennsylvania (@HRC_PA) August 6, 2018

U.S. COURT RULES — ONCE AGAIN — THAT TRUMP CANNOT ENFORCE UNCONSTITUTIONAL TRANS TROOPS BAN: Despite a year long string of court victories for transgender troops and recruits, the Trump-Pence administration continues their crusade to force their extreme anti-LGBTQ agenda on the U.S. military. This is the eighth federal court to bar the Trump-Pence Administration from implementing the ban. More from Reuters.

HRC ENDORSES RECORD 13 PRO-EQUALITY CANDIDATES IN NEVADA STATE LEGISLATURE: “As we face ongoing attacks at the federal level and the threat of anti-LGBTQ extremist Adam Laxalt in the governor’s office, investing in races up and down the ballot and defending our pro-equality majority in the Legislature has never been more important,” said HRC Nevada State Director Briana Escamilla (@escamillabriana). More from HRC.

GAY COLLEGE STUDENT MURDERED IN CALIFORNIA IN SUSPECTED HATE CRIME: Samuel Woodward has been charged with a hate crime sentencing enhancement for the murder of 19-year-old University of Pennsylvania student Blaze Bernstein. Bernstein’s body was found in a shallow grave near his parent’s California home. Woodward was a high school classmate of the victim. More from USA Today.

BIDEN FOUNDATION LAUNCHES ‘AS YOU ARE’ CAMPAIGN FOR LGBTQ YOUTH:

LGBTQ young people should never have to face rejection from those who love them. Share your story with @bidenfoundation about the importance of family acceptance, because we all deserve to be safe, loved, and affirmed. #AsYouAre t.co/FKAz3mirQO pic.twitter.com/fMWz2SUoiL

— Joe Biden (@JoeBiden) August 7, 2018

ICYMI — NEW HRC REPORT ON LOOPHOLES THAT ENABLE DISCRIMINATION BASED ON ‘MISPERCEPTIONS’: Discrimination Based on Perceived Characteristics, outlines how, in many jurisdictions, loopholes allow employees to be discriminated against if their harasser or employer has targeted them based on an incorrect assumption about their race, religion or other characteristic. More from LGBTQ Nation.

GLOBAL EQUALITY NEWS

“WORST ATTACK AGAINST LGBTQ ARMENIANS IN MEMORY”: Nine activists targeted. More from Advocate.

TRINIDAD AND TOBAGO HOLDS ITS FIRST EVER LGBTQ PRIDE PARADE: More from Caribbean Life.

OPENLY GAY IRISH PRIME MINISTER LEO VARADKAR SAYS HE’LL BRING UP LGBTQ EQUALITY IN CONVERSATION WITH THE POPE: Pope Francis is scheduled to visit Ireland later this month. More from Pink News.

LGBTQ POLITICAL PARTY FORMS IN ISRAEL: More from The Jerusalem Post.

JAPANESE LGBTQ ADVOCATES CALL FOR RESIGNATION OF EXTREMIST LAWMAKER MIO SUGITA: Sugita recently went on a tirade against the LGBTQ community. More from The Mainichi.

NEW ZEALAND MAN BECOMES FIRST OPENLY GAY ANGLICAN PRIEST: More from Radio NZ.

HEARTBREAKING PHOTOGRAPHY SERIES HIGHLIGHTS FAMILY REJECTION OF LGBTQ BRAZILIANS: More from BBC.

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Pink News reports that a radical anti-marriage equality group is encouraging members to boycott Britney Spears; Gay Star News shares that transgender athletes will be able to compete according to their gender identity at the 2018 CrossFit Games; WESA visits a Pennsylvania summit on LGBTQ elders; HRC joined celebs and Broadway stars to rally against the Trump-Pence administration

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