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Scripps Spelling Bee, Rachel Maddow, Kim Jong Un, Debbie Harry, Eagle Creek Saloon, Yvie Oddly, Billy Porter: HOT LINKS

Scripps Spelling Bee, Rachel Maddow, Kim Jong Un, Debbie Harry, Eagle Creek Saloon, Yvie Oddly, Billy Porter: HOT LINKS

48 AND COUNTING. Democrats calling for impeachment.

CHICAGO. Police have begun to release Jussie Smollett’s case files.

POORLY CONCEIVED. NYT bans journalists from “partisan” shows: ‘It’s not just Maddow. The Times has come to “prefer,” as sources put it, that its reporters steer clear of any cable-news shows that the masthead perceives as too partisan, and managers have lately been advising people not to go on what they see as highly opinionated programs. It’s not clear how many shows fall under that umbrella in the eyes of Times brass, but two others that definitely do are Lawrence O’Donnell’s and Don Lemon’s, according to people familiar with management’s thinking. Hannity’s or Tucker Carlson’s shows would likewise make the cut, but it’s not like Times reporters ever do those anyway. ‘

RIP. Gay Kenyan writer Binyavanga Wainaina remembered: “How I would like people to remember Binyavanga? I think would be encapsulated by just a very brief thought – Ken’s life was a seed and he planted that seed not for himself but for others, just listening to the number of artists who found their voice because Ken believed in them, gave them a platform, to speak in many different fields, be it musically and other types of artistic impressions, and that’s how I would like him to be remembered, and that is what life is about.”

PROGRESS BAR. Chicago gay bar faces backlash after announcing rap music is banned. “This is f—ing racist as f—,” one person wrote on Twitter. “Progress is frequented by [people of color] and banning rap is basically saying ‘f— you’ to these patrons.”

NORTH KOREA. Diplomat reportedly executed after failure of summit between Kim Jong Un and Trump. “Kim Hyok-chol was investigated and executed at Mirim airport with four foreign ministry officials in March,” an unnamed North Korea source said, according to the newspaper, adding that they were charged with spying for the US.

SCRIPPS. National Spelling Bee ends in historic 8-way tie. ‘Texas seventh-grader Rohan Raja became the eighth and final winner of the National Spelling Bee’s 92nd annual competition on Thursday after a correct recital of the word “odylic”, earning a wild round of applause from the audience.

EAGLE CREEK SALOON. Art piece remembers San Francisco’s first black-owned gay bar: ‘The original Eagle Creek Saloon didn’t look anything like the new one. When Barnette took over the bar, he knocked down a good chunk of the front wall and replaced it with a big picture window to let the light in. The bar itself was made of dark wood and so were the floors. The ceilings were high. There was a neon sign there, too — “Eagle Creek Saloon” — but it wasn’t pink like the one his daughter had installed in this art exhibit.’

Don’t miss our final events at The New Eagle Creek Saloon! Friday, May 17 and Saturday, June 1st t.co/fznSu6ynVT pic.twitter.com/A34qhW1Q36

— The Lab (@TheLabSF) May 16, 2019

JERUSALEM. First openly gay Orthodox rabbi ordained: “Daniel Landes, a prominent American-Israeli rabbi, granted semichah, Hebrew for ordination, to Daniel Atwood alongside a mixed group of men and women at the Jerusalem Theater on Sunday evening during a ceremony attended by more than 200 guests. Atwood was informed earlier this year that he would not be ordained after completing his studies at New York’s Yeshivat Chovevei Torah despite the school previously saying it would ordain him.”

FACE IT. Debbie Harry has a new autobiography coming out.

ON THE RAG. This week on the gay magazines.

NEW YORK. State weighs ban on gay and trans panic defenses: ‘New York could become just the fifth state in the union to ban gay and trans panic defenses in court if legislation in Albany becomes law by the end of June. But as so often occurs, what would seem like legislation set to sail to easy passage in a state like New York may be undone by the typical bickering and dysfunction that define the Albany process.’

EUROPE. Where it stands on gay marriage and civil unions.

BILLY PORTER. Advice for his 16-year-old self. “Extract yourself from the people who don’t know how to love you. Extract yourself from anything that’s toxic. Change the narrative of, ‘I need the love of people, my mother, my father, my family to exist on the planet’. No! “

CHICAGO. City gets rainbow crosswalks.

Chicago’s gay community honors the 50th anniversary of the Stonewall riots by unveiling rainbow crosswalks in Boystown. t.co/EcoheEeUke

— Chicago Sun-Times (@Suntimes) May 30, 2019

MUSIC VIDEO OF THE DAY. Yvie Oddly “Dolla Store”.

NEW TUNE OF THE DAY. Gucci Mane feat. Justin Bieber “Love Thru The Computer”.

TEASER OF THE DAY. Disney/Pixar’s Onward.

LYRIC VIDEO OF THE DAY. Tove Lo “Glad He’s Gone”.

FRIDAY FLASH. Will.

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Congratulations to Adele and Larry from Canada!

Congratulations to Adele and Larry from Canada!

The heart that loves is always young. Adele feels young at heart. She writes: “Larry and I connected on Zoosk with a shared interest in our dogs. I was 45 minutes late to our first date, but he waited for me and the restaurant even remained open a full hour longer than usual to allow

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Introducing Super Boost

Introducing Super Boost

Introducing Super Boost

We get it, nobody likes lines. That’s why we’re giving Tinder Gold and Plus subscribers the chance to purchase an upgrade that helps them cut to the front and be seen by up to 100x more potential matches. Yep, you read that correctly: up. to. one. hundred. times. more. views. Get ready for Super Boost.

We understand that, at times, it could be easy to feel like you’re a small fish in a large pond of perfected selfies and Bali vacation pics. With Super Boost’s powers, which are borderline supernatural, you’ll have the spotlight on you during peak times — when Tinder activity is on fire.

With Super Boost, you won’t have to worry if that cutie who also actually liked the GoT finale even saw your profile. More visibility means more potential matches. That’s right — Super Boost is the ultimate Tinder hack.

Introducing Super Boost

So, how are you going to keep track of all those messages you’re getting thanks to Super Boost? Don’t worry, we’re two steps ahead of you. By unlocking Read Receipts, all users can stay in the know about who’s not yet read that original pickup line, or who needs a little more time to craft the perfect response. But if you prefer to maintain your air of mystery, you can choose not to share your own Read Receipts in your Settings.

As you can see, we’ve been hard at work creating ways for you to live your best Tinder life. Now go on and Super Boost your way to the top.

These upgrades will begin testing in select markets soon.

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How to Break Through Your Mid-Relationship Slump in 7 Easy Steps

How to Break Through Your Mid-Relationship Slump in 7 Easy Steps

As much as we’d like them to be, our relationships are never perfect. We all thrive in the honeymoon phase, experiencing that head-over-heels puppy dog love we see in movies, but it eventually comes to an end and we get into the real stuff. If you’ve been with your partner for a year or more, […]

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This storm chasing meteorologist proposed to his boyfriend in front of a tornado

This storm chasing meteorologist proposed to his boyfriend in front of a tornado

Joey Krastel, 27, journeyed with his boyfriend Chris Scott, 23, storm chasing
Joey Krastel and Chris Scott

A meteorologist from Maryland proposed to his boyfriend as a tornado twirled. Because, well, what could be a more romantic and dramatic backdrop?

On May 28, Joey Krastel, 27, journeyed with his boyfriend Chris Scott, 23, and some friends on a “storm chasing” trip in Kansas, where they were following weather reports that conditions were ripe for producing those sexy funnels. Unbeknownst to the group, Krastel was packing a surprise in his twister-tracking gear: an engagement ring.

Krastel and Scott met online, where they chatted about their mutual fascination with seeing big storms up close. After they met in person, the duo started taking their exhilarating (and dangerous) storm chasing trips together. As Krastel told NBC News: “It was always in the back of my mind to get engaged during storm chasing…I felt like it would be this perfect way to seal the deal.”

It took a while to find the right storm, however. Krastel gathered his group in Dallas, where they began in a car chasing stormy weather through Oklahoma to New Mexico. Without any tornadoes spotted that day, they then turned back east and drove to Kansas, where storm fronts teased with impressive clouds. And then along happened that Tipton tornado, spinning in the middle of a field, close enough to see but far enough to not get blown away to Oz.

It was the perfect storm, forgive the pun, for the big moment.

“It all just kind of came together and happened so quickly,” Krastel said. “I was like ‘OK, this is it.’”

One of Krastel’s friends snapped the photo of the proposal, which Krastel posted on his Twitter account with the caption “The 2 loves of my life.”

The 2 loves of my life pic.twitter.com/Cv4eviechZ

— Joey Krastel (@NimbusStorms) May 29, 2019

Storm chasers have been swarming all over the Great Plains, where wild weather patterns have produced approximately 10 tornadoes a day every day for almost two weeks. Just an hour after Krastel’s friend took this photo, an EF4 tornado (the Enhanced Fujita scale has a maximum rating of five), with a cone that was a mile wide and winds blowing at 170 miles per hour, blasted through the town of Linwood, where it literally tore houses from their foundations and blew them to smithereens.

Linwood residents had enough warning to retreat to their storm shelters and basements (although how safe is a basement if the house is torn off?). This tornado did not cause a single death, but take a look at this video from a reporter:

 pic.twitter.com/YPHwVpiasf

— Len Jennings (@lenjenningsKMBC) May 29, 2019

Tornadoes kill an average of 60 people each year in the U.S., and occasionally that includes storm chasers. All jokes aside, these storms really are dangerous. Fortunately, Scott said “yes” to the marriage proposal, eliminating the possibility that Krastel would have driven away and left him behind to run for his life.

If they adopt a puppy, they must name it Tipton. Because that’s just too cute.

Congrats to the happy couple!

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Catching up with ‘Halston’ director Frédéric Tcheng

Catching up with ‘Halston’ director Frédéric Tcheng

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Documentaries about icons in the fashion industry have been in vogue ever since Valentino: The Last Emperor became a huge hit in 2008. In recent years, there have been a slew of features about larger-than-life designers, ranging from McQueen and 7 Days Out (Karl Lagerfeld), to Jeremy Scott: The People’s Designer and Dior and I.

The latter was the most recent directorial effort from Frédéric Tcheng, who has now directed the new doc Halston, a peek behind the scenes at the life of the legendary late American designer. Halston was one of the biggest hits at this year’s Sundance Film Festival and is now rolling out nationwide for audiences to see on the big screen.

America’s first superstar designer, Halston rose to international fame in the 1970s, creating an empire and personifying the dramatic social and sexual revolution of the last century. Reaching beyond the glamour and glitz, Tcheng’s documentary reveals Halston’s profound impact on fashion, culture, and business, capturing the epic sweep of the life and times of the legendary designer who set women free with his unstructured designs and strove to “dress all of America.”

Framing the story as an investigation featuring actress and writer Tavi Gevinson as a young archivist diving into the Halston company records, Tcheng expertly weaves rare archival footage and intimate interviews with Halston’s family, friends, and collaborators including Jacqueline Kennedy, Liza Minnelli, Andy Warhol, and Iman. What results is a behind-the-headlines look into the thrilling struggle between Halston’s artistic legacy and the pressures of big business.

GLAAD caught up with Tcheng to ask him a few questions about the impetus behind his latest behind-the-scenes look at fashion greatness.

Why did you choose to make this documentary about Halston?

When I started reading about Halston, it was the business story that completely pulled me in. I didn’t know how Halston had lost control of his company in 1984. My knowledge of Halston before that had been fairly limited, mainly about Studio 54, which is a common misperception. But the business story was astonishing. First, from a story standpoint – it was like a thriller – but also on a personal level, it resonated with me. After Dior and I, I was at a point in my career where I’ve had experiences with corporations that were pretty traumatic and made me realize how small a person can be versus the bottom line. Halston’s story offered me a way to address somehow the logic of financial capitalism. Financial markets rule the world we live in. And I think in many ways it all started in the 1980s with Reagan’s deregulations and the rise of huge conglomerates. That’s why I was fascinated by Halston’s struggle against the corporation in 1983. I saw all of these forces at play in a very powerful way. You can even see the beginnings of globalism and China’s awakening.

But Halston’s story is so vast. When I started to assemble the film, other important themes came forward, like the place of LGBTQ people in the ’60s, or the relationship between images and reality. There are so many layers to his story.


(L to R) Pat Cleveland, Chris Royer, Halston, Alva Chinn, Karen Bjornson

Halston remains one of the most iconic names in fashion. How do his life and work resonate today, culturally speaking?

His legacy is all around us, whether we realize it or not. Halston’s contribution is huge. He put America on the map in the 1970s. And from the design standpoint, minimalism is probably the single most influential movement in modern fashion history. And Halston was at the forefront of it. From a business standpoint, his partnership with JCPenney laid the groundwork for the way fast fashion operates today. He was reviled for it, but today others are reaping the benefits of his ideas. And lastly, I think his mastery of image-making and self-branding was so ahead of its time. We see it play out in our era with Instagram, and everyone projecting a curated image of themselves through social media. He was doing that at his own scale back in the 1970s. He was the first influencer.

Halston seemed to have kept his work, personal, and family lives all very separate. To you, who was Halston? How do you describe him?

That’s true. I think a lot of people of that generation approached privacy very differently than we do. He didn’t “come out” but he wasn’t hiding his relationship to his boyfriend Victor Hugo either. Many people knew. They were out in public at Studio 54 every other night. Victor was on the runway, or front row regularly.

But Halston was an intensely private person. He refused to talk about his family for instance or his upbringing. He was always very vague about things that distracted from the persona he had created.

The documentary frames Halston as an iconic figure who has been erased from history. Can you describe the process you had for unearthing this history?

(pictured right: Anjelica Huston and Halston)

His legacy has been actively erased by the corporation. They erased their video archive and divested the dresses that he had kept over the years. So the research we had to do was extensive, probably the most extensive I’ve ever done. And I must say that it was for me the most exciting part of the process. In a way, making the film quickly became a full-blown investigation. Our producers were relentless in pursuing footage and photos that had never been seen before. One of our biggest discoveries was recovering the raw tapes of an NBC documentary about Halston in China that never aired. The tapes were thought to be lost for 30 years but finally turned up after many searches.

We also had more than a thousand pages of memos. It was like reading a great detective novel. They detailed the day-by-day conflicts raging at Halston Enterprises. You begin to see two very different narratives emerge: Halston’s and the corporation’s. And I became obsessed with finding out the truth.

It’s interesting to see Halston’s shift from becoming one of the first American designers revered internationally… to striking a deal with JCPenney. Through your research, do you believe you gained insight into his goals and intentions? If so, what were they?

I think his goal was to very simple. It was to go as high as he could and grow constantly. So by 1982, he literally wanted to “dress everybody in America.” I didn’t want to cast Halston simply as a victim. His story has been told mainly as a cautionary tale, but people need to remember that through his association with the Norton Simon corporation, he achieved unprecedented success and creative freedom. He took a risk to do something no one else had ever done at that time. It may have been a Faustian bargain, but in the process, he became “Halston.”

As Liza Minnelli sings in the film: “Nothing’s gained if there’s nothing tried.” Halston definitely tried. He worked very, very hard. There was something deeply inspiring and life-affirming to me about Halston’s fearlessness: he was the first to defy European hegemony on fashion, the first to go mass market with JCPenney, the first designer to visit Communist China, and the list goes on. So I hope the audience is emboldened into “trying,” in whatever shape or form.

Was there anything that surprised you during the process making this documentary?

I never knew that Halston had been such a counterculture force in the early 70s. Most people remember the Studio 54 persona, and we forget the man who put models of color on the runway or chose the plus-size Andy Warhol superstar Pat Ast as a muse. He was a force for inclusivity and change. And his clothes reflected that. They liberated women from the constraints and structure of European couture.

How do you think Halston resonates today for the LGBTQ community… and for culture at large?

Halston’s journey as a gay man was very very important to me personally because it reflects the incredible journey of the gay community at large from the 60s to the 80s. He was a small town boy coming to New York to find a safe haven. He was part of the Fire Island community. He suffered Pre-Stonewall homophobia, he helped create a new society in the 70s with places like Studio 54, and eventually, he was taken by AIDS in the 80s, his family bravely deciding to be transparent about the disease at a time when it was stigmatized. It’s an extraordinary journey through America’s queer history.

‘Halston’ is now playing in theaters in New York City and opens in Boston and Los Angeles this weekend. It will premiere later this year on CNN.

May 29, 2019
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3 Potential Reasons You May Not Be Getting A Second Date

3 Potential Reasons You May Not Be Getting A Second Date

We have all probably gone out on a first date that turned out to be the first and the last, despite our expectations. It’s a lousy situation and can leave you feeling disappointed, especially if the other person decided to ghost you. Here, I list three potential reasons why you’re not getting a second date, […]

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