Category Archives: Dating

Dating a Single Parent? Here’s How to Set Yourself Up For Success

Dating a Single Parent? Here’s How to Set Yourself Up For Success

It’s National Single Parents Day! Dating can be a whirlwind as is, but when you’re a parent sometimes it’s an entirely different ballgame. You’re not just considering your own needs,…
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Dating a Single Parent? Here’s How to Set Yourself Up For Success

Giving Advice to Your Single Crew: The How, Who, What, and When

Giving Advice to Your Single Crew: The How, Who, What, and When

If you’re anything like me, the conversations you have with your single crew are generally about dating advice. Sharing dating experiences, asking how to respond, consulting the group to make…
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Giving Advice to Your Single Crew: The How, Who, What, and When

OkCupid Data Shows That Women Are Owning Their Dating Lives More Than Ever

OkCupid Data Shows That Women Are Owning Their Dating Lives More Than Ever

In honor of International Women’s Day, we explored how women around the world are being more assertive in dating and beyond

Over the past two years, we’ve seen daters become increasingly assertive. Now more than ever, daters are being clear about what they want and what’s truly important to them. Singles aren’t waiting for a message anymore — they’re making the first move when they see a match they want to meet — and the focus is shifting from “who can support me financially” to “who will support my values?” While we’ve seen this change happen among daters of all genders and orientations around the world, women are leading the charge.

Women are taking control of their dating lives

Throughout the pandemic, women have been increasingly more likely to send likes and first messages — and this has remained true in 2022. Women sent 10% more likes this January than they did in December, and they’ve proven that taking the initiative pays off: Contact exchanges for women in January 2022 were at their highest in over a year (increasing 13% since December).

Women have expressed feeling more confident in finding matches and making the first move because they’re being more open and upfront about what they want. In the past five years, there’s been a 600% increase in women’s profiles stating “looking for a feminist” or “feminists only” and a 5% increase in women responding “no” to the OkCupid matching question “Would you date someone who isn’t a feminist?”

Women are not relying on a match to support them (financially)

While women around the world are increasingly likely to be looking for a match to support their values, female daters have become increasingly less likely to expect (or want) a match to support them financially. In fact, only 10% of women on OkCupid say that money is very important when it comes to a match. Here’s how it stacks up for women by country:

Looking at the two extremes, women in Indonesia are 9x more likely than women in Germany to say that a match’s money is extremely important; but even so, it’s just over one-third of Indonesian women who feel that way.

Instead, women are focused on fighting to close the gender wage gap, with 84% of female daters on OkCupid saying more needs to be done to do so (70% of men agree). See how it breaks down by country:

Women are also keeping track of their own finances so they can depend solely on themselves. In fact, very few women on OkCupid say they do not keep track of their own finances; unlike with the responses to other OkCupid matching questions on money, Indonesian women take the lead here, with only 5% saying they do not keep their budget.

Yet despite female daters’ desire to be financially independent, what’s most important to them — across the globe — is being independent full-stop. Sixty-five percent of women on OkCupid who responded to the matching question “Would you rather have more money or more freedom?” said “freedom” (slightly ahead of 64% of men).

Women are more focused than ever on what’s truly important to them in a match

So what does freedom mean? Well, it’s the right to choose what you want — and that comes to who you date, too. After all, over the past two years there’s been a 55% increase in women saying a relationship is more important to them than advancing their career. As a result, women are prioritizing what’s really important to them in a match and what they’re really looking for beyond the surface.

In the past five years there’s been a 5% increase in women responding “extremely honest” to the matching question “Would you rather date someone extremely hot or extremely honest?” For men, on the other hand, there’s been a 3% decrease. Single women are also focused on finding someone they connect with emotionally, with 88% today saying it’s important to establish an emotional connection before a physical one (compared to 78% of men). And in just this past month, there’s been a 5% increase in women seeking a relationship to last for the rest of their lives.

So on this International Women’s Day (and every day!), we at OkCupid are celebrating the women who are taking their dating lives into their own hands. No matter what they’re looking for, women are being more direct, open, and assertive about what they want and how they’re going to get it — and we think that’s pretty amazing.

Download OkCupid & find someone great today!


OkCupid Data Shows That Women Are Owning Their Dating Lives More Than Ever was originally published in OkCupid Dating Blog on Medium, where people are continuing the conversation by highlighting and responding to this story.

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It’s Okay to Make Friends on Dating Apps. Here’s Why

It’s Okay to Make Friends on Dating Apps. Here’s Why

Wanna know something super underrated? Making friends on dating apps. I know you’re probably thinking that’s the opposite of what dating apps are for, but I’m here to blow your…
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It’s Okay to Make Friends on Dating Apps. Here’s Why

Join OkCupid in Supporting Small, Black-Owned Businesses

Join OkCupid in Supporting Small, Black-Owned Businesses

We picked 19 of our favorite Black-owned businesses in 7 love-themed categories

In honor of Black History Month, we’ve created a list of 19 amazing, Black-owned businesses that power love and connection through wares such as chocolates, candles, and more. At OkCupid, we are committed to the future of the Black community — both in dating and beyond — so it is important to us to highlight Black-owned businesses we love. Our rockstar employees helped craft this list of small businesses across the country, and OkCupid is donating $1,000 to each one.

One of the best parts of dating is having a reason to explore. Meeting up with a special someone (or this week’s fling, no judgment here) is the perfect excuse to step out of your comfort zone with a fresh look, a different cocktail spot, or a new signature scent. So pop on your getting ready playlist (we know you have one) and join us in supporting these amazing Black-owned businesses!

For Setting the Mood

  1. Bright Black Candles

These quality crafted candles pay tribute to Black greatness with scents that capture its radiance.

2. Lindsey Created

The names of these freelance-inspired candles may even inspire you on date night. Try out Good Night, for example, that’ll get you ready for a cozy night in.

For Your Cravings

3. Midunu Chocolates

Up your hosting game with one of their cool aprons or snag some of their sweet drinking chocolate.

4. Cookie Society

Show off how well you were paying attention in that message thread by picking a flavor combination that speaks to their palette.

5. Mikey Likes It Ice Cream

Order fun options like “Mint Condition,” and “Foxy Brown” to cool down your hot date-night in.

For Late Nights & Early Mornings

6. Theopolis Vineyards

Nothing says “I think this could be a thing,” like ordering some wine and doing an at-home wine tasting.

7. Top 3! Games

This musical themed game is the perfect way to turn a game night for two into the 90s R&B moment you so richly deserve.

8. Teas with Meaning

These aromatic blends smell as heavenly as they taste. Use one to revamp your energy before that post-work hang or to calm your nerves before that third-date hookup.

For Nature Lovers

9. LYS Beauty

Affirm yourself to be the kissable catch we know you are with their natural Speak Love Glossy Lip Treatment Oil. As an added bonus you can get it via Sephora’s same day delivery app without interrupting your skin care routine.

10. Grounded Plants

If there’s anything more sexy than taking the plunge into plant parenthood, we haven’t found it yet.

11. Beautiful Weirdos

Infuse some good vibes into your first date with these carefully copper-wrapped crystals.

For Date Night Looks

12. Stuzo

Their adorably bold overalls prove what we have always known — style has no gender.

13. The Jules Shop

This site has everything from the perfect lounge set for that midday meetup to that sexy date night dress you’ve been searching for.

14. Love Iguehi

Their cute clutches and dazzling dusters are the perfect way to elevate your look in a dash.

For Your Person

15. Byndr Leather Goods

A quality leather trinket is a great way to gift someone you just started seeing. It says “I was thinking about you…but not in a creepy way.”

16. Aya Paper Co

You won’t regret sending one of their astrology-themed cards to your perfect match.

For Looking Your Best

17. Soultanicals

Nothing puts your confidence on ten like knowing your curls are flourishing.

18. Pooka Pure & Simple

Their oil-based perfumes will keep you smelling like a snack for the hrs & hrs when you finally find the person who makes you stop hating that song.

19. Jaibutters

Everyone deserves to have their chance at love and affection…and smooth, buttery skin.

Download OkCupid & find someone great today!


Join OkCupid in Supporting Small, Black-Owned Businesses was originally published in OkCupid Dating Blog on Medium, where people are continuing the conversation by highlighting and responding to this story.

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If You’re Not Going on Group Dates, It’s Time to Start

If You’re Not Going on Group Dates, It’s Time to Start

Group dates are underrated. There, I said it. Sure, there are benefits to meeting up one-on-one, but there are so many great things about a group hang that don’t get…
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#BeSingleNotSolo Sweepstakes Valentine’s Edition – Official Rules

#BeSingleNotSolo Sweepstakes Valentine’s Edition – Official Rules

#BeSingleNotSolo Valentine’s Edition Official Rules: THESE OFFICIAL RULES ARE A CONTRACT—READ THEM CAREFULLY BEFORE ENTERING.  WITHOUT LIMITATION, THIS CONTRACT INCLUDES A RELEASE AND LICENSE FROM YOU, AND A LIMITATION OF…
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Hot Take: Valentine’s Day Should be About Love, Not Romance

Hot Take: Valentine’s Day Should be About Love, Not Romance

At POF, we seem to talk a lot about Valentine’s Day. I guess it’s only natural given the fact it’s always a hot topic in the dating world. But, the…
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Hot Take: Valentine’s Day Should be About Love, Not Romance

This New POF Feature Will Stop You From Sending Messages You Regret the Next Morning

This New POF Feature Will Stop You From Sending Messages You Regret the Next Morning

If I walked down the street and asked every person I passed if they’ve ever sent a message they regretted, I bet most of them would say yes. What about…
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This New POF Feature Will Stop You From Sending Messages You Regret the Next Morning