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'SNL' Warns White People Won't Be Calling The Shots For Long

'SNL' Warns White People Won't Be Calling The Shots For Long
White people of the United States, get ready. Because your reign is coming to an end.

The satirical Saturday Night Live segment aired Oct. 2nd with guest host Sarah Silverman, and prompts white people from all white walks of white life to come together to celebrate their last days of white racial dominance.

Because let’s face it: when minorities become majorities, the world becomes a more equal place. Dun dun dun!!!

But for now, white people can soak it up with plenty of hiking and camping.

“Whites: still calling the shots till 2050. 2060 tops.”

“Saturday Night Live” airs Saturdays at 11:30 p.m. ET on NBC.

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Trade Boycotts Force Ugandan President to Reconsider Anti-Gay Laws

Trade Boycotts Force Ugandan President to Reconsider Anti-Gay Laws

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There’s a special place in hell for Anita Bryant for helping to popularize the myth that the gays are after the world’s children to recruit them to the cause, like some fabulously well-dressed militant regime. This fueled one of the cries – and lies – spread ’round the world that people and governments are anti-gay because they just want to protect the children. We’ve seen it in Russia, the U.S., and of course Uganda.

The “protecting the children” rational is a lie through and through, of course, and Uganda at least is proving it to be as such. Ugandan President Yoweri Museveni claimed that he signed on to his country’s viciously anti-gay laws to ostensibly protect children and prevent them from being “recruited” into the deviant homosexual lifestyle, but either he never really believed that or the “recruitment of children” isn’t that big of a deal as Museveni is now backtracking on those laws.

Though the author of the anti-gay laws said that any international backlash would be “worth it“, President Museveni is singing a different tune, saying that his country could endure aid cuts, but that trade boycotts would be devastating:

It is about us deciding what is best for our country in the realm of foreign trade, which is such an important stimulus for growth and transformation that it has no equal.

He still takes a chance to make a nasty stab at homosexuals and still blame them for his country’s troubles, however:

It is now an issue of a snake in a clay cooking pot. We want to kill the snake, but we do not want to break the pot. We want to protect our children from homosexuality, but we do not want to kill our trade opportunities. That now forces us to disassemble this whole issue.

How about just leaving the snake alone, knowing that it always was and always will be a snake, and letting everyone live in peace?


Christian Walters

www.towleroad.com/2014/10/ugandan-president-reconsidering-anti-gay-laws-were-just-to-protect-children.html

Christian Litigation Group Alliance Defending Freedom Lobbying for Anti-gay Marriage Referendum in Slovakia

Christian Litigation Group Alliance Defending Freedom Lobbying for Anti-gay Marriage Referendum in Slovakia

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The anti-gay Christian legal organization Alliance Defending Freedom (a group whose efforts promoting bigotry abroad were profiled in the HRC’s Export of Hate” report) has begun lobbying Slovakia’s constitutional court to allow activists to place a referendum on the country’s ballot that would reinforce the current bans on gay marriage, adoption, and domestic partner protections, Right Wing Watch reports

“The people of Slovakia should have the freedom to preserve marriage and family if they so choose,” said Alliance Defending Freedom senior legal counsel Roger Kiska, who filed an amicus brief with the court. “This referendum will allow Slovaks to affirm current Slovak law and important social values, which is perfectly acceptable under the Slovak Constitution.” […]

More than 400,000 citizens signed the petition supporting a referendum, according to Roger Kiska—more than the required number of signatures. However, Slovak President Andrej Kiska asked the Constitutional Court to review the measure because of a provision in the country’s constitution that forbids holding a referendum to change “fundamental rights and liberties.”

In June, the Slovakian parliament approved 102 to 18 a constitutional ban on same-sex marriage.

Back in 2010 the country’s first gay pride parade was canceled after attacks from right-wing skinheads. 


Kyler Geoffroy

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Eight Great Reading Recommendations To Scratch Your Literary Itch This Fall

Eight Great Reading Recommendations To Scratch Your Literary Itch This Fall

a3bcfde86fb7fe203504c3f75baf60c0Time to break out the flannel and order up a pumpkin spiced latte from your corner coffee shop because fall is officially upon us.

There’s nothing we love more than curling up on a cool, crisp autumn afternoon with an apple cider in one hand and a good book in the other. And, lucky for everyone, there are lots of great books out this season. Whether you’re in the mood for a salacious biography about an expensive male prostitute, or an endearing travelogue featuring a man and his dog, serious literary fiction, or something more fluffy and fun, we’ve got all the bases covered.

Check out these eight great reading recommendations to scratch your literary itch this fall. Happy reading!

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Damage Control: A Memoir of Outlandish Privilege, Loss, And Redemption by Sergei Boissier

Sergei Boissier’s new memoir Damage Control starts out seeming like just another gay man’s narcissistic ramblings about his many sexual conquests, his unending quest for love, and his emotionally unstable, borderline abusive mother. But it quickly unfolds into something much deeper, and much more poignant. It is a story of tremendous loss, a coming-of-age tale of outrageous excess, entitlement and grand delusion, and the story of a mother and son finding each other again after years of estrangement, all set against a backdrop that takes readers from pre-Castro Cuba to the lavish French countryside to the metropolitan streets of New York City. Ultimately, Damage Control offers a fascinating and disturbing portrayal of one man and his family that is compulsively readable, infuriating, laugh-out-loud funny, and deeply moving all at the same time.

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Gathering Storm by James Currier

Inspired by true events, James Currier’s latest novel A Gathering Storm begins in a small university town in the South when a gay college student is brutally beaten. As the young man struggles to survive in a hospital, residents of the town and the university find themselves at the center of a growing media frenzy. Using details and elements from actual hate crimes committed against gay men, Currier weaves personal and spiritual layers into a timely and emotional story that will have you turning the pages right up until the dramatic conclusion.

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Travels With Casey by Benoit Denizet-Lewis

A moody Labrador and his insecure gay human embark on a cross-country RV trip into the heart of America’s relationship with dogs. Travels With Casey is a delightful blend of memoir and travelogue coupled with a thoughtful exploration of a dog-loving America written by bestselling author Benoit Denizet-Lewis. It takes readers on an unforgettable trip from New York to California, with stops in Appalachia, Missouri, and more, and introduces them to a colorful cast of canine characters. Think Marley & Me but less cheesy and sad, and starring a gay man. Seriously, this is a fun one.

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Rebel Souls: Walt Whitman and America’s First Bohemians by Justin Martin

In the shadow of the Civil War, a circle of creative radicals in a rowdy Manhattan saloon changed American society and helped set Walt Whitman on his path to poetic immortality. Justin Martin’s Rebel Souls is the first book ever written about the colorful group of artists — regulars at Pfaff’s Saloon in New York — rightly considered America’s original Bohemians. It is a vibrant and well-researched tale that shows how this first bohemian culture seeded and nurtured an American tradition of rebel art that continues to this day.

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Butterflies in Heat by Darwin Porter

Originally published in 1976, Butterflies in Heat was Darwin Porter’s celebrated first attempt at a novel. A scorching cult classic of the bizarre, the flamboyant, and the corrupt, it chronicles the misadventures of a beautiful blond hustler named Numie Chase. Down on his luck, Chase travels to Tortuga, searing southernmost point in the Continental U.S, where he arouses passions in six decadent but vulnerable people, whose lives melt together under the scorching hot, blood-red sun. It remains one of the best-selling gay novels of all time and is a must-read for any fan of LGBT fiction.

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The Best Kept Boy In The World by Arthur Vanderbilt

In the mood for a smart, gossipy literary biography? Check out Arthur Vanderbilt’s The Best Kept Boy In The World, the first ever biography of Denny Fouts, arguably the most famous male prostitute of the 20th century. Fouts slept his way through mid-century Europe, bedding princes, barons, lords, shipping tycoons, and countless others. More importantly he enchanted and served as a muse to gay literary giants Truman Capote, Gore Vidal, and Christopher Isherwood, all of whom used the young gigolo in their fiction. Here is the story of an American original, a story with an amazing cast of unforgettable characters and extraordinary settings.

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Tennessee Williams: Mad Pilgrimage of the Flesh by John Lahr

If you’re looking for something slightly less salacious (note the emphasis on the word “slightly”), consider picking up Tennessee Williams: Mad Pilgrimage of the Flesh by celebrated New Yorker drama critic John Lahr. It’s been heralded as the “definitive biography of America’s greatest playwright.” The epic 800-pager leaves no stone unturned, detailing Williams’ unique upbringing — which, naturally, included a belittling father and puritanical mother, as well as a demented sister who was lobotomized at the age of 33 — as well as his successes (and failures) in his career, his many torrid gay love affairs, and his bruising relationships with Pancho Gonzalez and Frank Merlo. It is a biography of the highest order: a book about the major American playwright of his time written by the major American drama critic of his time.

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My Story by Marilyn Monroe

What gay man doesn’t love and/or identify with Marilyn Monroe in some way or another? She was used, underappreciated, and misunderstood, yet she still managed to soldier on and defy all the odds. Whether or not the movie star penned this short memoir (we think she did) remains a mystery, but it nevertheless offers a fascinating and, at times, haunting portrait of a gifted actress who is more famous today than she ever was during her lifetime. My Story reads more like series of reflections or diary entries than a memoir, with readers being treated to Monroe’s musings on her childhood as an unwanted orphan, her early adolescence, her rapid rise in the film industry, and her marriage to Joe DiMaggio. The book was never actually completed and so, like her life, it suddenly ends without warning, leaving the reader to wonder what could have been had she had the opportunity to finish it.

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Notorious Big Brother Winner 'Evel Dick' Donato Comes Out as HIV Positive: VIDEO

Notorious Big Brother Winner 'Evel Dick' Donato Comes Out as HIV Positive: VIDEO

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In a new episode for Couples Therapy, volatile troublemaker and Big Brother 8 winner “Evel Dick” Donato revealed he is HIV positive – news he originally found out while competing as a returning player during the reality competition’s 13th season back in 2011.

Big Brother fans will remember Donato leaving the game on Day 6 that season for undisclosed reasons. 

People reports:

Donato was competing on season 13 of Big Brother when producers called him into the house’s Diary Room. “They told me that something was wrong with my blood test,” he says. “They had done two HIV tests. One had come back positive and the other had come back negative.” The show’s doctor took more blood. Two hours later, Donato learned the life-changing news. “When they told me, I just went numb,” he says. With little explanation, Donato left the show. “They had a car take me from CBS to my mother’s house. She was the first person I told.” 

“My biggest fear was telling my girlfriend,” Donato continues. “We had this long discussion, and I figured she would freak out. But she was really understanding about the whole thing. She said, ‘Whatever happens, we’ll face it together.’ She was tested and it came back negative. It was an incredible relief.” 

Donato doesn’t know how he contracted the disease, but he suspects that it happened during unprotected sex with a woman. “People are going to make assumptions about how I got it, and that’s okay,” he says. “People are afraid to come forward because they’re afraid of the stigma of HIV. I’m not gay and I’ve never stuck a needle in my arm, but at this point, it doesn’t matter. We create a stigma around the disease that makes it hard for people to publicly say they have it.”

In the end, Donato said he decided to go public with his status becuase his platform as a reality-show villain could help him to encourage fans and viewers to be more aware of HIV, practice safe sex, and get tested. 

I want to say THANK YOU @DrJennBerman for giving me her show to go public being HIV+, as well as making me feel comfortable enough to do so

— EvelDick (@EvelDick) October 2, 2014

Check out a clip of Donato’s interview on Couples Therapy, AFTER THE JUMP


Kyler Geoffroy

www.towleroad.com/2014/10/eveldick.html