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Synod On The Family May Open Door To Changes For Divorcees, Not So Much For Gay Marriage

Synod On The Family May Open Door To Changes For Divorcees, Not So Much For Gay Marriage
The Extraordinary Synod on the Family opened today by Pope Francis at the Vatican could bring about important changes regarding the church’s position on divorcees, homosexuals and non-married couples, adapting to the ways families have changed in the modern world.

In two weeks, the Synod will come up with only an outline, since any decision will be postponed until 2015. Nevertheless, it is an extremely important moment of reflection, desired by Pope Francis himself: the assembly of cardinals and bishops will actually be discussing very delicate subjects for the church, including the treatment of divorced followers, the attitude towards homosexual couples, and the relationship between the church and society regarding family and sexuality in general.

Opening the synod, Pope Francis advised “speaking clearly” and “with parrhesia” (a Greek term meaning the freedom to speak honestly). The pope has often spoken about the need for the church to take on the challenges of the contemporary world and the big changes at the root of the microcosm that is the family; lovingly accepting those who have erred and allowing remarried divorcees to take communion, an idea which, despite not appealing to all of the cardinals, might (with certain restrictions) pass in the assembly.

This, at least, reflects the spirit of open-mindedness entrusted to Cardinal Peter Erdo, Relator General of the Synod as well as the Primate of Hungary and President of the European Bishops. “Divorcees who have remarried in civil courts,” stated Erdo, “belong to the Church. They need and have the right to be guided by their pastors.” Moreover, referring to the result of the questionnaire relating to the themes of the synod sent out in November 2013 to all of the parishes of the world: “regarding divorcees who remarried in civil courts, many reaffirm that the difference between those who are responsible for breaking up a marriage and those who have been abandoned needs to be taken into account: the pastors of the church should take care of them in a specific ways.”

Reading between the lines of the cardinal’s words, there are essentially two restrictions with allowing divorcees to receive communion: the fact that the second marriage (without an annulment) is not recognized by the church, and the solely pastoral (and therefore not doctrinal) aspect that lends itself to the debate.

Eucharist for Remarried Divorcees, with Restrictions.
Before coming up with possible solutions to the complexity of allowing remarried divorcees to receive communion, Erdo made clear some preconditions: “the doctrine of the indissolubility of marriage is not coming into question as such. Therefore it is not doctrinal questions, but practical questions of a solely pastoral nature- otherwise inseparable from the truth of the faith- that are being discussed in this synod.” And “in the case of a sacramental (conjugated) marriage, after a divorce, while the first spouse is still alive, it is not possible to have a second marriage recognized by the church.”

The archbishop of Budapest then outlined two solutions: “Divorcees remarried in civil court belong to the church. They need and have the right to be guided by their pastors. They are welcome to listen to the word of God, to participate in the liturgy of the church, to pray and to do charitable works. The pastors of the church should take care of them in very specific ways, taking into account the circumstances of each person“ Erdo stated.

The first path outlined by Erdo is facilitating the annulment of a marriage, with three possibilities: “Many seem to think there needs to be a timely and efficient way of ascertaining the invalidity of a marriage bond, first of all the need for two appeals confirming the declaration of annulment of the marriage bond, proceeding to the second phase only if there is no appeal from one or both parties or from the defender of the bond within a defined timeframe.“

Second, echoing Benedict XVI, a solution outside of the judicial process, since “according to authoritative proposals, the faith of those to be married needs to be evaluated to ascertain the validity of the sacrament of marriage, according to the general principle that the validity of a sacrament requires that the party intends to do what the Church does.” Third, the case of the “Petrine Privilege,” concerning marriages of disparity of cult.

In conclusion, Erdo echoes the proposal formulated by Cardinal Walter Kasper at a Consistory of Cardinals in February, suggesting to “examine more deeply the practice of some orthodox churches, which allows for the possibility of a second or third marriage marked by a penitential character. Examining this matter is necessary to avoid interpretations and conclusions that are not sufficiently well-founded.”

Relator General of the Synod: No Discrimination Against Gays, Except for Marriage.
From the instrumentum laboris “emerge two clear aspects regarding homosexuality.” So declared Cardinal Peter Erdo,in his relatio ante discpetationem. “First of all, there is a full consensus that people with a homosexual orientation should not be discriminated against, as reaffirmed in the catechism of the Catholic Church. Secondly, it is clear that the majority of the baptized – and all the Episcopal conferences- do not expect that these relationships be equated with marriage between a man and a woman, nor is there a consensus among a vast majority of Catholics on the ideology of gender theories.”

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Why Each SCOTUS Justice Might Be Avoiding the Marriage Equality Question Right Now

Why Each SCOTUS Justice Might Be Avoiding the Marriage Equality Question Right Now

BY ARI EZRA WALDMAN

The media have been universally shocked at the Supreme Court’s announcement today. Now that we have had time to read several media accounts (including our own Towleroad coverage) we should take a step back and analyze what this means from a legal, political, and practical perspective. I also would like to shed a little more light on how this may have happened and what conclusions, if any, we can draw from it.

ScotusLet’s be clear on what did not happen. The Supreme Court did not make a substantive ruling on the constitutionality of banning gays from marrying. Nor did the Court make any ruling on the justice of marriage equality. The constitutional question lives on for another day.

The Court’s denial of the petitions also has no explicit legal effect on anything other than those particular 7 cases for which it denied review and on the circuit court decisions below. It has, in the legal jargon, no precedential value: it does not compel any other court to make a certain decision in a certain way. 

But it does represent the federal courts’ final word on these cases. There are no more avenues of appeal for the anti-equality forces in Wisconsin, Indiana, Utah, Oklahoma, and Virginia, as well as in the other 11 remaining states covered by the Fourth, Seventh, and Tenth Circuits that do not already have marriage equality. That means that loving, committed gay couples can start marrying in those states very soon. Thanks to Virginia Attorney General Mark Herring, “soon” is now. Other states, especially those run by conservative, anti-gay governors, may try to defy the inevitable for as long as they can. But sooner rather than later, clerks from South Carolina to Wisconsin will be issuing marriage licenses to gay couples. They will be strengthening the institution of marriage in their states and throughout the country.

Many are wondering how this could have happened. Some commentators expected (more likely, hoped) that the Court would take at least one of these cases. Some expected the Court to do nothing. Back in June, I argued that there may never be a need for the Supreme Court to take a marriage equality case. I was alone in arguing that then, and there are now several commentators coming around to realize that possibility. The denials today only reinforce my point.

Follow me for one possible explanation for how and why this happened.

CONTINUED, AFTER THE JUMP

There is now marriage equality in 24 states plus the District of Columbia. Marriage equality will soon come to 6 more states, from South Carolina to Wyoming, because those states are covered by the circuit court decisions that are now the final words on marriage equality in those jurisdictions. That is 60 percent of the states.

LovingTwenty states will remain in a rump anti-equality dystopia. That number is special because it is quite close to the number of states (17) that still had bans on interracial marriage on their books when the Supreme Court decided Loving v. Virginia. That case declared all such bans unconstitutional. It reflected the views of the vast majority of the federal courts through the country. It reflected the views of the majority of Americans. It was fiercely opposed, especially in those 17 states in the South, but the notion that a state could ban blacks from marrying whites is so disgusting today that it is hard to believe even 17 banned the practice.

Before it took Loving, the Court waited. It had the opportunity to hear similar cases several times before jumping on the Loving bandwagon. It could have been because of the apt name; it could have been because some justices were waiting for a liberal majority. More likely, it was strategists on the Court waiting for the right case at the right time, when fewer and fewer states retained the bans. At that point, the country would be ready.

Today, the Court helped us along that road. Soon, marriage equality will become a non-issue. It already sort of is.

But the denials still shocked many. To me, it did not seem all that shocking.

A_scaliaTaking a cue from one of my colleagues, who asked me to do the same: Put yourself in the shoes of one of the Supreme Court’s conservatives. Let’s say, Justice Scalia. Let’s assume that Justice Scalia opposes extending the constitutional right to marry to gay persons. Here’s what you know: You know you have four pro-equality justices against you. You have to know that Justice Kennedy is in their corner, too. So, you realize you have two options: Take the case and have five justices enshrine a federal marriage equality right in the constitution, or do not take the cases and swallow the lower court decisions. You hate the first option. The second option is somewhat better. At least, it keeps the case out of the Supreme Court.

Conservatives like Scalia and Thomas do not want to touch marriage equality at the Supreme Court. Not only do they not want to lose, but they hate the idea of more federal rights, in general. Conservative jurisprudence is all about narrowing the federal Constitution, keeping people out, and letting legislatures answer problems. A federal appellate court saying gays have a federally protected right is bad enough. The Supreme Court saying the same thing is so much worse because it federalizes a right that Scalia doesn’t think is there. So, if you’re stuck with three circuits that have already rejected bans on gays marrying under the federal Constitution, you might as well let them stand with a simple denial without letting the Supreme Court “expand” the text of the Constitution.

That might explain why the conservatives didn’t want to take the cases.

BreyerNow, imagine yourself in the shoes of a moderate like Stephen Breyer. You’re cautious and approach your job with “judicial humility.” You may not think the country is ready for a nation-wide right to marry for gay couples. You may want to hear from more courts, appellate or district, and more state legislatures. You may want to wait to take a case until you absolutely have to, i.e., when you have an appellate court decision upholding the constitutionality of a ban.

And, finally, imagine yourself in the shoes of a progressive justice like Ruth Bader Ginsburg. You have strong ideas about equality. Whenever the Supreme Court acts, you want it to be a lasting decision that will never erode and not face a backlash. You also do not feel compelled to take these particular cases because you agree with what happened below. You are comfortable waiting for the right time because you are not satisfied with a five justice majority. You want at least six. You realize that Justices Scalia and Thomas are lost causes. But you think that Chief Justice Roberts, a young man, is not going to be willing to oppose marriage equality and sit on a court for twenty more years. At that time, marriage equality will be as obvious as sliced bread. You want to build support from the ground up to peel off at least one more vote for marriage equality, and you’re willing to wait to attack with overwhelming force. 

Seen in this way, it is possible every justice voted against hearing these cases, but for different reasons.

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Ari Ezra Waldman is a professor of law and the Director of the Institute for Information Law and Policy at New York Law School and is concurrently pursuing his PhD at Columbia University in New York City. He is a 2002 graduate of Harvard College and a 2005 graduate of Harvard Law School. Ari writes weekly posts on law and various LGBT issues.


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Religious Right: Supreme Court Letting Marriage 'Burn to Ashes'

Religious Right: Supreme Court Letting Marriage 'Burn to Ashes'

That’s one of the choice quotes from the right wing in the wake of today’s decision not to take up marriage equality cases, along with calling the action the ‘Roe v. Wade of sodomy-based marriage.’

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Trudy Ring

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