Former US President Jimmy Carter thinks states should make own decisions on gay marriage
‘If Texas doesn’t want to have gay marriage, then I think that’s a right for Texas people to decide’
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Down to the Wire in Iowa

With only seven more wake-ups until Election Day, things are popping on the ground in Iowa.
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Pastor Who Was Defrocked For Officiating Gay Son’s Wedding Is Officially “Re-Frocked”
Rev. Frank Schaefer (pictured) made national headlines last November when he was put on “trial” for officiating his son’s same-sex wedding ceremony. Now, the church has decided that, actually, never mind, Schaefer can still be a pastor. They were wrong. Sorry about all that. Let’s forget it ever happened and move on, shall we?
The scandalous wedding ceremony took place in Massachusetts back in 2007 and was between Schaefer’s son, Tim, and his male partner. Last fall, Schaefer was found “guilty” of violating church law by presiding over the wedding. As a result, he was given an ultimatum: Repent and vow to never again perform another same-sex marriage ceremony, or surrender his minister’s credentials and be defrocked.
He chose to be defrocked.
In June of this year, Schaefer was offered another job by a Methodist bishop in California and was “re-frocked.” He now serves a ministry in Santa Barbara. Today, the church’s top court announced it plans to uphold the decision to reinstate Schaefer’s ministerial credentials.
In a statement, the council said: “The Judicial Council upon careful review of the decision of the Northeastern Jurisdiction Committee on Appeals in the matter of the Rev Frank Schaefer and the questions of law presented by the counsel for the church finds there are no errors in the application of the church law and judicial decision. The penalty as modified by the Committee on Appeals stands.”
Schaefer said: “Today, we are witnessing a small, but significant step toward taking another look at the exclusionary policies of The United Methodist Church. The UM Church needs to find a way toward reconciliation, full inclusion of our LGBTQ community and an open altar for all God’s beloved children. I will continue the fight alongside thousands of others in the reconciling movement for full inclusion and an open altar for all.”
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Methodists Decide It’s A Bad Idea To Try A Minister For Presiding At His Gay Son’s Wedding
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News: Jeb Bush, Mormons, Robin Williams, Sao Paulo, Ebola, Arizona
Jeb Bush’s son says his former Florida Governor father will “more than likely” consider a 2016 run.
The City of West Hollywood has a sexy new safety campaign encouraging pedestrians to make eye contact with drivers before crossing the street.
Advocate sportswriter Annie Hollenbeck on why the short-lived Michael Sam NFL saga matters. “There are a lot of reasons why Sam’s self-outing matters, and they have been said before. He is a pioneer. He is standing up to ignorant people who don’t think a gay man can be a macho, tough football player. He is risking his personal success and possibly his career to come out prior to being drafted. He is changing the tides.”
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Seattle’s Mormon Church is hoping to attract LGBT Mormons with a new message built on love and inclusion.
Robin Williams last unseen film Boulevard, in which he plays a closeted gay man on the path to self-acceptance, is still struggling to find a distributor.
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Clerks in all 15 Arizona counties say they’ve issued at least one marriage license to gay couples.
A look at how fear, not science is fueling the ebola panic.
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Photographer David Armstrong Dies at 60
The artist delighted in life’s imperfections
Jerry Portwood
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#NOH8Ball4All
Recently, in the small southern Indiana town of Vincennes a local committee comprised of high school parents and students voted 13-9 to maintain a decade long policy requiring “traditional couples only” for their “private, invitation only” New Years Eve Ball.
The 13-9 vote to maintain the policy was brought to light in a Huffington Post article (read here) that went viral. Among other things it asks: “Why exclude LGBT student-couples?”
Afterwards, the once amiable community found itself embattled in controversy. Long time neighbors and friends suffered hurt feelings, anger and rage. Many community members and students felt “attacked” by their lifelong friends. Social media exploded with accusations and indictments. Character assassins on Facebook and Twitter fired left and right, top to bottom. However, those few vitriolic voices were drowned out by the overwhelming live local and social media response from the community and the nation: a collective message of inclusion, affirmation, acceptance and love.
The world was watching. Local residents (read one mother’s plea here) and Vincennes Lincoln High School alumni from around the country as well as celebrity Ellen Page and Grey’s Anatomy star Sara Ramirez reached out via Twitter and Facebook to lend their support to Lincoln’s current student population–both gay and straight–voicing their solidarity for an all-inclusive New Years Eve Ball.
The ball committee changed their vote after the article’s publication and removed the words “traditional couples only” from the invitations. Now, according to the local newspaper, Lincoln High School LGBT students that receive an invitation, and who choose to attend, will no longer be forced to pair with someone of the opposite sex to qualify as a “traditional couple.”
Nevertheless, the undulation from my hometown’s divisiveness was felt in my adopted hometown of Miami, Florida. Fellow Lincoln High School alumna Andrea Ridgway reached out to me on Facebook from her California home. She’d felt the ripples too. Andrea and I had never met. She and I graduated from Lincoln almost a decade apart. After reading my HuffPo article she started a gofundme campaign.
Messaging back and forth via Facebook, Andrea and I decided that together we’d combine our social media voices to support all students at our beloved alma mater and throughout the county by using her campaign to raise funds and host an all-inclusive, open and affirming hometown celebration.
Together, with NOH8 Campaign’s assistance in facilitating national awareness alongside our “boots on the ground” backing from Vincennes University’s VUPRIDE, we want to host a #NOH8Ball4All–an open and inclusive spring 2015 dance for 9-12 graders (county high school students too!) plus a community awareness information fair. In other words, we hope to host in one day an afternoon of education followed by an evening of celebration!
YOU can help the #NOH8Ball4All campaign!
The power of social media served as an agent of change and it connected Andrea and me. Our efforts captured the attention of NOH8. (Check out “NOH8 in my ST8” here.) Now, collectively, we want to connect and share our campaign with you!
Our common goal is to raise enough funds to host the #NOH8Ball4All at the Red Skelton Performing Arts Center on the campus of Vincennes University. But we need your help!
By donating to the #NOH8Ball4All you too will lend your voice and support for southern Indiana LGBT and straight teens by allowing them the opportunity to celebrate diversity in addition to bringing awareness to the community. Let’s show the world there is NOH8 in Vincennes. Check out the www.gofundme.com/ball4all!
Post, tweet or send messages of support to southern Indiana LGBT students and their straight allies using #NOH8Ball4All or by joining the public Facebook group Vincennes #NOH8Ball4All and following J. Patrick Redmond on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram.
Why would a LGBTI person set up a business when they'll be filtered out of the internet?
Helen Belcher, trans activist, is considering legal action against firms that filter out LGBTI content
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Taking a Public Restroom for Granted

I have had the opportunity to meet many inspirational people as the Director of HRC Alabama. While I have met many people out on the road across the state, I was surprised to have one of my most stirring conversations while applying makeup in a public restroom.
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www.hrc.org/blog/entry/taking-a-public-restroom-for-granted?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss-feed
Conan Reveals Adam Sandler’s Animated Quest to See Shaq’s Penis
On the list of celebrity triptychs we never expected to see, Conan has managed to join Adam Sandler (remember that guy?) and former genie Shaquille O’Neal with a funny story about dicks. Okay, fine, we’ll watch, if you insist.
On an episode last year, Conan arranged for guest Sandler to relate the tale of trying to spy Shaq’s junk. That would be entertaining enough on its own, but now the story has been animated, because why not, and it’s about a million times more entertaining.
Legend has it that Shaquille O’Neal is, believe it or not, an incredibly funny guy who tells a great joke, which is exactly how the video culminates. We would like to believe that this is actually true, but we are having difficulty understanding how a guy who “gets” comedy could have an IMDb listing that includes Jack and Jill, Scary Movie 4, Freddy Got Fingered, and Kazaam. Then there’s also the matter of his homophobic ad from five years ago. (To be fair he was good on Curb Your Enthusiasm, so that’s nice?)
Anyway, here is the animated version of the story that is so good you’ll watch it and then wonder how much time will have to go by before you can steal it and tell it at parties like it actually happened to you:
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