Nebraska College Extends Health Benefits to Same-Sex Couples
This week, Creighton University in Nebraska announced it would extend health benefits to married same-sex couples.
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Starbucks Brings Drag Queens Together: VIDEO
Starbucks Brings Drag Queens Together: VIDEO
Drag Race stars Adore Delano and Bianca del Rio come to a peace accord with the help of a couple of skinny lattes in a new advertising collaboration between Starbucks and Canada’s OUTTV.
Watch, AFTER THE JUMP…
Andy Towle
www.towleroad.com/2014/10/starbucks-brings-drag-queens-together-video.html
Respect them. They re the bravest people that I know. #LGBT #respect #ilookhorribleanddontcare
Respect them. They re the bravest people that I know. #LGBT #respect #ilookhorribleanddontcare
Respect them. They re the bravest people that I know. #LGBT #respect #ilookhorribleanddontcare. Vineos Best and Funny Vine videos. Unmoderated content! Respect them. They re the bravest…
www.youtube.com/watch?v=YXBGs-bj2kk&feature=youtube_gdata
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The LGBT Films of AFI Fest 2014
The LGBT Films of AFI Fest 2014
The Advocate highlights eight stellar LGBT films that will be screened at AFI Fest, which runs November 6-14 in Los Angeles.
Daniel Reynolds and Jase Peeples
www.advocate.com/arts-entertainment/2014/10/30/lgbt-films-afi-fest-2014
Tim Cook Comes Out As Gay In Powerful Businessweek Essay
Tim Cook Comes Out As Gay In Powerful Businessweek Essay
Apple CEO Tim Cook came out as gay in a powerful essay for Bloomberg Businessweek.
In the essay, published Thursday, Cook said that he has never denied being gay, but has not publicly discussed his sexuality until now: “So let me be clear: I’m proud to be gay, and I consider being gay among the greatest gifts God has given me.”
He described how his sexuality has given him an acute social perspective.
Being gay has given me a deeper understanding of what it means to be in the minority and provided a window into the challenges that people in other minority groups deal with every day. It’s made me more empathetic, which has led to a richer life. It’s been tough and uncomfortable at times, but it has given me the confidence to be myself, to follow my own path, and to rise above adversity and bigotry. It’s also given me the skin of a rhinoceros, which comes in handy when you’re the CEO of Apple.
The revelation comes just days after Cook advocated on behalf of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender rights in his home state of Alabama.
“[Alabama is] still too slow on equality for the LGBT community,” he said, per the Associated Press, while calling for laws protecting people based on sexual orientation and gender identity. “Under the law, citizens of Alabama can still be fired based on their sexual orientation. We can’t change the past, but we can learn from it and we can create a different future.”
Cook’s sexuality has been a point of speculation for quite some time. Gawker reported that Cook was gay back in 2011 before he succeeded Steve Jobs.
Since then, Cook himself has seemingly dropped hints about his sexuality. Last year, during a speech about human rights at Auburn University Cook discussed the discrimination he faced as a young person, according to ValleyWag.
“Since these early days, I have seen and have experienced many types of discrimination and all of them were rooted in the fear of people that were different than the majority,” he said.
However, since the 53-year-old had not publicly come out, the question still remained. In May, the New York Times ran a story titled “Where Are The Gay Chief Executives?” and had to subsequently clarify their definition of “openly gay.” CNBC’s Simon Hobbs made headlines for mistakenly saying Cook was “fairly open” about being gay during a live segment back in June.
Head over to Businessweek to read Cook’s full essay.
www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/10/30/tim-cook-gay_n_6074016.html?utm_hp_ref=gay-voices&ir=Gay+Voices
Bad News For Bottoms: New Study Finds Too Much Penetration Can Cause Cancer
Bad News For Bottoms: New Study Finds Too Much Penetration Can Cause Cancer
Oh, great. The fundamentalists are going to have a field day with this one.
A new study out of the University of Montréal has found that men who have sex with 20 or more partners during their lifetimes are less likely to develop prostate cancer. But there’s a catch: It only applies to straight guys. Gay men who bump uglies with 20 or more partners during their lifetimes are more likely to develop prostate cancer.
Epidemiologist Marie-Élise Parent and her researchers surveyed more than 3,200 guys in the Montréal area who answered a comprehensive questionnaire that covered many aspects of their lives, including their bedroom activities. About half of respondents had been diagnosed with prostate cancer between 2005 and 2009.
According to the study’s findings, straight male sluts are 28 percent less likely of one day being diagnosed with prostate cancer than their more chaste counterparts, and those that do develop prostate cancer are 19 percent less likely to develop an aggressive form of the disease.
Why is this?
“A new partner over time keeps one active over the years,” Parent explains. “So the presumption is that men with several partners were exposed to more ejaculations.”
She added: “I would like to clarify that ‘sleeping with many women’ does not mean all at the same time. People must understand that it’s more than 20 women over a lifetime.”
Gay men, however, aren’t so lucky. Or at least not bottoms.
Parent’s team found that guys who have sex with more than 20 male partners doubled their risk of prostate cancer. And their risk of getting a non-aggressive cancer was five times more likely.
How come?
Parent has no idea.
But Dr. David Samadi, chairman of urology at Lenox Hill Hospital in New York City, thinks he knows why. According to Health Daily, Samadi speculated that it could be due to more risky sexual behaviors among gay men, or because of physical trauma to the prostate gland.
Samadi said trauma to the prostate may cause it to release the protein prostate-specific antigen, or PSA. Tests that check the level of PSA in a man’s blood are often used to diagnose and monitor prostate cancer.
So there you have it, fellas. Tops, you’re probably okay. Bottoms, you’re traumatizing your prostates. You better be careful or cancer might get you!
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Graham Gremore is a columnist and contributor for Queerty and Life of the Law. Follow him on Facebook and Twitter.
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Apple CEO Tim Cook: 'I Consider Being Gay Among The Greatest Gifts God Has Given Me'
Apple CEO Tim Cook: 'I Consider Being Gay Among The Greatest Gifts God Has Given Me'
Writing over at Bloomberg Businesweek, Apple CEO Tim Cook is speaking out publicly for the first time about his sexual orientation.
While I have never denied my sexuality, I haven’t publicly acknowledged it either, until now. So let me be clear: I’m proud to be gay, and I consider being gay among the greatest gifts God has given me.
Being gay has given me a deeper understanding of what it means to be in the minority and provided a window into the challenges that people in other minority groups deal with every day. It’s made me more empathetic, which has led to a richer life. It’s been tough and uncomfortable at times, but it has given me the confidence to be myself, to follow my own path, and to rise above adversity and bigotry. It’s also given me the skin of a rhinoceros, which comes in handy when you’re the CEO of Apple.
The world has changed so much since I was a kid. America is moving toward marriage equality, and the public figures who have bravely come out have helped change perceptions and made our culture more tolerant. Still, there are laws on the books in a majority of states that allow employers to fire people based solely on their sexual orientation. There are many places where landlords can evict tenants for being gay, or where we can be barred from visiting sick partners and sharing in their legacies. Countless people, particularly kids, face fear and abuse every day because of their sexual orientation.
I don’t consider myself an activist, but I realize how much I’ve benefited from the sacrifice of others. So if hearing that the CEO of Apple is gay can help someone struggling to come to terms with who he or she is, or bring comfort to anyone who feels alone, or inspire people to insist on their equality, then it’s worth the trade-off with my own privacy.
While Cook has been vocal about his support for the Emplyment Non-Discrimination Act and LGBT rights in general, his sexual orientation was seen as an open secret for many in the industry.
Cook took over the role of Apple CEO after Steve Jobs’ resignation back in 2011.
Kyler Geoffroy
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Op-ed: Why Aren't More Trans Women in Paintings?
Op-ed: Why Aren't More Trans Women in Paintings?
Discover how straight, cisgender painter Janet Bruesselbach plans to change the future of art history with her portrait series, Daughters of Mercury, featuring trans women as subjects.
Janet Bruesselbach
www.advocate.com/commentary/2014/10/30/op-ed-why-arent-more-trans-women-paintings
