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Ten Great Gay Love Songs To Crack The Toughest Cynic

Ten Great Gay Love Songs To Crack The Toughest Cynic

What better time to celebrate these ten glorious gay love songs than Valentine’s day? And if you’re feeling a little scorned by love these days, don’t worry, they don’t all have happy endings.

Rufus Wainwright – “The Art Teacher”

“He asked us what our favorite work of art was / Never could I tell him it was him.” OK, you got us with that one. This song is technically sung from the perspective of a woman, but Rufus makes it plenty gay. And we love it.

Matt Alber – “Handsome Man”

A handsome man who also brings you coffee, OJ, a cinnamon bun and and almond croissant?! Too much. Where do we sign up?

Sufjan Stevens – “The Predatory Wasp Of The Palisades Is Out To Get Us!”

Though not explicitly a gay love song, this tune will tug at your nostalgic heart strings with lyrics like “Oh how I meant to tease him / Oh how I meant no harm / Touching his back with my hand I kiss him…I can’t explain the state that I’m in / The state of my heart, he was my best friend / Into the car, from the back seat / Oh admiration in falling asleep.”

Hercules and Love Affair ft. John Grant – “I Try To Talk To You”

Sometimes love is best expressed in interpretive dance.

Sam Smith – “Nirvana”

Sam has spoken publicly about the fact that his Grammy Award-winning album In The Lonely Hour was written post-breakup. But his track “Nirvana” captures some of the good times in spite of impending heartbreak.

Cosmo Jarvis – “Gay Pirates”

Life as a pirate isn’t easy. Life as a gay pirate is even tougher.

R.E.M. – “Be Mine”

If anyone ever wrote us a song like this, it’d be checkmate in one move.

Broken Social Scene – “I’m Still Your Fag”

Here’s a goth-meets-jock love story that is just chock full of tenderness.

Mashrou’ Leila – “Shim El Yasmine”

Out Lebanese singer Hamed Sinno fronts Mashrou’ Leila, and on this track, sings about a past lover he wanted to introduce to his parents. Even without being able to understand the lyrics, it’s a hauntingly beautiful tune.

Indigo Girls – “Power of Two”

The pronouns may be neutral in “Power of Two,” but it’s understood that the song is written about two women. Regardless, it’s a love song worthy of everyone.

Dan Tracer

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Both Sides Claim Victory In Trial Over Houston LGBT Protections: VIDEO

Both Sides Claim Victory In Trial Over Houston LGBT Protections: VIDEO

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Both sides are claiming victory after the jury reached a mixed verdict Friday in the trial over a petition to repeal Houston’s Equal Rights Ordinance. 

But we won’t know which side is right until the judge issues a final ruling about how many valid signatures are on the petition. And even then, the decision is likely to be appealed. 

The Houston Chronicle reports: 

The ruling is not final, and a judge will now consider the jury’s findings about the work of more than 100 circulators of the petition that the city rejected last summer, citing overwhelming notary and signature-gatherer errors.

District Judge Robert Schaffer was not present for Friday’s ruling after nearly six days of jury deliberation. Attorneys on both sides said he will now begin counting which signatures are valid to see if opponents have reached the needed 17,269-signature threshold. Schaffer retains wide legal discretion in what he deems valid.

The jury’s ruling Friday will trigger a series of legal dominoes that, eventually, will yield a definitive answer: The judge will count the signatures, issue a decision on whether the petition is valid and then the case will almost certainly go to the appellate courts

Jurors determined there was widespread forgery on petition pages they reviewed, but no fraud. They also found that in many cases circulators failed to properly sign and subscribe petition pages.  

Geoffrey Harrison, the lead attorney for the city, told the Chronicle that supporters of the Equal Rights Ordinance should “be thrilled and dancing in their kitchen” about the verdict. Mayor Annise Parker, who authored the ordinance, issued this statement:  

Parker“I am very pleased with the jury’s verdict, and I expect the court will apply the law to the verdict and issue a final judgment confirming that the petition failed.  The City of Houston has had in place for over 100 years the same rules and legal requirements governing the referendum process to ensure fairness and avoid fraud, and the jury’s verdict confirms that the petitions did not meet the legal requirements. The plaintiffs are expected to appeal any outcome that is not in their favor.  That would be unfortunate for the City.  I believe that the majority of Houston wants this divisive fight to be over so that we are able to provide equal rights protections for all of our residents. The City is confident it will prevail.”

But opponents of the ordinance were also claiming victory. Plaintiff Jared Woodfill, the former chair of the local GOP, sent out a press release under the headline, “Favorable Jury Verdict Should Result in Victory for Voters and Religious Liberty!”

Woodfill“Great news…the jury returned a verdict that should allow the people to vote on Mayor Parker’s Unequal Rights Ordinance,” Woodfill wrote. “Judge Robert Schaffer will now apply the ruling to the almost 55,000 individuals who signed the petition. I am confident he will conclude we had the requisite 17,269 signatures necessary for the people to vote on this issue.”

The Texas Pastor Council, the anti-LGBT group that led the petition drive, also said it’s confident the judge will determine there are enough valid signatures: 

The coalition of pastors and community leaders behind the historic referendum effort to repeal Mayor Annise Parker’s pro-LGBT so-called “Equal Rights Ordinance” and the corresponding lawsuit after Parker and her legal team invalidated the petitions, responded with faith, confidence and optimism to today’s jury verdict that was nearly a fifty/fifty split on questions they considered.

“The Mayor’s lawyers went to extraordinary lengths to discredit, demean, denigrate and disqualify as many petitions and signatures as possible. Thankfully, in spite of an incredible amount of detail presented and even oft repeated by the city’s attack team, our God has again raised His standard of justice,” stated Dr. F.N. Williams, lead plaintiff for the pastors of the No UNequal Rights Coalition and Senior Pastor of Antioch Missionary Baptist Church as well as President of Houston Ministers Against Crime. …

“We are thankful that the God of justice stood with this David again against the Goliath of the machinery of city government in the hands of those like Annise Parker intent on serving her personal agenda even at the cost of voting rights of the people,” added Pastor Hernan Castano, an influential Hispanic pastor and network leader as well as one of the “Houston Five” subpoenaed by the Mayor.

Watch a report from KTRK-TV, AFTER THE JUMP … 


John Wright

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So That Happened: Obama Asks Congress If It's Okay That He Started Fighting ISIS

So That Happened: Obama Asks Congress If It's Okay That He Started Fighting ISIS
So, that happened: This week, America’s ongoing battle with the Islamic State reached a new stage, specifically that stage where the president finally gets around to asking Congress if it’s okay with them that he started a war six months ago. HuffPost’s Jen Bendery joins us to give us the skinny on the latest edition of warmaking as a legislative farce.

Listen to this week’s “So, That Happened” below:

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Some highlights from this week:

“Congress is in this place where, as one senator told me this week, they like to beat their chests and say ‘We’re the ones who control war authorization. It’s the constitutional right of Congress to do this. We’re the ones. We have the power. But … we don’t really want to do it. So, Obama did this. This is Obama’s war.'” — Jen Bendery

Meanwhile, closer to home, we have governors behaving badly: Sam Brownback of Kansas wants gays to experience workplace discrimination. Wisconsin’s Scott Walker isn’t sure he has the guts to talk about middle school science. And have you heard about all the nonsense that just brought about the resignation of Oregon Gov. John Kitzhaber? We run down the nonsense.

“It’s been a weird uptick this week in governors kind of cold f*cking up left and right. Right?” — Jason Linkins

Finally, famous media people are leaving their famous media jobs. But did they jump, or were they pushed?

“Brian Williams — and this is true for most news celebrities — he’s only kind of famous. The only people who know who he is are old. He is on the “Nightly News.” Nobody watches that except for people over 65, so he’s not even a real celebrity.” — Zach Carter

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We’re very happy to let you know that “So, That Happened” is available on iTunes. We’ve been working to create an eclectic and informative panel show that’s constantly evolving, a show that’s as in touch with the top stories of the week as it is with important stories that go underreported. We’ll be here on a weekly basis, bringing you the goods.

Never miss an episode: Subscribe to “So, That Happened” on iTunes, and if you like what you hear, please leave a review. We also encourage you to check out other HuffPost podcasts: HuffPost Comedy’s “Too Long; Didn’t Listen,” HuffPost Politics’ “Drinking & Talking,” HuffPost Live’s “Fine Print,” the HuffPost Weird News podcast and the HuffPost Entertainment podcast.

This podcast was edited by Ibrahim Balkhy and engineered by Brad Shannon, with assistance from Christine Conetta, Chris Gentilviso and Adriana Usero.

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Model Boyfriends Strip Down For Adorable Gay Valentine’s Photo Shoot

Model Boyfriends Strip Down For Adorable Gay Valentine’s Photo Shoot

IMG_9675-(1)For those of you not in-the-know, Nelson Marin and Marvin Garcia are both models for underwear brand Baskit and boyfriends in real life. They share more than the frame in this Valentine’s Day photo shoot by Rich Mackey Photography. As you’d expect, the couple gets cutesy sharing kisses and butt grabs. They can’t keep their hands off each other, and or their pairs of Baskit underwear.

Marvin is wearing a pair of Just /b/ Briefs, currently 50 percent off at $11. The bubblegum/grey contrast of the underwear looks great under the maroon pants he wears, and even better out of them. The cut forms to Marvin’s legs and backside nice and snug for a casually sporty pair of underwear. Nelson is wearing a red pair of Light Briefs, currently 40 percent off at $13. These briefs have a more masculine appearance. Their body is red, contrasted by a white waistband with the brand name repeating around the elastic in navy lettering.

You can see more of this photo shoot on The Underwear Expert.

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Photo Credit: Rich Mackey Photography

Underwear Expert

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Here Are The 10 Best Gay-Themed Video Games

Here Are The 10 Best Gay-Themed Video Games

hurt me plenty videogame buttLooking for a fun time? We’ve gathered some of our favorite video games with queer content here for you to browse.

Now before you get all bent out of shape: yes, we know there are far more than 10 great gay video games out there.

Which ones did we miss? Tell us your favorites in the comments and we’ll reconsider our ranking if a consensus emerges.
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1. The Last of Us

It’s been said that zombie stories are allegories for American racial anxieties, but it would be interesting to examine zombie games and movies for subtext about sexual orientation. There’s no need for subtext with The Last of Us and Left Behind, which have explicitly queer characters, frankly depicted and without leaning on stereotypes.

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2. Mass Effect and Dragon Age

It’s hard to think of two game franchises that did a better job of handling LGBT love stories. Bioware developed both, and did a magnificent job of giving players options to fall in love with characters of the same gender. As an added bonus, Dragon Age features a great trans character, and also lets you create your own characters with a wide range of gender expressions. Bioware also produced a KOTOR game with a lesbian character named Juhani.

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3. Final Fantasy XIV

The latest installment of FF finally lets you craft same-sex relationships. About time, considering just how campy and gay some of those bosses are. This is a far cry from Final Fantasy VII, which featured what might be a pretty problematic depiction of gays in a hot tub.

“Why should there be restrictions on who pledges their love or friendship to each other?” said producer Naoki Yoshida.

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4. Succulent

Suck a popsicle. That’s it. That’s all you do in this game. And yet it’s still oddly mesmerizing, with a hunky man in his underwear drawing you closer and closer as his frozen treat melts. Meanwhile, the sexy fellows behind him gyrate and rub themselves, until it’s too late to pull back and you discover that these homogenous gay body types are really a curse.
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5. Hurt me Plenty

Created by Robert Yang, who also made Succulent, this game lets you simulate a consensual BDSM experience. You meet a sex partner, negotiate your terms, slap his ass around until it’s jiggly and red, and then engage in after-care. As an added bonus, if you have the right hardware, you can control the game with gestures, actually swatting your hand back and forth as though there’s a butt hovering right there in front of you.

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6. Mount Your Friends

In this game, a bunch of floppy marionette-like figures wiggle around and try to climb on top of each other to make a pyramid.

Of course, they’re wearing just speedos, and their genitals are plainly obvious, swinging back and forth. Hot.

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7. Grand Theft Auto: The Ballad of Gay Tony

Well, duh. Gay is right in the title. This is an add-on to GTA IV, and it’s a chance to play in a slightly more rainbow-filled world of bad-behavior.

Tony is the naughty gay nightclub-owning member of the crime family we all know and love from GTA IV, and so the plot dovetails nicely with the main game.

You play as Gay Tony’s bodyguard, driving around and shooting people and blowing stuff up in pursuit of a cache of diamonds.

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8. Final Fight

A vintage fighting game from Capcom features a lady named Poison in a sexy slinky outfit. For a long time, producers said that it didn’t matter whether the character of Poison was male or female, but she’s popped up in more games since then, and they’ve had to figure out a more specific backstory for her.

Now producer Yoshinori Ono has confirmed that Poison has transitioned from male to female. Her latest appearance is in Ultra Street Fighter IV.

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9. My Ex-Boyfriend the Space Tyrant

A cute point and click adventure game, this game features lots of chiseled torsos and massages. You get to click around a futuristic spacey world and gaze lovingly on men’s nearly-naked bodies. You can even unlock a special mode in which all of the characters are in their underwear. It looks like Space Ace with all the rippling muscles, but plays like a Sierra game — perfect!

 

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10. RuPaul‘s Drag Race: Dragopolis

The superstar queens from the TV show appear in this strangely captivating little iPhone game that’s actually a bunch of drag-themed mini games. You bounce balls around a grid, collect power-ups (wigs, beads, outfits, etc) and read the villainous Apocalypstik (played by Mimi Imfurst) to filth.

 

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