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Looking At “Looking”: Season 2, Episode 6

Looking At “Looking”: Season 2, Episode 6

s2e06 01Halloween is a distant memory for most of us, but it’s an imminent reality for the tumultuous trio. And like any TV show featuring the spookiest of all holidays, Looking delves into the genre of horror this week. Except instead of grisly murder or suspenseful secrets, they pull out all the stops in an emotional bloodbath.

Things start off simply, with Dom, Ag and Pat arguing over their costumes. The scene is light, but it’s a good reminder that these three are actually friends. While I enjoy the depth of their separate storylines, I’m always happy to be reminded that sometimes they just meander around together and make silly jokes. It’s been a while since they’ve had that opportunity.

When Ag has to bail, there’s a weird moment where Dom and Pat acknowledge that he used to be horrible and is still not that great. To all the people asking, “why would anyone be friends with Ag?” you can take solace in the fact that the characters might not be entirely sure themselves. But since our favorite bearded deviant has shirked his plate-buying duties, Pat has to go to the office to steal some. Because, you know, that’s the only possible place in San Francisco where a person could reasonably come by something as rare and precious as paper flatware.

s2e06 03And of course while he’s there he just has to talk to Kevin. Bossman Cheaterpants is in an understandably iffy place, feelings-wise, but has made the call to move back to Seattle with his boyfriend. For some reason, Patrick feels like he has a say in this, and suggests that the move maybe not happen because, like, what about my needs? It’s a decidedly dodgy move given how he treated Kevin at last week’s office celebration, but don’t worry, he’s just getting started.

After a little drama of who’s-doing-couples-costumes-with-who, everyone gets dolled up and heads to the party and the awkward gets turned right up to twelve. First off, even though Patrick’s Gordon Freeman costume is actually really good, no one gets it. (Though Ag has no right to throw shade since all he did was drape himself in cosplay wigs.) Dom, who presumably still doesn’t like to be called Daddy, shows up in a harness to play He-Man. Whoever thought of that: thank you. We all needed it very badly.

But then the guest list gets a little more complicated. Doris and Malik make an insane Sonny and Cher, but the insinuation of love and marriage has our favorite lady nurse ready to bolt for the door. Turns out they’ve become a proper couple since last time we saw them. Presumably if the show were an hour long, we wouldn’t have to play so much connect-the-dots with the minor characters. Next, Richie and the Ginger arrive in adorably casual Where the Wild Things Are costumes and proceed to be adorably casual with each other. Great for them, but bad for our host.

s2e06 02Since Eddie is never not the best person in the room, he shows up dressed as Bilbo Baggins with a sexy Legolas in tow. He is overt in attempting to set Patrick up with this guy, but the elf is out of luck because Patty’s already selected his date for the evening: ALL THE VODKA. All of it. His only goals tonight are to inflict himself on Richie and tell everyone about the karaoke sign-up sheet ten times each. Emboldened by the booze, he proceeds to destroy a perfectly nice conversation among his friends and their dates about PrEP. Uncalled for, dude! We finally had PrEP being discussed on TV, don’t ruin it for us! Go ruin something else, like your chances with the guy Eddie brought over.

Pat, perhaps mistaking one of Legolas’ braids for implied consent, tries to get a make-out session going on the dance floor. You can’t pull that shit with an archer, though, because you will get shot down. For most people, this would be a low point. But most people don’t invite their partnered boss fuckbuddy to their house party, so we’re nowhere near done yet. Yes, Kevin shows up with Jon right behind him and everything’s about to get very real.

I believe it was Chekov who said that a karaoke machine that gets plugged in during the first act has to be used to hurt multiple close friends during the third act. Fulfilling this prophecy, Patrick puts on his “Season 1 Agustin” costume and gives a long, embarrassing, thoroughly inebriated speech to the helpless crowd. To Dom, he offers a dismissive message about the restaurant that clearly shows how little he believes in its potential. To Ag, he provides a stinging “joke” about the rent that’s not getting paid. To Richie, he deals a low blow about his boyfriend’s choice to take Truvada. And to Kevin, he offers a suspicious story about being alone in the office that finally convinces the onlookers to pull the plug on this unsightly meltdown.

s2e06 04For some reason, Kevin thinks he should have a chat with Patrick right now. They’re all lovey-dovey in a way that they should know is wrong because everyone is telling them it’s wrong. Like, in the moment, as it’s taking place, they are getting clear signals not to do this. Ag tries to prevent the conversation from even happening, and Jon swoops in to stop it almost immediately. Boyfriend’s no fool (despite the literal jester’s hat), he knows something’s up.

We end with everyone’s relationships in various states of disarray. Ag clearly wants more from Eddie, who is unwilling to go there. Malik really wants more from Doris, who seems to want more also but is afraid to give it. Dom is alone on the couch even though he is a kind, hot, single, shirtless, emotionally stable top at a gay Halloween party. Patrick has earned some amount of alienation from pretty much everyone he invited tonight. The exception to this trend is Richie, who makes a clean escape and remains a good man dancing with another good man. My theory? He and his date survived the carnage because they were the only ones in comfortable costumes. Let that be a lesson to you next October, readers.

Chris Kelly

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Australian Gambling Service Pseudo-Apologizes For Taking Bets On Bruce Jenner's Post-Transition Name

Australian Gambling Service Pseudo-Apologizes For Taking Bets On Bruce Jenner's Post-Transition Name

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Sportsbet, one of the largest Australian online gambling websites, has come under fire for taking bets on whether or not Bruce Jenner is actually planning to come out as transgender. In an event billed as “Bruscilla, Queen of the Kardashians?” Sportsbet invited its users to take bets on what Jenner’s name might be post-transition.

“With rumors intensifying that Bruce Jenner has undergone a sex change, online bookmaster sportsbet.com.au is giving punters (betters) the chance to have a punt on what name he/she will choose,” the site said in a tweeted-out press release. “Zoey is leading the charge at $7.50 ahead of the much more extravagant selection of Chastity at $9.00, while a grandma name (he is 65) such as Agnes is a $11 chance.”

Though the backlash from trans advocates was swift, Sportsbet has stood behind its decision to turn Jenner’s personal life into a gambling in event. Jenner, Sportsbet representatives explained to the Star Observer, is a public figure whose career is built around interest and speculation from the public.

“Bruce Jenner is doing a TV interview where he will reveal his name and we are betting on the result of this revelation,” Sportsbet explained, saying that it was fully behind whatever decision Jenner eventually makes. “At no stage was it our intention to offend anyone with this market and if it has we of course apologize for that.”

“Sportsbet are clearly engaging in emotional vampirism of the very worst kind,” said Kelley Glanney head of the Carmen Rupe Memorial Trust. “[A] corporation publicly mocking members of a historically-persecuted and still highly-marginalized minority for the sole purpose of driving sales for their online gambling products is simply not acceptable in a civilized 21st century society.”

 


Charles Pulliam-Moore

www.towleroad.com/2015/02/australian-gambling-service-pseudo-apologizes-for-taking-bets-on-bruce-jenner.html

'Drunktown's Finest' Director Sydney Freeland On Growing Up Navajo And Trans

'Drunktown's Finest' Director Sydney Freeland On Growing Up Navajo And Trans
Writer and director Sydney Freeland was born and raised on a Navajo reservation in Gallup, New Mexico—dubbed “Drunktown.” The disconnect between her experiences and the media’s portrayal of reservation life compelled her to create last year’s Sundance success, Drunktown’s Finest. The narrative feature offers not one, but three harrowing interwoven tales of loss and triumph at or around a reservation in Drunktown. Felixia, a trans woman, pursues a spot in the “women of the tribe” calendar. Sick Boy confronts violence and drug abuse. Nizhoni seeks out her past, well after being adopted by a white family. At its core, the film represents the ongoing search for identity and Freeland’s desire to more honestly portray reservation life.

www.huffingtonpost.com/2015/02/23/growing-up-navajo-trans_n_6736546.html?utm_hp_ref=gay-voices&ir=Gay+Voices

Gay Star News partners with The Glass Closet to launch new business section

Gay Star News partners with The Glass Closet to launch new business section

The Glass Closet – the book and website launched by Lord Browne of Madingley – has teamed up with Gay Star News to launch a new online resource on the world of business, workplace best practice and careers

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davidh

www.gaystarnews.com/article/gay-star-news-partners-glass-closet-launch-new-business-section230215

Gaga, Graham Moore & NPH’s Bulge: The Gayest GIFs Of The 2015 Oscars

Gaga, Graham Moore & NPH’s Bulge: The Gayest GIFs Of The 2015 Oscars

channing-oscarGIFs via Les Fabian Brathwaite

The 87th annual Academy Awards were last night, and while you may have varying opinions on the success of host Neil Patrick Harris, the nearly four hour telecast offered up some memorable moments. Not nearly four hours worth, but like Hollywood, there were more misses than hits. But let’s took at the big, fat, gay hits from the 2015 Oscars.

Here are the gayest GIFs from the 2015 Academy Awards.

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The opening number was treacly and more sincere than I’m comfortable seeing with NPH, but it did offer this touching moment.

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Benedict Cumberbatch doing and saying what everyone in the audience was thinking by the last hour of the show.

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Shirley MacLaine’s sequined pantsuit

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The performance of “Everything is Awesome” featuring sapphic sister duo, Tegan and Sara.

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NPH giving the clothes off of his back for a laugh.

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Chris Evans’ beard.

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Anytime Meryl was on-screen. Like this reaction to her Into the Woods nomination clip.

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Or Meryl and J.Lo screaming “YAS!” at Oscar-winner Patricia Arquette for preaching about equal wages for women.

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And of course, this skirtsuit.

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Meanwhile, the In Memoriam notably left out Joan Rivers. [Ed. note: And Elaine Stritch].

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Jennifer Hudson reminding us all why she has an Oscar with her soul-stirring performance after the Rivers-less In Memoriam.

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David Oyelowo and Chris Pines’ man-tears after John Legend and Common brought down the house with their performance of “Glory.”

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This incredibly creepy moment between Adele Dazeem and Glom Gazingo.

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Lady Gaga making it rain glitter and unicorns with her epic Sound of Music tribute. Also, just gonna say it, Voice of a Generation.

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National treasure Julie Andrews approved.

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Though the gayest and greatest moment at the Oscars belonged to Best Adapted Screenplay winner Graham Moore. First of all, this queen won life when Oprah called his name, “Everybody gets a new car!” style.

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Then he got a hug and a kiss from Benedict Cumberbatch.

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Pretty sure he just died a little when this happened.

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And he gave the most moving speech of the night. Watch this and try not tearing up:

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John Stamos approved. And I approve John Stamos.

Les Fabian Brathwaite, so glad Julianne Moore finally has an Oscar, is awaiting Annette Bening’s to right the injustice of the world.

Les Fabian Brathwaite

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Scott Hines, Out Former Mayor Of Rancho Mirage, California, Dies Following Battle With Depression: VIDEO

Scott Hines, Out Former Mayor Of Rancho Mirage, California, Dies Following Battle With Depression: VIDEO

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Scott Hines, the gay former mayor of Rancho Mirage, California, died last Saturday night following a battle with depression, reports the Desert Sun.

581985_3530204861565_416052484_nScott Hines was elected to the City Council in April 2010 and served one term. During the 2010 campaign, residents received fliers encouraging them not to let Hines “infect” the city, a message interpreted by many as an attack on the gay community.

Hines, who served as an Air Force intelligence officer until the early 2000s, worked to raise awareness of the plight of the homeless and a number of LGBT issues. In 2013, he appeared on The Rachel Maddow Show to discuss the U.S. Air Force employment of “ex-gay” therapist Dr. Mike Rosebush as head of the Center for Character and Leadership Development.

Writing on Facebook, Hines’ husband, Kevin Blessing, said:

“I am less of a person today as I will no longer have this man’s wonderful energy around me, at the same time I am so blessed to have had him in my life in the first place.”

Blessing also said that Hines had been suffering from liver cancer.

His biological mother Cindy Gough Montgomery (above right, with Hines) also wrote about her son’s death:

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Watch Hines on The Rachel Maddow Show, AFTER THE JUMP


Jim Redmond

www.towleroad.com/2015/02/scott-hines-out-former-mayor-of-rancho-mirage-california-dies-following-battle-with-depression-video.html