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Kentucky State Senate Overwhelmingly Passes Anti-trans Bathroom Bill for Students

Kentucky State Senate Overwhelmingly Passes Anti-trans Bathroom Bill for Students

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Yesterday, the Kentucky Senate approved a bill that would require transgender students in the state to use the bathroom that matches their biological sex rather than their gender identification.

The vote was 27-9, with three Republicans joining Senate Democrats in opposing the bill. 

The Courier-Journal reports:

EmbryRepublican Sen. C.B. Embry (right), the bill’s sponsor, calls it a “common sense” approach to guide school administrators and safeguard privacy in areas where students are in a state of undress. Supporters argue the rule also would help protect transgender students from bullying and harassment by providing separate accommodations.

But opponents charged Friday that lawmakers are yielding to fear and discrimination. They said the bill will strip flexibility from school districts and violate federal guidelines on civil rights for transgender students.

“We need to acknowledge that this is the civil rights issue of our current time, and today this Senate has failed the people of Kentucky,” said Sen. Reginald Thomas, a Democrat who warned that the legislation would “cast a shroud of darkness” over the Senate.

Under the legislation, transgender students must either use the bathroom of their biological sex or seek special accommodations such as a faculty or unisex bathroom. 

The Lexington Herald-Leader has background on why the bill was introduced in the first place:

The bill stems from a controversy last year at Atherton, where a transgender student who was born male identified as a female and wanted to use the girls’ bathrooms and locker rooms.

A controversy arose, and the school eventually adopted a policy of letting students use bathrooms based on their gender identity. The decision was backed by the school’s site-based council and a Jefferson County Public Schools appeals committee. 

The bill now heads to the Democrat-controlled House, where Speaker Greg Stumbo has already indicated he isn’t interested in taking up the bill and “deciding where kids can go to the bathroom.”


Kyler Geoffroy

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James Franco Eats Booty In Bed, Hugh Jackman Likes It Cold And Strong, Madonna’s Blond Ambition Dancers Reunite

James Franco Eats Booty In Bed, Hugh Jackman Likes It Cold And Strong, Madonna’s Blond Ambition Dancers Reunite

This week, comic Billy Eichner taught Conan O’Brien how to use Grindr, the Queen of Pop had a scary wardrobe malfunction and Zachary Quinto revealed he is not looking for a husband. Here’s what happened recently on Instagram:

Hugh Jackman likes ‘em cold and strong.

 

Come on! A cold one after junket. Bullseye. @ChappieTheMovie

A photo posted by Hugh Jackman (@thehughjackman) on Feb 27, 2015 at 6:52am PST

Raul Castillo and Looking costars are still celebrating Halloween.

  Love this group shot from @lookinghbo #lookinghbo #lookingseason2 #lookinghalloween About last night… #Looking #Halloween   A photo posted by Raúl Castillo (@officialraulcastillo) on Feb 23, 2015 at 3:00pm PST

James Franco loves his booty, even of the Pirate variety.

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Some guuUUUD PIRATE BOOTY in BED!

A photo posted by James Franco (@jamesfrancotv) on Feb 27, 2015 at 4:54am PST

Sam Smith looks good in a scarf and so does his pal Nicholas.

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Me and Nicholas x @nicholasgrimshaw A photo posted by Sam Smith (@samsmithworld) on Feb 27, 2015 at 2:28am PST

Madonna‘s Blond Ambition dancers Slam and Jose have reunited — and it feels sooo good.

 

On our way to LA, after 25 years we are finally working together again, with my partner in crime, Jose Xtravaganza, who I adore ????

 

A photo posted by Salim Gauwloos (@salim.gauwloos) on Feb 27, 2015 at 11:12am PST

If Colton Haynes‘ van’s a-rockin’, don’t come a-knockin’.

#fbf but countin down the days till I’m reunited with this shaggin wagon ???????????? A photo posted by Colton Haynes (@coltonlhaynes) on Feb 27, 2015 at 11:44am PST

Darryl Stephens, of Noah’s Arc and Beyond the Lights, is feeling groovy.

 

70s Love Groove… photography: @stephanievovas; hair: @hairbyaviva; grooming: @bowman90026 #tbt

 

A photo posted by Darryl Stephens (@darrylstephens) on Feb 26, 2015 at 2:58pm PST

Steve Grand was once shy of the camera.

Jeremy Kinser

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Tomboy Recalls Being Taken to Gap to 'Fix' Their Gender (VIDEO)

Tomboy Recalls Being Taken to Gap to 'Fix' Their Gender (VIDEO)

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I’m From Driftwood is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit archive for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer stories. New stories are posted on the site every Wednesday.

Renee was a tomboy as long as they can remember. When Renee was a teenager, they were part of an all-girls youth group, and they were asked to represent the group at a pageant weekend. Part of that involved wearing a gown. Renee recalls:

[M]y 15-year-old self decided that to wear this formal gown, I was going to wear it with a fedora and a tie and elbow-length gloves. It was my way of asserting some kind of gender mixing, like, “If I have to wear this formal gown, this is what I’m going to do, and this is how I’m going to do it, as me!”

Renee felt comfortable in the gender-mixed attire, but the mom of one of the other students did not. In an attempt to “fix” Renee’s gender, the mom took Renee to Gap to buy them some pants for girls:

I found some tight, flare-leg jeans, like, “Fine,” and we left. I think she really did want to do right by me, but all I could remember in that moment was my ears getting hot, and my stomach was in my throat, and I just wanted to cry. That moment was the first time I was really consciously aware of someone actively policing my gender. And this little tomboy kind of felt like they needed to go back in the closet.

Renee found their footing in college by getting more involved with the LGBTQ community and learning that some people identify with the pronouns “they,” “them,” and “their,” which Renee does now. Ultimately, they say, it’s about doing what makes you happy:

It’s really hard to tease apart what you genuinely enjoy versus what everyone else is telling you that you want. If it makes you happy, if it makes your heart warm and fuzzy, if it’s what you genuinely enjoy, if you want to wear a bowtie and paint your nails, do it. If it’s not hurting anyone, if it makes you feel good, if it makes you feel beautiful, then feel beautiful.

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