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Could Repealing LGBT Protections Cost Houston The 2016 Final Four, 2017 Super Bowl?

Could Repealing LGBT Protections Cost Houston The 2016 Final Four, 2017 Super Bowl?

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Since Indiana Gov. Mike Pence signed an anti-LGBT religious freedom bill this week, the backlash has been enormous. 

Celebrities, corporationschurches and even the White House have come out against the discriminatory law — with some announcing boycotts of the Hoosier State. They include the NCAA, which issued a statement saying it’s concerned about how the law will affect its student-athletes and employees during the men’s basketball Final Four in Indianapolis next weekend. There’s also a petition calling for the Big 10 Conference to move its football championship out of Indianapolis.

Meanwhile, in Houston — which is scheduled to host the 2016 Final Four and the 2017 Super Bowl — anti-LGBT groups continue their efforts repeal an Equal Rights Ordinance passed by the City Council last year. 

Super-Bowl-Houston-BannerAfter Houston became the last major city in the US to add LGBT protections in May, opponents launched a petition drive to repeal them. The city eventually rejected the petition, saying it didn’t have enough valid signatures to qualify for the ballot.  

Anti-LGBT groups filed a lawsuit, and last month a jury determined that among other things, the petition contains widespread forgery. Based on the jury’s determinations about which signatures should be considered valid, Judge Robert Schaffer began a final count. More than a month later, Schaffer revealed this week that opponents of the ordinance are roughly 3,000 signatures short of the 17,269 needed to qualify for the ballot. However, approximately 8,500 signatures remain in question because they appear on pages circulated by people whose names aren’t legible. 

The Houston Chronicle reports: 

The plaintiffs argue that legibility should not be a factor.

“We can’t empower the government with the right to be the judge, jury and executioner on whether somebody has a right to vote based on penmanship,” said Andy Taylor, attorney for the plaintiffs.

The city, however, contends that if they can’t determine who a circulator is based on their signature or printed name, all the other signatures collected on that page should be discarded, per city charter and the judge’s ruling.

“The plaintiffs are mounting every desperate challenge they possibly can to try to overcome the effect of the jury’s verdict and the effect of the judge’s post-verdict rulings,” said Geoffrey Harrison, lead attorney for the city. “The plaintiffs lost at trial. They lose on the law. They lose on the facts. But they are prolonging this process by refusing to accept reality.”

Judge Schaffer is expected to rule in early April on the final signature count. If he determines the petition has enough valid signatures, the ordinance likely would appear on the November ballot. If he determines the petition doesn’t have enough valid signatures, the plaintiffs are expected to appeal.  

Either way, perhaps opponents of the ordinance and other citizens of Houston should take note of what’s happening in Indiana. If Houston repeals LGBT protections and again becomes the only major US city without them, it’s hard to imagine there wouldn’t be a push to get the NCAA to move the 2016 Final Four and to get the NFL to move the 2017 Super Bowl — among other things. 

Texas lawmakers might also want to take note, as several measures similar to the Indiana bill have been introduced in the current session of the state Legislature.

Houston and Texas have a reputation as business-friendly places, but judging by what’s happened in Indiana, that could easily and very quickly change. 


John Wright

www.towleroad.com/2015/03/opponents-of-houstons-equal-rights-ordinance-are-sticking-their-heads-in-the-sand-citys-attorney-say.html

Jonathan Groff And Russell Tovey’s Last Pic, Pablo Hernandez Is Furrier Than Ever, Ricky Martin Gets Chained Up

Jonathan Groff And Russell Tovey’s Last Pic, Pablo Hernandez Is Furrier Than Ever, Ricky Martin Gets Chained Up

This week, Looking was canceled by HBO, and Adam Lambert is an unapologetic bitch gay and Terry Miller and Colby Keller are getting together but not in the way you’re thinking. Here’s what happened recently on Instagram:

Max Joseph really knows how to blend in.

#Greyout

A photo posted by Max Joseph (@maxjoseph) on Mar 22, 2015 at 9:08am PDT

Gavin Creel is no longer an Instagram newbie.

Darryl Stephens helped launch the new HIV/AIDS awareness campaign for the San Diego LGBT Center.

The San Diego #LGBT Community Center has launched a new #HIVAIDS awareness and anti-stigma campaign. #BeTheGeneration: Live Out, Live Long, Live Healthy, Live Unafraid! Check out @lgbtcenter

A photo posted by Darryl Stephens (@darrylstephens) on Mar 25, 2015 at 12:52pm PDT

Ryan Lochte has never let a little snow deter from his workout routine.

Ricky Martin is all chained up, just the way we like him.

M.A.S. Tour Video intro. Produced and Directed by @elasticpeople #freedom

A photo posted by Ricky (@ricky_martin) on Mar 25, 2015 at 6:38am PDT

That time on the Looking set when Frankie J. Alvarez wrapped his lips around the giant didgeridoo and Murray Bartlett came out as an Aussie.

These two need to record a duet: Adam Lambert and Olly Alexander, powerhouse vocalist from Years & Years.

@ollyyears @yearsandyears great show tonight! Vocals for dayzzzzz

A photo posted by ADAMLAMBERT (@adamlambert) on Mar 25, 2015 at 11:40pm PDT

Joe Jonas has really gone to the dogs.

IDFWU A photo posted by Jøe Jønas (@joejonas) on Mar 25, 2015 at 7:14pm PDT

Pablo Hernandez wants you to look at his fur.

We knew it! Colton Haynes is Prince Bubblegum.

Lil Christian’s “Adventure Time” Bday party has begun! #FamilyTime #Kansas #PrinceBubblegum A photo posted by Colton Haynes (@coltonlhaynes) on Mar 21, 2015 at 11:10am PDT

E.J. Johnson works it out in Pilates class.

Lines and poses @boobsandloubs_ @pilatesbycindy #rkobh #teamthis

A photo posted by EJ Johnson (@ejjohnson_) on Mar 19, 2015 at 1:43pm PDT

Jonathan Groff and Russell Tovey: The final photo?

Tonight also on Sky Atlantic – the last ever episode of @lookinghbo #LookingHBO #patrick #kevin #happybirthdayJG

A photo posted by Russelltovey (@russelltovey) on Mar 26, 2015 at 9:39am PDT

Jeremy Kinser

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Indiana Restaurant Owner Calls in to Radio Station Proudly Saying He'll Refuse to Serve Gay Customers: LISTEN

Indiana Restaurant Owner Calls in to Radio Station Proudly Saying He'll Refuse to Serve Gay Customers: LISTEN

Kyle and rache

Warning: this might just ruin your Saturday morning.

Indianapolis morning radio show Kyle & Rachel was busy fielding caller comments on the state’s discriminatory “religious freedom” bill yesterday when a local bigot decided to call in and voice his support for the state’s new law.

Listen to Ryan, who says he owns a local restaurant and has discriminated against gay customers in the past, casually explain why he’s looking forward to his new “license to discriminate” AFTER THE JUMP… (warning: autoplay)

In related news, former NBA star Charles Barkley has called on the NCAA to move its March Madness Final Four tournament out of Indiana over the new law. 

[h/t joe.my.god]

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Kyler Geoffroy

www.towleroad.com/2015/03/indiana-restaurant-owner-calls-into-radio-station-proudly-saying-hell-refuse-to-serve-gay-customers-.html

Six Inventions That Changed The Way You Have Sex

Six Inventions That Changed The Way You Have Sex

We take it for granted that our sexual menus contain as many items as the Cheesecake Factory’s. Just don’t get any ideas with those mozzarella sticks — not pretty.

But sex has evolved along with the rest of human civilization in some wonderful ways. And some less-than-wonderful ways — did we really need ‘sexting’?

Here are six sexventions to be thankful of the next time you’re out shopping for a new flogger:

Dan Tracer

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Ohio State National Champion Wrestler Mike Pucillo Comes Out as Gay: VIDEO

Ohio State National Champion Wrestler Mike Pucillo Comes Out as Gay: VIDEO

Pucillo

Mike Pucillo, a former Ohio State All-American and National Champion wrestler, has come out as gay in an interview with wrestling journalist Jason Bryant over at TheOpenMat.com:

The three-time All-American and 2008 NCAA champion said he struggled with his sexuality for years. He said he spent time in high school hoping he wasn’t gay.

“I’ve always known, I guess,” said Pucillo, who came out to his parents and a close circle of friends a little more than a year ago. “You try to not think that’s what it really is, so I just tried to say it was nothing. Then you start to realize it’s not really nothing.”

Pucillo, the first openly gay Division-I national champion wrestler, said that part of his struggle to be open and honest about his sexuality stemmed from his private Catholic school upbringing that hammered in the point that homosexuality was a “bad thing.” The physicality of wrestling didn’t help things either.

“Wrestling is one of the toughest mentally, physically and manly sports there is,” he said. “It’s two dudes rolling around on a mat. People who don’t know wrestling call them leotards. It’s a joke, but it creates a built-in mechanism to say: ‘I’m not gay. I’m too manly to be gay. I’m too tough to be gay.”

Hearing the stories of out athletes like Dartmouth lacrosse player Andrew Goldstein, MLS player Robbie Rogers and retired MLB player Billy Bean, however, gave Pucillo the courage to embrace his identity.

Pucillo1“It may have taken me 26 years to realize that maybe I can play a bigger role in somebody else’s life and help somebody else’s life like Robbie Rogers or (Goldstein did),” Pucillo said. “If I can do that for one person, it’s worth it for everybody out there to know my story. … I know there’s going to be people that don’t like it. To those people, I would say, ‘I’ve spent 26 years being uncomfortable. It’s not my problem anymore.

“The only reason why I feel it’s important to tell my story is I know there are a lot of other people out there that are like me who are in high school or about to go into college, whether it’s wrestling or football or baseball or basketball or not in any sport, who are struggling with it,” he said. “The more stories they hear about it, the easier it is for them.”

Head over to TheOpenMat.com here for more on Pucillo’s inspirational coming out journey.

Watch a video of Pucillo at the 2013 Las Vegas/ASICS U.S. Open, AFTER THE JUMP

[photo via Facebook]

h/t Outsports

 


Kyler Geoffroy

www.towleroad.com/2015/03/ohio-state-national-champion-wrestler-mike-pucillo-comes-out-as-gay-.html

'Nail Salons Are More Regulated': A Gay Survivor Takes On The 'Troubled Teen' Industry

'Nail Salons Are More Regulated': A Gay Survivor Takes On The 'Troubled Teen' Industry
Nearly a decade ago, in Greeley, Colorado, two strange men woke David Wernsman in the middle of the night and told him he had to leave his parents’ home. When he resisted, confused and terrified, they pulled a belt around his waist and dragged him to a car.

The men took Wernsman on a plane to a secluded compound in the Dominican Republic, where 30 or 40 other kids were living in prison-like bunks. Wernsman, then 17, stayed at the compound for seven months, doing menial, pointless chores all day, memorizing Bible passages and enduring random, frequent beatings. “I was forced to bend over a chair,” he said. “These guys would hold your belt up to give you a wedgie and then just beat the shit out of you.”

Wernsman’s abduction and subsequent abuse came at the hands of Escuela Caribe, an evangelical-run organization that was one of an untold number of so-called “residential treatment programs” that promise to instill discipline, responsibility and personal change in “troubled” youth. All of the kids had been sent there by their parents. Some didn’t know exactly why they were there. Wernsman, though, had a pretty good idea: About a year before his kidnapping, he’d told his parents he was gay.

On Friday, Wernsman joined a group of advocates to announce a sweeping effort to regulate the industry of residential programs that claim to help such teenagers. Since these programs are not licensed, it’s impossible to say how many of them exist. Nor are there any statistics tracking whether or not the programs ever help the teens in their care — or how badly these teens have been harmed. The U.S. Government Accountability Office has reported that in 2005 alone, 1,619 program employees in 33 states were involved in incidents of abuse. GAO also found that untrained staff, lack of adequate nourishment and reckless operating practices had all contributed to the deaths of teenagers in these programs. According to Survivors of Institutional Abuse, an advocacy group working on the new campaign, more than 300 deaths have been linked to these programs.

“It’s outrageous that neighborhood nail salons are more regulated than the industry of residential schools, camps and wilderness programs that are entrusted with the lives of kids,” said David Garcia, director of public policy for the Los Angeles LGBT Center, another group working on the new campaign, according to a press release on Friday.

Garcia, Wernsman and Jodi Hobbs, one of the founders of Survivors of Institutional Abuse, hope the campaign will raise awareness of the problems at these facilities, which typically present themselves to parents as a wholesome way to help their children. They’re also hoping to pass state and federal legislation that will require such programs to obtain a license from the Department of Social Services and ensure that facilities be held accountable for incidents of child abuse or deaths. In California, state Sen. Ricardo Lara (D) has introduced the Protecting Youth from Institutional Abuse Act, and in Washington, D.C., Rep. Adam Schiff (D-Calif.) is working on similar legislation at the national level.

Other bills of this type have been introduced twice before in the last decade, but were not successful. Still, those involved with this latest campaign say that there has never been such a concerted push to raise public awareness of the issue. Furthermore, organizers say, LGBT groups have never been a part of this movement before. There are no statistics available about why kids are sent to such programs, but according to Hobbs, many are sent because their parents discovered they are LGBT. Others are sent because of drug abuse or depression, or simply because their parents or foster parents no longer want to deal with them.

“We expect California’s legislation to set an example for the rest of the country, but state legislation isn’t enough,” said Jim Key, a spokesperson for the L.A. LGBT Center. “When the abuses of these organizations are exposed in the media, it’s common for them to close and re-open in another state, often under a different name. And parents frequently send kids to programs outside their home state.”

When Wernsman’s parents sent him to Escuela Caribe, little was known about the program. That changed when Kate Logan, a film student from a Christian university in California, visited the facility — intending only to make a project for school — and discovered that the kids were beaten, held in solitary confinement and forced to perform punishing physical labor. Logan began filming what would become the 2014 documentary “Kidnapped for Christ,” which told Wernsman’s story.

A few years after Wernsman’s time there, Escuela Caribe shut down. But since then, a program called Crosswinds, which also promises to help troubled youth, has taken over its grounds. On its website, Crosswinds claims to be a “completely separate organization” from Escuela Caribe. Crosswinds did not respond to The Huffington Post’s request for comment.

Today, Wernsman’s parents have accepted his sexuality and even welcomed his boyfriend to their home. And although Wernsman’s relationship with his parents has been deeply damaged, he eventually found a way to forgive them.

“Parents are victims too,” he said, “because once you get in contact with this sort of facility, they’re a cult and they’ll draw you in, make you believe that you need this.”

Survivors say it can take decades to recover from the experience of being in one of these programs. Hobbs was sent to one more than 25 years ago. “I have anxiety, I have self-esteem issues, I have depression, I have post-traumatic stress disorder,” she said this week. “I still deal with my trauma daily.”

www.huffingtonpost.com/2015/03/28/troubled-teen-programs_n_6957646.html?utm_hp_ref=gay-voices&ir=Gay+Voices