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Hillary Clinton Offers Support To Young Gay Boy in Viral Facebook Photo

Hillary Clinton Offers Support To Young Gay Boy in Viral Facebook Photo

Hillary Clinton Offers Support to Young Gay Boy

A young gay boy scared about his future shown in a Facebook photo that went viral over the weekend is receiving some love and support from Hillary Clinton.

Popular Facebook page Humans of New York posted a photo of the bereft-looking young gay boy (above) with the caption, “I’m homosexual and I’m afraid about what my future will be and that people won’t like me.” The photo quickly went viral with many offering words of support in comments posted to Facebook. One of those commenters was none other than Hillary Clinton.

Mrs. Clinton wrote,

“Prediction from a grown-up: Your future is going to be amazing. You will surprise yourself with what you’re capable of and the incredible things you go on to do. Find the people who love and believe in you — there will be lots of them.”

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The comment was signed “-H” to indicate that the comment came directly from Mrs. Clinton.

The New York Times reports:

But the nature of Friday’s post — a young gay person who appeared little more than a child, and Mrs. Clinton’s comforting response — gave it a lightning-in-a-bottle charge that helped it spread rapidly. Within 24 hours, it had been liked by more than 530,000 people and shared over 47,000 times, with more than 33,000 people scrolling through the comment thread to like Mrs. Clinton’s response.

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Sean Mandell

Hillary Clinton Offers Support To Young Gay Boy in Viral Facebook Photo

Arielle Scarcella, Vlogger, Explores Self Confidence In The Lesbian Community

Arielle Scarcella, Vlogger, Explores Self Confidence In The Lesbian Community
Can you tell a woman’s sexual orientation just by looking at her photo?

YouTube vlogger Arielle Scarcella just released a new video in which queer women are shown pictures of two different women and asked to use their “gaydar” to identify who they think is a lesbian. Scarcella wanted to use this conversation as a point of entry to discuss what, exactly, we are identifying when we “use our gaydar.”

The results? Most of the women seemed to attribute their beliefs surrounding the subject’s sexuality to what they perceived to be self confidence. Scarcella then explained why, in her eyes, queer women tend to identify other queer women by a certain level of self confidence.

“I think confidence all stems from self love and self worth,” Scarcella shares in the video. “By coming out, us as LGBT people have the possibility — the potential — to risk losing everything… and in doing so we realize the only truth — all that we truly ever have — is ourselves. And that is true self confidence because the only place you can get it is from yourself and you’re not dependent on how others value you.”

Check out the video for yourself above or head here to see more from Scarcella.

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Who Else Wants To Play Brokeback Mountain With This Adorable Lumbersexual Who Lives In A Treehouse?

Who Else Wants To Play Brokeback Mountain With This Adorable Lumbersexual Who Lives In A Treehouse?

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Move over Dallas news reporter John Fenoglio, there’s scruffy new hunk vying for our attention.

Meet Foster Huntington. The 27-year-old lumbersexual recently quit his high-paying job in New York’s fashion industry to live… in a treehouse.

“I could’ve bought a house,” Huntington told the New York Times. “But this is so much better. For me, it’s realizing a childhood dream.”

He’s now in our dreams, too. Huntington’s new digs are located among the Douglas Firs in Oregon and consist of two structures connected by a swinging rope bridge. In the backyard is an outdoor hot tub and skate bowl where he practices skateboarding. The Times describes the property as “bro-topia,” where Huntington and his friends build tubs, outdoor showers, and the like.

All we know is that the young man makes for some yummy eye candy, as evidenced by his Instagram page, which not surprisingly has almost 1 million followers.

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Hundreds Of Thousands Of Gay Military Veterans Will Soon Have Access To Marital Benefits

Hundreds Of Thousands Of Gay Military Veterans Will Soon Have Access To Marital Benefits

Gay VeteransThis Independence Day weekend, hundreds of thousands of gay and lesbian military veterans can take comfort in knowing they should soon be free access to some marital benefits for the first time.

The Department of Veterans Affairs announced Monday it is working to extend marital benefits to gay veterans who live in the 13 states where same-sex marriage was still banned prior to the U.S. Supreme Court’s ruling in Obergefell v. Hodges.

It’s one of two major areas, along with Social Security, where the Obama administration was unable to equalize federal benefits nationwide after the high court’s 2013 decision in United States v. Windsor. That’s because of a federal statute saying VA benefits must be administered based on laws in the state where the recipient resides, not where their marriage was celebrated.

As a result, gay military veterans who were legally married in other states, but resided in states that didn’t recognize those unions, have until now been denied marital benefits including disability pay, home loan guarantees, death pensions and burial rights.

From The Washington Post:

“VA may recognize the same-sex marriage of all Veterans, where the Veteran or the Veteran’s spouse resided anywhere in the United States or its territories at the time of the marriage or at the time of application for benefits,” VA spokeswoman Victoria Dillon said in a statement describing the new policy.

The agency “will work quickly to ensure that all offices and employees are provided guidance on implementing this important decision with respect to all programs, statutes, and regulations administered by VA. ”

She said the agency is coming up with guidance on how to implement the changes; pending benefit-claims cases involving same-sex marriage will be placed on temporary hold until the guidance is in place.

AMPAIn August of last year, Lambda Legal filed a lawsuit against the VA on behalf of the American Military Partner Association seeking equal benefits for gay veterans in non-marriage equality states. 

From the AMPA:

The American Military Partner Association’s President, Ashley Broadway-Mack, said: “We are thrilled the VA is acting so quickly to implement the Supreme Court’s ruling and are ready to do right by ALL our nation’s veterans. These are important benefits our nation’s veterans have earned and it was unconscionable that some were denied based solely on where they lived.”

The Social Security Administration is also expected to update its policies in the wake of the ruling, according to Investment News:

In addition to recognizing same-sex marriages nationwide, SSA said it now “can also recognize some non-marital legal same-sex relationships (such as civil unions and domestic partnerships) as marriages for purposes of determining entitlement to Social Security and Medicare benefits.”

Following last week’s ruling, SSA said it is working with the Department of Justice to analyze the decision and to provide instructions to individuals affected by the ruling.

“If you are a spouse, divorced spouse or surviving spouse of a same-sex marriage or non-marital legal same-sex relationship, we encourage you to apply right away for benefits,” the agency said in a statement. “If you disagree with our decision about your entitlement to benefits, eligibility for benefits, or payment amount, you should appeal.”

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Young Gays Reflect On Their First Prides — Glitter, Nerves, Hookups And All

Young Gays Reflect On Their First Prides — Glitter, Nerves, Hookups And All

First word, first step, first day at school, first kiss — there’s really only one natural life progression to hit next — first Pride!

Do you remember your first Pride? No? Then you probably did something right.

But it’s not always rainbow glitter and unicorn smiles. Pride can be overwhelming, messy and eye-opening.

Below, guys Whisper their first Pride experiences — all the glory and the defeat.

I went to my first pride parade yesterday. It made me tear up when a group of Mormons in the parade gave me hugs, told me they loved me, and shook my hand.

I went to my first pride the other day and I have to say I've never felt happier or more loved in my life... As cheesy as that sounds :)

I went to pride for the first time yesterday, and I don't think I have ever felt happier and more carefree in my life

I went to my first pride, where my straight friend got hit on and I didn't.

I went to pride for the first time today. Wasn't that impressed. Maybe pride isn't my thing. The drag show was kinda cool tho

Went to gay pride for the first time in a bright pink jockstrap and a black flower crown. Took x, woke up this morning and threw up glitter.

Today I went to my first LGBT pride and I was surprised at how many churches support us.

Today I was supposed to meet a guy I've been talking to for six months at our first ever pride. He stood me up... I guess I'm really not relationship worthy.

I went to my first gay pride festival I had no idea what to expect and the first thing that happens was someone gave me condoms and asked if I wanted to test them... I ran like hell.

First time to gay pride ever. Ended up having sex with a stud in the parking lot

My first time at Pride was way better than I expected, every butt grab was like an unspoken compliment

I went to my first pride today! I felt it was necessary to go before moving back in with my homophobic parents.

Today was my first time at the pride parade it was amazing I danced, people showed me love, the guys were hot, and I got groped. IT WAS AWESOME!

Today I marched in my first pride parade. I was approached by protesters and I was scared. I'm a bisexual guy and a veteran, I support love in every form.

This year is the first time I've accepted myself and opened up as gay. I was extremely nervous to go to pride but it was so wonderful to see so much happiness in one place.

Pride fest was the first time I felt happy in a long time

Went to my first pride. It was one of the first times I've honestly felt like I was being true to who I am.

I finally feel like I can be comfortable with my sexuality after going to pride for the first time.

My first time at the pride parade I passed out because I was so nervous.

Dan Tracer

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Asia would see us as ‘decadent’ if we allow same-sex marriage: Australia minister

Asia would see us as ‘decadent’ if we allow same-sex marriage: Australia minister

In stating his opposition to Australia legalizing same-sex marriage, Agriculture Minister Barnaby Joyce warned that Asia could see Australia as ‘decadent’ and may potentially damage negotiations and our trading relationship in the region.

‘I think that what we have to understand is that when we go there [Asia], there are judgments, whether you like it or not, that are made about us and they see in how we negotiate with them whether they see us as – whether they see us as decadent,’ he is quoted in the Sydney Morning Herald as saying.

His comments come after fellow Liberal Party member and leader of the government in the senate Eric Abetz said last week that Australia should not legalize gay marriage because no Asian country has done so.

While marriage equality advocates say Australia is now lagging behind countries such as the US, Britain, New Zealand, and Ireland, Abetz questioned whether Australia should instead be following Asia on the issue.

‘The Labor Party and other journalists tell us time and time again that we are living in the Asian century, tell me how many Asian countries have redefined marriage?’ The Herald quoted Abetz as saying in an ABC radio interview.

‘Are we in the Asian century or not? It’s amazing how certain people try to pick and choose in relation to debates. All of the sudden the United States, which is usually condemned, is now being celebrated on this bizarre decision of a 5-4 decision in the Supreme Court.’

He added that legalizing same-sex marriage could open a ‘Pandora’s box’ of legalizing other unions, including polyamory, he said in a Sky News interview.

While no country in Asia has legalized same-sex marriage, many countries including Indonesia, Malaysia, Sri Lanka and Singapore recognize polygynous marriages under Sharia Law which applies only to Muslims.

Under Sharia law, a Muslim man can marry up to four wives.

Until February this year, Muslim men in India were able to have multiple wives until a Supreme Court ruled otherwise.

Australian Marriage Equality national director Rodney Croome said Australia should instead be a leader of marriage law reform in Asia.

‘Most countries that have similar legal and political systems to Australia have all embraced marriage equality. It is important that Australia provides leadership and hope to our Asian neighbors on this important reform, especially with the growing campaign for marriage equality across Asia.’

A multi-party same-sex marriage bill is expected to be introduced when Parliament resumes in August.

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