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Kentucky County Clerk Sued Over Denial of Marriage Licenses

Kentucky County Clerk Sued Over Denial of Marriage Licenses

Two same-sex and two opposite-sex couples filed the suit Thursday against Rowan County Clerk Kim Davis, who had ceased issuing marriage licenses. Meanwhile, a Tennessee county sees an exodus of officials opposed to marriage equality.

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Trudy Ring

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George Takei Calls Justice Clarence Thomas A 'Clown In Blackface' Over Marriage Equality Dissent

George Takei Calls Justice Clarence Thomas A 'Clown In Blackface' Over Marriage Equality Dissent
George Takei has come under fire this week for calling Supreme Court Justice Clarence Thomas a “clown in blackface” over the judge’s stance on marriage equality. However, the “Star Trek” actor insists that his comment was not racially motivated.

During an interview with Fox 10 Phoenix, Takei, who is gay, discussed the Supreme Court’s recent landmark ruling to legalize same-sex marriage nationwide. Takei said he was “angry” at Thomas, who dissented to the decision, for his position on the issue.

“He is a clown in blackface sitting on the Supreme Court,” said Takei. “He gets me that angry. He doesn’t belong there.”

In his dissent, Thomas, who is black, wrote that “human dignity cannot be taken away by the government,” adding: “Slaves did not lose their dignity (any more than they lost their humanity) because the government allowed them to be enslaved. Those held in internment camps did not lose their dignity because the government confined them.”

Takei, whose family was held inside a Japanese internment camp during World War II, took issue with this logic.

“For him to say slaves have dignity, I mean, doesn’t he know that slaves were in chains? That they were whipped on the back?” Takei said. “My parents lost everything that they worked for in the middle of their lives, in their 30s. His business, my father’s business, our home, our freedom and we’re supposed to call that dignified?… This man does not belong on the Supreme Court. He is an embarrassment. He is a disgrace to America.”

In the wake of the interview, Takei has been slammed for what has been called a “racist” comment — an accusation that the 78-year-old fiercely rejects.

On Thursday, he wrote on Facebook:

A few fans have written wondering whether I intended to utter a racist remark by referring to Justice Thomas as a “clown…

Posted by George Takei on Thursday, July 2, 2015

Takei elaborated on his thoughts in a op-ed for MSNBC.

“To say that the government does not bestow or grant dignity does not mean it cannot succeed in stripping it away through the imposition of unequal laws and deprivation of due process. At the very least, the government must treat all its subjects with equal human dignity,” he wrote. “It seems odd that Justice Thomas, as an African American, would be an opponent of marriage equality. His own current marriage, if he had sought to have it some fifty years ago, would have been illegal under then-existing anti-miscegenation laws. I cannot help but wonder if Justice Thomas would have felt any loss of dignity had the clerk’s office doors been shut in his face, simply because he was of a different race than his fiancée.”

Thomas is married to attorney Virginia Thomas, who is white.

William Shatner, who has been known to “feud” with Takei online, defended his “Star Trek” co-star on Twitter.

I am positive that George is not a racist. Let’s stop the spin doctoring. t.co/LiolPBqufN

— William Shatner (@WilliamShatner) July 2, 2015

In October 2008, a few months after California became the first state to legalize same-sex marriage (and a few weeks before Proposition 8 made it illegal again), Takei and his longtime partner Brad Altman tied the knot in Los Angeles.

The couple have been together for almost 30 years.

Watch Takei’s interview with Fox 10 below:

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Ricky Martin also dumps Trump

Ricky Martin also dumps Trump

You can add Ricky Martin to the quickly growing list of those who have dumped Donald Trump.

Martin is outraged by Trump’s comments two weeks ago that immigrants from Mexico are ‘bringing drugs, they’re bringing crime, they’re rapists.’

So much so that the openly gay singer is moving the annual Ricky Martin Foundation charity golf event away from Trump’s International Golf Club Rio Grande in Martin’s native Puerto Rico.

A new location has not yet been announced.

Helga García, a spokesperson for Martin, said in a statement: ‘This decision corresponds to the commitment of solidarity from our founding president to human rights and the Latino community.’

Martin had taken to Twitter last week to say he thinks Trump’s heart is filled with ‘hate and ignorance.’

Trump made his controversial remarks when he announced that he is a candidate for the Republican Party’s presidential nomination.

Since then, NBC-Universal has cut business ties with Trump including the airing of his Miss USA and Miss Universe pageants and removing him as the force behind the reality competition The Apprentice.

Macy’s department store chain, which carried a line of Trump menswear, also dumped the real estate mogul.

Trump has refused to apologize for his comments and he has been surging in several national polls of Republican candidates.

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Greg Hernandez

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Oregon Bakery Fined For Refusing To Make Wedding Cake For Lesbian Couple

Oregon Bakery Fined For Refusing To Make Wedding Cake For Lesbian Couple
The owners of an Oregon bakery must pay a $135,000 fine for refusing to make a wedding cake for a lesbian couple, a state official ruled on Thursday.

Oregon Labor Commissioner Brad Avakian agreed with a preliminary ruling that Sweet Cakes by Melissa illegally discriminated against a Portland couple in 2013 by turning down their request based on their sexual orientation, The Oregonian reported.

A judge had ordered owners Aaron and Melissa Klein to pay $75,000 in damages to Rachel Bowman-Crye and another $60,000 to her wife, Laurel Bowman-Cryer.

The Kleins had argued it was against their Christians beliefs to participate in a same-sex marriage. Supporters raised money for them earlier this year after an administrative law judge imposed the penalty.

The Bowman-Cryers, through their attorney Paul Thompson, said in a statement they were glad Avakian sent “a clear message that discrimination will simply not be tolerated in our state.”

“This has been a terrible ordeal for our entire family. We never imagined finding ourselves caught up in a fight for social justice,” they said.

“We endured daily, hateful attacks on social media, received death threats and feared for our family’s safety, yet our goal remained steadfast. We were determined to ensure that this kind of blatant discrimination never happened to another couple, another family, another Oregonian,” the statement continued. “Everyone deserves to be treated as an equal member of society.”

An email to HuffPost, the bakery said the decision was wrong, adding, “Americans should tolerate diverse opinions, not use the government to punish fellow citizens with different views. This case has become a poster for an overpowered elected official using his position to root out thought and speech with which he personally disagrees.”

The owners vowed in a Facebook post to appeal the decision:

“The final ruling has been made today. We have been charged with $135,000 in emotional damages, But also now Aaron has been charged with advertising. (Basically talking about not wanting to participate in a same-sex wedding) This effectively strips us of all our first amendment rights. According to the state of Oregon we neither have freedom of religion or freedom of speech. We will NOT give up this fight, and we will NOT be silenced. We stand for God’s truth, God’s word and freedom for ALL americans. We are here to obey God not man, and we will not conform to this world. If we were to lose everything it would be totally worth it for our Lord who gave his one and only son, Jesus, for us! God will win this fight.

The Sweet Cakes website features quotations from Biblical passages, such as, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight” from the book of Proverbs. It also explicitly states the bakery is interested in baking for weddings between a man and a woman.

“We here at Sweet Cakes strongly believe that when a man and woman come together to be joined as one, it is truly one of the most special days of their lives,” the homepage said. “We feel truely [sic] honored when we are chosen to do the cake for your special day.”

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Woman who received $43,000 for her ‘relentlessly gay’ yard accused of being a hoax

Woman who received $43,000 for her ‘relentlessly gay’ yard accused of being a hoax

A Baltimore woman who raised over US$43,000 – far in excess of her original US$5,000 goal – in just two weeks after claiming her Christian neighbors threatened her over her ‘relentlessly gay’ yard has now been accused of contriving the plot as part of a scam.

Julie Baker, a widowed mother-of-four who lives on the outskirts of the city and identifies as bisexual, launched a GoFundMe campaign on 16 June vowing to make her yard ‘even more relentlessly gay’ after she had received a note from a neighbor.

She wrote that the note signed by ‘A Concerned Home Owner’ told her that her yard which features a set of colorful lamps that ‘spell out ‘love’ and ‘ohana’ – a Hawaiian word for ‘family’ – is too ‘Relentlessly Gay’ as the neighborhood is a ‘Christian area and there are Children’.

‘Keep it up and I will be forced to call the police on You! Your kind need to have Respect for GOD,’ it warned.

She is now accused of contriving the story as consistencies and suspicions have surfaced.

Baker then has reportedly closed the account, saying she had raised ‘more than plenty’ of money.

Online sleuths have pointed out that both Baker and the letter she allegedly received appear to feature the same improper use of capitalization.

The letter features words such as ‘others,’ and ‘forced’ that are capitalized while her GoFundMe page shows words such as ‘home’, ‘relent’ and ‘hatred’ that are incorrectly capitalized.

Gay website Queerty reported that Baker consistently capitalizes words on her Facebook page, where she often goes on rants about Christian’s being opposed to gay marriage.

‘Myth-busting’ website Snopes contacted the police after reaching out to Baker.

It reported that when donations to the campaign reached US$43,000 critics began questioning why Baker was continuing to accumulate monies far in excess of her goal of $5,000.

Snopes then reached out to Baker asking if she could provide any information to readers to reassure them of the authenticity of her claims.

She replied to them saying, ‘I have been in contact with the police, they are satisfied with me, I am satisfied with them, and am grateful to them. They have no reason to believe that I have done anything wrong or been anything but authentic.

However Snopes found out that’s not the case when they spoke to a detective at Baker’s local precinct on 24 June after they were referred to them by ‘individuals connected with the Relentlessly Gay campaign.’

Snopes said they were told by a detective that ‘Baker was either unwilling or unable to produce the letter in question, and that she had maintained it was no longer in her possession.’

The detective also said that he had attempted to meet with Baker in person the previous day but was unable to do so.

Baker closed her GoFundMe page on 22 June. On the page, she thanked donors for their ‘extreme generosity.’

‘I just learned moments ago that I could turn off the donations, and I am doing so because I there is plenty, more than plenty, above and beyond the goal.

She also addressed the suspicions that it was a scam and promised to not withdraw any funds until the matter is cleared up.

‘On a sadder note, the world is filled with hate and fear, as such I want to work to remove any doubt about the authenticity of the letter.

‘Until then I am not taking a dime out of this account.

‘Please carry on with flooding the world with rainbows and joy, be relentlessly generous, be relentlessly compassionate, be relentlessly vibrant and stay relentlessly gay.’

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Sylvia Tan

www.gaystarnews.com/article/woman-who-received-43000-for-her-relentlessly-gay-yard-accused-of-being-a-hoax/

Girl Scouts troop returns $100,000 from transphobic donor and raises three times as much

Girl Scouts troop returns $100,000 from transphobic donor and raises three times as much

The Girl Scouts of Western Washington were initially thrilled when they received a $100,000 pledge – enough to send 500 girls to camp.

But it turns out the money came with strings attached.

Chief Executive Officer Megan Ferland received a letter from the donor which read: ‘Please guarantee that our gift will not be used to support transgender girls. If you can’t, please return the money.’

Ferland will not reveal the identity of the donor but she knew this was money the group could not keep.

‘Girl Scouts is for every girl,’ Ferland tells Seattle Met. ‘And every girl should have the opportunity to be a Girl Scout if she wants to.’

To make up for the $100,000 they turned away, the group launched an IndieGoGo crowdfunding effort this week and in the first three days, the campaign has raised more than $307,000 with donations coming from 6,480 people.

In a video on the crowdfunding page, the group states: ‘Girl Scouts empowers EVERY girl regardless of her gender identity, socioeconomic status, race, ethnicity, sexual orientation, to make the world a better place.’

With what has been raised so far, the group has raised enough money for 1,500 girls to join their troop and to be able to go to camp. Each additional $50,000 raised supports 250 more girls.

‘We are incredibly humbled and thrilled to see so many people from across the globe support this campaign,’ the group states.

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Greg Hernandez

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Holly Woodlawn, Warhol’s Great Superstar, Is In Very Bad Shape In L.A.

Holly Woodlawn, Warhol’s Great Superstar, Is In Very Bad Shape In L.A.

d35dfa66d37007d5e04a15bd8f7c9344Even if you haven’t seen Holly Woodlawn’s memorable work in seminal queer films such as Trash (legendary director George Cukor touted her work as worthy of an Oscar nomination) and Women in Revolt, you likely know her reputation from the immortal Lou Reed anthem “Walk on the Wild Side.” The late rock star singled out the pioneering trans entertainer, now 68 and forever linked to iconic pop artist Andy Warhol as one of his great self-proclaimed superstars, in the opening verse:

Holly came from Miami, F.L.A.
Hitch-hiked her way across the U.S.A.
Plucked her eyebrows on the way
Shaved her legs and then he was a she

Woodlawn, whose epic life was vividly chronicled in the 1991 memoir A Low Life in High Heels, is now in extremely poor health in a Los Angeles hospital and the outcome for her recovery isn’t very optimistic. A GoFundMe campaign has been set up by her friend and fellow entertainer Penny Arcade to help cover medical and (ugh) eventual funeral and burial costs for the ailing performer. Penny’s note about Holly reads:

Holly Woodlawn, the beloved, iconic Transgender LBGT pioneer and Warhol superstar is very ill. She is currently in the  hospital in Los Angeles in a private room.The hospital has asked that we not give out the name because they are already fielding many phonecalls about Holly and are not set up to handle it. Holly cannot speak on the telephone now and her condition is dire. She is undergoing investigative measures to determine exactly the nature of the lesions discovered on her brain and lungs. There are also other physical conditions challenging her recovery. Holly’s has made it clear that she wants to return home, surrounded by friends and if she must die, she doesn’t want to die in a nursing home.
We who love Holly, hope to raise enough funds to continue her care and hopefully  bring Holly home with 24 hour  nursing care , after she recouperates in a nursing home. Currently, we have no means to achieve these goals, which also include provisions for her funeral and to  secure her last resting place. Holly gave visability long before it was comfortable to do so and also gave thousands of people both hope and pleasure.
Please contribute and help us bring Holly home and please, please share this widely.

Experience a few minutes of the legend yourself with this short clip from her volatile performance in 1970’s Trash opposite Joe Dallesandro and scroll down for an amazing vintage interview.

Jeremy Kinser

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