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Jim Beaned: Late Late Show

I am going to do a late late show for you guys. I just have to go do some late night cardio and build up some juices in order to do another group show for you guys. It shouldn’t take me more than a couple of minutes to do that. I just have to do my standard 2 mile job to the store and grab an energy drink for the next day and we are all good. I will be on all tomorrow if you guys want anything special you know the drill. I can be reached here or on twitter or just wait until i log on and whisper me. I am trying to get on early tomorrow, and we can party all day,but if its a nice day out I am going to have to clean up my yard, but if it rains i can party with you. I am going to go for my run nwo and grab that drink so i can wake up tomorrow and be pumped up. I will see you guys in like 20 minutes or so, I hope your ready for a late night show, cause I know I am ready for a late night cum show. see ya and if I dont then well, maybe tomorrow. I hope yhou have a good night sleep.

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Could Australia see referendum on same-sex marriage?

Could Australia see referendum on same-sex marriage?

Prime Minister Tony Abbott on Wednesday announced the Coalition will look at holding a plebiscite or referendum on same-sex marriage to solve the issue once and for all.

This is despite having argued against holding a referendum on the issue and saying parliament was instead the best forum for the issue to be resolved in May this year after people in Ireland voted in favor of legalizing same-sex marriage.

Earlier this week, the PM threatened to sack or demote ministers who decide to vote in support of marriage quality after lawmakers from Australia’s ruling Liberal and National parties have blocked their colleagues from voting with their consciences.

On Wednesday, Abbott suggested the issue should be put to the public through a national referendum following the next election, warning people not to ‘underestimate the magnitude’ of legalizing same-sex marriage.

He said a popular vote on the issue was justified because it was such a ‘personal’ and ‘contentious’ issue that has only recently gained widespread support.

‘Please, let’s not underestimate the magnitude of this as a cultural shift,’ he was quoted as saying in the Sydney Morning Herald.

‘Never before in this country or anywhere until very recently has this been regarded as an appropriate cultural norm.’

Social Services Minister Scott Morrison suggested a full constitutional referendum on the question of how to define marriage.

He said on ABC’s 7.30 program on Wednesday night that a referendum to change section 51 of the constitution would provide the opportunity for both sides of the debate to be put to the Australian people.

‘Where we got to the other night was to say that this question really ultimately, fundamentally is one that should be determined by the Australian people.’

‘The question at the next election is about who will decide this matter on the other side of the election and our view is the Australian people should decide that, not politicians, not judges, but the people of Australia.’

Opposition Leader Bill Shorten has slammed the suggestion saying a national referendum would waste millions of taxpayers’ dollars and accused Abbott of being out of touch.

‘I think that millions of Australians will have woken up this morning, bitterly disappointed with Mr Abbott,’ he told Channel Seven.

‘I don’t understand for the life of me what Mr Abbott has against marriage equality. We shouldn’t have to wait for a referendum which by the way will cost tens of millions of dollars.’

‘I think Mr Abbott just needs to move with the times.’

According to the Australian Electoral Commission, if a referendum were to go ahead it would cost taxpayers an estimated A$121 million.

Australian Marriage Equality national director, Rodney Croome, said in statement on Thursday that while a plebiscite is not ‘our favoured option’ but should there be one, ‘it has to be a fair question and a proper process so it can’t be hijacked by the opponents of marriage equality.’

‘We believe marriage equality is best dealt with by a cross-party free vote in parliament, but if there is to be a public vote we believe today’s proposal is the best model.’

He added that he is confident that a properly regulated plebiscite would return a resounding ‘yes’ vote for marriage equality.

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Sylvia Tan

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Australia’s youngest MP Wyatt Roy says he will defy Prime Minister to vote for same-sex marriage

Australia’s youngest MP Wyatt Roy says he will defy Prime Minister to vote for same-sex marriage

Liberal MP Wyatt Roy says he will defy his party chief Prime Minister Tony Abbott to vote in favor of same-sex marriage.

His comments follow marathon six-hour Coalition meeting on Monday in which lawmakers from Australia’s ruling Liberal and National parties voted to block their colleagues from voting with their consciences.

The PM also warned his ministerial colleagues they would have to resign from the frontbench if they were to vote in support of same-sex marriage.

The Sydney Morning Herald reported that the Coalition party room voted against having a conscience vote on same-sex marriage by about 60 votes to 30 on Tuesday night, but about half of Abbott’s frontbench voted against this position.

Roy said in a wide-ranging interview with Buzzfeed that he’s adamant the current bill won’t get to a vote but if it did, he would ‘feel quite comfortable‘ to cross the floor.

‘I’m from a very socially conservative Queensland electorate but I told my constituents when I was first elected, I’m for same sex marriage and nothing will change that,’ said the 25-year-old politician.

Roy, who represents the electorate of Longman, Queensland became the youngest person ever to be elected to an Australian parliament in 2010.

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Sylvia Tan

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Pretty Little Liars</em> Transphobic Writing Is Hackneyed, Harmful

Pretty Little Liars</em> Transphobic Writing Is Hackneyed, Harmful
For six seasons, the ABC Family tween-drama Pretty Little Liars has been leading up to a reveal of who the hiding-in-plain-sight-all-along arch-villain was. Wednesday, the show revealed the psychotic antagonist to be Charlotte “CeCe” DiLaurentis.

Born Charles DiLaurentis. Who is crazy, and transgender, and crazy because they’re transgender and spent time in an asylum because they’re crazy. Because transgender. While the show’s producers have done a hand wave saying that CeCe comes from a crazy family and that all this has nothing to do with her being transgender, this claim is simply not credible. The rest of the “crazy” family aren’t doing the things that make CeCe the “Big Bad” of the show.

First, this “twist” was already cliché when Ace Ventura did it in 1994 four years after Silence of the Lambs did it in 1991, 11 years after Dressed to Kill and 31 years after Norman Bates cross-dressed his way through Psycho. Using transgender people and their transitions as a twist, and a way to explain psychotic behavior, is just plain lazy writing and has been for 50 plus years. It’s the “big-bad unmasking” equivalent to revealing that all of the 9th season of Dallas was all just a dream.

If George Lucas had made Jar-Jar Binks a crack dealer, it still wouldn’t be as hackneyed and offensive as what Marlene King and her writers have created. Even the name they chose is insensitive: CeCe McDonald is a transgender woman of color who went to a men’s prison for 19 months defending herself against a drunken Neo-Nazi.

So let’s look at all the stereotypes they hit:

Transgender people are crazy. Check

Transgender people are deceivers. Check.

Transgender people’s identities aren’t real (because they’re crazy). Check.

Transgender people are dangerous. Check.

It’s impressive really. They managed to create a character that simultaneously exemplifies all the negative stereotypes that prevent transgender people from getting jobs, receiving health care, finding housing and being accepted as who they are by their families. It did manage to reaffirm the messages transgender people are probably dangerous, should be locked in asylums, are lying about who they are and are an acceptable target for violence.

The producers of the show managed to reinforce the talking points of every right wing, anti-LGBT hate group working against the basic human transgender people in the US.

Great job. Have a cookie.

What’s worse is that the producer should know better. From the 1870’s onwards, the concept of “female hysteria” was used to dismiss anything women thought, did or said, as well as their objections to being labeled as such. Donald Trump’s odious comments about Megyn Kelly echo those 19th century labels, and demonstrate that when you categorize an entire group of people as mentally incompetent, it sticks around for generations.

It’s also not as if the writers weren’t warned this was a really, really bad idea in feminist online media content months ago. It was noted that the show had already handled pronouns badly, and clearly had no idea how transgender people live, given the character they were speculating about.

And therein lies the problem. It isn’t as if there aren’t tons of transgender people to talk to. It’s not like transgender studies, journal articles, blogs, authors, actors, activists or reality TV shows are hard to find these days. The shows’ writers weren’t interested in telling a new or different story, they were telling the story that people want to hear; the story that they have heard over and over before.

There’s comfort in people who are different than you being uncomfortable and dangerous. Them versus us. It’s an easy narrative, and it’s one transgender people can’t fight back against. Everyone knows transgender people are mentally ill, right? Or are a threat to women and children. Of course crazy people deny being any of these things.

Is it any wonder we can’t find jobs when such stereotypes predominate and have been pushed out by lazy hacks for decades? Or can’t get housing? Or medical care? Or that our families forsake us? And when we’re broke, homeless and completely alone in the world when we choose to end our lives, you look at us and say, “Well that’s just what crazy people do.”

It’s this sort of crass logic that lets the privileged look at everyone else in America who is suffering from systemic violence, oppression and silencing and say, “they probably deserved it.”

Because looking at yourself in the mirror and saying “I’m part of the problem,” is much harder than labeling others whom you see as broken, inferior or deserving of what befalls them as a class.

And you, Marlene King, are a part of the problem.

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Defiant county clerk in Kentucky ordered to issue marriage licenses to same-sex couples

Defiant county clerk in Kentucky ordered to issue marriage licenses to same-sex couples

Kentucky’s anti-gay Rowan County Clerk Kim Davis had a bad day in court Wednesday (12 August).

US District Judge David Bunning ruled that Davis’ personal religious beliefs do not exempt her from from performing the duties of her public office.

That includes issuing marriage licenses to same-sex couples following the US Supreme Court’s ruling on 26 June that made same-sex marriage legal in all 50 states.

Bunning wrote in his ruling that Davis ‘is refusing to recognize the legal force of US Supreme Court jurisprudence in performing her duties.’

Davis, who has been married four times, was sued by the American Civil Liberties Union on behalf of four couples – two straight and two gay. She has refused to provide marriage licenses to any couple – same-sex or opposite sex – since the Supreme Court ruling.

‘Government officials have a duty to impartially administer the law. When a law is updated, they cannot refuse to provide essential public services simply because they object, for personal religious reasons,’ said Michael Aldridge, executive director of the ACLU of Kentucky.

ACLU of Kentucky Cooperating Attorney Dan Canon added: ‘The ruling represents a total victory for our clients.’

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Greg Hernandez

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News: China, Aaron Schock, Star Wars, Alexander Ludwig

News: China, Aaron Schock, Star Wars, Alexander Ludwig

china13n-7-web> Massive warehouse explosion leaves at least 17 dead in China.

> Bernie Sanders overtakes Hillary Clinton in new poll out of New Hampshire.

> This modernist courtroom sketch of Tom Brady is not so flattering.

> Do not mess with Taylor Swift fans.

> Patti Smith memoir Just Kids to be Showtime series.

> First trailer for Quentin Tarantino’s The Hateful Eight drops.

> Aaron Schock locked in battle with Department of Justice over release of records. 

> Former President Jimmy Carter has been diagnosed with cancer.

ancient-sword> Can you help crack the mysterious code encrypted on this medieval sword?

> Anti-gay former Virginia Governor Bob McDonnell to appeal conviction on corruption charges to SCOTUS. 

> Military historian explains that the Civil War was primarily about slavery.

> Sneak peek at Adam Driver’s villainous Star Wars character Kylo Ren. And a first look at The Force Awakens.

male-models-details-08122015-lead-600x450> Hump Day Hotness: 31 of the world’s hottest male models.

> Poll: Black and White Americans have different perception of police.

> Twin Peaks is coming.

> Dallas, Texas businesses launch campaign to welcome LGBT customers.

ludwig> Alexander Ludwig is all grown up.

> Shooting guns with Ann Coulter.

> Donald Trump’s campaign store is open and it could be better.

> President Obama pens op-ed on the Voting Rights Act.

> Ohio State marching band song-parody book mocks gays, the holocaust.

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Sean Mandell

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PHOTOS: 'Art AIDS America'

PHOTOS: 'Art AIDS America'

Uncomfortable, wistfully beautiful, and vitally important, the exhibit ‘Art AIDS America’ deals with the subjects we shy away from: sex, politics, and religion.

Uncomfortable, wistfully beautiful, and vitally important, the exhibit ‘Art AIDS America’ deals with the subjects we shy away from: sex, politics, and religion.

Christopher Harrity

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