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Giving Jimmy Carter Credit For Forty Years Of Support

Giving Jimmy Carter Credit For Forty Years Of Support

Former President Jimmy CarterAfter the flurry of news about Jimmy Carter’s acknowledgment that he has metastatic cancer, the media attention has died down. The former president has started receiving his first treatments to deal with the disease, and he’s even back to teaching Sunday school.

But by all accounts, Carter is facing an uphill battle from a combination of an aggressive disease and advanced age (he’s a month away from turning 91).

When it comes to gay issues, Carter is probably best known for saying just last month that Jesus would have been perfectly fine with marriage equality. (Carter came out in favor of marriage equality in 2012.) His comments attracted some attention, but Carter has been relegated to the category of elder statesman (a nice way of saying irrelevant) for so long, that what he thinks doesn’t stir up my controversy any more.

What may matter more is what Carter was able to accomplish when he was in office. Even his most ardent admirers would be hard put to place him in the top echelon of presidents. But when it comes to gay rights, Carter deserves a fair amount of credit. He was really the first president to take positive (and concrete) steps to acknowledge the importance of gay rights.

During his administration, the Foreign Service lifted its ban on gay and lesbian personnel and the Internal Revenue Service lifted its requirement that any LGBT nonprofit state that homosexuality was “a diseased pathology.”

His administration was also the first to invite gay activists to the White House, at the height of the Anita Bryant fear-mongering. The move was controversial and ultimately contributed to Midge Constanza, the official who issued the invitation, deciding to step down. But Carter didn’t quash the meeting either, which would have been the politically easy thing to do.

Like many another politician, including the current White House occupant, Carter went back and forth on gay issues. He  was on record supporting gay rights as early as 1976, but caved when it came to supporting a plank in the Democratic party platform. During his re=election campaign, he refused to commit to issuing an executive order prohibiting employment discrimination. The political reasons for his waffling were easy to understand (if not forgivable), given that the Democrats were still stinging from George McGovern’s defeat in 1972, which pundits widely attributed to the party’s leftward drift.

Still, for at least two reasons, Carter’s willingness to offer support to the cause was important. For one, the times were very different, and the modern LGBT movement was just beginning to emerge. The support of the president offered a legitimacy that was much needed to spur the movement’s advance.

The other reason is one that is easy to forget. Carter is an evangelical and has been very upfront about the importance of faith in his life. He proved that supporting gay rights didn’t fly in the face of all religious belief. Since Carter’s defeat in 1980, evangelicals have largely cast their lot with the Republican party and evangelical leaders have made gay-bashing their bread and butter. But it wasn’t always so.

Carter may not have been anyone’s idea of the perfect president. But it’s not hard to imagine that the country’s early response to the AIDS epidemic would have been very different if Carter had been re-elected. (It could hardly have been worse.)

As Carter enters the last stage of his life, only a low-life would spend time badmouthing him. (Needless to say, there are Republicans ready to duke it out for the title. ) It’s worth remembering the groundwork that Carter laid as president for the gains we’re finally seeing now. He was too timid at times, but he moved the argument for gay rights forward, and forty years later, still continues to do so.

For that he deserves our respect.

JohnGallagher

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Ellen DeGeneres tackles gender stereotypes with new GapKids clothing range

Ellen DeGeneres tackles gender stereotypes with new GapKids clothing range

Ellen DeGeneres is expanding her clothing and lifestyle brand, ED, to support and encourage young girls, however they choose to express their identities.

Working in collaboration with Gap, the new GapKids x ED line is aimed at every girl, ‘whether they skateboard or dance, wear dresses or jeans, build forts or paint rainbows, or everything in between,’ the website explains.

Using a simple color palette of blues, reds and neutral tones, many of the items in the range feature slogans, ditching the more ‘traditional’ gendered statements in favour of inspirational lines including ‘Be your own hero’, ‘Dance’, ‘You better believe it’ , even quoting a line from Shakespeare’s A Midsummer Night’s Dream on one of the tops: ‘And though she be but little, she is fierce.’

In promotional video, Ellen explained: ‘We focus so much on our differences and that is creating a lot of chaos and negativity and bullying in the world.

‘And I think that if we focus on what we all have in common which is ‘we all just want to be happy’ that would be a lot better.’

As well as graphic tees, leggings, dresses and hoodies, the range also includes accessories, including caps, tote bags, backpacks, lunch boxes and sew-on patches.

GapKids x ED is donating $250,000 from the sales of the range to Girls Inc, a non-profit organization set up to inspire girls to be confident and fulfil their potential.

 

Below are a few of the items now on sale:

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Tote – $24,95

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‘Creative’ baseball hat – $14.95

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Graphic tee – $24.95

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Graphic tee – $24.95

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Sneakers – $24.95

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Mel Spencer

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Gay Iconography: Let’s Get Weird With Amy Sedaris

Gay Iconography: Let’s Get Weird With Amy Sedaris

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Even the most commonly recognized gay icons — Madonna, Gaga, Kylie — inspire spirited debate among the gay community, with folks just as passionately arguing a lack of relevance, talent or appeal. There are some exceptions, among them the quirky comedian, author and actress Amy Sedaris.

The younger sibling of out author David Sedaris has been captivating audiences with her off-kilter characters and campy craft projects since first winning hearts as bisexual former junkie sex-worker-turned-forty-something high school student Jerri Blank. That’s just the tip of the twisted iceberg for Sedaris’ warped ways. In addition to creating one of the most memorably (and lovably) strange characters in television history, she’s also turned in a series of scene-stealing performances on shows including Sex and the City, Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt and Broad City.

Off screen, Sedaris has become something of an anti-Hints From Heloise, compiling advice and recipes for entertaining and crafting delivered with Sedaris’ signature oddball style. Perhaps it’s that send-up of 1950s-style domesticity that speaks to a certain gay audience’s appreciation of camp, or maybe it’s just the subversion of such tired traditional Americana. Or maybe it works so well because she’s so hilarious. No matter the cause, Sedaris enjoys a level of celebrity in certain pockets of the gay population that ensures whatever she does next will be popping up in a newsfeed near you.

Take a look back at some of her work in some of our favorite clips below.

Before she became Jerri Blank, Sedaris was part of the Second City comedy troupe in Chicago. In 1995, she worked with Paul Dinello and the new host of The Late Show on CBS, Stephen Colbert, on a Comedy Central sketch show, Exit 57. The show was canceled after one 12-episode season, but was something of a critical darling.

Sedaris, Dinello and Colbert worked together again launching Strangers With Candy in 1999. The series follows admitted “boozer, user, and loser” Jerri Blank as she goes back to high school as a forty-something woman. Inspired by Scared Straight-esque motivational speaker Florrie Fisher, the series also skewered the teen drama My So-Called Life. After running for three seasons from 1999-2000, a film prequel was released in 2007.

Sedaris’ takes on domesticity aren’t exactly what you’d expect to see in Better Homes & Garden. Her guide to entertaining I Like You: Hospitality Under the Influence offers suggestions on how to repurpose pantyhose, customize guests’ cigarette lighters with shelfpaper and how to repurpose cheeseballs for later parties (which she discusses in the hilarious clip above with Martha Stewart). Don’t laugh it off; the book spent more than 12 weeks on the New York Times bestseller list. She followed that up in 2010 with Simple Times: Crafts for Poor People, for those of us who can’t resist a good set of googly eyes or a mosaic of James Brown made from corn, rice and beans.

Even if alt-comedy is not your taste, you may have glimpsed Sedaris in Dolly Parton’s video for “Better Get To Livin’”. Sedaris described the experience to PrideSource: “When they asked me to do it, I was like, ‘Of course!’ And then when they told me I got to work with a monkey, I was like, ‘Dolly, who?!’ Yeah, my dream was to work with a little monkey and the vest that the monkey wore – [costume designer] Adam [Selman] had made him a little vest – we put that in the book. It’s next to the banana pudding. It’s cute.”

Sedaris has a way of shining in every scene she’s in. Whether she’s playing one of Carrie Bradshaw’s agents on Sex and City or a desperate divorcee in Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt, Sedaris’ strange characters are always just human enough to feel authentic. She was particularly effective as a real estate rep on Comedy Central’s Broad City, darting around NYC in her Smart car wearing a neck brace.

What’s your favorite Sedaris scene?

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Bobby Hankinson

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INTERVIEW: Sir Ian McKellen – ‘I was thrown out of Taylor Swift’s New York apartment!’

INTERVIEW: Sir Ian McKellen – ‘I was thrown out of Taylor Swift’s New York apartment!’

Iconic actor Sir Ian McKellen thrilled crowds at today’s Manchester Pride, where he marched as grand marshal.

Shortly after completing the procession, the iconic actor sat down with GSN to discuss the third series of Vicious, partying on Canal Street with Coronation Street’s Antony Cotton, and the true meaning of pride…

Thank you for designing GSN’s 2015 pride tote bag! Are you pleased with how it turned out?
It’s brilliant!

Have you always had a knack for drawing?
No, as you can tell…

Where did the idea for the design come from?
There was a comedian called Sir George Robey, he was a huge star – he always used to draw little caricatures of himself.

You’ll have to frame it and put it on your wall…
Frame it?! I shall use it for my shopping.

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You were interacting a lot with the crowd during today’s Manchester Pride parade…
It was lovely. Such a variety. A lot of gay people, obviously, and straight people, people who brought their kids, dogs, people who can’t move on their own, people in wheelchairs…just people.

Are you going out tonight?
A lot of people have come up, so…what would you recommend?

Poptastic!
What’s that?

An indie-pop night…
I see.

Or perhaps Cruz 101 instead?
I’m told that’s a bit dingy and dirty… But lively, is it?

Well, in an entertaining way.
Well, I met a young man yesterday, a waiter at the Richmond Tea Rooms. About six foot one. His drag name is Licorice Black. He was at Cruz last night. Maybe I’ll nip down.

Can you remember your first time on Canal Street?
It was probably after Queer As Folk. I was living in London and wasn’t really aware of what was going on. I’m usually on Canal Street on the arm of Antony Cotton, which is a dangerous place to be. He’s so recognized, so beloved.

Do you have a close knit set of gay friends?
A lot of them are gay, but not all. I do notice, when I have 10 people round for dinner or something, I look and think ‘They’re all gay!’ Or ‘There’s a straight person, how are they going to get on?’ Or I don’t have enough women. It can be difficult to balance it out. But I don’t have any friends who aren’t totally at ease with gay people. My favorite group is straight men who are gay-friendly. I find that very attractive.

How does it feel to be part of Taylor Swift’s ‘squad‘?
I’m not. When I was living in Peter Jackson’s apartment in New York, Taylor Swift bought it while I was there and I was thrown out before I wanted to leave! That hardly puts me in Taylor Swift’s team, does it? You look shocked.

We are shocked!
[Laughs] She bought it, she had every right to – I was just lodging there for free! She did ask me to appear with Patrick Stewart at her show in LA, but I had something else to do that night.

Is there any news on the third series of Vicious?
I keep being told to not take another job because it’s going to happen, but I don’t know for certain.

How do you feel about the public reaction to it?
It’s a bit like Marmite. That’s what Derek Jacobi said. People either love it or hate it. A lot of people today – particularly middle-aged, clearly heterosexual women – have shouted [puts on Mancunian accent]: ‘LOVED you in Vicious!’ As long as they’re happy! We’re not trying to change the world with Vicious.

Are you looking forward to the new Stonewall film?
I’ve heard a little bit about it. I haven’t seen it. I would like to know more about what actually happened. I’ve heard the stories and I visited the Stonewall Inn for the first time very recently. One of the barmen was there the night of the riots. But I know there’s some disagreement with the representation of the principal players. Have you seen it?

No. We’ve seen the trailer. So far, the accusations of whitewashing have been directed at the trailer rather than the film. No one has seen the film yet.
It’s a bit early to criticize then. I know enough about trailers to know they’re not necessarily representative of the film. No one is likely to have made a film about the Stonewall Riots in order to distort the story. But they may have had to do certain casting to get the film made. The Harvey Milk film [Milk, 2008] was romanticized. It was wonderful. I loved Pride [2014], that was romanticized, fictionalized. I suppose they were more attractive looking people in the film than were there in life. Does that matter?

Has narrating the documentary Muslim Drag Queens, and learning about that part of the LGBTI community, made you connect to Pride in a different way?
Well, I’m not sure there is a gay [or LGBTI] community. There are gay communities and that’s one of them, one that I’m not privileged to be a part of. I’m gay, but I’m not Asian. Gay Asians have a series of particular problems that they’re coping with. What I like about those drag queens is they’re practicing Muslims. They’re down on the mat praying to Allah. And their Allah loves gay people. So if ever some Muslim says that Allah doesn’t like gay people – they need to talk to those Muslims. But it’s hard for them, desperately hard.

I’m afraid religion’s never been much of a friend to gay people. Except the Quakers. Quakers have never had a problem. And yet they’re the people who are most bound by the Bible. They follow its instructions. ‘Thou Shalt Not Kill.’ They’re pacifists. Why aren’t all Christians pacifists?

Did the experience of narrating the documentary teach you a lot about drag?
I’ve known about drag all my life. There’s drag in pantomime. The dame is a sort of drag. And I’ve played a dame myself – Widow Twankey. That’s one sort of drag, isn’t it. Pantomime drag is another thing all together. You’re not meant to be a convincing woman.

Would you do drag now?
It’s never really interested [me]. I’m the sort of gay man who likes to wear trousers. When I’m in drag I look too alarmingly like my sister, and I don’t think that’s fair on her!

Do you think one of the reasons the concept of pride is so important is because it advertises a community where everyone is welcome?
That’s a lovely way of looking at it. It certainly is that. Although I suppose Pride is different for every person. Some people are just gawping. For me it’s a celebration: being out and not giving a damn. Being grateful that we’re in a country where that’s possible. But it does make me think. Three hours away in Moscow, they’re not going to have another pride march for 100 years, it’s been banned. I wouldn’t like to be growing up gay in Russia.

People say it’s all over here, but in Northern Ireland it’s not. Gay people can’t get married in Northern Ireland. Southern Ireland voted [yes] in the referendum and everyone was very proud. But in the north… So I think Pride’s about realizing you can’t take your rights for granted. Coming out, for me, and for a lot of people – it does politicize you. It makes you take an active interest in politics, because you watch the way your life and other gay people’s lives can be affected by it.

Politics is really about making connections. We’re all brothers, whatever we look like, however old we are or what our gender is. Rather than a community, it’s an international movement. And there will be some people today who come out. They come in from the countryside and by the end of the evening have made friends and think ‘I’m not on my own.’

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Jamie Tabberer

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Meet The First Openly Trans Man In The U.S. Military Shane Ortega: VIDEO

Meet The First Openly Trans Man In The U.S. Military Shane Ortega: VIDEO

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YouTuber Raymond Braun interviewed Sergeant Shane Ortega the first openly trans man in the U.S. Military on his life, trans rights and his time in the military on a Hawaiian beach.

Sgt. Ortega served three combat tours, two in Iraq and one in Afghanistan, and engaged in 400 combat operations. He’s also “pumped” about the Department of Defense’s plan to lift the ban on transgender military members (scheduled to end May 2016)

Watch Ortega explain his story and what being trans is like in the U.S. military, below:

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Anthony Costello

Meet The First Openly Trans Man In The U.S. Military Shane Ortega: VIDEO

Tom Daley’s 2016 calendar is ready to go

Tom Daley’s 2016 calendar is ready to go

It’s not too early to be thinking about the upcoming year. Especially when it comes to 12 months of Tom Daley pictures. The Olympic diver posted a YouTube video into a photo session for his 2016 calendar

The below clip will cause many of us to add this to our must have list. Daley jumps on a trampoline, wears some fancy evening wear, and, of course, shows his perfect abs.

Go to Pyramidshop.com and make the purchase. Why put it off?

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James Withers

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Uganda Gearing Up to Re-criminalize LGBT Advocacy

Uganda Gearing Up to Re-criminalize LGBT Advocacy

Lawmakers in Uganda are preparing to introduce legislation that could lead to any organization that advocates for LGBT rights being declared illegal.

BuzzFeed reports:

yoweri museveni, ugandaThe proposal, known as the NGO bill, is about much broader issues than LGBT rights. It would expand the power of the government’s current NGO Board, allowing it to ban non-governmental organizations for essentially any reason, including when a group’s goals are “in contravention of the law” or if it is “in the public interest to refuse to register the organization.” Any organization that doesn’t register, which is how many LGBT groups currently operate in Uganda, would be considered illegal.

The timing — interrupting campaigning for primaries for spots to compete in the 2016 national election — suggests it is heavily motivated by political concerns. Civil society organizations are seen as strongly allied with the opposition coalition called the Democratic Alliance challenging the nearly 30-year rule of President Yoweri Museveni.

A similar anti-LGBT proposal was passed in 2014, although the law was later thrown out in court due to a technicality.

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Kyler Geoffroy

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