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19 Adorable Photos Show Just Why Grandchildren Are So Special

19 Adorable Photos Show Just Why Grandchildren Are So Special

National Grandparents Day — coming up on Sunday, Sept. 13 — is the perfect time to showcase the precious bond grandparents enjoy with their grandchildren.

We asked you to tell us about your own grandparents — and your own grandchildren — and we were inundated with lovely stories. On Wednesday, we published our tribute to grandparents and, today, it’s the grandkids’ turn.

Check out these 19 gorgeous photos — as well as many more included in the slideshow below. What beautiful families!

Happy Grandparents Day everyone!

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The men and women of Austria’s Pink Lake

The men and women of Austria’s Pink Lake

Imagine a few hundred LGBTIs taking over a peaceful and picturesque Austrian mountain town for a long weekend of swimming, sunbathing and partying.

This was Pink Lake – an annual LGBTI festival in the town of Velden, one of Austria’s most holiday resorts, set on the stunning Wörthersee lake.

The four-day event from 3 to 6 September saw three big parties. The first, a traditional Austrian affair with guys dressed in lederhosen and girls in dirndl, then a roller disco and finishing off with two party boats cruising over the 20km long lake.

During the day, festival-goers relaxed at the Pink Lake Beach Club. Even a day of rain didn’t stop the party – revelers just moved in to the club’s spa, alternating sauna sessions with a refreshing dip in the crystal-clear lake.

Check out the guys and girls of Pink Lake here:

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Gay Star News was a media partner of Pink Lake for the fourth year. We booked our flights to Klagenfurt, a short taxi journey from Velden, via Cheapflights.

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Tris Reid-Smith

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Which Hollywood Superstar Isn’t Happy With Madonna’s Rebel Heart Tour?

Which Hollywood Superstar Isn’t Happy With Madonna’s Rebel Heart Tour?

Each week online comedian, voice actor and chest hair model Sam Kalidi creates a new meme for Queerty readers. This week, he ponders Madonna’s recently-launched Rebel Heart tour and the lingering resentment that one movie icon has at being left out of the singer’s classic anthem “Vogue.” Sam looks forward to all your hate mail. You can find him on TwitterFacebook, Instagram and at your local glory hole.

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Jeremy Kinser

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The One Thing All LGBT Activists Agree On

The One Thing All LGBT Activists Agree On

How do I begin to even describe Lillian Faderman’s The Gay Revolution: The Story of the Struggle? By saying it’s a book that nearly every reviewer and activist has described as the most well-written and researched, epic historical book about the LGBT movement? First of all, I want to confess: I am in this book. So is my wife. But were we not in this book, I would still regard it as the greatest literary achievement chronicling our struggle for equal rights, human rights, liberation, and finally, civil rights.

Most of us know —and if you don’t, you should, so Google — who Lillian Faderman is. She is a Lambda Literary and Stonewall Book award-winning author, scholar, and retired college professor. (She is also married to Phyllis Irwin, and they are mothers and grandmothers).

Faderman covers everything from the early witch hunts of homosexuals and the first attempts to fight back, to Stonewall to Anita Bryant to “don’t ask, don’t tell” to the marriage equality movement. But what makes Faderman’s book so compelling is that she did over 150 interviews, not just of the famous activists, but everyday LGBT people harmed by the hatred against us. She depicts the rise and fall of the early gay rights groups, compelling stories that have not been told very much but deserve to be. 

She gets it right about Frank Kameny and Barbara Gittings, two people rightfully described as what they called each other: the mother and father of the gay rights movement. The book is a page-turner, very difficult to put down. But I am just one activist saying that this is a brilliant must read book. Why believe just me? So here are some quotes about The Gay Revolution:

The Gay Revolution fills a yawning gap in history literature, providing readers for the first time with a history of the entire LGBT civil rights movement, from its inception in 1950 up through the current day. Anyone who reads Faderman’s passionate narrative will recognize it as a story that ennobles the human spirit and upholds the democratic ideals at the heart of this country’s founding documents.” — David Carter, author of Stonewall: The Riots That Sparked the Gay Revolution

The Gay Revolution docments the momentous effort to decriminalize homosexuality and humanize homosexuals.” — Col. (ret.) Margarethe Cammermeyer, highest-ranking officer to challenge the military’s antigay policy

“Lillian Faderman has delivered the comprehensive account of one of the most extraordinary social movements in modern history. As gay people approach equality under the law, Faderman charts the course that brought such remarkable changes so swiftly. It is a dynamic book that matches the power of the movement it describes.” — Cleve Jones, founder of the Names Project AIDS Memorial Quilt

The Gay Revolution is the definitive history of the gay rights movement in America. This book will play with your emotions as Lillian Faderman takes the reader on a roller coaster ride of the victories and sacrifices made by the LGBT community and its allies to arrive at this point in time. This is the story of civil rights for the 21st century!” — Rev. Troy D Perry, founder of the Metropolitan Community Churches

The Gay Revolution will be the standard by which all subsequent histories are measured. The fact that it is written in clear English is in itself a cause for celebration.” — Rita Mae Brown, author (Rubyfruit Jungle) and lesbian activist

I have left out glowing remarks by Freedom to Marry’s Evan Wolfson and other fantastic reviews. What is so astounding about all of the reviews is — and I will let you in on an open secret — is that many activists (dare I say most) have fought with each other over the decades.

So what finally brought so many of us to agree on one thing? It was Lillian Faderman’s book. The Gay Revolution should be taught in every civil rights class in every high school and on every campus. And everyone, all of you, should buy it and read it. I won’t ask you to do it for us, the old ones who gave so much for so many decades (although I want to ask, but I don’t need to guilt you). I will ask you to do it because this is the most honest, compelling history of our movement, and if you participated, you will love remembering, and if you did not, it will inspire you to passionately rise up and get involved.

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ROBIN TYLER (left) is a longtime Los Angeles-based LGBT activist, and with her wife, Diane Olson, was one of the original plaintiffs to sue for the freedom to marry in California. 

Robin Tyler

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Liam Payne slams Harry Styles and Louis Tomlinson gay rumors: ‘It’s like a conspiracy or a cult’

Liam Payne slams Harry Styles and Louis Tomlinson gay rumors: ‘It’s like a conspiracy or a cult’

One Direction’s Liam Payne has spoken out about the longstanding rumor that his band mates

Harry Styles and Louis Tomlinson are gay lovers – saying it drives him ‘insane’.

In a new interview with Attitude magazine, the Drag Me Down Singer says: ‘When the law changed in the US, there were loads of rainbow flags flying at our shows, but I think that was mainly because people think of the Louis and Harry thing, which is absolutely nuts and drives me insane.’

A romance between Harry and Louis – or ‘Larry’ as followers call them – is frequently featured in fan-made slash fiction on the band.

He continued: ‘It becomes like a conspiracy or a cult, the people that watch them and think that every move they make is a gesture toward them being together, and I know it’s not true and it makes me mad.’

The star also spoke out on the fans posting sexually explicit drawings of the band, saying: ‘I remember one time I was sitting next to my dad and I see this picture of me on top of Niall [Horan], which is intimidating. It’s just really weird to have people drawing these sexually-explicit pictures of us in strange situations.’

Discussing the young age of 1D fans, Liam said: ‘I don’t think it’s the right hobby for these girls to be enjoying. I find it very strange that someone so young can think of these stories or even imagine these things going on. That, for me, is the sad and sorry side of what we have done.’

After some fans took issue with the Drag me Down singer’s comments on Twitter, the star hit back: ‘It’s funny, I thought people appreciated honest they days.’

It’s funny I thought people appreciated honesty these days

— Liam (@Real_Liam_Payne) September 10, 2015

Can see people saying I’m playing ‘the victim’ I don’t feel even 1% a victim at all I had a wonderful time doing the shoot …

— Liam (@Real_Liam_Payne) September 10, 2015

And am blessed with the best job in the world massive thank you to @AttitudeMag for having me along and for everyone who enjoyed reading

— Liam (@Real_Liam_Payne) September 10, 2015

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Jamie Tabberer

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Someone Is Distributing Antigay Fliers Around Queens Neighborhood

Someone Is Distributing Antigay Fliers Around Queens Neighborhood

CN3qYl_WIAAfWnMAntigay fliers were being distributed throughout a Queens neighborhood, tucked into car windows near 82nd Street and 34th Avenue and even pushed under apartment doors in various buildings throughout the area, the Jackson Heights Post reports.

Written in English and Spanish, these fliers quote Romans 1:18-32, which reads in part:

“Men committing shameless acts with men and receiving in themselves the due penalty for their error… deserve to die.”

Though an investigation is ongoing, councilman Daniel Dromm points out there’s not too much that can be done legally; the biggest offense the flier distributors could face is a littering ticket. Still, he encourages residents to speak up if they see this happening.

“We have to teach that love is a good thing,” he said. “We have to eradicate this hatred against gay people.”

H/t: LGBTQ Nation

Jeremy Kinser

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Watch: Trans woman denied driver’s license in Louisiana for not looking male

Watch: Trans woman denied driver’s license in Louisiana for not looking male

A video of a transgender woman being denied a driver’s license for not looking like a man has forced Louisiana to change its policy towards transgender people.

Alexandra Glover, 21, was turned away from the Office of Motor Vehicles (OMV) in Baton Rouge when she went in to replace a lost ID card wearing a dress and makeup.

The exchange was filmed by her friend and at the time of writing had more than 30,000 views on Facebook.

Glover, who was upfront about being transgender, was told she had to remove her makeup before she could take an ID picture.

‘You can’t present as a woman if you’re listed as a man,’ an employee says in the video.

‘If you have makeup on or anything like that you’re supposed to take all that off, because you are actually a man.’

Glover points out that if she was pulled over for speeding, she could be arrested because she would not look like the person in her ID picture.

‘This is such discrimination,’ she says.

‘If a goth guy came in with all his black lipstick and makeup, you wouldn’t tell him to take it off.’

Louisiana OMV Commissioner Stephen Campbell initially defended the decision, citing a 1986 state law that bans applicants who ‘misrepresent’ their gender.

But he has since changed his stance and said a new transgender rule would be formulated ‘in the next 24 hours.’

‘It has brought to light that we may not be up-to-date, and we are in the process as we speak – and I mean it, right now – revising our policy,’ he said.

‘And we will contact the individual who feels that he was wronged and will attempt to make it right.’

Watch the video below:

My friend Alex Glover was getting another license at the Baton Rouge DMV and was denied her license for being transgender. Telling her that she’s not allowed to look female in her drivers license and must present as male when she’s clearly a female with or with out make up. So what are we to do? Something must be done.

Posted by Harlee Poitra on Saturday, 5 September 2015

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Darren Wee

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The Personal in the Political

The Personal in the Political
With marriage equality back in the news — thanks to Kim Davis confusing her theology with our democracy and now Mike Huckabee jumping out of the clown car and onto the bandwagon — I just want to “put out there” (again) that for all the hype, drama and analysis sparked by the political dimension of this controversy there is also a personal/pastoral dimension that is easy to overlook.

It is what comes up for folks
who have their internalized homophobia triggered
by the “old tapes” of messages they’re hearing again:

Messages that they’re not good enough
— not worthy enough
— not deserving enough
— to be treated equally.
Only they’re not hearing
those tapes in their heads
— they’re hearing them
on the radio or the television
at courthouse rallies
and from presidential candidates.

It is what happens
when children see families like theirs
being talked about in “the news”
with question marks
about whether they’re “real” families –
whether they deserve
the same protection the family next door has.

And it is the ongoing indignity
of having our deepest, holiest,
most precious loves and relationships
debated and dissected
in the public arena
as if it was OK
as if it wasn’t dehumanizing
and as if it’s not profoundly personal.

So if you find yourself hurting, angry,
anxious, scared or snarky
reach out and let someone you love
remind you that you’re loved
and that no matter what
we’re going to get through this.

And if you know someone
who may not reach out
find them where they are
and remind them that they’re loved
and that justice WILL roll down like waters
and the arc of history WILL bend toward equality
and in the end all will be well
and all will be well
and all manner of things shall indeed be well.

And if all things are not yet well
then it’s not the end. Yet.
La lucha continua. The struggle continues!

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FRC’s Pat Fagan: Let’s start calling gay marriage ‘garriage’

FRC’s Pat Fagan: Let’s start calling gay marriage ‘garriage’

The Family Research Council’s Pat Fagan has suggested equality opponents start referring to gay marriage as ‘garriage.’

Fagan, director of FRC’s Marriage and Religious Research Institute, made the proposal at a book presentation at the anti-gay group’s office on Wednesday (10 September), Right Wing Watch first reported.

The Ireland-native said ‘language was key’ to preserving traditional marriage and the Supreme Court had no right to redefine it.

He then came up with three new words to redefine gay marriage:

‘A proposal, something along this line, that we in the pro-family movement start using related terms, but keep “marriage” for what it always was,’ he said.

‘So we might call – and this is to be worked out – but something like, if you’re talking about gay marriage you call it “garriage.” If it’s lesbian, you call it “larriage.” If you want a generic homosexual marriage, it’s “harriage.”

‘But getting these words into use I think is key. And that will take time, but whomever holds the language ultimately holds the whole game.’

Watch his Fagan’s full speech below:

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Darren Wee

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Escorts Unite in Defense of Rentboy

Escorts Unite in Defense of Rentboy

Six male escorts known in the industry as Silas X, the Legendary Dave, Master Avery, Danny Cruz, Steven Kessler, and Simply Adam have united in support of Rentboy.com, the all-male escorting site that was shut down last month after the Department of Homeland Security raided its Manhattan offices. Seven employees were arrested under charges of promoting illegal prostitution. 

The site billed itself as “the world’s destination to meet the perfect male escort or masseur,” and boasted a database of more than 10,500 men in 2,100 cities worldwide.

Many LGBT organizations have come out in support of Rentboy, including Lambda Legal and the Transgender Law Center, saying that the site was a safe option for sex workers. Now the supporters also include the six escorts, who are urging erotic service providers, clients, and others involved in the adult industry to support the arrested employees by donating to an Indiegogo crowdfunding campaign

“The money raised from this fund will be equally split amongst the seven Rentboy.com staff charged, and will be used at each individual’s discretion,” says the campaign page. “This includes use for primary legal funds, rent, food and other resources.”

The company’s CEO, Jeffrey Hurant, is among the seven people arrested. One of the escorts promoting the campaign, Danny Cruz, organized a protest in West Hollywood last Saturday at which he relayed to The Advocate something Hurant once told him: “These guys you work around in the escort industry, they’re not your competition, they’re your colleagues. You should know that, you should reach out to them, you should keep each other safe.” 

 

 

Alexander Cheves

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