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Out Musician John Grant Says Gay Men Worry Too Much About Aging

Out Musician John Grant Says Gay Men Worry Too Much About Aging

john-grant-1This aging thing is quite strange. I don’t want to generalize too much, but gay men worry about aging a lot more than other men, from what I can tell.

Youth is prized above all things — the beauty of youth — and I know a lot of gay men who are very, very obsessed with keeping young.

I don’t understand it in most of their cases. I think older men are super sexy. The ‘beauty of youth’ thing, I totally get that. But by God! I would not want to be where I was in my 20s. I was clueless!”

John Grant discusses aging as a gay man — a theme on his acclaimed album Grey Tickles, Black Pressure — in an interview with NewNowNext

Jeremy Kinser

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PHOTOS: Everything Was Coming Up Madonna In Boytowns

PHOTOS: Everything Was Coming Up Madonna In Boytowns

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Madonna made the people come together at Sidetrack in Chicago last week.

To celebrate the Queen of Pop passing through the windy city on her latest Rebel Heart tour, Boytown’s biggest bar hosted “All Things Madonna,” a special club night featuring Madge drag impersonators and music videos. Affectionados boogie woogied to the Material Girl’s biggest hits well into the early hours of the morning.

Scroll down for a taste of “All Things Madonna,” and check out the full gallery over at GayCities…

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Photo source: Sidetrack

Graham Gremore

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Three gay bars in Dallas vandalized overnight

Three gay bars in Dallas vandalized overnight

Three gay bars on Cedar Springs Road in Dallas were vandalized overnight.

The three — Woody’s, Jr’s Bar and Grill, and the Mining Company — had their front doors smashed, according to NBC News.

A spokesperson from Caven Enterprises, which manages the three bars, says it doesn’t believe it to be a hate crime or related to the recent attacks as surveillance video confirms one person is responsible for the vandalism at all three bars.

The perpetrator is believed to be a disgruntled bar patron who has been banned from several of the bars along Cedar Springs Road.

The video has been turned over to the police who are now investigating the incidents as a case of criminal mischief, according to CBS local news.

Three gay men have been attacked in recent weeks.

A 29-year-old man was attacked by four men at the intersection of Sylvester Street and Wycliff Avenue in the Love Field neighborhood after the annual Alan Ross Texas Freedom parade.

The victim said his attackers made several gay slurs as they assaulted him ‘with their hands, feet and a baseball bat’ and took items from his pockets.

He was hospitalized with a fractured skull and numerous cuts and bruises.

On Sept 30 shortly after 1 am, Jaime Dominguez was attacked as he was leaving a bar on Cedar Springs.

He was stabbed multiple times, hit on the back of his head and knocked unconscious.

A third attack happened on Oct 2 in Cedar Springs, according to NBC News.

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Sylvia Tan

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Watch: Documentary shows electroshock therapy to ‘cure’ homosexuality still being used in China

Watch: Documentary shows electroshock therapy to ‘cure’ homosexuality still being used in China

A new documentary by UK’s Channel 4 has revealed that electroshock therapy and other treatments to ‘cure’ homosexuality are still being offered in Chinese hospitals although such treatments have no scientific basis and a Chinese court last year ruled such treatments to be illegal.

In a preview of the documentary produced by Unreported World, hidden camera footage shows two Chinese activists posing as potential clients and consulting doctors saying that they wanted to be cured of their same-sex attraction.

John Shen, deputy director of the Beijing LGBT Centre, a gay rights group, is seen going for a consultation at a hospital in Tianjin where he was told to have cold showers and strenuous exercise like jogging to get rid of excess hormones.

The doctor added that if that didn’t work, he could consider taking a drug although it would cause nausea and shock therapy using an electric rod to ‘avoid urges.’

Another activist is seen undergoing electroshock therapy at a different hospital after which he pointed to his face and said it has ‘gone numb.’

China’s psychiatric association stopped classifying homosexuality as a ‘mental illness’ in 2001.

In 2014, a Beijing court ruled that treatments involving hypnosis and electric shocks to ‘cure’ homosexuality are illegal after a man brought a case against the Xinyu Piaoxiang clinic in Chongqing.

The court ordered the clinic to pay Yang Teng 3,500 yuan (US$550) in compensation and post an apology to its website.

He said he wants the result of the case to inform gay people, parents and doctors that ‘gay conversion’ treatment  is without scientific basis and is illegal.

Yang’s legal challenge was filed with assistance from the Beijing LGBT Centre which has been protesting conversion therapy for years.

The 25-min documentary can be watched here.

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Sylvia Tan

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Why I'm Stonewalling 'Stonewall'

Why I'm Stonewalling 'Stonewall'
Stonewall, Roland Emmerich’s coming-of-age film about a young gay man from Kansas set amid the Stonewall riots has been bombingat the box office.

I didn’t go see it. I also wouldn’t watch a movie about the Montgomery bus boycotts that centered on a fictionalized white woman who fictitiously organized them.

What any work of art is centered around — particularly a major motion picture that tells the story of a major historical event — is a deeply political choice, and it’s time that we started treating it like one. And what’s so offensive to me and so many others is that this film feels like a slap in the face to the amazing progress the LGBTQ community — the entire LGBTQ community — has made in recent years.

Thankfully, representations of LGBTQ people in media have improved alongside our political and social changes — the Wills of 1990s TV have given way to the Shanes, Crazy Eyes, and Bos of modern entertainment, showcasing more thoughtful, diverse, and subversive characters.

Stonewall, however, does not follow this trend. In spite of the rich diversity of the activists behind the Stonewall riots, Emmerich chose to center his film on Danny, a fictional white, cisgender, straight-acting gay man, and put the non-white, non-cisgender, and non-male characters in the background of the film.

This was not just a filmic choice; it was a political one. By putting these people in the background of the riots — even though it was trans women, butch lesbians, and working class people, many of whom were people of color, who made up the majority of those who clashed with police during the riots and organized activist actions immediately following — Emmerich is engaging in historical revisionism, cheapening their contributions, and fostering the myth that only white, cis males can move our movement forward.

I’m a white, cis, male, and I’m calling bullshit.

In my work on DC marriage equality movement, on family acceptance, on employment non-discrimination, and on supporting LGBTQ asylum-seekers, I was happily but a small part of a constellation of LGBTQ allies and voices, of many races and genders. None of that work would have progressed without our collective efforts. None of us would progress with only white, cis men in the room.

Tragically, this movie will be the first time many people are learning about the Stonewall riots — and this opportunity to tell our story was wasted on a two-dimensional piece of fluff centering the most privileged, most normative kind of LGBTQ person there is, failing to show the diversity of the movement and failing to center the movie around people who actually were at the heart of these events.

Look, I get it. Movie-making is a business. Audiences respond well (and buy movie tickets) when they recognize something of themselves in characters. That being said, it is both narrow-minded and incredibly cynical to assume that this means that someone like me can only relate to, empathize with, and root for someone who looks exactly like me.

Yes, I am a white, cis, gay man. I live in Washington D.C., one of the “gayest” metropolitan cities in the U.S. And I adored watching the ferocity and vulnerability of trans actor Kiki Kitana Rodriguez in Tangerine. I have spent many a Netflix binge rooting for Lea DeLaria and Laverne Cox as they kill it playing the butchest of butches and an elegant trans femme in Orange is the New Black.

I’d like to quote more examples, but frankly, there aren’t enough.

These characters are the farthest thing from white-bread audience surrogate; they’re the farthest thing from what used to be considered a safe studio choice. And they’re addictively watchable.

Clearly, I don’t need to see myself in films to want to watch them. And when “seeing myself” in films does so at the expense of the communities of people who actually shape and move our cause, who face far more oppression that I do, then I don’t want to see characters that are stand-ins for me.

There is still a long way to go before our community has full equality, and there is far more work to be done for LGBTQ people with more marginalized lives and experiences. And because media shapes — as well as reflects — this marginalization, people working in this media have to do better. That is why a work of art or entertainment is a political choice, and why we must hold our storytellers and entertainers accountable for representing the truth of our community.

I hope Hollywood is listening. Tragically, this movie will be the first time many people are learning about the Stonewall riots — and this opportunity to tell our story was wasted on a two-dimensional piece of fluff centering the most privileged, most normative kind of LGBTQ person there is.

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Trevor Donovan Is One Hot Beach Babe; Justin Bieber’s Pals Are Teasing Him Over Nude Pics

Trevor Donovan Is One Hot Beach Babe; Justin Bieber’s Pals Are Teasing Him Over Nude Pics

What a great week to be Janet Jackson! Not only was the entertainer just announced as a nominee for induction into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame at the 2016 ceremony, but her latest album Unbreakable is set to debut at number one, giving her a chart-topping album in each of the past four decades. You can celebrate by listening to her single “BurnItUp!”

Behold Trevor Donovan in his natural habitat.

 

RT @devindygert: A shot from my shoot with @TrevDon. He was helping me look for seashells here pic.twitter.com/GcvPTzhefM // I’ve fallen and…

— Trevor Donovan (@TrevDon) October 9, 2015

Forget the innumerable sequels and the disappointing musical there’s only one Bring It On and it’s been 15 years (!) since it was released. Some of the cast, including the still-dreamy Jesse Bradford, reunited to discuss their memories and what their characters might be up to today.

It’s the duet you never knew you wanted to hear. Pope Francis offers a singular rendition of a Captain and Tennille standard with his best gal pal Kim Davis, courtesy of funny lady Allison Lane.

Steven Goldstein, who is portrayed by Steve Carrell in the just-released fact-based drama Freeheld, is mostly happy with the movie but expressed to Michael Musto a few quibbles. “I’m looking forward to the day where I’m not just Jack from Will & Grace with a yarmulke or Jm. J Bullock from Too Close For Comfort,” he said. “LGBTs are complex people. I can have a sense of humor. That doesn’t mean that’s who I am. And I love the movie. There are plenty of moments where Steve Carell is me. And plenty where I wouldn’t have a clue as to who he’s playing.”

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Justin Bieber‘s dad maybe be overly-excited by the nude pics of  his son, but the pop singers friends are busting his balls. According to HollywoodLife, “They’re call him the Pac-man because, well, he’s packing.”

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We had no idea there was speculation that the late Elizabeth Taylor had been a Scientologist, but if you were wondering, this article will set you straight, so to speak.

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Raven-Symoné told the audience of The View that she supports discrimination against people with “ghetto-black names”…while seated next to Whoopi Goldberg…and apparently forgetting her own name.

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In other news, people are stripping off their clothes and pretending to be frozen chickens. No judgment here.

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Jeremy Kinser

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WATCH: Shock Therapy Used to 'Cure' Chinese Gays, U.K. Journalist Reports

WATCH: Shock Therapy Used to 'Cure' Chinese Gays, U.K. Journalist Reports

Electroshock therapy was once commonly administered to gay people in the U.S. in an attempt to “cure” them — and it’s still being used in some countries, including China, as documented in a report that aired tonight on U.K. television.

Shaunagh Connaire of Britain’s Channel 4 reported on the distressing situation in an episode of the foreign affairs series Unreported World. 

Connaire went from a part of the world that is embracing LGBT equality to one where the situation of LGBT people “is somewhat darker,” she told Elle U.K. She saw “clinics that offer gay conversion therapy, sometimes even electroshock therapy, as a ‘cure’ for homosexuality,” she said. This practice continues even though the Chinese Psychiatric Association stopped classifying homosexuality as a mental illness in 2001.

John Shen (pictured above with Connaire), a leader of the Beijing LGBT Centre, and his colleagues are seeking to expose those clinics, but it’s dangerous work in a nation “whose intelligence simply cannot be outmaneuvered,” Connaire noted. Filming was difficult too.

“Early on in the shoot we learned that the authorities were aware of our presence in China and from then on we were forced to employ cloak and dagger techniques during each scene we captured,” she told Elle. “But John, who constantly endures this level of anxiety, persevered, as he believes in the greater good of what he and his colleagues are doing for the other 30 million gay people living in China.”

Connaire and her director were warned that the government would probably confiscate their footage before they left China, but they managed to get home with the film and put together their report. She wondered, she added, if exposing the clinics was worth putting Shen and his fellow activists in further danger. But their courage convinced her, she said.

“Now I speak to John regularly,” she concluded, “not as our star character but as my friend who has taught me that bravery is everything and it’s worth fighting for what we believe in.”

Watch a clip from the episode below. You can view the full episode at Channel 4’s website (sign-in required).

Trudy Ring

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American hero stabbed leaving gay club with friends is upgraded to fair condition

American hero stabbed leaving gay club with friends is upgraded to fair condition

US Air Force Airman 1st Class Spencer Stone has been upgraded to fair condition a day after being stabbed multiple times outside a gay club in Sacramento.

Fair condition means his vital signs are stable and within normal limits.

Stone, one of the American heroes who helped thwart a gunman’s attack on a French train in August, is conscious and is being treated at UC Davis Medical Center in Northern California.

‘He is awake, able to get out of bed and in good spirits,’ the hospital said in a statement. ‘He is continuing to recover.’

The hospital added that Stone’s family ‘appreciates the outpouring of support.’

Stone was bar hopping early Thursday (8 September) morning with three women and another man. The group had just left Badlands Dance Club when a confrontation occurred between his group and another group.

No one else suffered any injuries. Immediately after the stabbing, the attackers fled and remain at-large.

The incident appears to be random and not related to the incident that occurred in France.

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Greg Hernandez

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Steamy “Orthodox Priests” Disrobe (And Then Some) In Hottest Calendar We’ve Seen Yet

Steamy “Orthodox Priests” Disrobe (And Then Some) In Hottest Calendar We’ve Seen Yet

Makers of the annual Orthodox priest calendar are upping the ante for 2016, releasing some of the raciest and most risqué images in the calendar’s four-year history.

The hunky Italian models posing as Orthodox priests have provided the calendar with global attention since 2012, so this year, calendar organizers are putting the priests in extra-frisky scenarios and using the appeal to push a very strong message against hate.

“Art has long been one of the main channels for social change,” said press representative Magdalena De Iona. “What we stand for is true love and free will. And that makes us think one day we will find common ground, in a better world.”

Take the cover shot, for instance — Russian President Vladimir Putin and Moscow’s Patriarch Kirill I are depicted as each other’s brides in briefs and skimpy lingerie. Because why not?

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Dan Tracer

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