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Stand With Orlando: Find a Vigil Near You

Stand With Orlando: Find a Vigil Near You

In addition to looking for ways to help in the aftermath of the Orlando shooting, people across the nation and the world are looking for opportunities to come together as a community and support each other.

The website www.weareorlando.org has compiled a list of many events that are happening this evening and in the days ahead. Scroll down the homepage to find an event near you.

The site also includes a link to the GoFundMe page that has been set up to help the victims.

There have already been dozens of impromptu vigils in cities from San Francisco to Dallas, Vancouver to Paris.

View photos of the events:

LGBTQ allies came together to light candles, sing songs, exchange hugs, and stand in solidarity with Orlando.

These have mainly been peaceful events, but at one vigil in Austin, Texas, some individuals shouted insults at the attendees. The attendees responded by chanting “love” at the individuals.

HRC Board of Directors member Meghan Stabler said hate and terror must not prevent us from living our authentic lives.

“Being out is an act of success, an act of love, and an act of bravery,” Stabler said.

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#AM_Equality Tip Sheet: Love Conquers Hate

#AM_Equality Tip Sheet: Love Conquers Hate

Our hearts are broken. Yesterday, civil rights leaders participated in a press conference outside of HRC headquarters to respond to the horrific massacre at Pulse nightclub in Florida. HRC President Chad Griffin was joined by Mara Keisling, Executive Director, National Center for Transgender Equality; Janet Murguía; President and CEO, National Council of La Raza; Cornell Brooks, President, NAACP; Sharon Lettman-Hicks, Executive Director, National Black Justice Coalition; Judith Lichtman, of the National Partnership for Women & Families and the Leadership Conference on Civil and Human Rights; Brenda Abdelall of Muslim Advocates; Jorge Amaro, of the National LGBTQ Task Force; and María Teresa Kumar, president and CEO of Voto Latino. Watch their remarks here.

For those looking to assist, blood donations are needed. To find a blood donation center or Big Red Bus near you visit www.oneblood.org or call 1.888.9Donate. You may also support the victims and their families by donating to Equality Florida’s Go Fund Me page.

This is what we currently know about 26 of the 49 victims. 53 others were injured:

Edward Sotomayor Jr., 34.
Edward handled brand management for Al and Chuck Travel, an agency that plans vacations for the LGBTQ community. On hearing news of Edward’s death, his boss Al Ferguson spent time with Edward’s family at the hospital.

Orlando, Love Conquers Hate
Photo credit: Edward Sotomayor Jr.’s Facebook page.

Stanley Almodovar III, 23.
Originally from Massachusetts, Stanley worked as a pharmacy technician in Clermont, Florida. Friends have been taking to social media to comment on his “bubbly,” “down to earth” personality.

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Photo credit: Stanley Almodovar III’s Facebook page.

Luis Omar Ocasio-Capo, 20.
Omar was the youngest person killed that night at Pulse. His family and friends took to social media to express sadness, and share stories of their time with him.

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Photo credit: Luis Omar Ocasio-Capo’s Facebook page.

Juan Ramon Guerrero, 22.
According to reports, Juan was at the club with his boyfriend, Drew Leinonen, who still remains unaccounted. Drew’s mother has been on several news shows pleading for her son’s safe return.

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Photo credit: Juan Ramon Guerrero’s Instagram.

Eric Ivan Ortiz-Rivera, 36.
Originally from Puerto Rico, Eric worked at a Party City and Sunglasses Hut. He had been married about a year and on Sunday morning his husband frantically called friends and family when he couldn’t connect with Eric.

Orlando, Love Conquers Hate
Photo credit: Eric Ivan Ortiz-Rivera’s Facebook page.

Peter O. Gonzalez-Cruz, 22.
Peter worked at UPS and spent his high school years in New Jersey. On Facebook, his mother thanked everyone for reaching out and expressed “deep and immense pain” at the loss of her son.

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Photo credit: Facebook.

Luis S. Vielma, 22.
Luis was a student at Seminole State College and worked as an operator for Universal Studios’ Harry Potter and the Forbidden Journey ride. Early this morning J.K. Rowling shared her heartbreak.

Orlando, Love Conquers Hate
Photo credit: Luis Vielma’s Facebook page.

K.J. Morris, 37.
K.J. was a bouncer at Pulse, known for her excellent dancing and amazing smile that could light up a room. She previously lived in Massachusetts.

Orlando, Love Conquers Hate
Photo credit: K.J. Morris’ Facebook page.

Eddie Jamoldroy Justice, 30.
Eddie was an accountant and loved to make other people smile. He was able to text his mother before he died Sunday night — saying that he loved her and to call the police.

Orlando, Love Conquers Hate
Photo credit: Courtney Robinson’s Facebook page.

Darryl Roman Burt II, 29.
(Awaiting more information.)

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Photo credit: Jacksonville Jaycees’ Facebook page.

Deonka Deidra Drayton, 32.
Deonka, known as Dee Dee, was working at Pulse when the massacre occurred, according to a family member. “Senseless,” her aunt wrote on Facebook. “R.I.P. Dee Dee. You know this Auntie will miss you.”

Alejandro Barrios Martinez, 21.
(Awaiting more information.)

Anthony Luis Laureano Disla, 25.
Anthony was a graduate of the University of the Sacred Heart in Santurce, Puerto Rico, where he studied education. He was a well-known drag artist in Orlando, performing as Alanis Laurell.

Orlando, Love Conquers Hate
Photo credit: Lucas Daniel Acosta D’oleo’s Facebook page.

Jean Carlos Mendez Perez, 35.
Luis Daniel Wilson-Leon, 37.

Jean and Luis were loving partners; both men were killed in the shooting. The families of both men took to Facebook to share their love and sadness.

Orlando, Love Conquers Hate

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Photo credit: Jean Carlos Mendez Perez’s and Luis Daniel Wilson-Leon’s Facebook pages.

Franky Jimmy Dejesus Velazquez, 50.
Frankie was a visual merchandiser at Forever 21 and studied at InterAmerican University in Puerto Rico. His family took to Facebook to share their love of Franky, saying “What happened in Orlando affects all of us because it is an act of hate against the freedom to be who you are.”

Orlando, Love Conquers Hate
Photo credit: Vane La Croix’s Facebook page.

Amanda Alvear, 25.
Amanda was a beloved sister and godmother. Before the shooting, Amanda posted videos to Snapchat showing herself and friend, Mercedez Marisol Flores, dancing and enjoying themselves at Pulse. Mercedez was another victim of the shooting.

Orlando, Love Conquers Hate
Photo credit: Amanda Alvear’s Facebook page.

Martin Benitez Torres, 33.
Martin is from San Juan, Puerto Rico, where he studied at the Ana G. Méndez University system. He was in Orlando visiting his family.

Orlando, Love Conquers Hate
Photo credit: Martin Benitez Torres’ Facebook page.

Mercedez Marisol Flores, 26.
Mercedez was at Pulse with her friend, Amanda Alvear, when the shooting occurred. She was a student at Valencia Community College and worked at the local Target.


Photo credit: Mercedez Flores’ Facebook page.

Xavier Emmanuel Serrano Rosado, 35.
Xavier was the father of a young son, and worked as an entertainer at Splash Bar in Panama City Beach, Florida. He was a mentor to many of his coworkers, who described him as “quick with a smile.”

Orlando, Love Conquers Hate
Photo credit: Xavier Emmanuel Serrano Rosado’s Facebook page.

Gilberto Ramon Silva Menendez, 25.
Gilberto studied health care management at Ana G. Méndez University, and worked as a sales associate at Speedway. He was originally from Manatí, Puerto Rico.

Orlando, Love Conquers Hate
Photo credit: Gilberto Ramon Silva Menendez’s Facebook page.

Simon Adrian Carrillo Fernandez, 31.
Oscar A. Aracena-Montero, 26.
Friends Simon and Oscar were at Pulse together. “I’m so heartbroken that you guys and so many other friends lost their lives in such a senseless act. I pray for strength and courage for us all,” a friend wrote on Facebook.

Orlando, Love Conquers Hate

Orlando, Love Conquers Hate
Photo credit: Simon Adrian Carillo Fernandez’s and Oscar A. Aracena-Montero’s Facebook pages.

Enrique L. Rios, Jr., 25 years old.
Enrique, from Brooklyn, New York, was vacationing in Orlando at the time of the attack. He had been working as a coordinator at True Care Home Health Care, and studied social work at St. Francis College. His mother said her family has been “torn apart.”

Orlando, Love Conquers Hate
Photo credit: Enrique L. Rios, Jr.’s Facebook page.

Miguel Angel Honorato, 30 years old.
A resident of Apopka, Florida, Miguel worked for FajitaMex Mexican Catering. On Facebook, his brother wrote: “I can’t face the fact that my blood brother is gone. May your soul rest in peace Brother. I love you so much.”

Orlando, Love Conquers Hate

Javier Jorge-Reyes, 40 years old.
Javier, of Orlando, worked as a supervisor at Gucci. He was originally from Guayama, Puerto Rico, and studied at the Universidad del Sagrado Corazón. Said one Facebook friend: “Your energy and love of life and of all things beautiful was infectious…You were one of a kind.”

Orlando, Love Conquers Hate

A LOOK AT THE NATION’S FRONT PAGES: The Washington PostThe New York TimesOrlando SentinelTampa Bay TimesTBT*The Miami HeraldFlorida TodayThe Florida Times-UnionNorthwest Florida Daily News

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To Defy Hatred, #TwoMenKissing and #TwoWomenKissing Storm Social Media

To Defy Hatred, #TwoMenKissing and #TwoWomenKissing Storm Social Media

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If his father is to be believed, terrorist Omar Mateen wasn’t driven by fundamentalist zeal or any kind of religious ideology when he murdered fifty people and wounded dozens of others at a gay club in Orlando early Sunday morning.

Related: Around The World, Powerful Tributes To Pulse Victims Reaffirm Love

Instead, his actions were a direct response to his disgust and discomfort upon witnessing two gay men kissing in downtown Miami several months back.

Related: Conservative Wingnuts Waste No Time Using Orlando Tragedy To Further Political Agendas

In light of this revelation, social media channels have been lighting up with hundreds of photos of men and women engaged in lip locks with members of their same sex. These hashtag campaigns– #TwoMenKissing and #TwoWomenKissing — are a direct response to the attacker’s motivations, and a strong antidote to the legions of right-wing bigots and terroristic trolls taking to Twitter to excitedly praise Mateen’s actions. (Thought Catalog does a troubling roundup of such messages here.)

We’ll be presenting several of the hundreds of photographs being shared on Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram throughout the week.

Here’s the first collection:

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#TwoMenKissing Spread the Love pic.twitter.com/7WnOyKkgC4

— Arthus Nicolas (@arthusandnico) June 13, 2016

The world needs more love today, not more hate #Orlando #TwoMenKissing pic.twitter.com/JBGldkvgnI

— Skye Joseph Bartlett (@one_last_look) June 13, 2016

If #twoMenKissing was the #Orlando shooter’s motive, then let this be every hater’s conditioning therapy. pic.twitter.com/OG52gCA20Z

— Theo Bleckmann (@Theo_Bleckmann) June 13, 2016

“Love is love is love is love is love is love is love is love is love.” ?????? #Orlando #TwoMenKissing pic.twitter.com/so4ht5q7gr

— Grant Morrow (@RealGrantMorrow) June 13, 2016

My husband & I at wedding reception, 2008. If you don’t like this, you’re like a terrorist. Congrats. #twomenkissing pic.twitter.com/8TslauuyKG

— Jon Collins (@jeezjon) June 13, 2016

#TwoMenKissing

Time for a concealed permit. pic.twitter.com/x4lcteDDwT

— Atheist Fag w/a Gun (@fag_gun) June 13, 2016

Seeing #TwoMenKissing should never be an excuse for violence or bigotry. It should warm our romantic hearts 🙂 pic.twitter.com/xrthrK3vyk

— Stephen Wood (@StephenWood_UK) June 13, 2016

Let’s fight terrorism all night long… ? #twowomenkissing #twomenkissing #orlando pic.twitter.com/aXrC2BOwHv

— pauline hillier OlO (@pauline_hillier) June 13, 2016

Important today to share images of #TwoMenKissing so I dug this out from the vault: my wedding day pic.twitter.com/06RhAHfko6

— Walter Wittich (@WalterWittich) June 13, 2016

can’t just show the guys! #TwoWomenKissing #LoveConquersHate pic.twitter.com/OtXN4x9zB2

— TamaraMableyChaisson (@tamarajai) June 13, 2016

#TwoWomenKissing #TwoMenKissing so why not #TransKissing too, all for #LoveForOrlando cause #LoveIsLove t.co/IvZAp26gmB

— LDH (@Dawn_One) June 13, 2016

#TwoMenKissing #Orlando #Pulse pic.twitter.com/WQbEmkP4Rg

— Tony Clements (@tonebobb) June 12, 2016

Life should be beautiful and love should forever be celebrated above hate and bigotry #TwoMenKissing pic.twitter.com/AYh2cYiDz6

— Carl Fearn (@carljfearn) June 13, 2016

#twomenkissing Photo of Patrick Cowley and Jorge Socarras pic.twitter.com/enKRhPbRzb

— Dark Entries Records (@darkentriesrecs) June 12, 2016

Or how about #peoplekissingpeople! #OrlandoStrong #loveislove #twowomenkissing #twomenkissing pic.twitter.com/r9xkvMSAue

— Corinne M. REALTOR (@RECorinne) June 13, 2016

#TwoMenKissing … Best way I know how to respond today. With love. #orlando pic.twitter.com/WLVCN6b45d

— Carl Sciortino (@carlsciortino) June 13, 2016

Me and @MsNatalieWest. #gaysbreaktheinternet #twowomenkissing #loveislove pic.twitter.com/XgLCucVqwC

— Justine Cross (@Justineplays) June 12, 2016

If #TwoMenKissing is now an act of defiance, activism has never been so pleasant pic.twitter.com/BDOz9mYwhI

— Wouter S van Dijke (@WoutervD) June 13, 2016

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The Tonys Deliver Much-Needed Joy In The Wake Of Orlando Tragedy

The Tonys Deliver Much-Needed Joy In The Wake Of Orlando Tragedy

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It’s been a difficult couple of days. At times like these, it can be hard to know where to turn for consolation, to connect, to make sense of tragedy. But last night, the Tony Awards did their best to bring everyone together and express their grief at the shooting, and their hope for the future.

The show started with host James Corden speaking about acceptance: “Theater is a place where every race, creed, sexuality, and gender is equal, embraced, and loved,” he said. “Hate will never win.”

Before the tragedy, Corden told reporters that his opening number for the Tonys would be directed to “the theater kid who lives in Michigan or Nebraska, who just dreams of being on a stage.”

Various other celebrities spoke about the tragedy as well. “When something bad happens we have three choices: we let it define us, we let it destroy us or we let it strengthen us,” said Frank Langella. “I’m standing in a room of the most generous human beings on Earth and we will be with you every step of the way.”

Lin-Manuel Miranda had a lengthy soliloquy prepared about the power of love. His show won 11 awards last night, coming close to the record set by another post-disaster ceremony: the 12 Tonys won by The Producers.

“Tonight our joy is tinged with sorrow,” said Barbra Streisand, “but we’re here to celebrate Broadway and the beauty that artistry can bring into this world.”

Corden joked of the ceremony, “It is so diverse that Donald Trump has threatened to build a wall around this theater.”

Then again, some moments fell a bit flat. CBS used the show as an opportunity to promote some upcoming TV shows, a bizarre mismatch that just felt tasteless. At other points, presenters who talked for too long had their mics switched off — including Jessica Lange, which is unthinkable.

Overall, though, it was a bit of perfect timing that the Tonys (aka The Hamilton Awards) were this weekend. The pain of the shooting is still raw, but by talking and singing and dancing through the pain, we can begin to process the feelings and move forward.

Watch the opening number below:

Here’s Lin-Manuel Miranda’s moving acceptance speech:

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Thousands Crowd London Streets, Break Into Song for Orlando Victims – WATCH

Thousands Crowd London Streets, Break Into Song for Orlando Victims – WATCH

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Thousands of people flooded the streets of London on Monday to remember and honor the victims of Sunday’s mass shooting at gay nightclub Pulse in Orlando, Florida.

Photos and videos of the vigil poured in on social media, with many people using the hashtags #LoveWins and #OrlandoUnited.

At one point, the massive crowd broke out into song, singing a somber and emotional rendition of Simon & Garfunkel’s iconic tune, “Bridge Over Troubled Water.”

.@LdnGMC @pinksingers and massive #sohovigil crowd singing A Bridge over Troubled Water. Moving. #Orlando #lovewins pic.twitter.com/N2cNQnZElW

— FCO FLAGG (@FCOflagg) June 13, 2016

Just amazing. Like a bridge over troubled water singing out and proud In old Compton Street #Orlando #lovewins pic.twitter.com/wr245ufp9t

— Gemma Oaten (@gemmaoaten) June 13, 2016

We remember that nobody should leave home on a Saturday night never to return because of who they are pic.twitter.com/LrepZvFRqZ

— Jeremy Corbyn MP (@jeremycorbyn) June 13, 2016

Other songs were sung as well.

Mass singalong at #SohoVigil after everyone observes a silence for #Orlando victims. Street completely full. @LBC pic.twitter.com/Q8VcHIOdmG

— Connor Gillies (@ConnorGillies) June 13, 2016

Rainbow-colored balloons were also released in honor of the victims. YouTuber RiyadhK captured the moment:

49 balloons released for the Orlando victims. Incredibly emotional moment #OrlandoUnited #SohoVigil pic.twitter.com/zbO8hnoNq5

— Riyadh Khalaf (@RiyadhK) June 13, 2016

Soho This Evening #LoveIsLove #SohoVigil #Soho pic.twitter.com/HxOZmVWnUH

— George Kimm (@GeorgeKimm) June 13, 2016

49 balloons released in to the sky for each of the victims at #SohoVigil. @LBC #LoveIsLove pic.twitter.com/9BTmkGQffB

— Connor Gillies (@ConnorGillies) June 13, 2016

A moment of silence was also held at the vigil, which was so deafening reporter Connor Gillies said, “you could have heard a pin drop.”

You could have heard a pin drop. Thousands fall silent at #SohoVigil for the #Orlando victims. @LBC pic.twitter.com/L3w32GYABt

— Connor Gillies (@ConnorGillies) June 13, 2016

Singer Shura posted a video of the vigil, giving a bird’s-eye view of the huge crowd gathered.

This is for Orlando. 🌈💕🌈💕 pic.twitter.com/fsYqauLzSL

— shura (@weareshura) June 13, 2016

 

London Mayor Sadiq Khan was seen at the vigil.

Politicians from all parties stand shoulder to shoulder here at #SohoVigil as crowd sings Bridge Over Troubled Water pic.twitter.com/FzV9zDX1qX

— Connor Gillies (@ConnorGillies) June 13, 2016

You can see more photos and videos of the stunning vigil, below.

Amazing scenes of solidarity with #Orlando in Old Compton Street #SohoVigil #soho pic.twitter.com/pAtWivZX9J

— Adam Courtney (@FulHamBushChron) June 13, 2016

 

Thousands of people are united in solidarity for Orlando. Love will triumph over hate. #SohoVigil pic.twitter.com/mlEIK0XIjw

— George Aylett (@GeorgeAylett) June 13, 2016

Old Compton Street right about now #SohoVigil pic.twitter.com/oUtpqeDT4o

— Charlie Banks (@TheCharlieBanks) June 13, 2016

 

Crowds of thousands gathering in London’s Soho for #OrlandoUnited vigil. #SohoVigil pic.twitter.com/DSeE1ZrrPM

— Riyadh Khalaf (@RiyadhK) June 13, 2016

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Hillary Clinton Invokes Stonewall and Laramie in Address on Orlando Terror Attack – WATCH

Hillary Clinton Invokes Stonewall and Laramie in Address on Orlando Terror Attack – WATCH

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Hillary Clinton addressed the terrorist attack at the Orlando gay nightclub Pulse at a rally in Cleveland, Ohio on Monday, underscoring the grave impact the attack has had on the LGBT community. Clinton invoked memories of the Stonewall Riots in New York and the murder of Matthew Shepard in Laramie, Wyoming as anti-LGBT antecedents to the attack in Orlando, the worst terrorist attack on U.S. soil since 9/11.

In a somber speech, Clinton said, “Today is not a day for politics. On Sunday, Americans woke up to a nightmare that has become mind-numbingly familiar.” She characterized the killer responsible for the attack as “a madmen” who was “consumed by rage against LGBT Americans and by extension the openness and diversity that defines our American way of life.”

Clinton mourned the “many lives he viciously cut short, many of them young people just starting out in their lives.” She said all of the victims “had one thing in common: they all had a lot more to give.” Clinton added, “This is a moment when all Americans need to stand together.”

Clinton told the group assembled, “The horror never fades. The murder of innocent people breaks our hearts, tears at our sense of security and makes us furious.” She then added, “The Orlando terrorist may be dead but the virus that poisoned his mind is very much alive.”

Clinton declared that hatred must be defeated with, among other things, “pride in our country and our values.” Clinton appeared to add special emphasis on the word “pride” as she delivered her speech.

Said Clinton, “The terrorist in Orlando targeted LGBT Americans out of hatred and bigotry. And an attack on any American is an attack on all Americans.”

Clinton went on to reiterate the sentiments she shared in the immediate wake of the attacks, telling those assembled, “To all the LGBT people grieving today in Florida and across our country. You have millions of allies who will always have your back. And I am one of them. From Stonewall to Laramie, and now Orlando. We’ve seen too many examples of how the struggle to live freely openly and without fear has been met by violence. We have to stand together, be proud together.”

She added, “There is no better rebuke to the terrorists and all those that hate” than our free and open society.

Watch the full speech, below.

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