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Guys Turn To Whisper To Vent Their Feelings About Orlando

Guys Turn To Whisper To Vent Their Feelings About Orlando

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There’s no right or wrong way to process the events of last weekend. All we hope is that everyone has found at least one person — a friend, a family member, a nice-looking person in a bar — to talk to about what’s happened and let out the feelings that have no doubt welled up.

Below, we hear from guys who’ve turned to Whisper to express how the tragic blow to the community has affected them.

Whatever you’re feeling, you’re not alone:

After seeing the terrorist attack against the LGBT club in Orlando, I feel afraid to be gay for the first time.

It sucks being secretly gay and not able to talk to anyone about how scared you are because of what happened in Orlando.

As a gay man with African American children, the USA has become a scary place to live.

I was going to go to pride but I was too terrified. We shouldn

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I hate Islamophobia as much as I hate homophobia. I

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I am gay and I am proud. I will love whoever I wish to love. The attack will not stop me from being myself. We are not afraid and we will overcome.

Homophobic people have never asked themselves what it feels like to be born with something you cannot change and be hated because you seek love.

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I want to come out but the the shootings and homophobic hate just push my back into that closet and lock me in. I feel trapped.

I wish I could say I feel strong, but I am secretly afraid to go to nightclubs now. As a recently out gay guy, I hate feeling this nervous all over again.

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AG Loretta Lynch to Visit Orlando, Release Transcript of Phone Calls with Shooter: WATCH

AG Loretta Lynch to Visit Orlando, Release Transcript of Phone Calls with Shooter: WATCH

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U.S. Attorney General Loretta Lynch says the government will be releasing a partial transcript of the phone conversations between the Orlando shooter Omar Mateen and hostage negotiators while Mateen was in the horrific process of taking 49 lives last weekend in the Pulse nightclub in Orlando.

Said Lynch to Jonathan Karl on ABC’s This Week:

“What we’re going to be doing also is talking more about what happened, sadly, inside the nightclub. Tomorrow, for example, we’ll be releasing a partial transcript of the calls between the killer and the hostage negotiators so people can, in fact, see the type of interaction that was had there. I say partial because we’re not going to be, for example, broadcasting his pledges of allegiance. We are trying not to revictimize those who went through that horror. But again we’re trying to get as much information about this investigation out as possible, and we want people to provide information that they have to us.”

Lynch also said she’ll be going to Orlando this week:

“I’m actually going to Orlando myself on Tuesday to meet with the team on the ground, to get an on-the-ground briefing on the investigation. We’re meeting with the victims, the first responders, talking about the way in which we’re going to be supporting the victims and the first responders. And also, operationally, you know, we will be releasing more information about this investigation as it comes to light.”

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The First Sporting Event in Orlando Since the Shooting Was Full of Emotion: WATCH

The First Sporting Event in Orlando Since the Shooting Was Full of Emotion: WATCH

At Saturday’s Orlando City SC soccer game, the first major sporting event in Orlando since last Sunday’s tragic massacre, players took the field to the Beatles’ “All You Need is Love” wearing specially-made shirts emblazoned with rainbow hearts.

“All you need is love.” #OrlandoUnited #ORLvSJ t.co/BDwDRh0f37

— Major League Soccer (@MLS) June 19, 2016

In the stands, 50 reserved seats sat empty, each festooned with a colored balloon: 49 seats for each of the Pulse nightclub shooting victims and one for Voice singer Christina Grimmie.

50 seats reserved for the 49 victims of Pulse shooting, w/ 50th balloon & seat for Christina Grimmie #OrlandoUnited pic.twitter.com/va1KVWPSbb

— UCF Knight News (@UCFKnightNews) June 18, 2016

Major League Soccer also played this video before the game, featuring MLS players including out L.A. Galaxy player Robbie Rogers.

We stand with Orlando. #OrlandoUnited t.co/OkzB4t6Ji7

— Major League Soccer (@MLS) June 18, 2016

A moment of silence was held at the 49th minute of the game.

A moment of silence in honor of the 49 victims of the Orlando tragedy #OrlandoUnited t.co/H3JaNjsfiI

— Major League Soccer (@MLS) June 19, 2016

The Orlando City SC and Orlando Pride teams made a joint video showing support for the victims.

We are #OrlandoUnited. pic.twitter.com/8olpvDygIL

— Orlando City SC (@OrlandoCitySC) June 18, 2016

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ABC Quietly Drops Anti-LGBT Hate Group Leader From Sunday Show Orlando Discussion

ABC Quietly Drops Anti-LGBT Hate Group Leader From Sunday Show Orlando Discussion

ABC changed its mind about giving the Family Research Council’s Tony Perkins a platform to discuss the Orlando shooting, but didn’t bother to mention the change to anybody.

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PHOTOS: Reliving the Guts & Glory Of San Francisco Pride Through The Decades

PHOTOS: Reliving the Guts & Glory Of San Francisco Pride Through The Decades

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San Francisco has changed radically since 1970, going from a sleepy artistic backwater to international powerhouse, but one thing remains the same: each June it’s time to celebrate loud and proud. The City by the Bay will host its 46th Pride celebration on Saturday, June 25 and Sunday, June 26.

This year, the cast of Transcendent will serve as celebrity Grand Marshal, Peaches will perform at the Main Stage celebration at Civic Center, and Black Lives Matter has been selected as Community Grand Marshal by local voters. Pride is expected to welcome almost two million participants during the festival weekend and Sunday parade, all coming to celebrate the 2016 theme of Racial and Economic Justice for All. This year should be particularly fierce and fiery, coming on the heels of the atrocity in Orlando and on the anniversary of marriage equality for all.

But SF Pride is by no means a modern celebration. It’s more of a decades-old tradition that’s been happening since before Harvey Milk was an LGBT icon, since even before the Castro was the world’s greatest gay mecca.

“San Francisco has changed over the last few years in that it feels new,” SF Pride board president Michelle Meow said. “I’m lucky to be among those who are still here to tell stories from 50 years ago when the gay liberation movement started for us in San Francisco.”

The early years

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Those stories might start in 1970, with just 30 “hair fairies” marching down Polk Street, San Francisco’s O.G. gayborhood. The crowd grew as they marched to Golden Gate Park for a “gay in” that became known as Christopher Street Liberation Day.

Although there was no similar gay celebration in 1971, there was a queer-friendly parade down Folsom Street in 1971 called the Age of Aquarius. Yep, this is in the San Francisco history books, folks. The following year, Gay Pride came back with a vengeance on June 25, 1972. Renamed Christopher Street West, this predecessor attracted over 50,000 people celebrating for the first time in Civic Center, and it laid the groundwork for LGBT parades to come.

From 1973 to 1980, it was known as Gay Freedom Day, and attendance skyrocketed to 250,000 people. During that time most of the post-parade celebrations took place in Civic Center, expect for a particularly balmy Pride in 1976 when the temperature reached 94 degrees. Understandably, festival-goers decided to celebrate in Golden Gate Park, and some decided to do so without any clothes on. Oh, the 70s. This clothing-optional Pride celebration actually provided footage for Anita Bryant’s anti-gay campaign, so some Pride goers at the time got to check that off their list.

A modern celebration

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From 1981 to 1994, Pride became known as the International Lesbian & Gay Freedom Day Parade, but since 1995 its full name has been the San Francisco Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender Pride Celebration. Since it’s inception, the event has had a wide range of superstar performers, from Grace Jones to Lady Gaga.

In 1993 came the Dyke March, an unofficial gathering of queer women and supporters that has taken place every year on Pride Saturday. About 50,000 participants start off at Dolores Park in a march that culminates in the Castro. Since it started, the Dyke March organizers have never applied for a permit from the city of San Francisco, citing their First Amendment Right to congregate in public.

In June 2004 the Trans March started, quickly becoming the largest transgender event in the world. Similar to the Dyke March, participants march from Dolores Park to Civic Center on the Friday before Pride.

Last year, Laverne Cox and almost 20,000 other people participated in the march and City Hall was lit up in the colors of the trans pride flag.

Photos: Saul Bromberger and Sandra HooverMoonieRocks

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Instagram’s Gay Spanish Teacher Has a Phrase We All Need to Learn: WATCH

Instagram’s Gay Spanish Teacher Has a Phrase We All Need to Learn: WATCH

Occasionally we struggle to find the words during difficult moments. It’s even harder to find the words if you need to say them in another language. Thankfully, Gay Spanish Teacher Julian Eternal and Michael Grammar are here to help.

Your lesson for today:

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