This empowering chat between two bottoms on Grindr will restore your faith in humanity

This empowering chat between two bottoms on Grindr will restore your faith in humanity

Too often Grindr can feel like a battlefield where men tear one another down instead of lift one another up. Occasionally, however, good things do happen on that little orange grid.

An empowering chat between two bottoms on Grindr has gone viral for all the right reasons.

Twitter user @dps_moira recently shared a screenshot of the conversation along with the caption, “I really hope he is doing OK.”

The discourse went as follows:

Bottom #1: Hi. Are you a top?

Bottom #2: No, sorry.

Bottom #1: Never, never ever apologize for being yourself. That’s how the straights kept us down for a hundred years.

I really hope he is doing ok pic.twitter.com/l7jildgrWX

— artoo detoo baby super fcking artoo detoo! (@dps_moira) May 16, 2020

The tweet quickly went viral, receiving almost 100K likes and 17K retweets. Evidently, Bottom #1’s message of encouragement and staying true to oneself was just what the world needed to hear right now.

And now, the responses…

That’s the most wholesome answer to a rejection apology I ever seen.

— Magenta Moorg ✡ The Hairy Witch (@MagentaMoorgate) May 18, 2020

What an amazing individual. I feel warm and fuzzy reading this.

— Dax and Guro (@Guro_Monster) May 18, 2020

You should have sucked it up and topped him after that

— Petey Plastic (@PeteyPlastic) May 18, 2020

Aggressive kindness at its best

— Daniel Chesick (@tweetfrommaseat) May 18, 2020

pic.twitter.com/NZHMA7M228

— Boi (@RandomGuyXoXo) May 18, 2020

God why can’t I find nice people like that on Grindr. All I get are bots and aggresive pieces of shit.

— Remix (@RemixRaveAD) May 18, 2020

Date him anyway. You’ll figure something out.

— Yachirobi (@yachirobi) May 18, 2020

i’m voting him for president

— (@InGoddamnMilk) May 18, 2020

hope he found his top

— Luke (@patheticowboy) May 18, 2020

Dude wish him the best

— El cerillo (@Ramirogodofpar1) May 17, 2020

We hope both of these bottoms found their tops, and that they all live happily ever after.

Related: 25 tweets that perfectly define bottom culture

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‘Crime Against English’: Trump Says He Tested ‘Positively Toward Negative’ for COVID-19 (WATCH)

‘Crime Against English’: Trump Says He Tested ‘Positively Toward Negative’ for COVID-19 (WATCH)

On Thursday, President Donald Trump attempted to explain the results of his latest test for COVID-19, and it didn’t go well.

Trump was responding to a question about how much longer he’ll be taking the dangerous, unproven malaria drug hydroxychloroquine.

President Trump announces that he has tested negative again for COVID-19: “I tested very positively in another sense … I tested positively toward negative.” t.co/rN66vZFXas pic.twitter.com/6Chrs68Rkn

— ABC News (@ABC) May 21, 2020

“I think it’s another day. I had a two-week regiment of hydroxychloroquine. And I’ve taken it just about two weeks. I think it’s another day. And I’m still here, and I tested very positively, in another sense, this morning. I tested positively toward negative, right? No, I tested perfectly this morning, meaning I tested negative … but that’s a way of saying it, positively toward the negative.”

Reactions below.

Is he just straight up doing this for The Daily Show now? t.co/gMkHqYTB9I

— Schooley (@Rschooley) May 21, 2020

Who’s on first? t.co/YFaQUPxgRf

— Joel Mathis (@joelmmathis) May 21, 2020

He may not have coronavirus, but he clearly has a very serious case of uncontrollable logorrhea. t.co/VprokNA1Iv

— Charles Johnson (@Green_Footballs) May 21, 2020

Honestly the man is a crime against English t.co/1oIrg83PCp

— Molly Jong-Fast🏡 (@MollyJongFast) May 21, 2020

The man with sole authority to launch US nuclear weapons t.co/YcGNV1sYjI

— ProfTalmadge (@ProfTalmadge) May 21, 2020

From the South Lawn. @realDonaldTrump “I tested very positively in another sense. I tested positively toward negative. I tested perfectly this morning, meaning I tested negative.”

When are you getting your Physical and Mental check up for the love of all that is holy?

— Brian J. Karem (@BrianKarem) May 21, 2020

“Positively toward the negative” feels like a good slogan for the upcoming campaign. t.co/P4kAYYp1aR

— Aaron Blake (@AaronBlake) May 21, 2020

He’s a fucking moron. 95,000 Americans are dead in 10 weeks. He should be removed from office. t.co/YcADjQUChi

— Amy Siskind 🏳️‍🌈 (@Amy_Siskind) May 21, 2020

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HRC Staff Celebrate Pansexual Visibility Day 2020

HRC Staff Celebrate Pansexual Visibility Day 2020

Post submitted by HRC Bi+ (Bisexual, Pansexual, Queer and Fluid) Employee Resource Group Co-Chairs Madeleine Roberts and Ryan Carey-Mahoney

May 24 marks Pansexual Visibility Day — a day for our community to uplift, elevate and celebrate those who identify as pansexual. Pan people’s sexuality can often be erased when they are assumed to be either gay or straight, or when their pan identity isn’t taken seriously, so it’s essential to make sure that we uplift the voices of pan people.

Being pan can mean different things to those who use it. For some, it describes someone who has the potential for emotional, romantic or sexual attraction to people of any gender, or no gender, though not necessarily simultaneously, in the same way or to the same degree.

Some people use pansexual as the sole term to describe their sexuality, while others use pan in addition to other words. It is also often considered part of the overall bisexual+ community and can be used alongside a number of other terms in this family such as “bi,” “queer” or “fluid.”

In honor of this important day, we asked HRC staff — all of whom are members of HRC’s Bisexual, Pansexual, Queer and Fluid Employee Resource Group — to share what pan visibility means to them.

“Discovering my pansexuality meant discovering my self worth. I had spent so much time vacillating between a few identities that didn’t quite seem to fit me, and the energy that took began to take its toll on my mental health. When I discovered the meaning of pansexuality, I knew I had found that thing I was missing. It not only brought me community, but a sense of self and confidence that I had been missing. Pan people are real, visible and here to stay.” — Tucker Hull | Member Services Coordinator | Pronouns: he/him/his

“Pansexual visibility to me is all about shouting from the rooftops who you are and boldly claiming your identity. As pansexual people, our sexualities are often judged by the gender of our current or most recent partner(s), which sometimes makes it so that I don’t feel I fit in when I’m in queer spaces because I don’t conform to the mainstream, gay- and lesbian-centric understanding of our community. I also love being pansexual as a non-binary person because I’ve never felt that my sexuality and gender were at odds with each other, throughout all stages of my gender journey. For me, by constantly reminding folks that I am pansexual when they try to label or assume that I am something I am not, I break down our very binary understanding of what it means to be LGBTQ.” — Pallavi Rudraraju | Youth Well-Being & Time to THRIVE Coordinator |  Pronouns: they/them/theirs

“Andrea Gibson wrote, ‘Commit to loving yourself completely. It is the most radical thing you will do in your lifetime.’ As a proudly bi+ person, finding community with my bi+ family and larger LGBTQ family has been part of my journey to loving myself and others more fully. This community is beautiful and I hope all of us can get to a place where we embrace all of who we are. That is our gift and our resistance.” — Matilda Young | Writer | Pronouns: she/her/hers

“Each time the media celebrates a pansexual coming out story, a young closeted kid breathes a sigh of relief knowing there are people like them out there in the world. These stories provide a wave of hope and inspiration to help others live their authentic lives. Pansexual visibility is power. Pansexual visibility saves lives.” — Chantel Mattiola | Associate Director, Major Gifts and Leadership Giving | Pronouns: she/her/hers

“As co-chairs of HRC’s Bi+ ERG, we are committed to lifting up all of the identities under the bi+ umbrella, including pan — not simply because of our roles, but because of our humanity. Every person deserves to be seen and heard as they are and today, our pan siblings need that more than ever. It’s on all of us, LGBTQ-identified or ally, to put in the work to ensure pan people are visible … today and every day.” — Madeleine Roberts and Ryan Carey-Mahoney | HRC staff and co-chairs of HRC’s Bi+ ERG | Pronouns: they/them/theirs and he/him/his (respectively)

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How sports helped this triathlete get sober and come out to his wife and family

How sports helped this triathlete get sober and come out to his wife and family

Mark Turnipseed is an openly gay triathlete, coach, and father. In a powerful new essay published by Outsports, he writes candidly about his struggles with addiction and how sports allowed him to overcome his demons and accept his true identity.

Turnipseed explains that growing up in a Southern Baptist household in Georgia required him to hide who he was all throughout his childhood.

“I started lying about my preferences around age 5, when the things I seemed to like weren’t the same things other boys liked,” the 33-year-old writes.

“Out of shame, I started to force myself to like ‘boy things,’ like baseball and boxing gloves. But then it got really confusing when I started to have crushes on my friends.”

Eventually, Turnipseed left George to attend college in Montana.

“Unfortunately, my lies followed me and I ended up choosing methods to avoid the pain those lies caused that took me into drug and alcohol addiction,” he reflects.

For the next 15 years, he abused drugs and alcohol.

Over that time, he became suicidal, received multiple DUIs, and nearly died after overdosing. He also married and woman and had a child in hopes of achieving what he thought would be a “normal” life.

“I liked who I had become on the outside–seemingly straight with a beautiful wife and a baby,” he writes. “On the inside, I kept sliding back into relapses because of the inner conflicts I had been so keen on hiding. I was so used to living this way, I thought it was normal.”

Then in 2018, someone at his gym casually suggested he participate in an upcoming triathlon. It was a chance meeting, but after the conversation was over, something inside Turnipseed clicked. A little voice asked: “How long are you going to keep lying to yourself with all this?”

That’s when he decided to make a change.

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What’s possible? Anything with the right program! #throwbackthursday For a long time, I was complacent. I knew how to smile. I still laughed. I felt pretty good. But, there was so much more in store for me that I wasn’t even open to trying. Sobriety led to diet changes and an exercise program. I worked with a coach (@sm_endurance_solutions )who gave me online structure to prepare me for a triathlon. The rest my friends, is history! I’m now a coach myself and I have a program to share with you guys! Please, don’t limit yourself with a couple good things when the world is literally your oyster! #transformation #transformationchallenge #lifestylechanges #tbt #gayathlete #soberfitness #sobercoach #lifecoach #opioidaddiction #recoveryispossible #instagay #gayandsober #sobrietyrocks #soberliving #fitnessmotivation #fitnessjourney #gaymodel #fitnessmodel #bestself #strengthtraining #gaymen #addictionrecovery #diabetesmanagement #hearthealth #fightingobesity #obesitysurvivor #hypertension #healthylivingjourney #beforeandafterweightloss

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“I decided to do something different to see what I could become,” Turnipseed writes. “I had no idea this decision would bring me to where I am today.”

Shortly after that, he began training for the triathlon.

“What I didn’t know is that triathlon would push me so hard to accept many things about myself and each time I accepted one of these things I felt better, not worse.”

The training was grueling and required him not only to push himself but to accept his limitations, both physically and mentally.

“I began realizing I was learning more about acceptance then I was about triathlon. I was learning to accept all of my weaknesses in both character and sport.”

Eventually, he was able to admit to himself that he was an addict and work on getting sober. He did. Then came the even harder work.

“Now it was time to let it work for my sexuality, so that I could finally be free.”

Coming out was not easy, Turnip says, and was not without many tears.

“Owning up to my lies had some serious consequences, for myself and others,” he explains. “My wife and I cried endlessly over the truth. My coming out was far from rainbows and pink clouds.”

He continues, “Ultimately, we have begun accepting that to show our son a life of integrity we must be willing to live our truths no matter what the consequences. To show him, and others, the importance of living this way is to potentially steer one clear of the horrors I had to live through before coming to terms with who I am.”

Today, Turnipseed says he feels free for the first time in his life.

“I finally feel confident and complete in my own skin,” he writes. “I don’t have a fear overshadowing my every move, inhibiting me from facing and conquering challenges.”

He adds, “I can finally look people in the eye without trying to hide.”

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?”Oh mamma, please don’t make me lie. I need my freedom, need my rainbow sky” -Railroad Earth *paraphrased* ???? But really, since early childhood I thought I had to maintain a lie. To get to heaven. To be successful. To be loved. I now know that is so far from true and I also know my mamma never wished me to feel that way, to feel the shame I did. Most of that was due to culture and society. I’m so happy we are growing as a human race. Growing stronger and more inclusive. Let’s keep rising y’all! Damn it felt good to get into the woods today for a run! #comingout #comingoutstory #sobercoach #triathlete #trailrunning #leapsandbounds #running #tri_community #runnersofinstagram #runningmotivation #runningcommunity #fitnessmotivation #fitnesscoach #gayandsober #wilderness #thegreatoutdoors #getoutsideandplay #freshair #healthylifestyle #healthyliving #gayrunners #runnersofinsta #instarunners #trailrunninglife #trailrunningview

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There are definitely days that I dread my morning swim and since today we increased volume 10%, it made Today was one of those. Half way through I didn’t think I could keep going. So I pictured a coach on deck, yelling at me to screw my speed and keep my form. Ultimately, this worked. When you’re too tired to keep going. Concentrate on how you hold yourself and not what your trying to accomplish. Sometimes all we can do is stand up straight. The hard times will pass and eventually you can stand on the edge with your head and hands held high. Today was one of those days. #swimbikerun #triathlete #tri_community #swim #swimming #swimriderun #swimharder #swimmersofinstagram #gayathlete #speedo #speedoboy #trilife #3athlonlife #triathlontraining #ironmantraining #ironmantri #ironmantriathlete #torsotattoo #soberathlete #sobrietyrocks #soberliving #recoveryispossible

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Yeaaa the suns back out! There’s always something to be grateful for, even on the hardest of days ?? I’ll be honest, coming out is not easy. It’s far from fun, it’s scary and it’s not always met with love and understanding. There have been a few moments over the past couple of weeks where I didn’t think I could make it. I thought of giving up. I wrestled with demons that I haven’t had to meet face to face in a long time. That’s why, each day over the past month I have been making gratitude lists. I’ve also forced myself to reach other to people who I may be able to help and I’ve talked to at least one friend a day, despite wanting to isolate and binge watch Netflix with pizza and hash brownies. I see the light now. I see it more and more every day. If you are facing a huge challenge like addiction or coming out as gay or mourning the illness or death of a loved one or relationship- try it. Try to make a gratitude list and seek the power within to find and keep a healthy in the midst of any storm. If I can do it, so can you! #sunshine #grateful #gratitude #stretch #mindfulnesspractice #mindfulness #meditation #believeinyou #believe #openyoureyes #comingoutstory #comingout #pride? #celebratelife #loveyourself #gaytriathlete #instagay #instagays #gaygram

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#AM_Equality: May 21, 2020

#AM_Equality: May 21, 2020

HRC AND PSB RELEASE DATA ON THE ECONOMIC IMPACT OF COVID-19 ON LGBTQ COMMUNITIES OF COLOR: This new research builds on prior data showing that LGBTQ people are disproportionately impacted economically by the pandemic, and shows that LGBTQ people of color are more likely to have become unemployed due to the virus, are more likely to have had their work hours reduced, and more likely to have asked for delays in paying their rent or bills. The data shows that:

  • 38% of LGBTQ people of color have had their work hours reduced, compared to 29% of white LGBTQ people, and 24% of the general population
  • 22% of LGBTQ people of color became unemployed, compared to 14% of white LGBTQ people and 13% of the general population
  • 19% of LGBTQ people of color have asked for delays in payments on bills, compared to 14% of white LGBTQ people and 12% of the general population
  • 14% of LGBTQ people of color have asked for delays in rent payment, compared to 8% of white LGBTQ people and 7% of the general population

More from HRC.

“This new data, showing that LGBTQ communities of color are facing the severe economic consequences of this pandemic, is unfortunately not surprising,” said HRC President Alphonso David (@AlphonsoDavid). “We know that multiply marginalized populations are at an increased risk of contracting the virus and suffering its effects — vulnerable communities are facing higher death rates than the general population across the country. We must acknowledge that these communities, particularly LGBTQ people of color, face systemic biases that are placing them at greater risk. Understanding this data is the first step towards addressing these injustices as we build towards recovery.”

MORE THAN 100 MEMBERS OF CONGRESS URGE TRUMP ADMIN TO COLLECT SEXUAL ORIENTATION AND GENDER IDENTITY DATA ON COVID-19 PATIENCE: HRC has called attention to the disproportionate impact the virus has had on marginalized communities and has called for more inclusive data collection for years. LGBTQ people are more vulnerable to the health risks of the virus. They are less likely to have health coverage, are more likely to smoke and have asthma, and have a variety of chronic illnesses. More from Nico Lang (@Nico_Lang) at NBC.

HRC MOURNS MCKINSLEY LAKEITH LINCOLN, BLACK LGBTQ PERSON KILLED IN LOUISIANA: HRC is deeply saddened to learn of the death of McKinsley LaKeith Lincoln, a 29-year-old Black LGBTQ person killed in Alexandria, Louisiana on May 15. HRC is monitoring this case for more information about Lincoln’s life and this crime. More from Gay City News.

THANKFUL THURSDAY — **TODAY AT 3 P.M. ET** HRC’S ALPHONSO DAVID TO JOIN CHASTEN BUTTIGEIG FOR INSTAGRAM LIVE: Submit questions by responding to the tweet below.

Looking forward to a great conversation with @chasten on #COVID19‘s impact on the LGBTQ community, @HRC‘s work around the 2020 election, and more. Tune in tomorrow on Instagram Live at 3PM ET. t.co/Jr6OYdQyxm

— Alphonso David (@AlphonsoDavid) May 20, 2020

NEW REPORT SHOWS THAT ACCEPTANCE IS KEY TO REDUCING RISK OF SUICIDE TO LGBTQ API YOUTH: The study by the Trevor Project shows that when Asian Pacific Islander (API) LGBTQ youth are accepted by their friends, their risk of attempting suicide dropped by more than 50%. More from NBC.

NEW WEEKLY AT-HOME ACTIVITY FOR THOSE QUARANTINING WITH YOUTH: Each week while most students are out of school due to COVID-19, HRC Foundation’s Welcoming Schools will offer a book and a related activity adapted from our teacher lesson plans for parents to use with children at home. More from HRC.

IN THE STATES

DISGUSTING — MEMORIAL MURAL AT SITE OF PULSE SHOOTING DEFACED WITH WHITE NATIONALIST MATERIALS: More from The Advocate.

MINNEAPOLIS MAN CHARGED FOR ATTACKING LOCAL NEWSCASTER FOR PERCIEVING HIM AS LGBTQ: Vennie Jerome Williams, 39, was charged Friday with third-degree assault and harassment with the intent to injure after police said he threw something at KSTP-TV journalist Matt Belanger. More from NBC.

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BROADWAY POWERHOUSES VIRTUALLY PERFORM SONGS FROM HAIRSPRAY: More from The Advocate.

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GLOBAL EQUALITY NEWS

TRANSPHOBIC LAW PASSED IN HUNGARY: The bill defines one’s gender as the sex assigned at birth, blocking any trans person from updating their legal gender marker. More from The Guardian.

READING RAINBOW – Bookmark now to read on your lunch break!

Remezcla reports that fans of rapper Bad Bunny (@sanbenito) are hosting an online course, and donating the proceeds to help food banks and undocumented workers

Have news? Send us your news and tips at [email protected]. Click here to subscribe to #AM_Equality and follow @HRC for all the latest news. Thanks for reading!

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SF’s oldest gay bar forced to vacate its home but vows to stay alive

SF’s oldest gay bar forced to vacate its home but vows to stay alive

 

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San Francisco’s oldest surviving gay bar, The Stud, will not be reopening at its current home but is vowing to keep trading. This may be in the form of a virtual club space and (post-lockdown) pop-ups.

The Stud first opened in 1966. It’s been at its current South Market home on 399 Ninth Street for the past 33 years. In 2016, facing closure, its ownership was taken over by an LGBTQ collective of scene performers and promoters, who together breathed new life into the business.

However, then COVID-19 came along. Like all other bars in the city, the venue had to close its doors but its landlord still wants the rent to be paid.

Related: Coronavirus is dealing a death blow to LGBTQ nightspots around the globe

Yesterday, one of the co-owners, drag performer Honey Mahogany issued a press release announcing a drag funeral for the venue will take place via Zoom on May 21 at 2pm. This led to the Bay Area Reporter running a story about the venue’s closure. Mahogany subsequently sent out a clarifying email, saying a press conference about The Stud’s future will take place today (May 21) at 2pm.

The Stud itself has posted to social media confirming that it will not be reopening at 399 Ninth Street and further details will be announced later today.

Another of The Stud’s co-owners, journalist Marke Bieschke, offered more details on 48Hills. He confirmed that The Stud would not return to its current home.

“As a member of the Stud Collective, a wonderful group of 17 friends that purchased the Stud in 2016, in order to save it after a huge rent hike, I am weeping for that beautiful, scrappy space—its gold and red velvet-and sequined curtains parting for kooky drag shows, its graffiti-laden bathroom stalls, its very naughty green room, its dance floor packed with gorgeous creatures from all walks—that was such a vibrant and essential part of the community.

“Here’s the thing, though: The Stud, the nightlife entity, is not dead. We’re still going to come back when this is over—a different space with the same lovingly outrageous vibe.”

He went on to point out that the venue still had to pay its landlord and utility bills, despite having no income.

“Loans and grants pretty much go directly to landlords and utilities, who are the true government-subsidized businesses here, in an arduous, arcane process that looks more and more like a bizarre money-laundering scheme.”

 

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He says that even when lockdown ends, the reality of running a bar with social distancing measures in place is not feasible at the current location. The bar’s lease was also up at the end of this year, so the team had been thinking about the future.

In the short term, they will continue to stream performances and exist as a virtual space. Post-lockdown, they may operate as a pop-up initiative or hold one-off parties. Eventually, it might return to new premises. Bieschke suggested that unless The Stud collective acted now, the business risked building up huge debts from which it would be impossible to recover.

“Without any rent breaks/suspension or more direct financial support, small business like ours are faced with a tough choice: Close our doors now, get nimble, and try to move forward? Or keep losing money and hope this blows over before we owe hundreds of thousands of dollars?”

The COVID-19 pandemic is forcing already-struggling LGBTQ venues, or those with their leases due to expire, to consider closure. Earlier this month, it was announced that Washington DC’s two oldest gay venues – DC Eagle and Ziegfelds-Secrets – would not be reopening following the COVID-19 lockdown.

Related: Washington DC loses two of its biggest and longest-running gay venues 

The situation is hitting gay bars further afield. Earlier this week, the oldest surviving gay bar in London, England, The Royal Vauxhall Tavern, launched a fundraiser to help it survive. Again, like The Stud, its management said its landlord still wanted rent and says it’s not eligible for UK grants available to some smaller businesses.

The bar is seeking to raise £50,000 ($61,000), and has managed to raise half that amount in just six days.

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‘I Didn’t Even Recognize Myself’: Gay Nurse Who Shared Shocking COVID-19 Photos Speaks to CNN (WATCH)

‘I Didn’t Even Recognize Myself’: Gay Nurse Who Shared Shocking COVID-19 Photos Speaks to CNN (WATCH)

Mike Schultz, the gay San Francisco nurse who recently shared shocking before-and-after photos from his struggle with COVID-19, appeared on CNN on Thursday morning to discuss his ordeal.

After contracting the coronavirus at the Winter Party Festival in Miami Beach in early March, Schultz spent four-and-a-half weeks on a ventilator and lost 50-60 pounds.

“I didn’t even recognize myself.”

Nurse who lost 50 pounds during coronavirus battle posted shocking before-and-after photos of the impact the virus had on his body. t.co/PREnxoQPri pic.twitter.com/F3sggwxycN

— New Day (@NewDay) May 21, 2020

“I’m doing really well,” Schultz told CNN’s John Berman. “I’m able to move around and walk and go up and down stairs, and pretty much do anything on my own. It’s just I have to take a lot of rest breaks, and I just know that my lung capacity is not totally there yet.”

Schultz explained that he fell critically ill on Tuesday, March 17, after flying to Boston to visit his boyfriend, the week after they had attended the gay circuit party in Florida. Three people have died after contracting COVID-19 at the Winter Party Festival.

Asked how he felt after finally coming off the ventilator, Schultz told CNN: “I didn’t even recognize myself. I pretty much cried when I looked in the mirror. I had no idea how long I had been there, so it was kind of a shock taking all this in at once.”

“I’m slowly gaining weight,” Schultz added. “My face is starting to fill out more and I’m getting stronger. I know it’s going to be a long road.”

Schultz had no underlying medical conditions and worked out almost every day. He told BuzzFeed News he shared the before-and-after photos with his 30,000 Instagram followers as a warning.

“I knew what I thought going in [about the coronavirus],” he said. “I didn’t think it was as serious as it was until after things started happening. I thought I was young enough for it not to affect me, and I know a lot of people think that. I wanted to show it can happen to anyone. It doesn’t matter if you’re young or old, have preexisting conditions or not. It can affect you.”

After CNN first aired the shocking photos of Schultz on Wednsesday, medical analyst Dr. Amy Compton-Phillips weighed in.

A nurse recovering from coronavirus posted stunning pictures of the impact the virus and hospital stay had on his body. “It’s not just the virus, it’s actually staying in an ICU, it’s really hard on the body,” says Dr. Amy Compton-Phillips, a CNN medical analyst. pic.twitter.com/rOByHqi4X1

— CNN (@CNN) May 21, 2020

“It’s not just the virus but actually staying in an ICU is really hard on the body and we’ve known for a long time that there is a condition called ICU Associated Weakness that happens when people are prolonged on a ventilator,” Compton-Phillips said. “Usually, by the way, they’re put into a medically-induced coma on the ventilator because it’s not a pleasant sensation to have to live through, so two big things happen. One is that you get something called a catabolic state where your body starts actually turning to muscle for fuel, so you start breaking down your own muscles, and the second is deconditioning. You are at complete rest, you’re not moving around, so your muscles get super, super weak, and at the end of that what happens is what my Kentucky father-in-law would describe as you end up weak as a kitten.”

 The picture on the left was taken about a month before he first got sick. He took the photo on the right in a recovery ward. 

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SF’s Oldest Gay Bar to Close After 55 Years, But Owners Say The Stud is ‘Not Dead’

SF’s Oldest Gay Bar to Close After 55 Years, But Owners Say The Stud is ‘Not Dead’

San Francisco’s oldest continuously operating queer nightclub, The Stud, is permanently closing its current location at Ninth and Harrison streets in SoMa amid the COVID-19 crisis.

After 55 years in San Francisco “The Stud” is closing pic.twitter.com/68LpY4d1BW

— Joseph Fenity (@fenity) May 21, 2020

“The Stud is the country’s only cooperatively owned LGBT venue and has been in operation for 55 years,” a 17-member collective that owns The Stud announced in a news release Wednesday. “Because of a lack of revenue due to the COVID-19 pandemic, the historic bar will be announcing that they are permanently closing their location and will be holding a drag funeral to honor the end of an era of LGBT nightlife.”

After initial reports suggested The Stud would be closing for good, co-owners said they plan to look for a new location. Originally situated on Folsom Street, The Stud has been at 399 Ninth St. for the last 33 years.

Co-owner Marke Bieschke reports that the bar’s lease will be up at the end of the year anyway, and amid the COVID-19 crisis, it has been transforming into “a full-fledged virtual club.”

“The Stud, the nightlife entity, is not dead,” Bieschke wrote on the news site 48 Hills. “We’re still going to come back when this is over—a different space with the same lovingly outrageous vibe. … And after this is all over, a new permanent location, to help rebuild the city’s shattered nightlife scene—and continue the Stud’s rough-and-tumble legacy the only way we know how: with shots up and heels high.”

More from the San Francisco Chronicle: The move itself is not entirely surprising. The bar almost closed in 2016 due to a rent increase but was saved by a group of patrons who rallied and reworked the Stud as a cooperative. Among the city’s many gay bars, the Stud has long had a reputation as a home for an alternative queer scene, one that is deliberately open to all. “On any given night you’ll see men in leather, punks with pink hair and even women,” read a 1980 article in Drummer magazine. “But the mix works fabulously and the Stud remains one of the dominant dance bars in a city famous for its discos and clubs.” Etta James performed there; Sylvester, Bjork, Lady Gaga and RuPaul too. Through the years, the Stud’s stage has been home to a wide range of experimental music and performance. And more recently, after the collective took control of the bar, it seemed to enter a new renaissance.

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SF’s Oldest Gay Bar to Close After 55 Years, But Owners Say The Stud is ‘Not Dead’