Is Being LGBTQ Halal?

Is Being LGBTQ Halal?

For many Americans, the concept of halal, an Islamic dietary standard, is likely not something people associate with anything other than food. However, the Arabic word also means “lawful” or “permitted.”

As we mark Ramadan, our fundamental question here is – are LGBTQ people permitted in Islam?

Dr. Imam Ludovic Zahed, an Islamic scholar and founder of the first inclusive mosque in France, aims to tackle this important question at the Inclusive Islam Workshop, co-sponsored by Muslims for Progressive Values and HRC Foundation’s Religion and Faith Program.

The workshop, generously funded by the E. Rhodes and Leona B. Carpenter Foundation, explores ways in which sacred Islamic texts can be read to affirm the human rights of all individuals, with a particular emphasis on LGBTQ rights and Islam’s inherent values of inclusion and justice.

Two interactive workshops will take place, one in Dearborn, Michigan, on Monday, May 21, and another in Washington, D.C. on Friday, May 25, followed by breaking of Ramadan fast with iftar, sponsored by Muslims for Progressive Values.

This comes at a special time when the world’s 1.8 million Muslims celebrate the holy month of Ramadan. Muslims abstain from food and drink from sunrise to sunset to bring the faithful closer to God and remind them of the suffering of those less fortunate.

These workshops also come at a time when American Muslim support of LGBTQ equality is at an all-time high. According to a recent Public Religion Research Institute survey, almost two thirds of American Muslims favor non-discrimination protections for LGBTQ people, including more than 35 percent who strongly support them. More than 50 percent of American Muslims now support marriage equality, up from 43 percent a few years ago.

General Muslim attittudes toward LGBTQ people — especially LGBTQ Muslims — remain complex. In 2014, HRC Foundation released Coming Home to Islam and to Self, a guide to help LGBTQ Muslims seeking to reconnect with their faith and build more inclusive communities.

Members of all faiths, race, backgrounds, sexual orientations and gender identities, those who are fasting and those who are not, are welcome to join the workshops and iftar. Contact [email protected] or [email protected] to learn more.

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President Trump announces he will appoint Gary Bauer and other anti-LGBTQ nominations to the United States Commission on International Religious Freedom

President Trump announces he will appoint Gary Bauer and other anti-LGBTQ nominations to the United States Commission on International Religious Freedom

Gary Bauer
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Bauer joins virulently anti-LGBTQ activist, Family Research Council President Tony Perkins, on the Commission

NEW YORK GLAAD, the world’s largest LGBTQ media advocacy organization, today denounced the upcoming appointment of anti-LGBTQ activist Gary Bauer to the United States Commission on International Religious Freedom (USCIRF). President Trump announced that Johnnie Moore and Nadine Maenza, who also espouse anti-LGBTQ views, will be added to the USCIRF as well.

Gary Bauer has suggested LGBTQ activists want to criminalize Christianity and take kids from dissenting parents, and remarked that transgender people need to be counseled out of their truths. His full anti-LGBTQ record follows.

President’s Trump’s two additional picks for the USCIRF include Johnnie Moore, who claimed that Katy Perry’s “I Kissed A Girl” indoctrinates young people into being gay, and Nadine Maenza, who signed onto a group letter opposing the SCOTUS marriage ruling.

These three new picks follow the selection of activist Tony Perkins, who on Tuesday was appointed to the USCIRF on the recommendation of Senate Majority Leader Mitch McConnell. Perkins, who serves as the president of the Family Research Council, a  Southern Poverty Law Center designated anti-LGBTQ hate group, has an extensive anti-LGBTQ record including calling for Justice Kennedy to be impeached following his marriage equality ruling, and comparing LGBTQ advocates to terrorists.

“President Trump and Leader McConnell’s selections are anti-LGBTQ political operatives, not experts on religion,” said Sarah Kate Ellis, President and CEO of GLAAD. “The fact that anti-LGBTQ extremists like Gary Bauer and Tony Perkins will offer guidance on international issues to an administration that is already the most anti-LGBTQ in history is dangerous to LGBTQ people around the world.”

The role of the USCIRF is to review the facts and circumstances of violations of religious freedom internationally and make policy recommendations to the President, U.S. Secretary of State, and U.S. Congress.

BACKGROUND INFORMATION: Gary Bauer Extensive Anti-LGBTQ Record

Insists Martin Luther King “would have been mortified” by LGBTQ rights advances

— Warns that marriage equality creates climate where “we really do risk God taking His hand of protection off of our country,” which he claims “could very well mean the end of the American experiment in liberty under God.” 

— On supposed historical link to current marriage debate: “Our country fought a civil war over the idea that some matters are too important to be decided state by state. Just as slavery was an assault on human dignity, the redefinition of marriage is an assault on an institution at the foundation of successful families and civilizations.”

— Pushes inaccurate science: “More importantly, however, the government has an obligation to promote public policy that is best for the general welfare and to discriminate against behaviors that adversely impact society and public health. Tobacco use is heavily regulated by the state and smoking is strongly discouraged. A major study conducted by Oxford University demonstrated that homosexual conduct is three times more deadly than smoking. Homosexual behavior is fraught with adverse health affects. (sic) Again, this is not opinion, but documented medical fact.”  (*The researchers behind that Oxford study, conducted at the height of the AIDS crisis, have condemned the way folks like Bauer have twisted their findings)

— Claims gay activists’ ultimate goal is to throw dissenters in jail: “The ultimate goal of homosexual-rights activists is not to legalize same-sex marriage. Rather, it is to silence those who disagree with them and, if necessary, to throw them in jail. In a world in which the biblical viewpoint of marriage is demonized, it does not take a constitutional scholar to predict that soon those who hold that view will find themselves in court.”

— Chose the Obama Administration’s choice to simply invite gay-headed families to the annual White House Easter Roll as one of the “100 Mistakes, Misstatements and Missteps in Obama’s First 100 Days”

— “Ex-gay” advocate against “the tragedy of homosexuality”: “Story after story calls for everything from new hate crimes laws, to same-sex marriage, to pro-homosexual education policies. But policies like these would only compound the tragedy of homosexuality. The message of ex-gay ministries is one of hope and healing. Their aim is to save lives and souls.”

— Warns that “[t]he words ‘husband’ and ‘wife’ will soon disappear from our lexicon altogether, having been banished as ‘hate speech’ as they are exclusionary and discriminatory.” 

— Says marriage equality is “an incredible risk to our country and to our faith.” (22:55 in 1st clip)

— Says that things like the embrace of “the radical idea of men marrying other menhave increased gang culture, deteriorated the black family.

— Suggests LGBTQ activists want to criminalize Christianity and take kids from dissenting parents: “if we throw up our arms in frustration and surrender the political arena to the left, it will get a whole lot worse. We are headed toward the criminalization of Christianity. Let me explain. If a family were teaching its children that the KKK is the correct model for society, people would rightly be outraged. If Child Protective Services found out, that family would face the possibility of having its kids taken away for psychological child abuse. When it comes to same-sex marriage, the militant homosexual movement and its left-wing media allies have, unbelievably, taken the normal view of marriage and equated it with the kind of raw bigotry I just described. If we stop fighting, in short order you will not be able to teach your children that God intended them to marry someone of the opposite sex

— Was behind one of the most mocked ads of the 2012 election cycle, claiming President Obama was going to force gay marriage on everyone

— Says transgender individuals need to be counseled out of their truths: “In a healthy society, we would be compassionately seeking counseling for people who cannot come to terms with their sex. But in America today, it’s the parents who must come to terms with their children’s transgenderism.”

— In late nineties, declared himself “immovable” on the topic of gay people needing to “get out” of “a destructive lifestyle”: “I will encourage anybody I can to get out of what I think is a destructive lifestyle. I don’t believe a healthy society can endorse, subsidize, or encourage it. I am sorry if this disappoints you, but again, on this, I am immovable.”

May 17, 2018

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5 Unique Ways to Tell Your Family & Friends You’re Engaged

5 Unique Ways to Tell Your Family & Friends You’re Engaged

Getting engaged should be one of the most exciting, romantic, and memorable occasions of your life. What do you do after the engagement? There are few moments in life as exciting as the days following your engagement. You are exploding with happiness and want to share it with the world. Take care to prioritize who […]

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How Often Do You Masturbate Compared to Others? The Results of a Massive Global Survey Are In

How Often Do You Masturbate Compared to Others? The Results of a Massive Global Survey Are In

Did you know that May is International Masturbation Month?

To mark the occasion, the results of a massive global survey on self-pleasuring have been released and shed some insight on masturbation and attitudes toward masculinity around the world, offering a few specific details on the habits of gay people.

Body Conscious Gay Men's Health, Sex, and SelfTenga, a sexual health and wellness company providing innovative and diverse sexual products, conducted the survey, which they claim is the “world’s largest” on masturbation, of more than 13,000 respondents aged 13-74 in 18 countries.

In addition to revealing global trends in getting oneself off, the survey wanted to figure out how traditional values regarding masculinity prevent men from leading more fulfilling sexual lives and relationships. It therefore sought to identify men who “feel more”, that is, “prioritize connections to others and are able to express themselves without judgment.”

Tenga’s full U.S. report, on its survey of just over 1,000 Americans, can be found here.

Here are a few details we’ve culled from their vast set of responses:

SEXUAL ORIENTATION: Americans who identify as gay or bisexual are 12% more likely to have masturbated as those who aren’t. 95% of gay or bisexual people say they’ve masturbated as compared to 83% of heterosexuals. Globally, gay and bisexual individuals are 23 percent more likely to masturbate weekly than heterosexual individuals.

OPENNESS: Gay people are far more likelier to have talked to a friend or partner about masturbation than straight people. 76% of gay or bisexual people say they have talked to a friend or partner about it, as opposed to 42% of heterosexuals. The majority of men aren’t comfortable talking about masturbation and most say it’s because it’s a “private matter.”

GEOGRAPHY: If you live in the Northeast, you’re slightly more open with others about your masturbation habits. Masturbatory activity is equal across all regions of the U.S, as is the use of sex toys. 78% of adults in the world masturbate. 92% of American men masturbate, a lower percentage than that of  Brazil, Mexico, South Korea, UK, Japan, Australia, France, or Germany.

REASON:. Most men masturbate to achieve sexual pleasure or relieve tension or stress. Fewer masturbate because it helps them sleep, because they’re bored, or because they can’t find anyone to have sex with. Men who masturbate more frequently feel more confident about their body. They also tend to work out more, but that may be due to age difference.

FREQUENCY: 39% of Americans masturbate weekly. The average age at which they start is 15. Men who are 18-34 masturbate an average of 5.3 times a week, men who are 35-54 masturbate an average of 3.8 times per week, and men who are 55+ masturbate an average of 4.4 times per week.

GENDER DIFFERENCES: Men (92%) are more likely to have masturbated than women (76%) and do it far more frequently. Men get themselves off on average 4.8 times a week.

AGE. 57% of Millennials (18-24) masturbate weekly, more than any other age group.

PERCEPTIONS: Younger people think the overall population masturbates more than older people do. 69% of men believe that masturbation does not have an effect on the health of their sperm. Nearly half, 48%, of all Americans think it impacts brain function. Overall in the US, people are most satisfied with the quality and frequency of their orgasms, although they rank emotional connections with their partners and the quality of intercourse as the most important aspects of their sex life.

PORN: Men are far more likely than women to watch porn when they masturbate while women use their imagination.

SEX TOYS. Men who are open to owning sex toys report higher levels of satisfaction with quality and frequency of masturbation vs. men who are not open (88% vs 62%). Men who have used sex toys report being more satisfied with their sex life across all metrics, but especially when looking at quality (82% vs 55%) and frequency (78% vs. 55%) of masturbation. 53% of American men are open to using a sex toy on himself and 71% are open to using one on his partner.

POLITICS: Those who identify as liberals are more likely (89%) to say they’ve masturbated than conservatives (82%), and to have talked with others about it. Liberals are also more likely to have used sex toys.

How often do you masturbate? Please let us know in the comments.

 

Body Conscious: Gay Men’s Health, Sex, and Self is a new regular twice-monthly feature from Towleroad covering the unique issues gay men face with regard to physical and mental fitness. 

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Skype Master Teacher empowers students with disabilities in an accessible, virtual classroom

Skype Master Teacher empowers students with disabilities in an accessible, virtual classroom

Image of Ivana and her daughters at an awards ceremony at The Gymnasium of Karlovci, Serbia.

Ivana Kovačević and her daughters at an awards ceremony at The Gymnasium of Karlovci, Serbia.

For almost 50 years, Serbian primary school Dr Dragan Hercog has worked with students who have developmental disabilities. Helping reach these students for almost a decade is Microsoft Innovative Educator Expert and Skype Master Teacher Ivana Kovačević, through a program called the Distance Learning Project. It’s part of a broader effort to improve education for Serbian students with disabilities, and it has the support of the Ministry of Education.

To successfully prepare students with special needs for exams, and for the possibility of continuing education, teachers at Dr Dragan Hercog participate in the Distance Learning Project by crafting electronic materials—lessons, tasks, and tests. Then they meet the students where they are, holding classes in hospitals, students’ homes, as well as organizing tutelage via Skype.

“Skype, in combination with other educational materials, like educational platforms, is a good way for learning in every kind of situation,” says Ivana. “In my classes, I use Microsoft AutoCollage, Microsoft Photosynth, Windows Live Writer, Photo Story, and Sway in combination with Skype.”

A platform Ivana started to support the Distance Learning Project is Final Exam. This platform helps students prepare for their primary school final exam by strengthening their skills in both mathematics and the Serbian language. She received assistance from the Mathematical Society of Serbia, and when she tests students, she often uses Skype screen sharing to offer guidance when needed.

“The goal is to support students with disabilities in learning all subjects during all eight years of primary school, and prepare them for the final exam via Skype,” says Ivana. “Another long-term and wider goal is to successfully involve persons with disabilities in the education system and/or a social and business environment.”

Preparing the writers of tomorrow

To further help the students of Dr Dragan Hercog achieve a successful, rounded education, Ivana also started a literary club. For this club, too, she relies on Skype to enhance her students’ experience. “Every day during the school year, my students and I collaborate via Skype. Skype is our place for learning,” Ivana says.

Since 2008, the club’s main project has been to collect literary works written by the school’s students. Almost 50 of them have participated in the club, and they have written to date nearly 90 articles. The school promotes this collection of literary works—as well as the Children’s Cultural Center of Belgrade. Dr Dragan Hercog students attend these promotions on a Skype video call. “The students present themselves and share their impressions of the literary club and the collection of works,” says Ivana. “They talk about the club, writing, and friendship via Skype. They are all real writers!”

Virtual field trips with Skype

Another aspect of a rounded education that Skype enhances are what Ivana calls “method excursions.” “These excursions in teaching practice are proven to be effective,” she says, “because teaching language and literature cannot be reduced only to book learning.” But many of her students are in hospitals and homes and cannot physically go on method excursions.

Here, too, Ivana and her students rely on Skype for lessons and excursions—or virtual field trips. “Microsoft’s Skype in the Classroom platform allows me to plan virtual journeys with my students that are meaningful, instructive, and interesting,” says Ivana. Their first virtual trip was to the National Museum in Niš. The curator told them about Constantine the Great and showed them bronze coins from the 4th century. “The aim of the trip was to write news, reports, essays, and stories about the trip,” she continues. “Our school principal Zoran Aleksić and English teacher Tijana Radisavljević provided great support.”

Skype is the bridge

The students of Dr Dragan Hercog also went on a virtual field trip while studying Nobel Prize–winning author Ivo Andric, whose story “The Bridge on the Žepa” they had read, studied, and discussed. “Students showed a joint presentation that was done for homework, via Skype as usual. The presentation was made in the form of posters using Microsoft AutoCollage (students previously became familiar with the program); they were collages of bridge pictures, student associations, information about the author, his work, etc.” says Ivana.

After studying the author, becoming familiar with his life and work, and sharing their knowledge, it was time for them to take their virtual field trip and make the experience come to life. “I made a Photosynth presentation when I was in Višegrad, on the bridge that inspired our writer to write the great novel The Bridge on the Drina, and the story ‘The Bridge on the Žepa’,” Ivana continues. “We talked about the story, its protagonists, the bridge, the destinies of the characters, the symbols, the beauty, the work as art, the meaning of life. Every feature of the bridge has its special symbolism. Bridges connect landscape and people. For us, Skype is the very bridge!”

The aim of Ivana’s work is to help students overcome barriers—students who, due to disabilities and distance, cannot attend classes. She helps provide a high-quality, stimulating, virtual classroom environment in which they can acquire new skills—and be encouraged by the possibility of a smooth transition into continuing their education.

“For our students, Skype is the only solution that makes sense!” Ivana concludes.

We love to hear how you use Skype to help others achieve. Tag us @Skype on social media to tell your story—and we might feature you.

Educators: Break down the walls of your classroom and connect your students to the world with Skype in the Classroom.

Parents: Ask your school to get involved with Skype in the Classroom, so your kids can experience the world live from their classrooms.

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