It’s OK, Mom. You Don’t Need To Understand Public Cruising.

It’s OK, Mom. You Don’t Need To Understand Public Cruising.

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Despite proof that the so-called “sex sting” operations carried out via local police departments across the country are rooted in homophobia and the targeting of gay men, and are illegalMomzette writer and self-proclaimed “rational conservative” Deirdre Reilly seems to think it’s all the fault of those nasty gays for being so “lewd.”

In her op-ed Lewd Behavior Gets Pass by LGBT Crowd she writes:

…law enforcement has employed stings in areas known to be frequented by gay men in order to target lewd conduct, indecent exposure, and sex in public places. These activities, unfortunately, often happen in restrooms of family-friendly areas such as parks, seaside areas, and wooded hiking and camping areas. Not so fast — say some who see bias everywhere. These stings may be discriminatory against LGBT individuals. Just call it the ‘they can’t help it, they’re LGBT’ defense.

OK well, we’ll just stop right there.

The gay men (and it is primarily gay men, not “LGBT people”) who claim they’ve been unfairly targeted all tell similar stories about being baited into behavior by undercover cops. These weren’t men who were just “caught in the act,” they were led into it by cops.

The proper word for that is entrapment…

Related: Long Beach Police Accused Of Illegally Targeting Gay Man In Bathroom Sex Sting

OK, so Reilly speak to some actual gay people as well:

“Nobody is going to defend lewd conduct, but there is a qualitative difference between sexual predators and people who engage in boorish behavior,” Los Angeles County Assessor Jeffrey Prang told the Los Angeles Times. “Criminalizing them isn’t really justice. You just want them to stop.” Prang is gay, and has worked as a special assistant in the sheriff’s department on the LGBT advisory council.

But ultimately she devolves into shrill, pointless “hetero families are the real victims” babble.

She mentions Long Beach case where a gay man was coerced into behavior and the practice was later found to be discriminatory, then works herself into a lather about “families’ rights”:

Yet this begs the question: How is this a question of discrimination, and not of catching and punishing illegal behavior? And where are families’ rights in all this? They’re undoubtedly the majority of the people who use these recreational public spaces.

Dear Mrs. Reilly: The vast majority of LGBT people are not into public sex, and realize that those who engage in such and are caught are, in fact, criminals.

BUT illegally targeting these men is as illegal as their behavior.

That cannot be ignored, certainly in the name of “families’ rights.”

Related: Judge Rules Long Beach Police Illegally Targeted Gay Men In Sex Sting Operations

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‘Bacon’, Lindsey Graham, Illegal To Be Gay, ABBA, Black Holes, Elon Musk: NEWS

‘Bacon’, Lindsey Graham, Illegal To Be Gay, ABBA, Black Holes, Elon Musk: NEWS

QUEEN. Dame Helen Mirren isn’t a fan of the Kardashians, except for one redeeming quality they seem to have.

nick-jonas-bacon-vid-2016-billboard-1548MUSIC VIDEO. Nick Jonas serves up “Bacon.”

ELECTION THROWBACK. John Legend performs “If You’re Out There” at the 2008 Democratic National Convention. 

“MEXICAN HERITAGE.” Donald Trump says his racist remarks about a federal judge were “misconstrued”: “It is unfortunate that my comments have been misconstrued as a categorical attack against people of Mexican heritage. I am friends with and employ thousands of people of Mexican and Hispanic descent. The American justice system relies on fair and impartial judges. All judges should be held to that standard. I do not feel that one’s heritage makes them incapable of being impartial, but, based on the rulings that I have received in the Trump University civil case, I feel justified in questioning whether I am receiving a fair trial.”

NEVER TRUMP. Lindsey Graham says he won’t vote for Donald Trump, encourages Republicans to unendorsed Trump: “If anybody was looking for an off-ramp, this is probably it.” Illinois Senator Mark Kirk refuses to endorse Trump, says Trump’s most recent racist remarks were the straw that broke the camel’s back: “It is absolutely essential that we are guided by a commander-in-chief with a responsible and proper temperament, discretion and judgment. Our president must be fit to command the most powerful military the world has ever seen, including an arsenal of thousands of nuclear weapons.”

mapANTI-GAY. Every country in the world that criminalizes homosexuality in one map.

RED PLANET. SpaceX CEO Elon Musk says company could send astronauts to Mars as soon as 2024: “‘The basic game plan is that we’re going to send a mission to Mars with every Mars opportunity from 2018 onwards,’ Musk said. Launch windows for Mars missions open every 26 months, with the next opening in the spring of 2018. ‘We’re establishing cargo flights to Mars that people can count on,’ he said. ‘I think if things go according to plan, we should be able to launch people probably in 2024, with arrival in 2025.’”

O, CANADA. Our neighbors to the north look to make their national anthem gender neutral: “Bill C-210, which passed 219 to 79, proposes to switch just two words in the lyrics of ‘O Canada’ — changing “in all thy sons command” to “in all of us command” in one verse. The simple substitution is meant to do away with the exclusively male phrasing in part of the song, but it’s also causing an uproar among some conservative members of Canada’s government.”

MUSIC. ABBA reunites for rare performance together: “ABBA officially split up in 1982, but the last time they had performed together before last night was in 1986.”

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PROM SEASON. Johnny Depp’s daughter Lily-Rose Depp went to the prom with Kevin Smith’s daughter, as one does.

BLACK HOLES. Stephen Hawking makes significant addition to his work on black holes: “Working with two colleagues, he found that the essential properties of whatever falls into these cosmic pits may, after all, survive. Or, as he put it recently, black holes ‘are not the eternal prisons they were once thought.’”

GAME OF THRONES. New hints about what to expect in next week’s episode.

TOO HOT FOR TUESDAY. Ali.

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Who Do Gay California Voters Favor? Scruff Makes a Prediction

Who Do Gay California Voters Favor? Scruff Makes a Prediction

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Tuesday has been dubbed Super Tuesday 5 with California, New Jersey, New Mexico, Montana and the Dakotas going to the polls. And while Hillary Clinton was characterized as the presumptive Democratic nominee by the AP and NBC News on Monday, neither she nor Bernie Sanders were too thrilled about that bulletin, fearing it would suppress voter turn-out on Tuesday.

California polling has been neck-and-neck as of late, but which Democratic candidate will win the gay vote? According to a(n incredibly unscientific) poll from gay dating app, Scruff, gay Californians overwhelmingly favor Clinton.

NBC News reports: 

According to Scruff, the popular dating app for gay and bisexual men, nearly 60 percent of the 1,011 “likely voters” who responded to the survey are throwing their support behind Clinton, compared with 34 percent who support Sanders.

One sub-group Sanders did do particularly well with in the survey was younger gay and bisexual men. Seventy-six percent of 18-24 year olds surveyed said they support the Vermont senator.

Polls close in California at 11 PM EST / 8 PM PST. If you live in one of the states voting today be sure to get out and vote!

[h/t Instinct]

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This Stunning Dance Video Explains How a New, Groundbreaking Vaccine Could End AIDS: WATCH

This Stunning Dance Video Explains How a New, Groundbreaking Vaccine Could End AIDS: WATCH

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Thirty-five years ago, on June 5, 1981, the Center for Diseases Control (CDC) reported that five unrelated young men were diagnosed with pneumocystis carinii pneumonia in three Los Angeles area hospitals. Two of them had died.

The report noted that the occurrence of pneumocystis was highly unusual for “patients without a clinically apparent underlying immunodeficiency,” and suggested  “an association between some aspect of a homosexual lifestyle or disease acquired through sexual contact.” A year later, the CDC started referring to the disease as AIDS. Three and a half decades later, a cure is yet to be found.

But we are getting closer.

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Dr. Sudhir Paul

The difficulty of finding a cure for AIDS exists because HIV is constantly mutating and changing faster than the antibodies our bodies produce to fight it. Dr. Sudhir Paul, director of the Chemical Immunology Research Center at the University of Texas at Houston, says that  “in the case of HIV, traditional vaccine paradigms simply do not work because the virus mutates pretty rapidly and the body is fooled into making anti-bodies against changeable parts of the virus.”

In 2008, Dr. Paul came up with a new technology, the E-Vaccine, that infuses a non-mutating part of the virus with an electrical charge. The charge allows the body to finally see and destroy the protein HIV uses to infect human cells. In his words, it is a “way of chemically activating the body’s immune system to produce large amounts of the protective anti-bodies against a small area of the virus that is mostly unchangeable and that we’ve called the ‘Achilles heel’ of the virus.” He has been working on the E-Vaccine for over 15 years. The next step is testing.

Dr. Paul partnered up with the Abzyme Research Foundation and together they started the #endHIV campaign, to fund the final manufacturing and FDA proposal and start human trials by next year.

Zachary Barnett, founder and executive director of the Abzyme Research Foundation, says that “the vaccine represents an entire new way to activate the immune system against the weak spot on HIV’s outer coat.”

Earlier this month, #endHIV and Greater than AIDS launched #HIVBEATS, a series of videos with some famous YouTubers and even America’s reigning drag superstar talking about HIV awareness, prevention and treatment. The campaign aims to bring HIV education into the digital age, and it is a “millennial response from a generation that has never lived without HIV/AIDS,” says Barnett.

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On Sunday, #HIVBEATS posted a stunning dance piece choreographed by Ryan Heffington (who choreographed Sia’s award-winning “Chandelier” video), with music by Grammy Award-nominated composer Lucian Piane and narration by Oscar-winner Julianne Moore.

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The 7-minute long video is inspired by the battle between HIV and the body’s immune system. It shows the chaotic and disorderly HIV infection cycle; only this time, the narrative has a happy — and hopeful — ending.

Check out the video below:

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How Do You Know When A Hookup Is ‘The One’?

How Do You Know When A Hookup Is ‘The One’?

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Is it the way he takes extra long to “look” for his socks, even though you both know they’re in the hallway where you pushed him up against a wall?

Do you know when he says something out of a fairytale like, “That was hot. I’m in town for another three days, maybe we can meet up again.”

Or is the fact that he finally hugged you before you fled his house at 4 a.m. on a Friday night?

Ah, love — it’s a magical thing.

On this weeks episode of Jimmy Fowlie‘s Go-go Boy Interrupted, Danny and the gang wonder how to tell if they’ve found “the one.”

Watch below:

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‘So You Think You Can Dance’ Contestant Pukes All Over Paula Abdul

‘So You Think You Can Dance’ Contestant Pukes All Over Paula Abdul

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It’s a story that has all the elements — reality TV, Beyoncé, Paula Abdul and upchuck.

Tahani, a 12-year-old who auditioned for So You Think You Can Dance: The Next Generation, left an indelible impression on ever-perky/Percocet-ey judge Paula Abdul — first through her electrifying dance routine, and later by puking all over her.

Related: Paula Abdul: Straight Up Herself

After raking in the applause with an unbridled performance to Beyoncé’s “Countdown,” Tahani was so stunned and excited by the attention and praise that she simply lost control and spewed all over the “Straight Up” singer/dancer.

Related: Paula Abdul Stalker Commits Suicide

“She just squeezed me too tight,” Tahani said to host Cat Deely, “and all the happiness came out on her jacket.”

How’s that for a soundbite?

Paula took the high road, airily quipping, “Never had anyone just vomited on me like that.”

And here it is:

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Dolly Parton Weighs on Bathroom Bills: ‘If I Need To Pee, I’m Going To Pee’ – WATCH

Dolly Parton Weighs on Bathroom Bills: ‘If I Need To Pee, I’m Going To Pee’ – WATCH

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Dolly Parton is weighing into the debate about transgender bathroom rights, making clear that she’s for treating everyone with respect.

Parton told CNNMoney last week,

“I think everybody should be treated with respect. I don’t judge people and I try not to get too caught up in the controversy of things. I hope that everybody gets a chance to be who and what they are. I just know if I have to pee, I’m going to pee — I don’t care where it’s going to be.”

Watch, below.

[h/t Huffington Post]

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To Keep Winning Against AIDS, China Needs to Talk More About Gay Sex

To Keep Winning Against AIDS, China Needs to Talk More About Gay Sex

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When it comes to public health, China’s leaders have done at least one thing very well: They’ve beaten back AIDS.

Indeed, China’s is one of the most impressive turnarounds in the history of HIV and AIDS policy. After facing the threat of an “AIDS typhoon” in the 1990s, China’s adult prevalence of HIV is now less than 0.1 percent, one of the lowest rates on the planet. But this success story is teetering on the edge of defeat, and it all comes down to a growing crisis in the nation’s gay community.

Last November, China Daily noted skyrocketing rates of HIV and AIDS among gay men. In spite of that, Premier Li Keqiang made no mention of the group when he chaired a State Council meeting in April at which AIDS was a main topic.

And that signals a big part of the problem.

“The government’s negligence and the societal stigma imposed on the gay community has made the group a more vulnerable target for HIV in China,” Beijing Today observed in March.

As a group, men who have sex with men are experiencing the worst spike in new infections of HIV, the virus that causes AIDS, with male homosexual sex constituting 80 percent of new cases in China. Yet Beijing has never really managed to address the spread of the virus in this population.

HIV first hit China in 1989, the year of the Tiananmen Square massacre. More than a decade later, aggressive policies to combat HIV managed to reverse a looming crisis. By 2011, nationwide prevalence was negligible. Among drug users, HIV infection rates were cut in half from 2003 to 2013, while infection among female prostitutes remained below 1 percent.

It was a tremendous accomplishment in a country of more than a billion people, but there was one thing wrong. HIV rates among men who have sex with men exploded during the same period, rising five-fold.

Why?

Inconsistent condom use among men who have sex with men is likely a factor. One study found that the rate of consistent condom usage among men who have sex with men in Chongqing was 52.1 percent in 2014, and a 2016 study found that the rate of consistent condom usage among gay men in Beijing was just 56.4 percent.

However, gay men aren’t alone in being slow to adopt condoms, which are still seen as something only women buy as part of their reproductive responsibilities. While the industry is growing rapidly in China, with high use found among female prostitutes, overall sales remain low.

A survey conducted in 2014 showed only 38 percent of sexually active college students, in fact, use condoms. Within that group, gay men are the most affected by HIV. According to a report by the South China Morning Post last November, among students recorded as HIV-positive in the first 10 months of 2015, roughly 82 percent became infected through gay sex.

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The government tried to address this by asking all Beijing universities to install condom vending machines. The machines are often poorly maintained. They’ve also tried to target gay men for sexual health outreach by partnering with Blued, the world’s largest gay dating app, to provide medical information.

Efforts like these help. But it appears raising awareness isn’t enough if the stigma surrounding homosexuality is still strong enough to prevent gay men from seeking medical care.

While gay men in China have become more comfortable living openly, they continue to face heavy discrimination. Homosexuality was only legalized in the country in 1997, and being gay was classified as a mental disorder until 2001. Attitudes have changed significantly since then: Shanghai held its first gay pride parade in 2009, and by 2014, Global Times reports, only 2 percent of those surveyed opposed same-sex marriage. But there are still a number of civil rights that are denied to gay men in China.

People living with HIV are also stigmatized. In a 2010 study, more than 56 percent of respondents in Shanghai said they believed people who get HIV or AIDS deserve it, while 80 percent of respondents said they feared people who have HIV or AIDS.

“If [I am] positive,” said one man in a 2015 Xinhua report, “people will know I have AIDS because I’m gay. It will be worse than death.”

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Encouraging the public to embrace a more compassionate attitude toward gay men and those living with HIV and AIDS is no easy proposition for Beijing. This is, after all, the same government that yanked Fan Popo’s documentary last year about mothers who love their gay children, decided in March that it won’t allow depictions of gay men on television, and in April ruled against same-sex marriage.

Continued success in HIV prevention will require humanizing not just the disease, but the people it affects, says Tommy Hung, a former AIDS researcher at the Yunnan Hospital of Infectious Diseases. He thinks the fact that HIV is growing among college students could shift perspectives.

“The shift from being a disease of the uneducated poor or the gluttonously wealthy to a disease of college students and the middle class has humanized it a little,” Hung says. “It creates fear, but it also creates more empathy.”

HIV was first recorded in China with the confirmation of 146 cases in the southwestern province of Yunnan, on the Burmese border, nearly three decades ago. At the time, the country now known as Myanmar was the world’s top heroin supplier — today it’s the second — and Yunnan, one of China’s poorest regions, suffered an epidemic of addiction among the local Dai and Jingpo people. Over the next several years, HIV spread across the rest of Yunnan, and by the early 2000s, it was found in most of China.

Western analysts were soon predicting a massive health crisis: UNAIDS released a 2001 report on “China’s Titanic Peril,” another study referred to “China’s time bomb,” and the American Enterprise Institute warned of an “AIDS typhoon.”

But the typhoon never came. The government did, at first, handle the problem in the worst imaginable way, covering up its own failures and limiting speech. In late 2003, The New York Times noted that the village of Xionqiao, like many others in central China’s Henan province, was “experiencing an AIDS epidemic caused by government-induced blood trading in the 1990s.” Three months later, The Guardian reported that charity groups were being barred from Henan, journalists who reported on the epidemic there had been fired, and health officials investigating the crisis had been sued. In Xionqiao itself, HIV-positive villagers were routinely being beaten for trying to raise awareness about the issue.

At the same time, China was reeling from the fallout of the SARS epidemic, which began in November 2002. It wasn’t until April of the following year that Beijing finally stopped denying the problem. But by then, the damage was done: SARS had gone global, with thousands of cases worldwide. The ordeal left China’s economy badly bruised, too — Hong Kong restaurant and retail sales dropped by as much as 50 percent.

By the end of 2003, Beijing officials had learned a valuable lesson that would change how they approached public health emergencies.

“The crisis exposed all the defects in the political system,” said Hu Angang, professor of economics at Tsinghua University’s school of public policy and management. “It turned out to be the best teacher for the government on how not to repeat those mistakes.”

Public awareness campaigns and measures to provide free antiretroviral (ARV) medicine marked a major turning point. By 2011, nationwide prevalence of HIV had plunged to roughly one-twentieth of one percent.

If Beijing doesn’t want to lose these hard-won gains, it’s going to have to foster a culture of safe gay sex. This will mean confronting the stigmas surrounding homosexuality and HIV — or at the very least, not censoring those who do.

This article first appeared on PRI’s The World.

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