Meet Debi, A Mom for Transgender Equality

Meet Debi, A Mom for Transgender Equality

Debi’s daughter Avery was four-years-old when she proclaimed her true gender identity to her mother.

Debi, who is Southern Baptist, admitted that at first she didn’t quite know how to process the information, she acknowledged that it was not a phase and that Avery was simply being true to who she is.

As soon as Avery was able to live life freely and openly as her authentic self, Debi and her family saw an immediate change for the better.

 “Imagine spending your life pretending to be someone you aren’t, to try to live to make everyone else in your world happy rather than yourself,” Debi said. “Since she has transitioned, she’s a completely different person. Her confidence in herself is off the charts.”

While Debi not only expressed her resolute support and reassurance for her daughter, she also spoke to the vital issue of making our world safer and better for the transgender community and gender-expansive youth.

“How many parents have a child in a category of people that, by their very existence, can be the target of such hatred and potential violence?” questioned Debi. “Tamara Dominguez, who was murdered here, 10 minutes from our house, Avery heard that and said, ‘What gives anyone the right to kill someone just for being transgender?’ And you have this moment where you don’t know how to answer it.”

Debi praised her daughter for her resiliency in living her truth and asserts that she and her husband lucky to have a child who opened their eyes and expanded their worldview.

Unfortunately, this is not the case for much of the transgender community. But the repudiation of hate and bigotry and the advocacy of hope, love and tolerance can make a prominent and lasting impact on individuals as well as whole communities.

After legal threats by an anti-LGBT hate group forced a school in Mount Horeb, Wisconsin to cancel plans last month to support a transgender student by readingI Am Jazz, a children’s book by transgender teen and HRC Youth Ambassador Jazz Jennings, more than 600 residents showed up at a public reading organized by a parent to show the six-year-old and her family that the community respects and cares for them. On January 14, inspired by the indisputable support by the small town, HRC Foundation’s Welcoming Schools program and youth advocates from across the nation hosted readings of I Am Jazz in support of transgender youth, including Debi, who hosted her own reading in a Kansas City, Missouri church.

Debi also spoke at HRC Foundation’s second annual Time to THRIVE conference for LGBTQ youth last year, as well as at the 2015 HRC National Dinner in October.

To learn more about how you can help close the book on hate and organize an I Am Jazz reading in your community, visit www.hrc.org/IAmJazz. For more information on supporting transgender and gender-expansive students in the classroom, visit www.welcomingschools.org.

Click here to view more spectacular moms like Debi who are standing up and speaking out in support of transgender equality.

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Live Chat with Mark Fenster: author, professor and researcher of conspiracy theories

Live Chat with Mark Fenster: author, professor and researcher of conspiracy theories
Mark Fenster, a University of Florida law professor and expert on conspiracy theories, will visit the Hive for a chat with Prime members today at 2PM Eastern. Fenster, the author of Conspiracy Theories: Secrecy and Power in American Culture, studies how …

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Ann Hirsch is a fascinating new breed of artist

Ann Hirsch is a fascinating new breed of artist
By Sebastian Smee Globe Staff January 14, 2016 Reading a group text message or chatroom thread is always disorienting. If you are the parent of one of the participants, and if your child is prepubescent or thereabouts, the shock can be profound. Who are …

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Helsinki Pride is here!

Helsinki Pride 2015 invites you to join the biggest culture and human rights event in Finland June 22-28. Helsinki Pride is a theme week of gender and sexual minorities and warmly welcomes everyone interested. The organizer of Helsinki Pride is HeSeta ry.

Pride week is a full of rainbow colored program; there are lectures on current topics, discussions, sunny picnics, workshops, art and culture and of course several awesome parties which continues until the late morning. There are events for all ages. Targeting participants of 13-25 years, the Youth Pride (Nuorten Pride) forms its own entity.

On Saturday June 27th Helsinki Pride culminates in Pride parade which starts from Senaatintori Square. Parade continues as a park party at Kaivopuisto and later as the Pride closing party. Make sure you don’t miss the colorful parade twisted with great atmosphere!

We welcome you to enjoy the versatile program, cheerful atmosphere and summery Helsinki!

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Not all Australian states are planning to erase historic gay sex convictions

Not all Australian states are planning to erase historic gay sex convictions
Legislators in the state of Western Australia have said that there is “no current plan” to expunge convictions made under the anti-gay law before homosexuality was decriminalised. WA Attorney General Michael Mischin told Buzzfeed that Western Australia …

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HRC Announces Honoree and Speakers for Upcoming Time to Thrive Conference

HRC Announces Honoree and Speakers for Upcoming Time to Thrive Conference

HRC announced that Emmy Award-winning John Quiñones, anchor of ABC’s powerful “What Would You Do? news magazine, will be honored at HRC’s national Time to THRIVE conference in February.

The HRC Foundation also announced today that featured speakers at the third annual event, scheduled for February 12 to 14 near Dallas, include Secretary Julián Castro, U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development (HUD); Jim Obergefell, one of the many courageous plaintiffs at the forefront of last June’s Supreme Court marriage equality ruling; transgender teen Jazz Jennings, an HRC Foundation Youth Ambassador featured in the TLC reality program “I Am Jazz”; and Andreja Pejić, the first transgender model featured in American Vogue.

HRC Foundation’s Time to THRIVE conference is held in partnership with the National Education Association and the American Counseling Association.

“We are thrilled to honor John Quiñones with our Upstander Award for the tremendous work he is doing addressing LGBTQ bullying and bias on episodes of ‘What Would You Do?’” said Vincent Pompei, chair of Time to THRIVE and director of the HRC Foundation’s Youth Well-Being Project. “He has used his highly-rated program to not only reveal the bigotry that LGBTQ people, including youth, continue to face in going about their daily lives, but also to feature the goodness of many Americans who–without knowing their actions are being recorded– choose to personally confront discrimination.”

Quiñones, during his 25 years at ABC News, has reported extensively for all ABC programs, and anchored Primetime. The Texas native has been collecting awards since 1980 when, working for WBBM-TV in Chicago, he won his first Emmy for reporting on the plight of undocumented immigrants from Mexico. His prize-winning work for ABC News has taken him from Panama City to Congo’s rainforest, and he spent nearly a decade reporting for World News Tonight in Central America. Quiñones’ consequential reporting on world hunger, and on child slavery in the Dominican Republic, has been recognized by the Robert F. Kennedy Journalism Awards.

His “What Would You Do?” episodes have made headlines across the nation by revealing unscripted reactions to actors playing gay military service members, parents confronting their child about being LGBTQ, same-sex parents, and teens bullying LGBTQ youth.

“In addition to John Quiñones, we are also excited and privileged to have a lineup of stellar speakers who are dedicated to helping all youth, and who demonstrate every day to LGBTQ youth that anything is possible for them — from starring in a reality show raising awareness about transgender youth and appearing on the pages of major fashion magazines, to changing laws to make our country more fully LGBTQ-inclusive,” Pompei said.

Housing and Urban Development Secretary Julián Castro, appointed by President Obama in 2014, previously served as mayor of San Antonio, where, while making his name as a national leader in urban development, he also appointed an LGBT liaison and guided his city to pass an LGBT non-discrimination ordinance. Continuing to advocate for LGBTQ rights, Castro has pledged to use HUD’s resources to address the epidemic of LGBTQ youth homelessness. The Stanford University and Harvard Law School graduate has been honored as one of the World Economic Forum’s “Young Global Leaders,” and in 2010 made Time magazine’s list of “40 under 40” rising stars in American politics.

Ohio native Jim Obergefell is one of the many courageous plaintiffs who brought last June’s Supreme Court marriage equality case, Obergefell v. Hodges. After he and husband, John Arthur, suffering from Lou Gehrig’s disease, married legally in Maryland in 2013, they sued to have Ohio recognize their union. After his husband died, Obergefell and his fellow plaintiffs in five other pending marriage recognition lawsuits saw their cases consolidated for arguments before the U.S. Supreme Court. Last June, the court ruled in their favor. Obergefell, once a teacher, has described himself as an accidental activist, now committed to fighting for equality. He has used his voice to speak out for LGBTQ families.

Transgender teen Jazz Jennings, an HRC Youth Ambassador who spoke at last year’s conference, keeps blazing new trails. Co-author of the children’s book “I Am Jazz,” about growing up transgender, she is the star of her own reality show on the TLC cable network, and was featured in a commercial for Clean and Clear. Jazz first made headlines in 2007 when she, with her family, was interviewed by Barbara Walters on ABC’s 20/20. She has twice been named to Time magazine’s annual “25 Most Influential Teens,” and is co-founder of TransKids Purple Rainbow Foundation.

Supermodel Andreja Pejić was discovered in 2007 as a teen working at a McDonald’s, and has gone on to walk in top runway shows including Galliano, Marc Jacobs, Raf Simons, and Jean Paul Gaultier. During London Fashion Week last year, Pejić, a native of Australia, made her debut as a female, and since has made history as the first transgender model to be featured in American Vogue and has continued to help pave the way for other transgender people in the fashion industry.

The Time to THRIVE conference features 72 workshops by more than 45 national and grassroots organizations dedicated to improving the lives of LGBTQ youth. Special conference guests and additional speakers include Jane Clementi, co-founder of the Tyler Clementi Foundation; Marsha Aizumi, author, educator and LGBTQ advocate; Judy Shepard, founder of Matthew Shepard Foundation in honor of her gay son, murdered in a 1998 hate crime; and Dr. Beverly Hutton, Deputy Executive Director of Programs and Services at the  National Association of Secondary School Principals.

Time to THRIVE is the premier national convening of educators and youth-serving professionals to build awareness and cultural competency, learn current and emerging best practices, and gather resources from leading experts and national organizations in the field.  Time to THRIVE will take place over Presidents’ Day Weekend, February 12-14, 2016, with AT&T and BBVA Compass as the presenting sponsors. To register, visit www.TimeToThrive.org.  

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Texas court starts voiding Internet 'dirty talk' convictions

Texas court starts voiding Internet 'dirty talk' convictions
Punishment under the old law ranged from two years to life in prison. Walker said his client, Thompson, was originally arrested in 2006 for an online chat with a woman who was pretending to be a minor but was not an undercover police officer. Gilbert …

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