5 home gadgets to make your partner happy this Christmas

Christmas is quickly coming up – time to make sure you’re prepared so the holidays can’t catch you before you’re ready.

We’ve compiled, with the help of Innovate Online, the coolest gadgets to buy your partner this Christmas. Make your house shine with a Robot Cleaner or drink a great cup of coffee with a Nespresso Machine – this Christmas, we’ve got you covered with the best gadgets for every room of your house.

Apple TV

There’s no doubt the all-new Apple TV is the must-have gadget for your TV and the perfect gadget to stream your favourite episodes of Game of Thrones or Orange Is The New Black.

Apple’s newly released fourth-generation Apple TV has been completely redesigned and comes with all sorts of improvements – most notable, its own operating system called tvOS.

The jewel in its crown is no doubt the very cool Glass Touch surface Siri remote: simply scroll your finger across to bring up menus, change the volume or bounce between apps. Better yet, you can ask Siri to play the latest movie and they’ll respond to your command.

Nespresso Machine

A kitchen isn’t complete unless is has a coffee machine. And a coffee machine just isn’t a match for a Nespresso machine – or, as George Clooney famously says, “Nespresso. What else?”

What greater luxury than to wake up every morning and prepare a coffee in seconds with a flick of a switch, without any annoying waits?

Not just that, but the machine is bound to become a statement piece in your kitchen, with plenty of stylish and sexy designs to choose from – and best of all, you can pick from a variety of flavours and complexities with each coffee capsule, allowing for a new aroma and taste every morning.

Hoover Expert Robot Vacuum Cleaner

Admit it, you hate vacuuming. It’s okay, we all do.

But what if we told you could leave the vacuuming to someone, or rather something, else, with a sleek, modern design feeling like it came straight out of a sci-fi movie (just without the danger of it turning sentinent).

The Hoover Expert robot vacuum cleaner will mean you’ll never have to do the vacuuming yourself again: simply set the cleaner to go and it will start cleaning your home all by itself.

Inbuilt sensors mean the Hoover Expert knows where to go, where to stop and ensure it’ll never fall down stairs!

It even comes with two virtual walls, preventing it from going into unwanted rooms or areas of the home – so there should be nothing stopping you from throwing out your old vacuum to buy one of these right now!

Fitbit Scales

After eating non-stop over the Christmas period we’ll all find our pants a little tighter; so why not make your weight loss easily trackable?

There’s no better way to do so than with the super-sleek Fitbit Scales, available in either white or black.

We’re all familiar with the nifty Fitbit pedometers that sync with your phone, but now you can go a step further (pun intended) and keep track of your weight, BMI, body fat percentage and more.

And besides being completely compatible with your Fitbit tracker, the scales also recognise multiple users so you can easily share with your partner.

Lumie Bodyclock Starter

We’ve covered the kitchen, the TV room and the bathroom, let’s move onto the bedroom!

If you’re waking up groggy and grumpy, it might just be that you’re simply waking up the wrong way.

The Lumie Bodyclock is the best way to wake up in the morning: through its dawn simulator, the Lumie helps you wake up gradually by increasing natural light over 30 minutes, allowing your body to wake up naturally.

Boosting your mood (who isn’t happy when being woken up by the sun?), energy and productivity, it’ll help keep your sleep patterns on track, too.

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Police Arrest Boyfriend’s Best Friend In Gay Houston Man’s Horrific Murder – VIDEO

Authorities have arrested a suspect who reportedly bound, gagged and fatally bludgeoned a gay Houston-area man before setting his pickup truck on fire last week.

The father of 28-year-old Marc Pourner (above) remains convinced his son’s murder was an anti-gay hate crime, and he says the suspect was the best friend of Pourner’s boyfriend.

Police in Lafayette, Indiana, on Tuesday arrested 22-year-old David James Brown (right) and charged him with capital murder in Pourner’s death, according to The Lafayette Journal & Courier: 

After receiving a tip that Brown might be hiding out in a rural Buck Creek home, Tippecanoe County sheriff’s deputies started watching the house Tuesday, Tippecanoe County sheriff’s Maj. Charlie Williams said. When Brown left the house, police followed him eastbound into Delphi, where Tippecanoe County, Carroll County deputies and Delphi police converged on Brown’s car.

He gave up without an incident, Williams said.

Pourner’s family and friends gathered Wednesday night for a vigil at the site where his body and truck were found. From KTRK-TV:

Pourner’s father says the suspect is best friends with his son’s boyfriend. He suspects the motive for killing his son, who was gay, could be hate.

“We didn’t need to suspect. We had information that told us exactly what happened when the incident occurred,” the father said.

According to media reports, Pourner’s roommates say he left his home in Spring, a Houston suburb, after receiving a late-night phone call last Wednesday that involved an argument. Pourner was reported missing after he didn’t show up for his job as bookkeeper at a local grocery store. His body was found near his burnt-out truck over the weekend in a heavily wooded area of Montgomery County, north of Houston. He reportedly died of blunt force trauma to the head.

RELATED: Gay Houston Man Tied Up And Murdered In Possible Hate Crime: VIDEO

KHOU-TV reports on Wednesday’s vigil:

Marc Pourner was 28, outspoken, opinionated and so proud to be gay, friends said his confidence gave them the heart to be themselves. So even with eyes drowning in tears over Marc’s murder, three dozen used candles to say what words cannot.

“Since day one, that’s all we did was laugh,” Patrick Sargent said. “He’s going to be missed.”

Pourer’s father said his son was generous, loving and trusting, which led to him being taken advantage of by Brown.

“My wife and I hugged and clapped and cheered,” he said of Brown’s arrest. “We cannot wait to see this gentleman go on trial. It’s our ultimate hope to attend his execution in Huntsville at the earliest possible time.”

Watch KHOU-TV’s report below.

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Remember the time R2D2 from Star Wars was a massive homophobe?

The new Star Wars is only a month away, with the excitement and hype driving fans into a frenzy.

But the franchise isn’t completely faultless (and no, we’re not talking about Jar Jar Binks), inspiring some work that might not be what George Lucas intended.

In one iteration of the lovable robot R2D2 in Mad Magazine, he was depicted as a massive homophobe.

This was from January 1978, so there has to be a certain amount of understanding that this was a different time, but ‘Star Roars’ ended up being one of Mad Magazine’s most popular and highly sold parodies. It was written by Larry Siegel with Dick DeBartolo.

Mistakes were soon rectified.

It was re-issued in 2007, in the book ‘MAD about Star Wars’, with the panel being changed to ‘gay robot’ instead.

When DeBartolo was asked about the panel in 2012, he said: ‘You know, I’m not sure why they changed it, but I’m glad they did.

‘I dislike words that are supposed to be the joke. Like a swear word said by an old lady [gets] a big laugh, but it’s not a joke. I know I didn’t use that word in the original, but then again I guess I didn’t write it.’

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Mr Gay World Klaus Burkart is Giving Up His Title After 7 Months. Here’s Why

In an open letter to fans, reigning ‘Mr Gay World’ Klaus Burkart has stepped down from his position because of “personal changes.”

21-year-old “milk technician” Burkart, who won the competition in May, wrote:

“When I entered the 2015 MR GAY WORLD™ competition in South Africa I thought that becoming MR GAY WORLD™ was the biggest challenge of my life.

“Indeed it is very challenging and exciting winning the title, but what is more challenging is living up to the expectations, responsibilities and duties that come along with it.

“Being MR GAY WORLD™ and serving the community has filled me with pride and joy. I had the opportunity to travel to different places and meet many members and friends of the LGBTI community – their positive feedback showed me that my mission had a true meaning and that the efforts of MR GAY WORLD™ are relevant and important.

“Facing this great experiences I’m very sad to announce that due to personal changes in my life I will no longer be able to live up to the expectations and serve the community to the extent that the title requires to do so.”

Passing the baton on to runner-up Mr Gay Hong Kong, Burkart added that Emmanuel Mass Luciano “will be a great representative for our community, who will put all his heart and passion into his reign.”

Watch an interview with Burkart below.

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The Gay Dating Pool Is Small But Not Hopeless

“If I’m at a bar and see more than two people whom my ex or I have slept with, I leave immediately,” my friend Rich told me shortly after I split from my partner of five years. 

I was looking to friends for counsel on re-entering the dating world, and Rich was resolute in his sentiment that dangling my fishing line into a pool of familiar faces was not the way for me to move forward romantically.  By Rich’s logic, I’d have a hard time staying in any West Hollywood club for more than five minutes and would, likewise, remain alone eternally.

“So, are you suggesting that I move to a new city?” I asked.  He made no room for the idea that the man of my dreams could be sitting right beside the guys he was advising me to avoid.

“Are you kidding?  Chances are that this ‘fantasy man’ you speak of has already been involved with the two men he’s perched next to.  Trust me.”  According to Rich, trying to date locally after a break-up was a lost cause, the gay version of a zombie apocalypse thriller in which one infected citizen spreads his disease from person to person until it reaches epidemic proportions.

For a few months, I adopted Rich’s bleak outlook.  He had resigned himself to being terminally single, trudging through town like he was on a feature-length episode of The Walking Dead, and I limped along next to him.  After all, a few facts were on his side.

1) The percentage of people who are gay.  While there is no universally agreed upon reporting of what portion of the world’s population identifies as homosexual, it’s widely believed that 10% is a reasonable, if likely inflated, number.  That figure represents a relatively small dating circle.  So, if love is, in fact, largely a numbers game – the odds are against us.  Rich certainly wasn’t wrong about that.

2) The ghettoization of gay communities.  Sure, LGBT men and woman make their homes in a variety of cities across the world, but there are inarguably locations that are known for having a considerable number of gay residents.  You are certain to find more gay folks in New York City, Fort Lauderdale and San Francisco than in, say, Jackson Hole, Montgomery and Milwaukee.  Circling within these concentrated locations makes running into people with whom you (or your ex) have some type of shared history a likelihood.

3) Birds of a feather.  Within these areas that are home to large numbers of gay men and women, people tend to congregate with those who are similar or whom they find most attractive.  For example, you’ll run into bears and the men who love them at specific hot spots.  Likewise, if Twinkerbell is your kind of guy, you’ll probably be hanging out at a dance club that draws youthful looking man-boys.  This further compartmentalization of the “gay ghettos” will, without a doubt, put you face-to-face with the same group of men time and time again.  It’s a “Mary-go-round” to nowhere, as Rich would explain it.

***

While not one of those points in particular accounted for my friend’s dismal point-of-view on dating following the dissolution of a relationship, they cumulatively made a compelling argument.  The truth was, though, I wanted to love again.  I wanted to be social within my community.  I wanted to let go of the discomfort that was attached to running into men from my past.

What I didn’t want to do was relocate.  But, how was I going to escape from the dystopian George Romero movie that Rich was projecting onto me?  It was a rare few who survived until the end credits of those films.

“You’re going to take a deep breath and really think about your sensibilities,” my friend Georgeann scolded, after I told her about Rich’s dire “end of the world” warnings. 

She was right; it was time to reframe my thinking.  I needed to rejoin the land of the living.  I had to cancel my subscription to Rich’s issues and remind myself that it was OK to feel comfortable in familiar surroundings, regardless of my histories with the other people around me.  Part of that meant not being so rigid about what kinds of men might make me happy.

To be clear, getting back on the dating scene wasn’t as easy as putting one foot in front of the other.  I had to build up the confidence to walk into the local haunts that my ex and I enjoyed together.  I challenged myself once a week to pop into the restaurants and bars that had been part of my past — and remain until I finished a meal or drink by myself.  It was intimidating at first, and it took every ounce of my willpower to stay seated for an hour.

Practice paid off; I became more secure after only a couple of months.  Yes, there were those awkward moments when I’d make eye contact with a man I’d dated previously or a guy who’d had a one-night stand with my ex years before, but they weren’t fatal.  Those brief but civil interactions didn’t deliver the crushing blows that Rich told me were inevitable.

I also widened my scope of interest when it came to specific types of guys.  I definitely still appreciated the All-American, collegiate-looking boy-next-door, but I found that venturing into new establishments put some other appealing men in my pathway.  Who’d have thought that I could be attracted to a bearded hipster in Silver Lake, never mind a husky biker whose leather jacket smelled like a good time?  I wouldn’t have even imagined it myself had I not listened to Georgeann and stepped out of my comfort zone.

And what about Rich?  We have maintained a close friendship, and he delights in offering me his perspective on just about every life subject.  Not surprisingly, though, he remains single while my weekend evenings have gotten pretty busy.  I guess it’s just a matter of whether we choose to let the facts work for us or against us.

JOSH SABARRA is the best-selling author of PORN AGAIN: A MEMOIR, and his work appears regularly in Gay Times and The Huffington Post. He is a veteran marketing executive and television producer who has held positions at The Walt Disney Company, Warner Bros. Studios, Miramax Films, New Line Cinema, and Lifetime Networks. Josh  resides in Los Angeles, where he is the president and CEO of his own public relations firm, Breaking News PR. Follow him on Twitter @JoshSabarra.
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REVIEW: Forge & Co – Shoreditch, London

Forge & Co holds a prominent place on London’s Shoreditch High Street.

A large, modern, stylish open space with an impressive bar and a combination of tables and couches.

This is the kind of place that offers something for whatever time of day you’re passing – from breakfast, through lunch, dinner, and into late night cocktails. There’s even a long work-table which seemed to be filled with the local freelancing office-less community.

I was dodging the rain on a wintry Thursday morning and so called in for breakfast. It was perfect. Friendly, professional service, good coffee, excellent wifi, and a plate of poached eggs that set me up nicely for the day ahead.

There’s a lot to love about Shoreditch, and Forge & Co is definitely one of the highlights.

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Judge Allegedly Swapped Sex, Spankings With Men For Lighter Sentences

Joseph Boeckmann, an Arkansas judge, has been accused of engaging in sex with young white male offenders in exchange for drastically reduced sentences.

The district judge in Cross County now faces an ethics complaint, which claims he gave preferential treatment to a number of defendants who completed “work” at his residence — which almost always involved performing sexual favors.

According to the ethics complaint, Boeckman made offenders perform “substituionary sentences,” asking them to “contact him to present their ‘trash pick up’ requirements at either his office or his home.”

“My staff has gone through thousands of pages of documents, court records, checks,” said Davis Sachar, executive director of the Judicial Discipline and Disability Commission. “That will be part of the case.”

He mentioned “there are still some determinations to be made.”

Boeckmann also allegedly had child pornography on his computer.

He apparently paid one defendant to let him take nude photographs of him over a five-year period.

Allegedly, he also had sexual relations with a young defendant who shacked up at Boeckmann’s home.

The judge allegedly showered the man with gifts — he bought him cars, the complaint suggests, and even a boat — and he would regularly pay his families’ rent and utility bills.

He’d spank the defendant regularly for sexual pleasure, or “as for punishment to A.A. for his criminal conduct,” the complaint reads. “A.A. received money for this conduct if the spankings were sought for Boeckmann’s pleasure.”

Arkansasonline.com reports that Boeckmann can’t be removed from office, despite the severity of the accusations.

The judge has yet to comment on any of the allegations, and has 30 days to respond to the complaint.

Read the complaint in its entirety below.

H/t: LGBTQ Nation

Jeremy Kinser

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Getting Intimate With Nathan Fillion

After a series of unsuccessful TV shows, the world finally discovered the wonder of Nathan Fillion when he starred as Captain Malcolm Reynolds in the cult hit series Firefly. Then came the Firefly movie, Serenity, and a memorable cinematic turn as a love-struck, unfaithful doctor in Waitress. Currently, Fillion has a starring role in the enduring crime drama/comedy Castle. The Canadian-born actor, as reknown for his tweets (3.37 million followers!) as his acting, recently reunited with Firefly costar Alan Tudyk for the super-popular webseries Con Man, in which the guys send up their own geeky path to fame (oh, and for the gay gamers out there, Fillion also provides the voice of Edward Buck in the latest Halo game). Fillion turned his legendary charm on us to talk to us about his expansive work.

The Advocate: Hi, Nathan. Tell me about Con Man; how much input did you have into your character, which seems mostly based on the real you?
Fillion: I would love to take full credit, but this is a thing that Alan Tudyk has been thinking about for years and just finally put it together, and the way in which Alan writes, he really leaves no stone unturned. You can certainly add a little tidbit here or there for dimension, but you have a fully fleshed-out character by the time Alan hands you the script. So, I wish I could take more credit, but Alan will probably read this, and then I’ll hear about it for sure.

Is the show indeed based on real experiences?
It’s a heightened reality, for sure, but it’s merely a parody of what we think a super successful celebrity would be like. And at the same time, there is a kernel of truth in it. The fact that Wray Nerely and Jack Moore never get to see each other except on Facetime. That’s not very far from the truth. I’ve been working on a network television show for eight years. I rarely get a chance to see my friends. We keep very odd hours here on a show, and it’s hard to nail down time just to see your friends for months at a time. 

Did you see Alan during the filming of Con Man, or was it all remote?
No, no, I was there. In the scenes I’m in, Alan was there directing. And while Alan was directing, I was there hanging out for the first few days of the shoot just to show some support. Alan pretends like he needs people around him, but really he doesn’t. He had it handled, and it was very impressive. It was his first shot at directing something like this, and he really handled it very well. His crew plainly loved him. It was really neat to see, because he really appreciated his crew, and his crew really seemed to appreciate him. Boy, he really loved those people.

I’ve been a big fan of both of you since Firefly, and it’s really fun to see you back together again.
Aw, thanks for that. And you know, it’s funny too, because people say that and Alan and I are best buddies. We’ve been hanging out for the past 13 years, and when people say, “It’s nice to see you back together again,” we kinda snicker, because we’ve been hanging out all this time.

In the show, Wray deals with overzealous fans who feel an ownership over him. Is that something you go through?
Absolutely. And you know what? I completely understand it. I think about TV shows I really like: Game of Thrones, The Walking Dead. I feel a sense of ownership for those shows. [People say], “I gotta get home and watch MY shows.” We even speak about it in terms of ownership. So it is a strangeness that I actually relate to and understand. You’re spending time in people’s living rooms for however long that might be. An hour a week. Or if they’re gonna watch a movie, if they’re gonna binge watch your entire series, you’re in their living room. You’re a part of their home. They feel familiar.

Do you often get hit on by gay male fans?
I don’t get hit on often by any fans. A flirt now and again. But I have had some very nice compliments from gay male fans, yes.

And how do you feel about that?
A compliment is a compliment. I take ‘em where I can get ‘em, Robbie.

Which of your projects do you get recognized for the most?
It’s a tossup. Castle is certainly a big deal to my career and the recognition factor. But I’m not out in the world much to experience that, unless I go to sci/fi conventions, at which point it’s a tossup between Castle and Firefly. Firefly, having been canceled 13 years ago, is very strange in that it keeps getting more and more fans every year. Younger and younger people are coming up to me saying how much they love it, and I can’t believe it. I’m so grateful for that experience.

It’s definitely a cultural phenomenon. You have somewhat of a following among gays for your dreamboat role in Waitress.
Is that right?

Yeah, we love that movie! Can you tell me about deciding to do it?
You know, I thought it would be a very cute movie. I was really looking forward to the chance to be working with Keri Russell and Cheryl Hines. Jeremy [Sisto] I had known from before and hadn’t had a chance to work with him. I had no idea just how cute it was going to be. That movie works out really well. I always point out to people that they think it’s a pure and wonderful love story and I say, “Just a reminder: these are two married people, and they’re both having extramarital affairs, and you’re rooting for them.” That’s how sweet and cute, and really wonderfully, Adrienne Shelly handled that subject matter. It made it okay to the extent that we actually root for these people to cheat on their spouses.

Yes. And the ending of that was such an interesting choice. It’s a surprisingly feminist film. Thanks for making that one.
It was a pleasure.

Do you have a man crush?
Umm, Benedict Cumberbatch, Jeremy Renner, Bradley Cooper. Who else do I think is really great? Both of the Wilson brothers. Who else? There was somebody I was just watching the other day and they were amazing…

You led off with three Marvel actors, and I know you had a small part in Guardians of the Galaxy. Is that your run for superheroes, or–
Tom Hiddleston! Tom Hiddleston! That was the one! Did I mention him?

Another Marvel man. Do you have aspirations to play a superhero?
I think all the really great heroes have been taken. And they’ve really done some wonderful jobs with goofy heroes. When Ant-Man came out I thought, “this is really a lower-rung hero for comics.” That movie was spectacular. Boy, Paul Rudd? I like to think I’m a charming guy. That Paul Rudd makes me look like an idiot man-child, he’s so charming. It’s so neat to watch him. But I would certainly think that for every superhero out there, there’s gotta be at least 50 villains. I think I’d like to take a crack. All the heroes are out there. Give me a villain.

Is there anything that you’d like to say to your gay fans?
Say it loud, say it proud (laughs).

Robbie X Pierce

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