News: Paul Ryan, Scientology, Patrick Schwarzenegger, Rachel Maddow, Frank Kameny Memorial

News: Paul Ryan, Scientology, Patrick Schwarzenegger, Rachel Maddow, Frank Kameny Memorial

5154dbccf7d6ed91da15dda46ac0e497MR. SPEAKER: Paul Ryan elected Speaker of the House. Here’s a look at his less-than-friendly record on LGBT issues. 

SCIENTOLOGY: More details about what to expect from Leah Remini’s 20/20 interview tomorrow night.

MEN: There are infinite reasons to love Tom Hardy.

MOVIES: HBO to do the first ever “midnight streaming” of The Rocky Horror Picture Show on Halloween to celebrate the cult classic’s 40th anniversary.

patrickFITNESS: Patrick Schwarzenegger jokes about the struggle to stay in-shape for shirtless scene in upcoming movie Midnight Sun.

STUDENT LOANS: An ugly provision in the budget deal that will allow student loan debt collector to bombard borrowers via auto-dialers: “And lest you imagine this is just the work of outgoing Speaker John Boehner, who has close ties to debt collections industry lobbyists, or his pro-corporate, consent-hostile party, President Obama is fully on board, too.”

JEB!: Noted statistician Nate Silver doesn’t like Bush’s odds“There are plenty of times when the conventional wisdom is right. This is probably one of those times.”

DEMOCRATS: Rachel Maddow to host second Democratic debate, er, forum: “The First in the South Democratic Candidates Forum,” sponsored by the South Carolina Democratic Party, is not to be confused with the second of six sanctioned debates by the Democratic National Committee. Maddow will speak to the candidates separately on a variety of topics including the economy, policing in America, the state of the Democratic Party at the event set to air on MSNBC at 8 p.m. ET next Friday.”

edward-snowden-guardian-vidSNOWDEN: EU urges nations to grant asylum to Edward Snowden: “On Twitter, Snowden called Thursday’s vote in Brussels, which urged European Union members to drop any criminal charges against him, as a ‘game-changer.’ He added, ‘This is not a blow against the U.S. Government, but an open hand extended by friends. It is a chance to move forward.’”

VETERANS: Dedication of memorial in honor of gay rights icon Frank Kameny set for Veterans Day: “The U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs gave final approval of the memorial marker headstone for Kameny earlier this month and was expected to deliver the stone to Congressional Cemetery the first week of November. The event marks the end of four years of disagreements and lawsuits over Kameny’s estate, his remains and how to honor the gay pioneer.”

HALLOWEEN: Chris Colfer gets his Halloween on.

Guess what we are! 🎃pic.twitter.com/uqGiHt38SM

— Chris Colfer (@chriscolfer) October 25, 2015

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News: Paul Ryan, Scientology, Patrick Schwarzenegger, Rachel Maddow, Frank Kameny Memorial

Anderson Cooper Knows Fantasy, But Fantasy Football? Not So Much

Anderson Cooper Knows Fantasy, But Fantasy Football? Not So Much

Anderson Cooper knows many, many things. But the out CNN anchor is the first to admit sports is not his forte. 

During a late-night panel discussion on CNN, Democratic strategist Donna Brazile brought up the moment in Wednesday’s Republican presidential debate when New Jersey Gov. Chris Christie “slammed everyone for talking about fantasy football.”  

There were chuckles as Republican strategist Ana Navarro said to Brazile: “You’re going to ask Anderson Cooper about fantasy football?”

“Are you looking at me?” Cooper deadpanned. Navarro observed, “The look of sheer terror in his eyes right now…”

“You had me at fantasy,” Cooper told Brazile. “But football, you lost me.”

“Let’s not get there, babe,” Brazile replied. 

“Someone had to tell me the World Series is going on right now,” offered Cooper. 

Watch the clip from CNN via AC360’s page on Facebook, below.

“You had me at fantasy, but football you lost me” Anderson Cooper at the moment the #GOPDebate discussion turned from politics to sports. cnn.it/1N9LdMZ

Posted by Anderson Cooper 360 on Wednesday, October 28, 2015

Dawn Ennis

www.advocate.com/television/2015/10/29/anderson-cooper-knows-fantasy-fantasy-football-not-so-much

Irish LGBT Group's Final Roadblock to Much Needed Resource Centre

Irish LGBT Group's Final Roadblock to Much Needed Resource Centre
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Teach Solais (Source: Amach LGBT Galway via Facebook)

In July of this year, I was back in my West of Ireland hometown of Galway to attend a film festival and my trip coincided with a fund-raising event for the town’s first ever LGBT resource centre, Teach Solais (translated as ‘Lighthouse’ in English), held by a community group called AMACH, which is the Irish word for ‘Out.’

The board of AMACH is made up of some of my hometown’s longest and hardest working campaigners for LGBT rights and visibility in the West of Ireland. Notably, one of its members, Nuala Ward, organized the first ever Gay Pride parade in Galway over twenty-five years ago.

In mentioning Galway’s first ‘Pride parade’ however, you would have to understand that we’re talking about fifteen people and a tense five-minute walk down Shop St. in the summer of 1989. Assuredly, that’s an intimidating and gutsy walk to take at a time before homosexuality was even decriminalized in Ireland, in 1993.

In summer, 2015 though, attending a fundraising quiz for the new LGBT resource centre was very exciting. Contemporary queer culture categories were mixed up with questions on Irish LGBT history, politics and iconography, all illustrating strides that the wider Irish LGBT community had made over the decades.
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My team members enjoyed hearing the answers to the history questions that may not have been milestones from their own life perspectives, and I loved that. It’s hard to describe the feeling of finally finding a sense of public belonging in the city of my birth in contrast to the experiences that preceded it.

What I *can* describe, however, is that I had finally stumbled into something tangible in my town that it had always been lacking, oftentimes to my despair — an inclusive atmosphere for my family, friends and allies, that offered a focused activity which celebrated diverse knowledge, and harnessed a drive to maintain vital and accessible community outlets for LGBT people, who are often pushed to the fringes via a veritable revolving door of gay bars that open and then go out of business with routine and inexplicable regularity.

Teach Solais proposed to fill this chasm and provide vital supports and services which would benefit the overall health and well-being of LGBT people, as well as their families and friends. It would be a safe space open to the wider community to access information and participate in relevant events. It seemed like a LGBT-grounded resource that would not only work, but would also be of immense community value. It was exciting.

However this week, AMACH vice chair, Nuala Ward confirmed that funds of €25,000 which were approved in November, 2014 at a City Council meeting for the City’s budget in 2015 are now being withheld for no apparently communicable reason.

Ward claims that the City Council’s instance that “[AMACH’s] allocated financial support to the resource centre was intended to be capital support towards the long-term provision of a centre and not for rental purposes,” are verifiably untrue due to minutes documented at the November, 2014 meeting, and an accompanying 3-year cost projections report, in which rental provisions were indeed specified.

Social Democrat candidate for Galway-West/South-Mayo, Niall O’Tuathail, who was a visible campaigner for the Yes vote in the Irish Marriage Equality referendum, surmised, “Everyone knows that public funds are tight but a council trying to lie its way out of commitments is not the way local government should work. The council must release this funding as soon as possible so that AMACH can continue its work.”

Crushingly, the phantom funding issue is a potential death blow to the Teach Solais project if Galway City Council are unable to account for this apparent ‘mismanagement’ of funds that they had previously allocated to the much needed resource centre. And now, more than ever, Irish localities need councillors that can show that they are capable of adequately serving diverse communities, such as that with which Galway is so blessed.

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Galway Community Pride (Source: Amach LGBT Galway via Facebook)

Perhaps this question of misrepresentation points to a larger problem that everyone in Ireland simply has to become very aware of — this misconception that in the wake of the Yes vote in the Marriage Equality referendum, that there is simply no more everyday LGBT discrimination because there is no more legal discrimination, and that allocating funding, resources or platforms of agency to LGBT initiatives is simply no longer needed.

This incorrect, dumbing down of the Irish LGBT experience, in that all we want is to just marry each other — “isn’t that enough for the gays?” — well that has to be demolished, for a start.

In a climate of the defunding of vital public services in Ireland as well as a decreasingly visible and increasingly overburdened equality infrastructure, the sad fact is that the opposite is true. We need more access to information and advocacy than ever. And Teach Solais is a grassroots beacon of this very imperative type of access.

More harsh truths: LGBT people in Ireland still have to fight for equal employment opportunities and will continue to do so, even after the upcoming amendment of Section 37.1 (which tentatively amends, not repeals, a legal right to discriminate against LGBT educators); they will have to fight with themselves, and potentially others, as to whether reporting discrimination will have more negative consequences than positive; and now they have a fight on their hands for the chance to give young LGBT people the access to resources and community activities that they themselves never had growing up.

Gary McMahon, SEO, Arts, Culture & Communications at Galway City Council responded to a request for clarification, stating:

“The issue of the grant to AMACH LGBT group was raised at the last meeting of Galway City Council held on 12th October and the Elected Members will revisit the issue at its next meeting to be held on Monday next, 2nd November.”

Despite a continuing lack of absolute clarity on the precise nature of the funding issue, Galway City Council member, Pearse Flannery made himself available for comment.

Flannery expressed that he believes that Council will work toward a resolution on the issue in the November 2nd vote.

All Photo Credits: Amach LGBT Galway via Facebook

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Turns Out This Guy’s Girlfriend Is Totally Cool With Him Being “Heteroflexible”

Turns Out This Guy’s Girlfriend Is Totally Cool With Him Being “Heteroflexible”

1e6b115b230628045c39e1a19c0ae9f5When we last heard from this self-described heteroflexible Redditor, things weren’t going so well on the homefront.

He broached the subject of his once-in-a-blue-moon desire to get down with other guys with his girlfriend, and it didn’t go so smoothly.

Related: Guy Comes Out As “Heteroflexible” To His Girlfriend. It Doesn’t Go Well.

Well, turns out the saying is true: communication really is everything.

He recently updated the internet on his relationship bump and what he learned from it:

So this is a bit late, but there was a lot of interest in my last post and I thought I’d give you guys an update on what happened.

She came back from her trip late that night and we sat down immediately to have a talk. I had this big plan about what I was going to say and how to explain what my feelings were better, give everything more context etc. but in the end none of it was necessary as she dove straight in..

She said that she was sorry that her reaction was a little harsh. She explained that she has zero problem with gays/bisexuals but that when it’s with her own partner it feels different. She agreed maybe it is close-minded but she said it’s an instinctive reaction. She said she is honestly not 100% comfortable with the idea, but that realistically it isn’t that big of a deal. She said she doesn’t truly understand the whole “it’s more about dick than being attracted to men” thing, but that she understands human sexuality is complex and believes me.

She said that she really liked how I explained myself with regards to saying assertively that I know exactly what I feel, what I want and that it’s for nobody else to try and tell me otherwise. Apparently my confidence in my sexuality and that the fact that I seem completely unconflicted with it makes it less of big deal.

So, in the end, I just kind of nodded and said that she had pretty much already come to all of the conclusions that I was about to try and get her to. We laughed and made up.

So it’s been over a week now and there have no more issues. She has actually brought it up a few times in a humorous way, making fun of me, which I am totally okay with. I’m just glad it’s all out in the open and not too big of a deal anymore.

tl;dr: Girlfriend does a u-turn, ends up being, if not 100% comfortable, able to accept it and be okay with the fact. Lesson learnt – give people time to process things before jumping to totalistic conclusions.

EDIT – Also, I think I am just going to go all out and state early in a relationship that I would say I am 95% straight. That way you can avoid major conflict later if it would be an issue and also I think you can learn a lot about a person in how they react.

Enlightened mostly-straight guy for the win.

Dan Tracer

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Rentboy CEO Asks for Help on Facebook

Rentboy CEO Asks for Help on Facebook

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Back in August, we told you about the raid carried out by federal officers against Rentboy in New York. CEO Jeffrey Hurant was among the company’s executives arrested on charges of prostitution.

After being arraigned in court, Hurant told reporters, “I think we do good things for good people and we bring good people together. And I hope that justice will be done in the end.”

RELATED: The Complaint Against Rentboy.com: A Legal Perspective

Since then, Hurant has been silent on the legal battle he and his company have been facing–until now. Posting on Facebook, he asked for the public’s help in financing Rentboy’s legal defense:

I realize that I have been very quiet on Facebook since my arrest on August 25th. I have been advised by legal counsel not to make any public statements about the case. As any of you who know me can guess, this hasn’t been easy for me.

This ordeal has been devastating for me, my family, my ex-employees and all the people my company has helped through the years. I am very grateful for all the support I have gotten from friends far and wide throughout the crisis. I count my blessings every day.

The brilliant team at Sher Tremonte, LLP has been working tirelessly preparing my defense. Even though I have not been proven guilty of committing any crime, the government has seized all the assets that I can use to defend myself, so I am here asking for your financial help to insure that this case has the best legal minds working on it.

Please consider donating to the www.rentboyfund.org/ Legal Defense Fund.

RELATED: Matt Baume on the Rentboy.com Raid: ‘Should Sex Work Be A Crime?’ – VIDEO

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Rentboy CEO Asks for Help on Facebook

GLAAD 'Disappointed,' Slams 'Tomboy' Movie for Gender-Confirmation Surgery Plot

GLAAD 'Disappointed,' Slams 'Tomboy' Movie for Gender-Confirmation Surgery Plot

The upcoming film Tomboy: A Revenger’s Tale is causing a controversy among LGBT activist groups, and most notable among them is GLAAD, which is calling the plotline of the planned movie “disappointing” for its “sensationalistic” depiction of gender-confirmation surgeries.

According to The Hollywood Reporter, the film from director Walter Hill centers on an assassin (played by bisexual actress Michelle Rodriguez) who is seeking revenge on a surgeon (played by LGBT ally and Prayers for Bobby star Sigourney Weaver) for being turned from a man into a woman.

The chief criticism of Tomboy is that it makes light of the various forms of gender-confirmation surgery trans people undergo to align their physical bodies with their innate gender.

“We haven’t read the script, but it’s disappointing to see filmmakers turning what is a lifesaving medical procedure for transgender people into a sensationalistic plot device,” Nick Adams, GLAAD’s director of programs for transgender media, said in a statement to THR.

He continued: 

“We are at a crucial moment in the public’s understanding of transgender issues, and stories like these have the potential to undermine the progress we’ve worked so hard to achieve.” 

Raffy Ermac

www.advocate.com/arts-entertainment/2015/10/29/glaad-disappointed-slams-tomboy-movie-gender-confirmation-surgery-plot

'RuPaul's Drag Race' Queens Offer Their Halloween Costume Advice

'RuPaul's Drag Race' Queens Offer Their Halloween Costume Advice

It’s almost Halloween — do you have your costume yet?

If not, two stars from the popular reality franchise “RuPaul’s Drag Race” are here to give you some tips and tricks for the perfect Halloween look.

Shangela and Willam are in New York City for two nights of Halloween-themed shows produced by party promoter extraordinaire Brandon Voss, and they stopped by HuffPost Live to hype the event and share their personal thoughts about the holiday.

A masked Willam, who looked delightfully terrifying, got candid:

“My favorite thing is when someone goes to the club dressed as a fairy or Tinkerbell or angel and they whack everybody with the wings. Don’t do it! Don’t be something with wings — there is no room for your ass… so that’s my costume tip.”

Check out the clip above to hear more.

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