DVD: “San Andreas,” “Big Eden,” “The Lives We Lead,” & More!

DVD: “San Andreas,” “Big Eden,” “The Lives We Lead,” & More!

c64f98fe82f99a17770f6a706700cebd_c0-0-3000-1748_s561x327Disaster, romance and an Aussie family drama make up this week’s home entertainment highlights.

The West Coast gets all sorts of earthquake-d in the disaster spectacle San Andreas (above), a lonely gay city boy finds love in his rural hometown in Big Eden, and the lives of two Australian sisters and a gay guy are followed in The Lives We Lead.

Now for the trailers and details!

 


San Andreas

($44.95 3D Blu-ray, $28.98 DVD; Warner Bros)

California finally gets hit with “the big one” — and a few other quakes to boot — in this CGI-rich disaster movie very much in the vein of (and surprisingly not directed by) Roland Emmerich. Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson stars as an LAFD helicopter pilot who will of course come to the rescue of a handful of characters like a family and two wise-cracking British siblings. The dialogue by scriptwriter Carlton Cuse is mind-numbing and repetitious, along the lines of Poltergeist 3, yet it’s crazy to see all that CGI destruction in 3D. Extras include making-of featurettes, deleted scenes, gag reel, stunt reel and a commentary from director Brad Peyton.

 

Big Eden

($24.95 Blu-ray, $14.95 DVD; Wolfe)

Henry Hart, a gay New York artist, returns to his rural Montana hometown when grandad’s heart goes all wonky. There, Henry reunites with his unrequited High School crush (Tim DeKay), now the father of two children, yet it’s striking Pike Dexter (Eric Schweig), the shy Native American who runs the town’s general store, who seems a more likely match for the lonely Hart’s heart. Refreshingly, the town’s gossipy residents, rather than run them both out with pitchforks or whatever small town folk use for such shenanigans, merrily attempt to hook the pair up. You’ll laugh, you’ll cry. It’s adorable.

Despite being one of the most sweet, romantic and heartfelt LGBT titles of its time, director Tom Bezucha’s Big Eden was also a bit of a sleeper and still is. To celebrate its 15th Anniversary, a sparkling remastered Blu-ray edition has been released, which features an all-new looking-back featurette with Bezucha and stars Gross, Schweig, DeKay, and Louise Fletcher. It’s a must.

 

The Lives We Lead

($24.99 DVD; Davo Hardy Productions)

This ambitious indie feature debut of Australian actor/director/writer Davo Hardy spans fifty turbulent years — from childhood to old age — in the lives of a pair of oil-and-water sisters, Edith and Pamela. Gavin, one of the boys/men most important in their lives is gay, and plays a prominent role. Fun Fact: The Lives We Lead originated as a 10-minute play with the film’s co-writers/stars, Sally Williams and Georgina Neville, but was expanded to feature film length with two male characters, including the openly gay Gavin.

 

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Australian Bobsled Stud Simon Dunn Shows Off His ‘Virgin’ Moves: WATCH

Australian Bobsled Stud Simon Dunn Shows Off His ‘Virgin’ Moves: WATCH

Simon Dunn

Australian bobsledder Simon Dunn was pretty excited to go see the Madonna concert in Edmonton the other night. Here’s how he prepared.

RELATED: Australian Bobsled Stud Simon Dunn Talks Singlehood, Sex Positions, and Losing His Virginity: VIDEO

Watch:

And one more:

Getting ready for the @Madonna concert #masc4madonna pic.twitter.com/Kpuw0YHP7U

— Simon Dunn (@bobsleighsimon) October 13, 2015

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Andy Towle

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7 Tough Questions Progressives Want Answered At The Democratic Presidential Debate

7 Tough Questions Progressives Want Answered At The Democratic Presidential Debate

The last two presidential debates have basically been exercises in outrage for progressives. Save for the moment Carly Fiorina smacked down Donald Trump’s sexism, the Republican events were the stuff of liberal nightmares — defenses of the Iraq War, expressions of admiration for Kim Davis, a botched discussion of climate change, and silence on racial injustice.

So there’s likely some relief among progressives that Tuesday’s presidential debate will be among Democratic candidates whose worldviews might align closer to theirs. But that does not mean that the candidates will have it easy. There are key distinctions the Democratic candidates will need to make between themselves and their opponents — both on the Republican and Democratic side of the aisle — before voters make their choices.

In order to make those distinctions, ThinkProgress reached out to groups with progressive values on a cadre of issues, ranging from gun violence to climate change, to find out what questions they hope the Democratic candidates will answer and why. Here are some of the responses we got.

1) “What do you think are the top three things the next president needs to do in order to make sure fewer families have to go through the pain that mine has?” – Erica Lafferty Smegielski, daughter of deceased Sandy Hook Elementary School principal Dawn Hochsprung.

Frank Kulick, adjusts a display of wooden crosses, and a Jewish Star of David, representing the victims of the Sandy Hook Elementary School shooting, on his front lawn, Monday, Dec. 17, 2012, in Newtown, Conn.

Frank Kulick, adjusts a display of wooden crosses, and a Jewish Star of David, representing the victims of the Sandy Hook Elementary School shooting, on his front lawn, Monday, Dec. 17, 2012, in Newtown, Conn.

CREDIT: AP Photo/David Goldman

This question was actually pointed out to ThinkProgress by Everytown For Gun Safety, a group advocating gun control. Erica asked it on CNN’s Facebook page when the network asked the public to provide questions to ask the Democratic candidates during the debate. Andy Parker, the father of on-air reporter Alison Parker who was killed by a gunman earlier this year, separately asked if candidates would work to require background checks for all gun sales.

“We want all the candidates, from all parties, to tell us what they will do to prevent the gun violence that kills 88 Americans every day and injures hundreds more,” Everytown spokesperson Stacey Radnor said.

2) “Will you engage in aggressive litigation against the fossil fuel industry’s conspiracy of climate denial, as the Clinton administration did against the tobacco industry?” – R.L. Miller, president of Climate Hawks Vote

In 1999, President Bill Clinton’s administration filed a Department of Justice lawsuit against major American tobacco companies, alleging they conspired to deliberately mislead the public about the health impacts of smoking. In 2006, the court found the tobacco companies guilty of fraud, conspiracy, and racketeering.

Now, similar allegations have been made against the fossil fuel industry — that they deliberately conspired to mislead the public about the impacts of human-caused climate change. The companies pour hundreds of thousands of dollars into campaigns of politicians who deny the science of human-caused warming and work actively to prevent climate action. At the same time, at least one company — Exxon — likely knew that climate change was a problem for 27 years.

“Evidence is overwhelming that Exxon in particular … knew about climate change in the ’70s and ’80s, but then engaged in a deliberate effort to cover up, confuse, and obfuscate the science because of the impact on its business model,” Miller said. “Climate change has already harmed Americans in ways too numerous to list; the companies that caused climate change, and caused the cover-up, should be held responsible.”

3) “What would you do to prevent the racially charged attacks on the right to vote?” – Sean McElwee, research associate at Demos

Desiree Griffiths, 31, of Miami, holds up a sign saying "Black Lives Matter."

Desiree Griffiths, 31, of Miami, holds up a sign saying “Black Lives Matter”, with the names of Michael Brown and Eric Garner, two black men recently killed by police, during a protest Friday, Dec. 5, 2014, in Miami. People are protesting nationwide against recent decisions not to prosecute white police officers involved in the killing of black men.

CREDIT: AP Photo/Lynne Sladky

In recent years, a number of states have passed measures that ostensibly make it harder to vote, either by self-interested gerrymandering, eliminating early voting, or requiring specific forms of identification at the polls. Though some courts have ruled these laws unlawful, the ones that do still exist tend to disproportionately discourage voting in minority communities.

“From the recent Alabama DMV closures to the wave of the voting restrictions after the court gutted the Voting Rights Act, the sanctity of the ballot remains uncertain,” McElwee said. “There is strong evidence that these attacks on the ballot are motivated not just by partisanship, but racial animus.”

McElwee also asked what candidates would do to bolster turnout among low-income people, people of color, and young people, noting that a mere 41.9 percent of eligible voters cast ballots in the 2014 midterm election.

4) “When you step into office, will you commit … [to use] your authority to immediately end leasing of public fossil fuels in the U.S.?” – Erich Pica, president of Friends of the Earth Action

According to the International Energy Agency, two thirds of all proven fossil fuel reserves will have to be left in the ground to avoid catastrophic climate change. At the same time, the U.S. government still contracts with fossil fuel companies to allow them to extract coal, oil, and gas from public lands.

“[Countries] are going to need to make the choice to keep this carbon locked in the ground,” Pica said. ” A recent report by Friends of the Earth and the Center for Biological Diversity found that the U.S. could have more than 450 gigatons of CO2 under its public lands and waters. … A litmus test for climate leadership is the willingness to take on corporate polluters to keep fossil fuels in the ground in order to protect our climate.”

5) “What will you do to ensure that young people maintain access to critical healthcare services despite growing conservative attacks on birth control, abortion, and other services?” – MS Keifer, policy analyst at Advocates for Youth

Rep. Rosa DeLauro (D-CT) speaks at rally on Capitol Hill sponsored by Planned Parenthood

Rep. Rosa DeLauro (D-CT) speaks at rally on Capitol Hill sponsored by Planned Parenthood

CREDIT: AP Photo/J. Scott Applewhite

Most if not all of the Democratic candidates have expressed support for Planned Parenthood in the wake of the Republican Congress’ attempt to defund it. But tougher than merely expressing support for the women’s health organization would be a question about how, specifically, the candidates plan to push back on those attempts and be successful.

“We wonder in what ways could a president be more demonstrative of their support for sexual health services in terms of money and legislation,” Keifer said.

6) “Will they work to eliminate all mandatory minimum drug sentences? And how would they allocate federal funds and specifically design programs to prevent recidivism?” – Zellie Imani, Black Lives Matter activist and New Jersey teacher

A key tenet of the Black Lives Matter movement is reforming the criminal justice system, which disproportionately punishes black Americans in a number of ways.

One of the ways this racial inequality manifests itself is via a disproportionately high rate of recidivism — or return to criminal activity — among African-American male youth. In addition, mandatory minimums — which require judges to impose severe penalties against those convicted of low-level drug crimes — has resulted in a disproportionate amount of jail time for black Americans.

“We would like to see a more restorative justice approach so that individuals who are charged don’t have to do mandatory sentences,” Imani said. “There are other solutions to correcting their behavior so they won’t get into this whole revolving door of the prison system.”

7) “What would your administration do to make sure young LGBT youth are getting education, not incarceration?” – Ian Palmquist, director of leadership programs for Equality Federation

Though the debate over LGBT equality has long focused on same-sex marriage, many advocates are hoping this next election season will tackle some other issues in the community — particularly what’s known as school pushout. Advocacy group reports over the years have found that LGBT youth and youth of color “not only face bullying and harassment from peers, but also harsh and disparate discipline from school staff, relatively higher levels of policing and surveillance, and blame for their own victimization.”

As a result of this, the drop-out rate for LGBT students is higher — and according to the Center for American Progress, making up a disproportionate percentage of the population in the villein justice system. New research has revealed some anti-bullying legislation can be effective.

“School push out is a crisis for LGBT youth and youth of color that has gotten far too little attention,” Palmquist said. “Candidates need to show an understanding of LGBT issues beyond marriage and nondiscrimination, including issues affecting marginalized populations like LGBT youth of color.”

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Emily Atkin

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Open Question: How would I go about paying for male-to-female HRT?

Open Question: How would I go about paying for male-to-female HRT?
I’m 18 and I have a slightly-above minimum wage job. I still live with my parents, and only on of my siblings know that I’m considering any of this. I still need to buy a car, which I’ve been looking on Craigslist for.
There is a LGBT Teen group in my area, and I intend on going. But, they hold their meetings during my work hours. So consistently going will be a problem, as I’d need to tell my parents to borrow the car and negotiate with my boss on getting off early on Wednesdays.
I’ve found a gender therapist, though I have yet to see him yet. He doesn’t require insurance, but charges $125 for a 50-minute session. Is that to much? I think it sounds reasonable, but I’ve never dealt with therapist rates before.
I intend on going to community college for 2 years, and then transferring to a connected university. More than likely majoring in Economics. Which is going to be a good chunk of money and debt.
From what I’ve read, HRT will cost $10,000 a year… for the rest of my life. I intend on getting FFS as well, but I’ve read it’ll cost upwards of $36,000. When would be the best time to get FFS after HRT? Also, I don’t know any surgeons that specialize in that surgery.
So does anyone have any tips to make this more financially feasible? Or suggestions for alternatives? Or just general advice?

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Holding Pattern For Trans Woman Humiliated, Detained and Delayed By The TSA

Holding Pattern For Trans Woman Humiliated, Detained and Delayed By The TSA

The Transportation Security Administration has been largely silent for more than 21 days following a series of embarrassing and frightening interactions between a trans woman and TSA agents at Orlando International Airport. 

Shadi Petosky live-tweeted her experience, garnering her instant internet fame and sparking twitter interactions from such luminaries as Jenny Boylan, which got the attention of the TSA.

.@JennyBoylan TSA takes all potential civil rights violations very seriously. We are looking into the situation now for further information.

— TSA (@TSA) September 21, 2015

Publicly, the agency issued a terse statement clearing its agents of any wrongdoing on Monday, September 21, in how it handled the security screening of Petosky, as The Advocate reported.

However, Petosky tells The Advocate the TSA statement about its “swift and thorough investigation,” and its conclusion that its agents followed “strict guidelines” based on “evidence” from surveillance cameras and “other information” is a total lie. 

She posted on Facebook last week that TSA spokesman Mike England’s claim of having investigated the incident was untrue:

“They called me three days later to start an investigation. We talked for two hours and I found out a lot. It takes 7 days to get audio/video recordings. Which are owned by the airport, not the TSA. There are many ongoing civil rights investigations within the TSA and they take 30 days minimum. They have to fly down to Orlando and talk to everyone involved.”

Our emails and calls to England and the TSA’s civil rights unit were not returned at press time. 

In addition to seeking the TSA’s response to Petosky’s claims, The Advocate also asked the agency for a response to a letter sent by 32 Democratic Congressmen, asking for policies on transgender travelers be revised. And Petosky hears that some members of Congress have done even more: “Apparently Democrats have been calling TSA members into their offices.”

The letter from the congressional Democrats asks the TSA to explain what’s expected of trans folks on its website. 

But as The Advocate reported more than a week ago, the TSA inexplicably deleted its webpage devoted to transgender travelers. A transgender woman posted on Twitter a link to what she says is the web archive of that detailed but now deleted original page. In its place is a brief “FAQ” section that touches on but does not fully explain what a transgender traveler might encounter at an airport.

Read The Advocate’s 7 Things To Do When #TravelingWhileTrans.

Petosky talked about her TSA horror story last month with Gay News Radio:

“I’m sure they’ll be a day in three weeks from now when I’ll be, wait, what? Everyone knows my business. This feels awful.”

She described how after repeatedly testing false positives for explosives she felt terrified that she might be arrested and placed in a holding cell for males based on her genitalia. 

And as she predicted, Petosky is still reeling from the incident but is far from done fighting for her fellow trans women and men who are #travelingwhiletrans, a hashtag  create by friends of Petosky that took off following her ordeal.  She tells The Advocate she’s been gathering her own TSA employee testimonials about the lack of proper training for airport agents in regards to transgender travelers:

“I’m being told that there are NO written guidleines for trans passengers and only 10% of TSA agents have infrequent trans training.” 

Petosky hailed The Advocate for being the first news organization to report on the discrepancy between her actual experience and what she says is an erroneous statement by the agency’s spokesman. “Did they investigate? What are ‘strict procedures?’” she asked, rheortirically. 

While mostly remaining silent, the TSA did tweet recently a shout out to the National Center for Transgender Equality for “ongoing discussions.”

Thanks to @TransEquality for participating in our ongoing discussions concerning the security screening process.

— TSA (@TSA) September 23, 2015

The group responded in a tweet of its own, with a GIF serving as a reminder that trans body parts need respect, too. 

.@TSA We’re always happy to discuss, but we’d be happier if your machines didn’t treat #trans bodies as ‘anomalies.’ pic.twitter.com/JRxUv2fiYQ

— Trans Equality (@TransEquality) September 24, 2015

Dawn Ennis

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Tom Bosworth, British track and field athlete, comes out as gay

Tom Bosworth, British track and field athlete, comes out as gay

British track and field athlete Tom Bosworth has come out as gay.

The 25-year-old athlete is currently ranked number one in the UK for 20km race walker, holding three British records.

Speaking on the Victoria Derbyshire show, Bosworth said: ‘It is a big decision, but it’s not going to change my life. I’m comfortable and have been in a happy relationship for the last four and a half years.

‘This isn’t going to shock anybody that knows me. But to speak out about this, as a sportsperson, it is still news.

He added: ‘In a few years time, anyone [will be able] to do this. Anyone can succeed in sport. And then hopefully it won’t be news anymore.’

Bosworth said it was a ‘scary’ thing to come out, but felt like he was ‘really lucky’ because of the support he has had from friends and family. He said he has had ‘99% support’ from other athletes, including Mo Farah.

‘In sport I don’t think being gay is still a “normal” thing,’ he added, when asked about why it is still hard to come out in sport.

‘In sport you have to look strong, in athletics you’re out there on your own. Others might see being gay as a weakness, but I certainly do not consider my sexuality a weakness.’

Bosworth is the second British track and field athlete to come out after hurdler Robert Newton. Bosworth is expected to qualify and compete for Team GB at the Rio 2016 Olympics.

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Joe Morgan

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Watch the amazing advice a dairy farmer had for his gay son in 1959

Watch the amazing advice a dairy farmer had for his gay son in 1959

StoryCorps’ newest animated short for National Coming Out Day shares the life-changing conversation Patrick Haggarty had with his father in 1959.

As a teenager, Haggerty, now 70, covered his face with glitter for a school assembly performance.

His brother dropped him off at school, then called their father – a dairy farmer in rural Dry Creek, Washington.

When Haggerty saw his father in halls in dirty farming jeans and boots, he hid.

‘It wasn’t because of what I was wearing,’ Haggerty says. ‘It was because of what he was wearing.’

In the car ride home, his father called him out.

‘Look, everybody knows I’m a dairy farmer,’ he said.

‘This is who I am. Now, how ’bout you? When you’re an adult, who are you gonna go out with at night?’

His father then gave him this amazing piece of advice:

‘I’m going to tell you something today, and you might not know what to think of it now, but you’re going to remember it when you’re an adult:

‘Don’t sneak. Because if you sneak, like you did today, it means you think you’re doing the wrong thing.

‘If you run around spending your whole life thinking you’re doing the wrong thing, then you’ll ruin your immortal soul.’

Haggarty says: ‘Of all the things a father in 1959 could have told his gay son, my father tells me to be proud of myself and not sneak.

‘I had the patron saint of dads for sissies,’ he said. ‘I didn’t know it at the time. But I know it now.’

Watch the video below:

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Darren Wee

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Taiwanese city becomes first to record gay relationships as next-of-kin in hospitals

Taiwanese city becomes first to record gay relationships as next-of-kin in hospitals

Gays and lesbians in the Taiwanese city of Taichung have become the first to be able to formalize their relationship in some way after the local government introduced a relationship registration system for them.

Starting this month people in same-sex couples will be able to register as couples with the city, giving them the ability to sign consent forms for their partners when they go into hospital.

While non-legally binding, the scheme is the first time same-sex couples in Taiwan can record their relationships as there is no form of civil partnership available to them yet.

One of the first people to register under the scheme told HKFP that while the scheme was no substitute for being able to marry, it was an example of Taiwanese politician starting to court the gay vote.

‘The LGBTQ community … will think that they are respected and will give them their vote,’ Tsai Chia-hsun told HKFP.

‘The parties are also trying to portray themselves as friendly, progressive, inclusive and free, and people with similar values will be attracted to them.’

Taichung is the third largest city in Taiwan with a population of nearly three million people and is often nicknamed the Cultural City for its collection of museums, temples, galleries and other cultural centers.

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Andrew Potts

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