Why LGBTQ Clergy Are Standing Up For Black Lives Matter

Why LGBTQ Clergy Are Standing Up For Black Lives Matter

On Thursday Oct. 15, a group of LGBTQ clergy members from around the country will gather in Portland, Oregon for a four-day conference focused on the “Black Lives Matter“ movement. For Debra Kolodny, a white, bisexual rabbi who is organizing the event, it’s an opportunity for LGBTQ people of faith to “support one of the most critical movements of our day.”

“We’re in a moment right now where the dominos have toppled around one of the largest issues in the LGBTQ community: the right to marry,” she told The Huffington Post. “The question rises, where can we put our prophetic voices and activate our constituencies?”

LGBTQ rights and other social justice issues have been central to Black Lives Matter from the start, as Alicia Garza, one of its founders, emphasized on the group’s website:

Black Lives Matter affirms the lives of Black queer and trans folks, disabled folks, Black-undocumented folks, folks with records, women and all Black lives along the gender spectrum. It centers those that have been marginalized within Black liberation movements. It is a tactic to (re)build the Black liberation movement.

LGBTQ people, whether they are black or not, know what it is to be marginalized and “desacralized,” Kolodny told HuffPost. Many have “intersecting identities” that make the struggle for equal rights deeply personal. As faith leaders, she continued, LGBTQ clergy bring a “cosmology” of welcoming and uplifting the “least among us.”

For many LGBTQ people, Black Lives Matter is more than a solidarity issue. “The assault on black lives is an LGBT issue,” wrote Esperanza Garcia and Ty Brooks, two LGBTQ activists of color, in a February column in Advocate. Anti-LGBTQ violence disproportionately affects gay, lesbian and transgender people of color, according to the National Coalition of Anti-Violence Programs. Transgender people of color are six times more likely to experience police brutality than white, cisgender survivors.

White LGBTQ individuals can no longer stand in the sidelines, Garcia and Brooks wrote, and Kolodny agrees. “None of us are free until all of us are free,” the rabbi told HuffPost, echoing a common theme that runs through both the Civil Rights and gay rights movements. 

Kolodny is co-facilitating the conference with Dr. Pîr Shaykh Ibrahim Abdurrahmani Farajajé, provost and professor of Islamic Studies at the Starr King School for the Ministry, and Rev. Tara Wilkins, executive director of the Community of Welcoming Congregations.

“Queer religious leaders will gather from around the country to reflect, activate and agitate around Black Lives Matter: so, why does that even matter? It matters because Black trans*, Black bisexual, Black lesbian and Black gay lives are also Black lives, and they all matter,” said Farajajé in a press release.

The conference will hear from representatives from the Portland chapters of the Black Lives Matter movement and Showing Up For Racial Justice (SURJ). The group of roughly 30 LGBTQ clergy members will include Muslims, people of multiple Jewish movements, Christians from a variety of denominations, Buddhists and other faiths.

Kolodny came out as bisexual in 1984. She and many of the other LGBTQ clergy members who will be present at the conference have ample experience working in gay rights and other social justice movements.

To this end, the rabbi has asked all participants to bring examples of actions they have taken to support Black Lives Matter and get ready to workshop these ideas in order to develop a game plan to take back to their home cities.

“We bring the power of our ability to articulate the need [for change], an organized constituency, and a knowledge of how to achieve political outcomes,” Kolodny said. “Everything we’ve learned can be brought to bear on this issue.”

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Yoko Ono Settles The Score On John Lennon’s Long-Rumored Gay Love Affairs

Yoko Ono Settles The Score On John Lennon’s Long-Rumored Gay Love Affairs

John-Lennon-Yoko-OnoIn a candid interview from her apartment at the iconic/infamous Dakota Building in New York City’s Upper West Side, Yoko Ono shared her thoughts on art, equality, her husband’s murder on the sidewalk below, and John’s sexuality.

You can read the full piece on The Daily Beast.

Here are a few highlights:

Her thoughts on LGBTQ equality:

The existence of prejudice is “incredible,” she says, and marriage equality is “really great, we shouldn’t be so thankful. It’s just normal.”

Prejudice, she thinks, “goes both ways, I’m sure gays feel straights are really dumb. There’s more freedom being gay probably, that’s good.”

LGBTs should have true equality, Ono says, “and you’ll get it. Equality is people having to create their own future. That’s what they’re [gay people] doing. They should be very, very positive.”

“Equality under the law and equality in real life is slightly different,” says Ono. “People are different from how the law can control them. We have a very complex life called the human life. There’s more than equality in life.”

On her own sexuality, and John Lennon’s:

“Well, that’s another thing. John and I had a big talk about it, saying, basically, all of us must be bisexual. And we were sort of in a situation of thinking that we’re not [bisexual] because of society. So we are hiding the other side of ourselves, which is less acceptable. But I don’t have a strong sexual desire towards another woman.”

So did Lennon have sex with other men?

“No, I don’t think so,” says Ono. “The beginning of the year he was killed, he said to me, ‘I could have done it, but I can’t because I just never found somebody that was that attractive.’ Both John and I were into attractiveness—you know—beauty.”

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Newark Archbishop Bans Catholics Who Support Gay Marriage From Receiving Communion

Newark Archbishop Bans Catholics Who Support Gay Marriage From Receiving Communion

MyersNewark, New Jersey Bishop John J. Meyers has issued new guidelines outlining who among his parishioners should not receive holy communion–a list that includes any Catholic who supports gay marriage.

Meyers’ “memo” to priests under his jurisdiction comes as Pope Francis’ synod on the family convenes in Rome, discussing, among other things, how the Church should treat the LGBT community.

Religion News Service reports:

[Myers] says Catholics, “especially ministers and others who represent the Church, should not participate in or be present at religious events or events intended to endorse or support those who reject or ignore Church teaching and Canon Law.” […]

The memo is titled “Principles to Aid in Preserving and Protecting the Catholic Faith in the Midst of an Increasingly Secular Culture.” It is dated Sept. 22 and was sent to priests this week, according to a source who provided a copy to Religion News Service.

In the memo, Myers writes: “The Church will continue to cherish and welcome her members and invite them to participate in her life to the degree that their personal situation permits them honestly to do so.

“Catholics,” he continues, “must be in a marriage recognized as valid by the Church to receive Holy Communion or the other sacraments. Non-Catholics and any Catholic who publicly rejects Church teaching or discipline, either by public statements or by joining or supporting organizations which do so, are not to receive the Sacraments.”

Read the memo below:

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22 Halloween Costumes For Grownups Who Are Big Kids At Heart

22 Halloween Costumes For Grownups Who Are Big Kids At Heart

Hey, just because you’re an adult doesn’t mean you have to grow up! 

Seriously, let’s face it — though many of us are attempting to adult, we all know that we’re really just big kids at heart. So why not show off your fun and kooky side this Halloween with some costumes inspired by kids’ shows, movies and books?

From “The Powerpuff Girls,” to Darla from “Finding Nemo,” these getups will make you feel like a kid all over again — without the pain of braces or awkward school pictures. 

Check out the costumes below! 

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Open Question: Why are LGBT people so sensitive?

Open Question: Why are LGBT people so sensitive?
Lol they call me a homophobic just because I told them to stop complaining about their lives. I think it makes me laugh when they say people in other countries around the world are discriminating against LGBT people daily I think that is true but so are other groups of people being persecuted even killed around the world. Lol being a LGBT is not that bad it doesn’t give you some disadvantage in life they can still have a successful life and make good friends. . I also find it hilarious when they think I would hit on a lesbian or bisexual women. I don’t care about gay women dumbasses. I don’t take the time to look at a gay woman when she is walking by in real life. What I am trying to say is people who have genetic disabilities are usually more discriminated against than gay people are. The news doesn’t bother to say people with genetic disabilities are being persecuted the most because the public could care less about people with genetic disorders.

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Married Congressional Aide Attacks Male Lover With Shovel In Front Of Wife

Married Congressional Aide Attacks Male Lover With Shovel In Front Of Wife

craftsman-shovel-xlAn aide for Democratic Rep. Sander Levin of Michigan was arrested after allegedly choking his male lover, threatening to stab him with a knife and then whacking him with a shovel, authorities said.

Related: Straight Man Seeks Advice After Sleeping With His Married Boss

Tim Foster is, er, was the online communications director for Rep. Levin. That is, until last Thursday when he allegedly got into a heated verbal altercation with a man who identified himself as Foster’s boyfriend.

Roll Call reports the argument occurred at around 12:30 a.m. on October 8 in Baltimore. It’s unclear what sparked the blowup, but, according to police, Foster allegedly put the other man in a chokehold then yelled, “I want to kill you! Die dirty faggy!”

The boyfriend managed to break free. That’s when Foster grabbed a stainless steel kitchen knife and began waving it around in the air, threatening to stab him.

Related: “Straight” Married Man Feels Guilty After Messing Around With Another Guy

Things took an even more dramatic turn moments later when Foster’s wife — that’s right, he’s married to a woman — jumped between the two men in an effort to break up the fight. Foster dropped the knife then grabbed a shovel, hitting his boyfriend in the back as he fled for the safety of his car.

The boyfriend managed to escape and immediately drove to a nearby hospital where he was treated for abrasions and bruises on his upper back, neck and torso, police said.

Rep. Levin’s office says the issue is “a completely private matter” and it would not be commenting other than to say Foster has since been placed on unpaid leave.

A trial is scheduled for November 10.

Related: STUDY: At Least 5% Of American Men Are Gay, Millions Closeted, Many Married To Women

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Gay Adult Film Star Blue Blake Has Died

Gay Adult Film Star Blue Blake Has Died

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Gay adult film actor Blue Blake has died in London at 52. The cause of death is not yet known. Blake, née Glenn Marsh, was also a producer and director of gay adult films, who eventually started his own adult film company. He was inducted into the GayVN Hall of Fame in 2005.

SouthFloridaGayNews.com reports:

Blake, who reportedly died in London, performed in several gay porn scenes between 1993 and 2003 before taking a more active role behind the scenes, according to the website. Blake, whose real name is Glenn Marsh, ran his own studio, Big Blue Productions, and in 2008 published an autobiography “Out of the Blue; Confessions of an Unlikely Porn Star.” […]

Blake was a former Royal Marine (the U.K.’s amphibious light infantry force) and hailed from Nottingham, England, according to Al’s Gay Porn Stars directory, which also notes he studied at the London Academy of Music and Dramatic Arts and appeared on stage in the U.K.

Below, watch an interview with Blake from 2009:

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