Boss Who Asked Transgender Woman 'What Are You?' Agrees To Significant Settlement

Boss Who Asked Transgender Woman 'What Are You?' Agrees To Significant Settlement

Last November, Jessi Dye showed up at Summerford Nursing Home for what would turn out to be both her first and last day of work.

The morning started well. Dye attended a series of training sessions, completed paperwork, received vaccinations. She was excited about the new job; it seemed like there was a real future with the company, and they’d offered to pay for her training to become a certified nurse’s assistant. 

But then over lunch, she was asked to go speak with Robert Summerford, the manager of the company, about her paperwork.

“What are you?” he asked her, as soon as she’d entered his office.

“It was exactly like being punched in the stomach,” Dye recalled this week during a phone interview with The Huffington Post.

The feeling wasn’t entirely unfamiliar to Dye, a transgender woman living in Vinetown, Alabama. She came out seven years ago, when she was 21, and since then, employment has sometimes been a challenge. Sooner or later, employers realize, as Summerford did, that the identity on her driver’s license doesn’t match the gender of the person they’ve hired. But no employer, or prospective employer, had ever been as direct or as final as Summerford.

After Dye answered Summerford’s question, explaining that she was born male and was in the process of transitioning to female, he asked her, “What am I supposed to do with you?” and then instructed her to get her things and leave the premises. 

In March, Dye, with the support of lawyers from the Montgomery-based Southern Poverty Law Center, filed a charge of discrimination with the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission. On Thursday, the Southern Poverty Law Center announced that Summerford had reached a settlement with Dye. Rather than face a possible fight over Dye’s accusation in federal court, the company agreed to implement a policy that prohibits discrimination against job applicants and employees on the basis of sexual orientation and gender identity, and to conduct sensitivity training concerning LGBT people. (The amount of money paid to Dye in the settlement has not been disclosed.) 

Sam Wolfe, a lawyer with SPLC, sees Summerford’s quick capitulation and favorable settlement offer as a positive sign that the climate toward LGBT people in the workplace is shifting around the country, even in states like Alabama, which have no statewide laws prohibiting LGBT discrimination.

“I think the takeaway here is that we have a small company that is represented by competent lawyers and they saw the writing on the wall,” Wolfe told The Huffington Post. “It’s an admission that employers do need to pay attention to their obligations under federal law to not discriminate because of someone’s gender identity or sexual orientation.”

The laws protecting LGBT people from workplace discrimination are not as clear-cut as advocates wish. Despite more than two decades of effort, supporters have been unable to pass the Employment Non-Discrimination Act, which would prohibit bias in hiring and employment on the basis of sexual orientation or gender identity. However, outside of Congress, there have been signs of progress. Last summer, President Barack Obama signed an executive order protecting federal employees (and the employees of federal contractors) from anti-LGBT discrimination. Over the last several years, the EEOC has also held that discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation and gender identity are prohibited by Title VII of the Civil Rights Act of 1964, and the commission has successfully sued both private and public-sector employers using that argument.

David Lopez, general counsel with the EEOC, said that pursuing such cases has been a “top priority” for the commission. Yet he acknowledged that while recent court rulings on the issue have mostly sided with the EEOC, not every court that has considered these cases has sided with the LGBT person charging discrimination. “The courts have not yet reached a consensus,” he said.

Both Summerford and his lawyer declined to speak with The Huffington Post about how they reached their decision to offer a settlement.

Dye, for her part, hopes the announcement of the settlement will make it clear to other transgender people that they do have legal protection in the workplace and will serve as a warning to employers that they can’t fire someone just because of their gender identity. “I don’t want anybody else to have to to through what I went through that day,” she said.

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Why I want the Pope to sit down with gay couples when he visits the US

Why I want the Pope to sit down with gay couples when he visits the US

A faithful parishioner of St. Anthony Roman Catholic Church in Oceanside, New York, has teamed up with media advocacy organization GLAAD to campaign for Pope Francis to sit down with gay families when he visits the US later this month.

Nicholas Coppola has a particular interest in persuading the Pope to take speak out on LGBT issues. The devout Catholic was stripped of his many church duties – including altar service, helping bereaved families to plan funerals and visiting sick parishioners – after he married his husband.

‘My partner and I had gotten married in October 2012,’ he told Gay Star News. ‘We had a wonderful wedding in Bethpage State Park, which was attended by parishioners and clergy.

‘We had to postpone our honeymoon until that January because of Superstorm Sandy. When we came back from our honeymoon, I returned to mass – ironically on Martin Luther King Day – and I was called into the pastor’s office by the deacon.

‘I was informed that the bishop had received a letter of complaint. Someone complained about the fact that a married gay man had a position within the ministry. I was removed from any active service.

‘They said it was because I had made a very public statement that went against the church’s teachings.’

‘It was horrible,’ he says, reflecting on how he reacted to the news.

‘In my entire life – I’m now 50 – I have really never experienced discrimination in a very direct way. It was shocking. It was surreal and took a couple of days to sink in.

‘It saddened me. I wasn’t angry but I was definitely very sad and hurt. The community there welcomed me, and they still continue to welcome me. The pastor did not want to do it. He was forced by the bishop. So I still feel terrible for him.’

Coppola has been a parishioner at the Church since he moved to the area from Queen’s in 2002. He says that he and his partner, David Crespo, have been friends for 25 years, and became a couple 12 years ago.

When he first relocated, Coppola attended Church weekly but after suffering an accident and requiring multiple surgeries in 2008, he was unable to work for a while and began attending mass daily, which he says helped him with his recovery. He subsequently became more involved with the Church.

‘The pastor at that time – a wonderful, wonderful Jesuit – introduced himself and asked if I’d be interested in being an altar server. At that point I was very upfront with him. I told him that I was gay, and he said that he didn’t care, and I become an altar server.

‘I was very involved in the community and then cut off completely.’

He says that he has been encouraged by some of the things that Pope Francis has said since becoming Pontiff, but that much more needs to be done by way of action to assure LGBT Catholics that they are truly welcomed and embraced by the Catholic church.

‘We continue to have LGBT people removed from their posts within the church, and I struggle with the fact that the Pope has not addressed these things specifically.

‘But I’m very hopeful about his forthcoming trip to the US. I’m very encouraged by his words, and am now just hoping that he takes action. And being a Jesuit, he knows St Ignatius’ famous words; “Love is best expressed in deeds and not in words.”

‘Jesuits follow that and I believe in that, and I believe that when they removed me, they stopped me practicing my faith. Although they allow me to come to church and receive communion, that’s not what’s involved 100% in practicing my faith. It’s to go out there and help the community.

‘This is what people don’t realize, it doesn’t just hurt me and my husband and family, it hurts the community.’

‘I’m cautious with my feelings because I don’t want to be hurt again, but hope is a wonderful thing.

‘I genuinely believe that if the Pope sat with us, he’d realize that gay people in relationships have the same struggles as any other loving couple; we have the same joys as any other loving couple, that our love is the same for each other.’

Coppola has teamed up with GLAAD to start a petition urging the Pope to meet with LGBT Catholics during his visit to the US.

‘In the US and around the world, LGBT people experience alienation from the Church, higher rates of poverty and violence, and discrimination in employment, housing, educational opportunities, and access to health care,’ says Coppola on the petition site.

‘The Pope can help address this crisis by meeting with LGBT Catholic families like mine and hearing our stories of perseverance, hope, and struggle.’

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It’s 2015 And This Tennessee Man Claims He Was Just Fired For Being Gay

It’s 2015 And This Tennessee Man Claims He Was Just Fired For Being Gay

Screen shot 2015-09-10 at 10.10.16 AMA Tennessee man has just filed a federal lawsuit against his former employer alleging that he was fired for being gay.

Until recently, James Thompson (pictured) worked as a staffing coordinator for Maryland-based Abacus Corporation, where he said he never had any problems with his supervisors.

“Never been written up, never been put on probation,” Thompson told WSMV-TV.

Related: Guess What? You Can No Longer Be Fired For Being Gay Anywhere In America.

Then in June, there was an incident with another employee who launched into a homophobic tirade at the office. According to Thompson, the employee unleashed a string of nasty comments about same-sex marriage to some of his co-workers. When Thompson confronted him about it, the employee made a scene, cursing at him and storming out of the building. As a result, Thompson fired him.

Days later, Thompson’s boss, Abacus VP Bill Lund, flew down to Nashville to meet with him about what happened.

“After that meeting he actually asked me if I was gay,” Thompson recalled. “And the following working day he terminated me.”

Thompson is now seeking $400,000 in damages from his former employer. He says he also hopes his story will raise awareness to about how many LGBTQ employees are still treated in the workplace.

“What I want to see come out of this is for the discrimination to stop,” he said. “Not just for gays, bisexuals, lesbians, all discrimination.”

Tennessee law does not prohibit discrimination of the basis of sexual orientation or gender identity.

Abacus is remaining tight-lipped about the incident, though the company did release the following statement in response:

It is Abacus Corporation policy not to comment on the facts relating to pending litigation. Abacus firmly believes Mr. Thompson’s allegations are without merit and will be proven to be mere fabrications. Abacus is extremely confident it will be fully exonerated in this matter.

Related: Five Reasons Why Marriage Equality Isn’t The Be All And End All Of The Fight

Graham Gremore

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Mike Huckabee on Getting to Kim Davis Before Ted Cruz: He Can’t ‘Invite Himself’ to My Rally – VIDEO 

Mike Huckabee on Getting to Kim Davis Before Ted Cruz: He Can’t ‘Invite Himself’ to My Rally – VIDEO 

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Poor Ted Cruz tried to cash in on the Kim Davis anti-gay spectacle but Mike Huckabee beat him to the punch.

cruzYesterday, we showed you video of Rachel Maddow dissecting a surreal clip outside the Carter County Detention Center where a bemused-looking Cruz was blocked from taking part in the “Kim Davis” money shot after she was released from jail.

So when it comes to political exploitation of the county clerk who’s in contempt of court in Kentucky, we have an obvious winner,” said Maddow on the segment.

Now, Huckabee is speaking out about his team’s decision to keep Cruz away from the spotlight at the “Free Kim Davis” rally.

Said the former Arkansas governor in an interview with Newsmax’s Steve Malzberg:

This was our event. My team put it together. We’re the one’s who recruited the people not only to be on the program, but we’re the ones who coordinated the effort. We’re the ones who secured the permits, the staging. We had no idea Ted Cruz was going to show up until the day before and he didn’t call us, he called several other people on the program and asked about it. Of course anybody is welcome, it’s a free rally. He can come. But he’s not free to come to an event that we’re putting together and invite himself on the program…

Watch below [starts around the 5:45 mark]:

[h/t Mediaite]

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Kyler Geoffroy

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Tennessee Hardware Store Stocks Up on Hate and Sells Out Immediately

Tennessee Hardware Store Stocks Up on Hate and Sells Out Immediately

Jeff Amyx’s hardware store in Washburn, Tennessee, is back in the news again, after it was revealed the owner has been creating antigay merchandise to sell in his store, and can’t keep the items in stock. Amyx Hardware & Roofing Supplies made headlines earlier this year when the owner posted a “No Gays Allowed” sign in the store’s window.

According to WATE-TV, Amyx said he received “bundles of hate mail” after posting the controversial sign but the brouhaha only drove more local business to the hardware store. He decided to capitalize on the opportunity by printing up bumper stickers and hats with slogans like “Choose God or Gays.” He says he’ll soon have t-shirts with the slogan available for sale as well.

Amyx, also a Baptist minister, is keeping a firm grasp on his homophobia in the face of rising sales. “God created Adam and Eve not Adam and Steve,” Amyx told the news station, citing the old antigay chestnut. “I just don’t agree with their lifestyle. I don’t want any part of it, I don’t want it around me and I’ll never agree with it. I’m just doing it because people have asked me for it.”

When he first posted his handmade “No Gays Allowed” sign in his store’s window, Amyx defended his actions and said he had no plans to remove it.

“They gladly stand for what they believe in, why can’t I? They believe their way is right, I believe it’s wrong,” Amyx said at the time.

The store owner says the antigay merchandise will be available again by the end of the week. And that hate-inspired sign still hangs in the store window.

Watch WATE-TV’s report on Amyx merchandise and reaction, below: 

Bil Browning

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Here's Where You Can See The Largest Queer Fashion Show During NYFW

Here's Where You Can See The Largest Queer Fashion Show During NYFW

There’s only one place where you can see the largest queer fashion show at 2015 New York Fashion Week — and it’s not where you would expect.

For the second year in a row, the “leading style website for masculine women and trans identified individuals,” dapperQ, is spearheading a massive queer fashion show at The Brooklyn Museum, this year partnering with bklyn boihood, DYDH Productions, and Posture Magazine.

The show, titled VERGE, will take place on Thursday, Sept. 17, 2015 at 7:30 p.m. dapperQ previously produced another show at the Brooklyn Museum last December called un(Heeled), with a slightly different focus. Anita Dolce Vita, dapperQ Editor-in-Chief, told The Huffington Post:

“dapperQ produced a very successful queer fashion show at Brooklyn Museum last December that primarily featured dandy, masculine attire, which is congruent with dapperQ’s GQ-esque aesthetic. However, recognizing that queer style is not fully represented by masculinity or the dandy trend, we wanted to include a broader, more diverse range of queer identities and styles on the runway for New York Fashion Week. We connected with associate producers bklyn boihood and Posture Magazine to create the vision of VERGE: a fashion show that features designers whose work is systemically rooted in gender nonconformity. As executive producers, we partnered with Brooklyn Museum again, this time tying the show to the visual activism Zanele Muholi’s work, which is currently on exhibit at the Museum.”

“This show is important to me because it is a disruption,” Gabrielle Royal, dapperQ contributor and Program Director at NYU Law, added. “The production of VERGE comes at a critical time in our community, a unique moment in our journey as a people. The show is less about what fashion does for its onlookers, the aesthetics, but more about creating an affirming space for members of our community to exist, and to celebrate our existence unapologetically!  There is always risk involved with being true to yourself, in whatever form that takes shape in a person’s life. It takes courage to take this kind of risk. The production of VERGE is a revolutionary act and I’m happy to be part of this critical movement and part of the dapperQ team.”

Featured in this year’s show will be NotEqualKQK by Karen QuirionLACTICFonyMARKANTOINESAGASunSun and Jag & Co. 

A panel organized by bklyn boihood will precede the show, focusing on, in the words of Dolce Vita, “honoring the Zanele Muholi exhibition [at The Brooklyn Museum] and addressing the politics of black queerness in fashion, illuminating the voices and lived experiences of Black queer people and providing a platform for highlighting art as activism.”

The panel discussion, called “Walking Isibonelo/Evidence; Fashion as Social Activism and the Diasporic Politics of Black Queer Bodied Visibility,” will take place in the Elizabeth A. Sackler Center for Feminist Art on the 4th floor of the Brooklyn Museum at 6:00 p.m.

VERGE will immediately follow at 7:30 p.m. in Beaux-Arts Court on the 3rd floor — head here for more information. Brooklyn Museum operates under a suggested donation to support their programs. Their general admission prices are suggested contribution amounts, but no one will be turned away due to lack of funds. 

Check out more photos of the featured designers below.

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Germany’s top cardinal tells government they have no right to redefine marriage

Germany’s top cardinal tells government they have no right to redefine marriage

Germany’s highest-ranking cardinal has said the state cannot redefine marriage, as it is not a state-made institution.

Richard Marx, chairman of the German Bishops’ Conference and serving the Archdiocese of Munich and Freising, spoke at the Catholic church’s traditional St Michael-reception in Berlin on Tuesday evening (9 September).

Chancellor Angela Merkel, as well as other high-ranking politicians and representatives of the Central Council of Jews in Germany and various Muslim associations, attended the reception.

‘Human dignity is not state-made, it’s not made by the constitution, which is why neither the constitution nor the state can pass judgment on it,’ Marx started the segment of his speech focusing on marriage and families.

‘And this also applies to the topic of marriage and family.’

Without mentioning the words marriage equality, or directly talking same-sex marriage, Marx instead referenced the ‘discussions prevalent before the [summer] holidays, which may return’.

After the Irish marriage equality referendum in May 2015, the discussion about granting same-sex couples full marriage equality has gained momentum in Germany.

‘The state of course has to overcome discrimination; I think that is, as part of a well-understood enlightenment, a positive development towards man’s freedom, important,’ Marx said.

‘But the state cannot give marriage a new definition.’

The cardinal argued that this was not a church-internal concept, but that marriage came before the state and the ‘relationship between man and woman, which is open for children’ was most Germans’ wish – which is why it should be granted special protection.

‘Marriage precedes the state, and it is necessary: this institution is necessary for the survival, for the future of society,’ Marx said.

‘And that’s why the state doesn’t just hold the right to, but is responsible for, protecting this area in a special way.’

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Stefanie Gerdes

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HRC and TurnOUT! Charlotte Rev up for September Election

HRC and TurnOUT! Charlotte Rev up for September Election

With early voting in full swing and the September 15 primary election day fast-approaching, HRC staff and volunteers stepped up outreach to voters over Labor Day weekend, reminding fair-minded Charlotteans how critical this year’s city council elections are.
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POLLS: Sanders Leads Hillary in Iowa, Trump Tops 30% GOP Support

POLLS: Sanders Leads Hillary in Iowa, Trump Tops 30% GOP Support

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Two new polls show anti-establishment candidates surging in both political parties this election cycle.

According to a new Quinnipiac University poll released this morning, Sen. Bernie Sanders has overtaken Hillary Clinton in Iowa, the crucial first state in the road to securing the nomination. Sanders now leads Clinton 41% to 40% among caucus-goers.

Last week, we reported on a separate poll that found Sanders leading Clinton in New Hampshire by 9 points.

trumpOn the other side of the isle, Donald Trump has now become the first Republican presidential candidate to top 30% support in the GOP race, according to a new CNN/ORC poll.

CNN has more:

Trump gained 8 points since August to land at 32% support, and has nearly tripled his support since just after he launched his campaign in June. The new poll finds former neurosurgeon Ben Carson rising 10 points to land in second place with 19%. Together, these two non-politicians now hold the support of a majority of Republicans and Republican-leaning independents, and separately, both are significantly ahead of all other competitors.

Former Florida Gov. Jeb Bush stands in third place with 9%, down 4 points since August, and Texas Sen. Ted Cruz holds fourth place with 7%. Former Arkansas Gov. Mike Huckabee and Wisconsin Gov. Scott Walker follow at 5%, with all other candidates at 3% or less, including Florida Sen. Marco Rubio, who notched the only other statistically significant shift in the poll by falling 5 points since August.

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Kyler Geoffroy

POLLS: Sanders Leads Hillary in Iowa, Trump Tops 30% GOP Support