Sharing the Stories of LGBTQ Youth: Caitlyn, 18, From Las Vegas

Sharing the Stories of LGBTQ Youth: Caitlyn, 18, From Las Vegas
We Are the Youth is a photographic journalism project and book chronicling the individual stories of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer (LGBTQ) youth in the United States. Through photographic portraits and “as told to” interviews in the participants’ own voices, We Are the Youth captures the incredible diversity and uniqueness among the LGBTQ youth population.

Below is the story of Caitlyn.

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By Caitlyn, as told to Diana Scholl

2015-04-17-1429290583-8874466-Caitlyn1819x1024.jpgIt’s been really hard for me to find a solid community. I always felt like I fell in the middle with all these identities. I’m always not enough or too much. Being mixed, I might not be gay enough. I might not be straight enough. I might not be Latina enough, or white enough. I felt alone until I found my group of friends and these multiracial spaces. The best thing that has ever happened to me is finding people who have loved me and supported me.

The queer community are my people. I think the word “queer” overall is a pushback [against] normalcy. My partner identifies as straight and is an awesome, awesome ally. I always say I am not in a straight relationship, because if I’m in it, it’s at least a little queer.

My partner and I live in a pretty big house with a lot of queer folks. We moved in after me and my mom were evicted from my house earlier this year. I was homeless and couchsurfing. We’ve been through that before, but this was the first time I was on my own. My mom moved in with one of my family members, but I didn’t want to complicate the situation.

My mom always taught me I could survive. Thankfully she was able to support me, albeit not in the most traditional way, and then I found a job that helped me scrape by. But trying to keep up in school was a whole ‘nother ball game. All of my friends are in college, and honestly, it’s been hard to figure out how to keep doing high school. I’m expected to pay rent, and then I have teachers hounding me about quizzes due last week. I’ve had a couple different jobs in the last couple months, and now I’m working as a caregiver and medical technician. I also work as a peer educator and really like the work I do with politics and sex ed, doing peer education around sex ed. I do know I want to end up working in nonprofits and working with youth.

Last legislative session, I had a chance to go up to lobby for a comprehensive sex-ed bill in Nevada. I was raped when I was 13. I was assaulted when I was 4. I was able to explain to legislators that when I had sex education, I entered that room as a rape survivor, and the education I got hurt me more than it helped. I never had the words to figure out what happened to me. When the first thing I heard was that if you have sex before marriage, you’re unpure and disgusting, it really set me into this spiral. At that point I was questioning my identity, and I asked about girls who liked girls, and the teacher said, “I can’t talk about that, because of my religion.” I knew I didn’t want anyone to go through that shitty sex ed.

The most rewarding parts of doing this work and being able to reach out to my communities has to be that I have been able to meet such amazing people, and particularly, amazing womyn of color. … I use “womyn” as a rejection of the inextricable connection of the seemingly inferior femininity to men and manhood. If I can help just one of these people find the resources they need to live healthy, happy, responsible, and safe lives, I will have accomplished enough for a lifetime.

Photo by Laurel Golio, taken in Denver, 2015

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Houston, We Have A HERO: Judge Throws Out Petition To Repeal LGBT Protections

Houston, We Have A HERO: Judge Throws Out Petition To Repeal LGBT Protections

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Anti-LGBT discrimination is now illegal in the nation’s fourth-largest city, after a judge ruled Friday that a petition to repeal the Houston Equal Rights Ordinance (HERO) doesn’t have enough valid signatures to qualify for the ballot. 

Mayor Annise Parker suspended implementation of the ordinance — passed by the City Council last May — after anti-LGBT groups filed a lawsuit over the city’s decision to reject their repeal petition. 

In February, a jury found the petition contained widespread forgery, and on Friday, after two months of deliberations, Judge Robert Schaffer upheld the city’s decision. The Houston Chronicle reports: 

Ultimately, Schaffer on Friday ruled the final count of valid signatures was 16,684, leaving opponents short of the threshold required in the city charter of 17,249 signatures, or 10 percent of the ballots cast in the last mayoral election.

“The jury’s verdict and the judge’s ruling are a powerful smack-down against the forces of discrimination and intolerance,” said Geoffrey Harrison, lead attorney for the city, in a statement. “And maybe, just maybe, they’ll reconsider their misguided ways.”

The law, on hold during trial, is now in effect, according to a city spokeswoman. Mayor Annise Parker released a statement celebrating the verdict.

“I would hope that the plaintiffs would not appeal, they lost during a jury trial and today they also lost with the judge’s ruling,” Parker said. “Now all Houstonians have access to the same protections.”

Parker also tweeted:

We have a HERO! We passed a good ordinance. We were right to reject repeal petition; jury agreed with us, judge agreed with us! -A

— Annise Parker (@AnniseParker) April 17, 2015

Opponents of the ordinance say they plan to appeal Schaffer’s decision. The anti-LGBT Texas Pastor Council said in a release responding to the ruling:  

Schaffer’s ruling that the coalition fell 585 signatures short was a result of Judge Schaffer, who was supported in his election by the LGBT community, unfortunately accepting the constantly changing manipulations of the law by the City’s “legal machine” and Mayor’s team, said the coalition.  “We will not yield the safety and welfare, the voting rights and Constitutional freedoms of the citizens that have been stolen by the corrupt Parker regime.  The law and the appellate courts in Texas are very strong in preserving voting rights so are confident we will prevail,” they continued.  “The fact that the city’s own numbers of how many valid signatures we had submitted materially changed nearly a dozen times since August illustrates how desperate they are to keep this off the ballot.”

A coalition of LGBT groups supporting the ordinance issued the following statements:

“As a pastor and native Houstonian, I believe religious liberty is important, and just as important is the spiritual value of love. We are to love our God, and love our neighbor, NOT discriminate against our neighbor. The city has an obligation to protect the rights of all Houstonians to be free from discrimination and to be free to practice one’s religion. The Houston Equal Rights Ordinance does both.” Reverend Michael Diaz, Resurrection Metropolitan Community Church. 

“Today, the City of Houston and our legal system have upheld the long-established process laid out in our City Charter. The Houston GLBT Political Caucus urges the City of Houston to immediately implement the legally passed Houston Equal Rights Ordinance (HERO) in order to prevent discrimination from occurring in our great city. Houston is a city where people are judged by how hard they work, the content of their character and not by who they happen to love.” Maverick Welsh, President, Houston GLBT Political Caucus. 

“The time has come to put court battles in the past and begin protecting the citizens of Houston from all forms of discrimination. The Houston Equal Rights Ordinance, which was supported by a broad coalition of businesses, faith leaders and many others, should be implemented immediately.” Human Rights Campaign, National Field Director Marty Rouse. 

“The ACLU of Texas is proud to call Houston home, and we look forward to the day HERO is fully implemented because every resident of this great city deserves to be protected from unfair discrimination, whether on the basis of sexual orientation, race, gender, or religion.” Terri Burke, Executive Director, American Civil Liberties Union of Texas. 

“The political activists who want to repeal this common sense ordinance reject the basic values we all share about equality and nondiscrimination. They have even argued for the right to discriminate against anyone, including LGBT people and religious minorities. That alone shows why it’s so important for the city to finally enforce these basic protections for everyone.” Kathy Miller, Texas Freedom Network President. 

“The Houston Equal Rights Ordinance protects all Houstonians and with the favorable outcome of this trial, the City of Houston is now in the position to increase protections against discrimination for its residents. As members of a community that face ongoing discrimination based on race, sex, gender identity, and sexual orientation, we welcome a local mechanism to protect all Houstonians from facing further discrimination based on their identities.” Brandon Mack, Co-Chair, Houston Civil Rights Strategy Group. 

Read the judge’s ruling, AFTER THE JUMP

 

HERO Judgement by Brad Pritchett


John Wright

www.towleroad.com/2015/04/houston-we-have-a-hero-judge-throw-out-petition-to-repeal-lgbt-protections.html

You Won’t Believe The Latest X-Rated Male Trend Happening In Airplane Lavatories

You Won’t Believe The Latest X-Rated Male Trend Happening In Airplane Lavatories

MK-CB991_LAV_G_20130328182510Long before there was DickPics4Freedom, a new Reddit thread dedicated to standing up against the NSA by voluntarily posting photographs of their erect penises, there was Fly That Cock.

Fly That Cock is an 18+ NSFW Tumblr page that encourages male travelers to “catch a flight, go to the toilet and flash it” then e-mail their dick pics to the site’s curator for evaluation upon landing. Select photos are uploaded to the internet database for public consumption.

There are a few ground rules, of course. Absolutely no minors allowed. No disturbing other people’s privacy. And, please, no flashing innocent bystanders. Also, don’t include your Twitter handle with your photo.

So far, hundreds of men from all around the globe, including some pilots and flight attendants, have submitted selfies to the x-rated website since August 2013. And the varying types of penises are plentiful. Hard, soft, cut, uncut, pierced, you name it. Some men include their faces in the pictures. Others remain anonymous.

Seriously, we had no idea snapping dick pics in airplane lavatories was such a huge trend. This is going to have us thinking twice the next time we’re on a flight and we see a dude slip into the bathroom with his cellphone.

Related stories:

Gay TSA Agent Canned For Groping “Roughly A Dozen” Attractive Male Passengers

The 6 Most Annoying Things Gay Men Do On Airplanes

Hilarious Flight Attendant Gays It Up For Pre-Flight Safety Speech

Graham Gremore

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Bryan Fischer and Mike Huckabee Fantasize About The Military's Good Ol' DADT Days: VIDEO

Bryan Fischer and Mike Huckabee Fantasize About The Military's Good Ol' DADT Days: VIDEO

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Low troop morale? Blame Obama and the gays. Christians leaving the military? Blame Obama and the gays. At least, that’s your train of thought if your founts of wisdom come in the forms of former AFA spokeshater Bryan Fischer and former Arkansas Gov. Mike Huckabee.

Right Wing Watch reports Huckabee, who today revealed he will announce his presidential plans in Hope, Arkansas on May 5, said in an interview with Iowa talk radio host Jan Mickelson yesterday that the Obama administration has “an open hostility toward the Christian faith,” and urged prospective military recruits to wait until the end of President Obama’s term to enlist.

He continued:

“When you have a president whose administration orders its chaplains to put its Bibles away, not to pray in Jesus name, not to counsel people on the issues of sexual morality; when you have this attitude that is more about promoting gay marriage and gay rights in the military than it is about being able to protect religious liberty for those people of faith, it’s going to be hard to find people that are truly devoted people of faith and Christian believers and Orthodox Jews and others.”

Fisher, meanwhile, made the baseless claim that reports of the military’s low morale can be directly linked to the repeal of Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell.

Said Fischer:

“The reason the morale is low in the military is because it’s become a giant, social engineering laboratory and values that are absolutely contrary to the military ethos, to the military culture, are being forced on members of the military – crammed down their throats whether they like it or not.” 

Hear the two wax nostalgically about a time when military men and women were forced to live a lie to serve our country, AFTER THE JUMP… 

  


Kyler Geoffroy

www.towleroad.com/2015/04/bryan-fischer-and-mike-huckabee-fantasize-about-the-militarys-good-ol-dadt-days-video.html